Ye Boxuan glanced at Qu Lei again, only reached out to take the cigarette, and did not accept the red envelope.

"Brother?" Qu Lei handed it forward, a little embarrassed, and didn't know what to say.

Ye Boxuan spat out a smoke ring, and a deep voice sounded in the cramped car:

"Qu Lei, you are my brother-in-law. We can't talk about this between us. ”

Qu Lei hurriedly turned sideways and nodded, sighing: "Brother, am I wrong like this?" You said I don't know what's wrong, I always feel like it's wrong to do anything. Especially in front of our family. ”

The two of them have been superiors and subordinates for many years, and later they are in the relationship between their eldest brother and brother-in-law, according to common sense, they should be very close, at least Qu Lei should be able to be called Ye Boxuan's left and right hand.

I don't know when they drifted apart.

This is the second time that Qu Lei has exposed his emotions in the process of getting along for many years, revealing dissatisfaction, grievances, doubts, incomprehension, etc., which only belong to a certain part of his repressed personality.

The first time was when Ye Boxuan and Xia went upstairs to persuade him, because of Qu Lei's mother, because of Ye Boting.

Ye Boxuan took a puff of cigarette, looked sideways at the exterior that was hurriedly thrown by the speed of the car, and when he turned his head again, he told Qu Lei seriously:

"Leizi, why are you always so polite? Outside! People get along with each other mutually. ”

Ye Boxuan paused, okay, this kind of communication is not suitable for Qu Lei, he may not understand.

"You give, I receive, that's what outsiders do, don't you understand?"

Qu Lei sighed again:

"I'll tell you the truth, brother. The pavilion has been busy recently, and it has not recruited people since the New Year.

As for me, I don't know anyone, and I don't know who to ask someone to buy things. Can our children use bad things? That child in our family is the child of an ordinary comrade-in-arms. Alas!

That's it, I prepared a red envelope, if it is not done properly, I will pay attention next time. Brother, don't think about it, I don't know if I understand what I mean? ”

Ye Boxuan really doesn't understand as Ji Yusheng, he is not a commoner. He couldn't have understood it that deeply. At least not to the extent of empathy.

But he probably understood. With his "empathetic" emotional intelligence, he frowned and smiled, and stretched out his right hand to Qu Lei.

Qu Lei handed Ye Boxuan a cigarette, but Ye Boxuan did not return it. Raised eyebrows and smiled at Qu Lei:

"Bring the red envelope. I thank you on behalf of your nephews and nieces. ”

Qu Lei was relieved. This time, I really smiled.

"Leizi. I'll teach you ha. If you encounter something like this in the future, of course, I can't do it. Since I have bypassed this, others can be called outsiders.

Giving red envelopes is a blessing, don't come up and stuff it hard, such as the full moon banquet 100-day banquet, see the children, put them in the baby's small quilt, so that no matter who it is, it is not easy to refuse.

Especially people like us, they pay more attention to face and will not do things that are childish and push each other. Write your name on the back of the red envelope, remember not to be wronged.

You have to understand the twists and turns, the simple reception of people and things is a bit of a saying, you learn more, and you will have to stand alone in the future, after all, you and the pavilion have become a family. It's hard to say where it will go in the future. ”

Qu Lei really wanted to ask Ye Boxuan how far he could develop, but he understood that he couldn't be in a hurry.

"Yes, I'm learning."

The atmosphere in the car turned relaxed, Ye Boxuan glanced at Qu Lei beside him, embarrassed that he was a person who didn't like to talk, and explained to Qu Lei what to do on various occasions.

Qu Lei even knew that Captain Ye would not easily talk to others about this, and he knew that it was a rare experience to let Ye Boxuan open the conversation.

He temporarily put away the troubles and unhappiness between him and Ye Boting, and concentrated on listening to the guidance of the "master".

Ye Boxuan is the least good at preaching, and if there were no specific examples just now, he wouldn't have bothered to give examples. So much so that in later conversations, he only said his intuitive feelings about the word "man".

"One day, when you are really busy with social relations and so on to occupy a lot of your life time, you are tired and bored, greedy to go home, you are truly mature.

Although I haven't been back to the family area much recently, Qu Lei, I heard that during the days when you were not at home in the pavilion, you basically didn't recruit many people, and you went to the camp every day to mingle with the soldiers, or went to the homes of each of the small officials in our regiment to hang out, right? ”

Ye Boxuan didn't want to mention this topic, but when he drove the night train tonight, under such a chat opportunity, he planned to talk about Qu Lei.

If it's just as a battalion commander who cares about the soldiers, the inspection of work, it's nothing! But it is said that this is not the case. He doesn't understand, why is Qu Lei not so down-to-earth now!

"No, brother. I just don't think it's interesting to be at home. Boredom only comes to the door. ”

Qu Lei didn't dare to lie in front of Ye Boxuan, and he didn't dare to make excuses that he was for work. He even sometimes felt that he was transparent in front of Ye Boxuan. Every move, he doesn't say anything, Ye Boxuan can also see through him.

"There's a lot more meaningful things to do in your spare time! For example, read a book and use a briefing to see the current situation in the country. Practice words, words are like people. Learn more so that when you have the opportunity in the future, you won't miss out because you can't pick it up yourself.

Life, opportunity, it doesn't wait for you to do it again, you grab it, you catch it, you can't catch it and it won't come again. ”

"Yes!" Bowing his head to admit his mistakes and admit his naivety, Qu Lei has learned to bow his head in front of the Ye family all the time.

Ye Boxuan was angry when he saw him like that:

"Keep your head up and your chest high!

Let me tell you, the real maturity of a man is to want to stay at home more, no matter how wonderful it is outside, there is no good home. You're in the army, what if you get there!

Also, as a man, you don't need to know everything, no one is perfect, but you must have a sense of responsibility.

You don't have to make a lot of money or have a lot of official position, but you must have the ability to support your family.

You don't have to listen to your parents in everything, because of your family situation, your mother's vision is there, but you must be filial. ”

Thinking is not on a frequency, even if Qu Lei understands, but he is thinking about his little Jiujiu in his heart. He felt that Ye Boxuan didn't have a backache when he stood and spoke.

However, Ye Boxuan didn't know that his rare preaching not only didn't work, but also made Qu Lei very bored.

All the way forward, Ji Yusheng and Ye Boting, who were in the back car, had already begun to talk about their school days.

They exchanged experiences with each other that only belonged to their own era, Ji Yusheng didn't talk much, but he could always put the finishing touches on Ye Boting's heart.

And Ye Boting's intuitive feeling is that she was surprised that she was so able to talk, as if there were many topics to talk about not enough. (To be continued.) )