Dad said that the most basic thing for people is to eat, and the people take food as the sky, and food is the sky (the most important) and the earth (the most basic). Tang Jie didn't agree with this, Tang Jie felt that these physiological needs may be basic, but not necessarily the most important, some things are more important than eating.

Since he was a child, his father has been respectful and fearful in Tang Jie's heart, more fear than respect.

When I was a child, I heard nǎinǎi say that my father was very bitter when he was young, and my grandfather died early, because the family was poor, and he was reluctant to buy shoes, and when it was very cold, it was snowing, and he could only go to school with a pair of bare feet, and when he was in the morning, the frost on the ground had not yet dispersed, and he was so frozen that his feet would stand in turn, and the one who wanted to touch the ground would rub on the trouser tube, but fortunately, a teacher saw it, kicked over a bud leaf, and stood on it a little better, but in this way, he only went to the third grade, and came down to work. Go to the production team to earn a job and support your family.

nǎinǎi also talked about something, and every time he said it, he was sad and wanted to cry. Dad was seventeen years old that year and decided to be a soldier, just the night before leaving, the brigade held a mobilization meeting, Dad went out for a meeting, nǎinǎi was home alone, cooking for his son, packing his luggage, Dad came back from a meeting, but saw nǎinǎi serving a big bowl of meat. This is a rarity, not even a single oil star can not be eaten a little throughout the year, only two taels of meat are made of dumplings in the New Year, and now take out such a big bowl, "Where does this meat come from?" Dad naturally wanted to ask, but Nǎinǎi only urged vigorously, "Hurry up and eat, it's not delicious if it's cold." The father also asked, and nǎinǎi said, "I'll sue you when I'm done eating." ”

Maybe the meat was originally very fragrant, maybe it was because he didn't know the taste of meat for many years, his father devoured it and ate it, and he didn't even spit out the bones, nǎinǎi smiled and watched his son finish eating the meat and drinking the soup, which was more comfortable than eating himself, and when he saw that he finished eating, he cleaned it up, not to say what kind of meat it was, and his father asked about the kitchen, but he saw his own big raccoon cat, only a cat head and a cat skin were left, and then on the cutting board.

My father was very moved at the time, and said that he would be filial to nǎinǎi in the future.

There is always a wall between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law that keeps the wall in the way, and Tang Jie has never seen a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along extremely well when he is so old.

Tang Jie remembered that nǎinǎi rarely lived in his own house, and spent most of his time at his aunt's house, because when Tang Jie was very young, nǎinǎi and his mother once quarreled, and nǎinǎi finally died at his aunt's house.

Dad is a capable person and very eloquent, Mom said. Other people also said the same, whether the eloquence on the mouth was good or not, Tang Jie couldn't experience it when he was young, but the eloquence in his hands, Tang Jie knew it from his ass when he was a child, and he experienced it very thoroughly, so he felt that Dad's eloquence was really good.

Dad is more knowledgeable than Mom, and the parents of the children in the neighborhood, because Dad was a soldier, and Mom and Dad are often proud to say this. So Tang Jie, who gradually understood, would find some problems, but the result was that every time he was waved by his father's sharp words and more intense palms, Tang Jie lost his armor and was defeated.

Maybe whether it is the appearance packaged by magnificence or the appearance packaged by majesty, there will be a day when people will see through it.

For a few days, Tang Jie loved to watch "Dream of Red Mansions" and talked about some of the things he realized from it with his parents. Because my father said that he had carefully studied "Dream of Red Mansions" as early as when he was a soldier, the two talked very speculatively, and suddenly said that Miaoyu's two favorite poems "Even if there is a thousand-year-old iron threshold, you must eventually have a soil steamed bun." ”

Dad said that although these two poems are very straightforward, they are very profound, and they break the foundation of the Jia family's wealth, that is, even if you have a thousand-year-old foundation "iron threshold"? But the most basic thing for people to live, the most important thing is a steamed bun, although it seems to be inconspicuous, the soil has to be scum, but it is the "foundation" of human life.

Tang Jie was only confused, "Stop, stop." Dad, did you misunderstand, is that what this steamed bun means? It refers to the 'grave', what kind of scumbag steamed buns......" Before he could finish speaking, he only heard a broken drink, "You know a fart, are you done with your homework?" Go, go, go, do your homework. ”

When the conceited balloon is punctured, there will always be a sound, and the "spit" will try to make up for the hole.

There are more and more frictions like this, and there are countless of them.

Father—What is my place in your heart?

Son - a father

Father - Be clear

子 - a title, a qiē related to blood relations.

Father--again?

The son is gone.

Father--Gone? Don't you think there should be respect and worship?

Respect for the son -- this is what should be due in blood relations, but worship is not, worship comes from the heart, from the deeds of the worshiped person.

Father—what? Am there anything wrong with what I did to you? I have worked so hard to raise you so big for you to study, is this not right, and is it not worthy of your respect and worship?

Son - worthy of respect, but not worship, admiration. If I were not your own, I would probably adore you.

Father -, fallacy.

Debate, or communication, should have an environment for debate or exchange, the atmosphere, should be absolutely equal, the environment, or politics, life, society, etc., will form a one-sided situation, and the result is meaningless.

Therefore, we should try our best to eliminate this relationship, so that everyone can speak freely, have their own opinions, and have the right to defend their own opinions, otherwise they will be confused, chickens and dogs, and they will be unhappy.