The background of happiness seems to be unhappiness......

Matching point: Mr. Sayu as usual.

If someone asked who the hero you admired, what would you say?

It must be stated here that the hero we are talking about at this moment does not have to be a hero who is as powerful as in the movie and can save the world, but a 'hero' who can make you feel happy for you.

To put it bluntly, such a hero does not have to be great, but must be helpful to you, so that the hero is actually not so special.

Just like for a young girl who can't get out of bed and walk because she is sick, she can only watch the changes and changes in temperament outside the window every day as her daily life, and a teenager who breaks the window with a baseball can become her hero and make her happy.

The world is not as full of rules and constraints as imagined, and the definitions of heroes and happiness are constantly changing.

However, no matter how the world changes, the essence of love is still full of pain and meaningless giving, which makes many people fall into it.

But these words are not that Sayou wants someone to give up on love, after all, this is how the so-called youth grows in injury, it's normal.

It is precisely because the normality is too much that Sayou thinks that it is right to avoid the same, just like the movie "I Heard that Kirishima is going to retire", look at his position and face it frankly.

When a boy at the bottom of the academy bluntly speaks about his dreams, the other protagonist at the top of the academy pyramid is ashamed and sheds tears.

For this reason, it is understandable that people who are in love only need to be frank and can suffer a lot less harm.

But most of the guys who fall in love are always not so frank, and will only admit a qiē in front of people they don't know, and often deny their feelings in front of the people they like, which is really quite contradictory.

Understandable. It may be a measure of self-protection - venting one's emotions in front of others; Protect your emotions in front of another TA; Nothing seems wrong.

It's kind of like, 'I want to get to know each other, but I'm scared!' Again, it is the prerogative of human beings to assemble contradictions, and that is important to remember.

When you work in the creative industry, you will find many other things that you can't discover......

No, no, no, it's just because the creator thinks from a different angle, so he will come to a different conclusion.

If you imagine yourself flying in the air, you will get the words "Humans look like garbage", but if you just run on the ground, you will feel that "the people around you are just like you, ordinary and inactive."

Regardless of whether the above is a statement of some secondary diseases. All of them tell me the importance of Sasuke's perspective on problems.

As an outsider to countless romances, Sasuke must maintain that neutral mood and look at the whole problem in this way.

Because no matter whether someone else's love is successful or not, someone will always get hurt, and the HP will be reduced, and even the level of the person's life will be lowered a little bit.

So there are those who want to get the best of both worlds, and Sayu thinks it's self-defeating.

Best of both worlds? That's something that even the gods can't do.

In the past wars, if you want peace, you have to fight all the wars, but you will die a lot because of it;

If you don't want dead, you have to stop the war. But countless warriors and mercenaries will lose their means of survival.

Even if the gods look at what happens, they won't interfere in any way.

Perhaps it is because they are not allowed to interfere with the struggle between human beings, or maybe even the gods are unable to bring the people of the world into true peace without making any sacrifices, then the best of both worlds is empty talk.

Therefore. Sayou believes that when dealing with the 'troublesome' matter of other people's love, the first thing to think about is who to hurt.

This way of thinking can be labeled as irresponsible, but Sayu doesn't intend to be the savior and hero of all, and that's quite, quite, quite difficult.

Just look at the heroes in the movie. Even if you have all kinds of superpowers, you will still be beaten to the ground by the enemy, and then win due to the needs of the plot.

Of course, there are some prerequisites for becoming a hero. That is, strong, hot-blooded, and full of a sense of justice.

Sayu thinks that if he reaches the limit, I'm afraid he will only meet one-third of the conditions......

Compared to this, when someone asks about love, in fact, Sayou will try to avoid knowing too much about himself, not only Sayou, but also the other party.

There is a saying that the deeper the contact, the deeper the fall, and if you are too attached to the other person, you will find constant 'hurt', even if it is a friendly hurt.

No, although there is a white lie, there should be no friendly harm, because the harm itself is hostile.

Sayu remembers that his female boss once said that the person she admired was 'herself', which must have sounded arrogant, right?

However, it's a pity that Sayou at that time, no, including the current Sayou, felt that sentence was very correct, and there was no reason to refute it.

That female boss is the one who believes in herself like this, I'm afraid it's a difficult thing for many people to do......

For example, if the same problem happens to others, we can often make wise reasoning and judgment, and give appropriate advice, but once it happens to ourselves, we are at a loss.

Believing in yourself is not as simple as you think, at least it requires a lot of self-confidence and ability to do things.

After all, most people are only able to discuss a solution to a problem perfectly when they are out of the way.

This is the point of view of an outsider or a third party to propose problems and solutions, and it should be easy to understand.

It stands to reason that people always seem to be more sensible in dealing with other people's problems than they are about their own, a phenomenon that has been described by University of Waterloo psychologist Igo Brown. Grossman called it the 'Solomon's paradox'.

King Solomon was the third monarch of the Kingdom of Israel, and is said to have been a combination of wisdom and cunning.

It is said that during his long reign, people often traveled from other places to seek his advice. But King Solomon's own personal life was a mess!

His life was filled with many bad decisions, he had hundreds of pagan wives and mistresses, was fond of money, and often boasted about his wealth. In addition, he neglected to guide and educate his only son, so that he grew up to become a tyrant, all of which eventually led to the demise of the kingdom.

It can be seen that as a third party, observing a problem in the third person can always lead to a better conclusion, which is why some people often say, 'Look at the problem from the outside'.

However, some people will think that this is just a way to stand and talk without backache, after all, the person involved in the matter is not themselves, but other people.

But even so, even if he is irresponsible, Sayu will not do such a stupid act.

For Sayou, if he accepts someone else's request or request, he will never deal with it casually, which is a sense of responsibility.

The female boss also once said to Sayou, 'To be responsible for others is to be responsible for yourself, of course, the guy who firmly believes in himself can use extreme methods to achieve his own or others' goals'.

Leaving aside the last words, the first half of the sentence must have been admonished by many people.

But taking charge of this act itself is not so simple, because many things do not have the attribute of bringing benefits to himself for Sayou.

Heroes or something are left to others to do, and they just want to live their lives on their own terms.

Even if there is an end day, when that day comes, I will firmly believe in what I believe in.

That's how Zuoyou will get other people's requests, and Lin Xuan will ask himself so much to let himself deal with those things.

Everyone else felt that they had a special talent, but that was just an illusion, and Sayu was just more rational.

In addition, with the assistance of the system, it is even possible to analyze the problem not in the way of a third party, but in the way of a fourth person.

Why do you even mention this now? Well, that's just Sayo's willfulness.

Because if something is not clearly stated, no one else can know it.

However, Sasuke is also similar to ordinary people, when faced with certain problems, he still looks back to others for an answer, an answer that can convince him and feel taken for granted.

So who is the answer to the question? Who will be their own hero?

This question is far from what it seems now, and I don't know how long it will take to meet someone like that.

Maybe you have it around you right now, but you just don't realize it.

Youth again is full of unstable factors, but it has also been changed a lot.

The love of others, the predicament of oneself, the treasures gained, the things lost, the future owned, and the remembered past, all slowly converged.

Speaking of this, Sayu couldn't help but think of the character flaws of his sisters.

They always appear in their own memories, and then leave a somewhat dark figure.

Unlike ordinary people, when they face things, they don't look at things in the first person 'I', nor do they think in the third person 'he', but in the second person 'you' to solve them.

Weird, right? However, the efficiency may be quite high.

There are many simple troubles, that is, when you solve them, you will find that there are troubles involved.

Whoever is a hero, and no one can be a hero.

For this reason, if you worship a hero, just say HARO to him, it will make you feel more courageous, because there seems to be no difference between the two, right? (To be continued......)