Ji Yusheng and Ye Boting were sitting face-to-face in a small restaurant near the hospital chatting.

Ji Yusheng crossed his fingers on the dining table, listening carefully.

He did listen very attentively, listening to the pavilion opposite talking about her married life.

"Tingzi, you said you still admired him a little bit in the past? What do you worship him? ”

Ye Boting carefully considered it before commenting:

"I worship him for insisting on studying when his family conditions are so difficult, he is very motivated and hardworking, he does not give up on himself and goes with the flow, and he helps his comrades as much as he can.

He not only made medicinal wine for my father, but also cared for his comrades-in-arms and ordinary soldiers. He does not accept help easily, but he is very willing to help others.

My brother also knew that at that time, they pooled money to collect food stamps for their sacrificed comrades-in-arms, and Qu Lei also quit smoking for a long time, just to save money.

So I never thought he ever treated my dad the same way as a flattery, I think it was in his nature. ”

Ji Yusheng took a sip of tea from a cup before slowly speaking, instructing Ye Boting in a deep voice:

"In marriage, whether this man is a hero or not, whether you worship or not, that is only one aspect, whether he has the heart to tolerate you is the most important.

Don't look at how much he says, don't look at what he does for others, look at how much he does for you. ”

Ye Boting didn't say anything else, she just told Ji Yusheng the reason for the quarrel between her and Qu Lei.

She really couldn't figure it out, she always thought that she was the one who should worry about dedicating herself to her comrades, but she didn't want Qu Lei to stop her because of money. And Qu Lei clearly knows what Li Tong means to her.

Ji Yusheng looked at Ye Boting, who was wringing his eyebrows opposite. pondered for a while before he comforted him again:

"Maybe you didn't find the right way to speak, and you didn't get to the point. You're going to have to adjust a conversation pattern.

With relatives, leaders, friends, including husband and wife, they can't talk as they like, and there is actually a skill in everything. Ingenuity is the only way to achieve the goal, not to quarrel. ”

Ji Yusheng frowned and was even more confused when he saw Ye Boting on the other side being said by himself, smiled, and added tea to Ye Boting before continuing:

"Just as we are going to be righteous. But don't act in a disorderly manner. He may be reminding you to pay attention to the individuality. Maybe it's not to stop you, just to voice his concerns.

His experience and family made him more aware of the difficulty of life, and naturally he valued money more than you. You have to understand him. Think about what some of his actions are responsible for. ”

Ye Boting shook his head. When a woman confides. What is cathartic is emotion, it is relief, and she knows that Qu Lei's thinking has the reason why Ji Yusheng said above. But she just felt that Qu Lei had changed.

Becoming stranger is not what she wants it to be.

Ji Yusheng seemed to know what Ye Boting was thinking:

"Far away is beautiful, near is ugly, and this is how people get along with each other. No one is shaped according to what you imagined, he is not mud, he can pinch an image that you are satisfied with. ”

"But why are everyone else doing well after marriage?"

"Someone else's house? You know it's someone else! Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, no one will tell you a little noise.

The vulgar is real, and the elegant is false. Sinking down and observing life, this is what people often call life.

Don't imagine it, but feel the bits and pieces intuitively, and ask yourself if this person is what you want.

One day, when you and him can unload your burden in real life and show your most true and free self, that state is called life. Feelings are gradually penetrated, rather than being depicted in your imagination as a result of famous paintings. ”

When Ye Boting raised his head again, he leaned closer to the table, approached Ji Yusheng, and looked up at Ji Yusheng's eyes seriously.

And Ji Yusheng's instinctive psychology was to make a backward movement, but he was stunned and moved forward without a trace, facing Ye Boting's position.

Ye Boting's clear almond eyes were full of curiosity:

"Uncle Ji, what if it's you? What would happen if you were Qu Lei? Will you say something like he would have said to my heart? ”

Ji Yusheng narrowed his eyes slightly:

"I, ah, I'm still different from him, different in nature.

I am becoming more and more accepting of reality, rather than becoming more realistic like him;

He is indifferent because of reality, and I am willing to see the world with good eyes;

He thinks he is more mature and experienced than you and wants to teach you in the form of discussion or blame, and I often find that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, and there are many things that I don't like. ”

Ye Boting's poisonous tongue function is not only to treat Qu Lei: "Oh! I understand! I forgot that you are an uncle, you have more experience, you have already matured, Qu Lei is still young, and it will take some time to develop. As he spoke, he stepped back and straightened his back to comment.

"This ......" Ji Yusheng understood why the young couple always quarreled.

When Ye Boting left, he returned the money to Ji Yusheng and said to him, "Uncle Ji, thank you." Later, if there is anything I don't understand, I'll ask you to invite me to dinner. ”

This time, Ji Yusheng said what was in his heart: "As long as you need it." ”

Ye Boting waved goodbye, didn't drag the mud and water at all, picked up his coat and hung it on his arm, and left calmly, she naturally didn't know that Ji Yusheng had been sitting there for a long time.

Ji Yusheng rubbed his temples, just now when Ye Boting approached, he knew that his heart was beating a few times, such a situation had never happened when he was young, he knew what it meant, how good this was!

……

Ye Boxuan handed the rice bowl to his mother-in-law, took it and took two more mouthfuls of rice, as if he had just remembered something: "Dad, mother, my brother's job is decided, the court." ”

Ye Boxuan, who slept all afternoon after getting drunk, had a somewhat hoarse voice, like the sound of a cold, and he was a little hot these days.

"What?" Summer paused as he held the soup pot and drank the soup.

The whole family no longer picked up vegetables, Ye Boxuan looked up at Xia Aiguo and continued:

"Dad, isn't the court bad? My brother studied law, and he went there to develop, which is better than other places. I guess I have to start with the clerk, and the rest is up to my brother. ”

Su Meili hurriedly interjected and asked quickly, "Bo Xuan, what court is it?" No, I'm asking about the place! ”

Ye Boxuan was stunned for a moment: "Of course it's Kyoto." Didn't I write to you in the summer? She dreams every day that she wants you to be by her side, and when my brother has a place to settle down, let's see how to get Fuyuko to go to school. It's okay to have a hukou or something, but my eldest brother has a home and falls into his name. ”

Xiao Mao's face turned red with excitement, and Xia Aiguo's hand holding the wine glass trembled a little: "Bo Xuan, it's hard for you to be my aunt!" ”

"What are you talking about? You look at Bo Xuan's whole thing. Su Meili couldn't control her smile, and if she wanted not to show too much joy, she could only save the scene by scolding Xia Aiguo.

"Dad, mother, it's really no trouble! I have already agreed with Xia that my brother has the ability, and it is just an opportunity. ”

Ye Boxuan hurriedly took a glass of wine to respect the old man, alas! After tomorrow, he will return to the group, and his heart and soul will be entrusted to the old man and the old mother-in-law. (To be continued.) )