On the afternoon of January 1, 2047, on the way to Jiang Dajun's grandmother's house, we were riding bicycles forward, and suddenly met two girls in red dresses passing by us, one of them was tall and one short, the tall figure was slender and dignified, although the short one could not be said to be beautiful, nor could it be said to be ugly. After the two of us passed shoulders with the two girls, Jiang Dajun suddenly asked: "Continue, do you say you like tall girls, or do you like short girls?" ”

I said, "Under the same conditions as the inner prime, of course everyone prefers beautiful girls." Jiang Dajun asked: "Don't talk so far, it's just about things, it's just the two girls who just passed, how do you make a choice." I said, "I can't make a choice because I don't know either of them." Jiang Dajun said: "For example, that beautiful girl, although she is beautiful on the outside, she is not good on the inside, and the other one is not very beautiful, but she is good on the inside and inside, how do you make a choice." ”

I didn't hesitate to say, "Of course I choose not very beautiful girls who are good on the inside and inside." Jiang Dajun asked, "Why?" ”

I said, "It's very simple, the physical body is just the carrier of our spirit or soul, and a person's inner qualities, such as moral cultivation, character knowledge, spiritual outlook, and other spiritual things, are a yardstick that determines a person's merits. And the physical height, fat and thinness such as external appearance and body shape are definitely not important indicators to see the merits of people. It can also be said that the carrier may become imperfect in perfection, while the inner spiritual perfection can continue to become more perfect with the increase of knowledge and cultivation. ”

Jiang Dajun said: "I don't completely agree with what you said, and you should be able to see that now that beauties are in power, the argument that money is omnipotent is not that there is no market, but that there is a very market." Artificial beauties make trouble, maybe you can't be sure how many times the future daughter-in-law will be groomed. ”

I said, "We should see those who are physically disabled, though. But with their tenacious perseverance, they have made remarkable achievements, can you say that they can still walk out of the wonderful life of people who are not perfect in the carrier, they are not perfect and do not deserve love. They really embarrassed us who were in normal health, and made us feel ashamed. Therefore, I said that the key to choosing a person is to look at the person's inner quality, and we should look down on the beauty or ugliness, tall or short, fat or thin in terms of external carriers. or able-bodied or disabled of these external things. ”

Jiang Dajun said: "What you said also has a certain amount of truth, but we should also see that there are also some carriers that are good, and the inner su zhì is not very good people, and through their own learning and improvement to achieve the survival of people who constantly improve their own quality, they are not another model of success." ”

I said, "Everything is in motion, and people's minds are constantly changing, so we can't predict what kind of impact our choices today will have in the future, but I think we are all a continuation of yesterday's normal trajectory, and today is the footprint of tomorrow's life path." Life as you want. Every step has to be taken after some careful consideration, and there is absolutely no room for possibilities in life...... If...... So...... Leave a solid footprint every step of life. The footprints can't be erased, and they can't be erased. There are some things that you can't hide from your own heart, even if you can hide them from other people's eyes. Every step we take today leads to the future. It's a continuation of yesterday's life. Therefore, the more solid the steps today, the closer we will be to perfection in our future life. But no matter what kind of ending life gives us, that ending is the choice of our youth without regrets, and we can't start again. It can't be erased either. In addition to the difficulties and obstacles that arise in life, we can choose to go around, we can also choose to go forward and open the way. In case of water, even if you hit the south wall, you can choose to tear down the south wall and continue to move forward. ”

Jiang Dajun said: "Why didn't I see that you were such a person who was in a hurry. I said: "What you said is not exactly me, a person's attachment is conditional, just blindly burying his head in the road, blindly persistent, if the direction is wrong, then it will produce the effect of going in the opposite direction, laughing and generous." So I don't think it's wrong to bury your head in the road, it's the fault that you didn't know the direction before burying your head in the road. ”

Jiang Dajun smiled and asked, "What were we arguing about just now?" I said, "It's a question of choosing a beautiful or ugly woman." Jiang Dajun said: "Are we too far off topic? I said, "Arguing and arguing is off topic." I said, "It's not completely off topic, I still insist that the inner plain is first, and the beautiful and ugly are second." Jiang Dajun said: "It seems that the beauty has lost its allure in your eyes." I said, "It's better to be a practitioner both inside and outside." Jiang Dajun said: "That's right, it seems that it can only be so compromised, beautiful women must be cultivated, ugly women must be beautiful, and the world will be perfect." I said, "That day the whole world will be the same." ”

After arguing with Jiang Dajun for so long, I didn't even pay attention to how Jiang Dajun led me to his grandmother's house. In front of an old house in the old street of Jiangjiabao Village, when I saw Jiang Dajun getting off the car, I followed him and got off the bicycle. When I looked up, I saw that the street where the old house was located had been renovated, and it was also a new road for the cement road sewer network. However, the houses on this street are very old, and the overall layout is an old-fashioned gatehouse in the front, and three gray brick and gray tile houses with a masonry structure in the back.

The gray brick courtyard wall, the gray brick gatehouse, two black painted gates, flanked by the knockers of the lion swallower, the swallower and the knocker are made of brass. On both sides of the gatehouse, there are two small stone lions, a male and a female, the male teacher is stepping on the hydrangea, and the female lion is stepping on the young lion. The male stone lion guards the left side of the door, and the female stone lion guards the right side of the door, and the two stone lions, one male and one female, are like the sentinels of this ancient house, guarding the peace of the owner's house. The two black doors were hidden, and Jiang Dajun pushed open the two black wooden doors and carried his bicycle into the courtyard. I also carried my bicycle into the courtyard with Jiang Dajun.

A corridor is paved with gray bricks, and there is a white shadow wall of gray bricks polished in front of it, and a picture of a tiger descending the mountain drawn with black ink pen on the shadow wall wall is vivid. The steel-made grape climbing shelves in the sky between the gatehouse and the shadow wall were rusty, but they still obscured the owner.

There is a vacant space between the two grass sheds on the left side of the courtyard and the south courtyard wall, the open space is not large, that is, two or three meters, and the right side of the courtyard is in the distance between the shadow wall walls, which is an old-fashioned enclosure and thatched toilet, which seems to have been transformed by the ecological civilization village. There is a tall persimmon tree growing in the open space between the gray gatehouse and the pigsty wall, and there is also a tall persimmon tree on the other side of the gray gatehouse, and the two persimmon trees echo each other from a distance, as if they are two generals guarding this home.

We walked around the shadow wall and saw an old woman in her seventies feeding the chickens and ducks in the chicken pen on the west side of the yard in the sunshine. Jiang Dajun stopped and shouted loudly before he had time to stop: "Milk." I heard the voice tremble with excitement, and the old woman put down the pot in her hand for feeding the chickens and the short stick in her hand, and turned to look up at her eldest grandson, and immediately a smile of joy was on her face.

The old man tried to stand up straight, and said with a smile: "My eldest grandson has come to see me, hahaha, hurry up and chat with the milk house." Jiang Dajun said: "Continue, this is my grandmother." I put the bike on good and shouted, "Hello grandma." Jiang Dajun introduced: "Milk, at this time my classmate Xiao Yangzi." Jiang Dajun's grandmother said, "You both go into the house with your grandmother." Jiang Dajun carried a plastic bag containing bananas in his left hand and carried his grandmother through the hall with his right hand and into his grandmother's east house.

Jiang Dajun put the plastic bag containing the banana on the cabinet against the east wall, and his grandmother took out the ceramic teapot of Yuan Qinghua, poured in some Jintian jasmine tea, and poured the tea. His grandmother smiled and said, "Wait, grandma has something delicious here, grandma will fetch it for you." (To be continued......)

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