Chapter 671, A Friend Who Can't Be Lost
Yang Liu listened: This is what I asked, no one can do anything in a person's heart, life is in the world, everyone is like this, who has someone they like in their hearts, can they become husband and wife if they like it? That's impossible.
I have been in love when I am young, and liking someone is only a momentary thing, and the people I like can't get together, because of various reasons, there will be no chance.
Some people like people who can't be approached, just think about it, and some people like people who shouldn't like people, just think about it.
If you like it, you can like it, or you still have the opportunity to like it, you really fall in love, some really like it, some are impulsive, what you really like is love, but most of those who are disliked by the other party are restrained.
Only a very few people are persistent, no longer think about anyone, only think about this person, always think of the old one, this kind of person is unique, a person who loves a lot also has a time when he doesn't love, maybe he doesn't want to think about each other in the future.
It's not that people's minds can't be put down, there must be an opportunity, because a little thing may collapse, and Yang Liu still doesn't believe in the dead love of a lifetime.
Yang Liu thought of this, smiled and said: "You are too worried, Qingfang only stays in my childhood friendship, he is not love, he is a childhood sweetheart, and he has no connection with marriage, it can be said that he is a person who values feelings."
His late marriage can also be said to be the result of his mother's extravagant move, his mother interfered indiscriminately, and he was disgusted by him, and he was angry that he still did not marry in order to resist her mother's arrangement. "What can Yang Liu say, it makes sense to say this, can he say that he is in love with her? The most taboo thing for a woman is that her man thinks about others, who meets who has a brain in the same bed and dreams.
She believes that Xu Qingfang is a kind person, since she wants to marry Cecilia Li, she will treat her well, and she will not treat her daughter-in-law badly.
Cecilia Li asked with some surprise: "Why don't you be so aggressive with his mother?" ”
Yang Liu said: "It's very simple, for example, you like a boy, or a childhood sweetheart's friend, people have no intention of you, but your parents find other people's bad luck, and vent all their resentment on each other."
If the other party is measured, a friend can still do it, otherwise, he will become an enemy, in front of his friend, what face does he have? If you ruin a friendship for many years for no reason, will the entanglement of the heart be small?
So in the future, he will not accept the marriage arranged by her mother, and he will not find it in anger, and the more anxious her mother is, the less anxious he is.
This is a kind of rebellious psychology, the reason for the delay so far, you should also believe in fate, there is a good object like you waiting for him, he only has a fate with you, and there is no fate to talk to others, and he found you all of a sudden. "Yang Liu's rhetoric is very convincing, if you fall in love with a person, the other party has no intention, what do you say? It is impossible to fall in love for a lifetime, Yang Liu still doesn't believe that there is true love in the world, love marriage is just like, if there is real love, there will be no marriage change.
The love in the name is not just to take what you need, marriage is all about the family background and conditions, how can there be a marriage purely for love, nothing, a poor egg, how good it looks, and I haven't seen anyone to love, and the later generations are particularly abrupt.
In the sixties and seventies, there were really those who were not afraid of poverty, and when it came to the rich period, the most taboo thing for people was to be poor.
Marriage is to live a good life, as long as both of them want to live a good life, sincerely maintain a family, and live together through thick and thin until the gray hair is gray, it is a good marriage, even if it is true love, marriage requires a sense of responsibility, how can a family be maintained without a sense of responsibility, Xu Qingfang is a responsible person.
Cecilia Li listened to it and felt more down-to-earth, at her age, she was very picky about marriage when she was young, and she did not meet a person with a good look like Xu Qingfang, and she delayed until she was in her thirties, and it was not easy to find someone who was quite old.
Filling in the house, remarrying, and divorce, how can she accept it, and the widowed with children can't accept it, like Xu Qingfang, who has never been married, is still the first one she has encountered, but she is ten years older, which is enough to be satisfied, he really has someone in his heart, and he has to approve it.
After this village, without this shop, marriage fate is unavoidable, the opportunity cannot be lost, and the time will never come again.
Yang Liu's words reassured her, and she said guiltily: "Sister-in-law, I asked a lot of things that shouldn't be asked, I'm sorry." ”
Yang Liu said with a smile: "I and Yaqing and Qingfang have always been frank and unrestrained, what can't be asked, the love of young people is free, and it is not the old society, imprisoned by feudalism."
Marriage autonomy, freedom of love, there is nothing wrong with liking someone, that is also fate, there is nothing that cannot be said to people.
Marriage, no matter what the reason is, there is nothing wrong with it, it is called early repentance, it is much less harmful than getting married and then breaking up, and it is not an uncommon thing to be close to Huang several times, what is there to be afraid of asking, and it is not something unsightly.
If you have any questions, just ask, and I will tell you. ”
The two of them thought about it, it was the same thing, they didn't know how many kisses they had met, and they had dealt with each other a few times, so was it wrong that they didn't succeed.
Chen Qianru's entanglement has been untied, she used to care very much about Zhang Yaqing and Yang Liu getting along together for 20 years, very jealous, but Zhang Yaqing is not easy to find, with a good family background, good character and good looks, and a good job, if it weren't for her father and Zhang Tianhong's friendship, she wouldn't have been able to choose her.
It's really the same as Zhang Tianhong said, Zhang Yaqing is chasing Yang Liu, if Yang Liu really wants to marry Zhang Yaqing, his mother's resistance is also in vain, Yang Liu is moved by Zhang Yaqing's pursuit and passive, he doesn't fall in love with him at all, if he really likes Zhang Yaqing, he has to marry him if he finds a way, because Zhang Yaqing's character and family background are coveted, and it is really the feelings of friends and buddies, not love.
It seems that Yang Liu is not infatuated with anyone, people are rational in handling things, Zhang Yaqing's pursuit is not twenty years, just a few years in college, it is enough for 10,000 people.
Her reason is too strong, that kind of pursuit is also handled as a friend, friendship and love are not mixed, her marriage purpose is to live, it is very reasonable, find a responsible person, don't seek romance, her psychology is really admirable.
No wonder men like her, and they like it themselves: "Sister-in-law, I admire you very much, it is really not easy for you to choose marriage rationally without messing around when so many people are pursuing, if you don't have Uncle Zhang's guarantee to you, you still won't be moved." ”
Yang Liu smiled: "How rational can people be? I also don't have a charter, or I won't set a kiss, in fact, if I look at the relationship with Yaqing for many years, I shouldn't be yellow.
But I really can't accept that she has such a mother, when she dies, I feel guilty, if it weren't for me, she wouldn't have evolved like this, I don't have the confidence to enter that family, seeing Uncle Zhang alone, I have a very knotted heart, only when we are separated, will we think less of Zhu Yalan.
I don't ask for any love, what wealth, is that I believe that Yaqing's character can be entrusted for life, she is not a person who will repeat, she is a man who can be relied on, he chooses you, he will tolerate your qiē, he is the best person.
People are emotional animals, and I have also been touched by her friendship, so I also have to see my heart everywhere.
Qianru, you can rest assured to marry him boldly, he has no half-heartedness towards people, if he chooses you, he will not be sorry for you, you are also fate, it is so simple to contribute, I wish you a hundred years of harmony. ”
Cecilia Li smiled: "Sister-in-law, you haven't congratulated us yet." ”
Yang Liu smiled: "It stands to reason that I should call you sister-in-law, that is the nearest convenience, we are righteous brothers, I wish you a hundred years of love." ”
Chen Qianru stopped doing: "Hey! You're eccentric! ”
"Good, good! I wish you all the best for eternity. Yang Liu laughed: "You stinky and beautiful." ”
The three of them laughed, and the man over there asked, "Is this a woman laughing?" ”
Yang Liu smiled: "You men are only allowed to laugh, but women are not allowed to laugh, masculinism, big husband thinking, change it in the future." ”
Chen Qianru and Cecilia Li echoed: "That's it!" ”
Xu Qingfeng said: "Our willow is very honest, and after a while, it was ruined by the daughter-in-law of the two of you. The three men laughed again, and several children ran out of the study, and Ah Qian said, "Why is the noise so loud?" ”
Ah Yan asked, "What is the good thing to be so happy?" Sue us. “
Ah Qian asked, "What good things are so fragrant, make you laugh like this, give us some of them." ”
Arlene said, "If it's delicious, give it to us." ”
Everyone laughed: "A bunch of money-grubbers, go back, go back." Yang Liu pushed the children back.
A few children stretched out their necks to take a look, but they didn't find anything, and they all ran away.
Yang Liu's heart, so far it is easy, because of his own reasons, Zhang Yaqing and Xu Qingfang's marriage has not been resolved for a long time, Yang Liu will get angry when he thinks about it, the two of them are always single, and they are bound to communicate, widow ~ There are many rights and wrongs in front of the woman, and there will be no less right and wrong in front of the singles.
Look at Yang Tianhui also moved out of this provocation of Xu Qingfeng's relationship, how poisonous people's intentions are.
It is impossible for him to be like this alone, as long as he wants to take advantage of this story, he will catch this sign, and it will be good for them to get married in the future, and there will be no taboos.
They are all people who have helped themselves a lot, no matter what the reason, their love is pure, and they can't turn into hate because of love, they are really good people, good people are not easy to make, real friends are not easy to get, and the key time is your help.
She doesn't want to lose friends like Zhang Yaqing and Xu Qingfang, because their friendship is too deep. R1152