Xu Chunmei and I walked along the road to the school's nursery, which is just south of the girls' dormitory building No. 12. The road stopped abruptly on the edge of the nursery garden, the nursery garden is an inaccessible path, this path leads to an abandoned corner gate, outside the corner gate is often Binrong fast intercity high-speed rail, the interval is less than ten minutes, there will be intercity high-speed rail whistling past, that is the high-speed rail of the new era, the speed is very fast, reaching the international advanced level.

The path in this nursery is the path that Tian Xiaorui and I often walk, and in the depths of this path, there is the shadow of Tian Xiaorui and I who used to be happy together. Today I embarked on this warm and romantic path with Xu Chunmei, which made me feel emotional. The human face does not know where to go, only the feeling of peach blossoms smiling in the wind.

Accompanied Xu Chunmei silently to the depths of the nursery, and the two of us sat down on a cement slab. Xu Chunmei, who couldn't help but be puzzled, asked, "Senior brother, why did you bring me here?" I said, "I brought you here because it's quiet and allows you to forget about the troubles of life for a while." In addition, it is relatively quiet, so you can talk about your heart. Xu Chunmei was noncommittal and said softly: "I've been in a bit irritable lately, and I don't want to go to a crowded place." Every time I go to a crowded place, I always feel that someone is pointing at me behind me. ”

I said, "There are many people who love to chew the root of the tongue, don't pay attention to those who are boring." As long as a person is doing the right thing and walking the right way, he doesn't care what others say. Xu Chunmei said: "That being said, it is still difficult to accept that things are really put on oneself, after all, there is a lot of pressure from public opinion." ”

I said bluntly: "Li Wei and Liu Yuexiao are getting along, what does this matter have to do with you, senior brother thinks you are thinking too much." In other words, even if Li Wei pursued you, didn't you really agree. ”

Xu Chunmei said: "Even so. I felt like I had lost something. I said, "Since you can lose what you have lost, it means that it did not belong to you in the first place, and even if you lose what really belongs to you, you will come back." Lean Li Wei He doesn't pursue you now, it's just how many followers you have, and besides, there is no writing in this world who must be who's who. Li Wei's pursuit of you is his freedom, and Liu Yuexiao's pursuit of Li Wei is also Liu Yuexiao's freedom, and Li Wei is willing to think about Liu Yuexiao, and there is nothing bad for you. ”

Xu Chunmei said: "I feel that Liu Yuexiao robbed me of the bread I ate. I said, "This means that Chunmei is not ripe yet, and you won't think so after that." Xu Chunmei said: "I just can't think about it." I said, "I don't want to talk to you and change your mind." But I have a sentence that I ask you to remember, time will prove a qiē, and it will also change a qiē, and only those who truly love you will accompany you to the farthest. On the road of life, not all encounters can become confidants, and not all confidants eventually develop into lovers or lovers naturally. Only those who have the deepest fate in the red dust can be fortunate to join hands for a lifetime. The so-called wish to win the heart of one person, and the white head is not separated, that should be a blessing from several lifetimes. There are always some passers-by in life who become frequent visitors in life, and there are always some frequent visitors who slowly become strangers. Life is a process of accepting and giving up. Although I can't think about it now, I slowly understand that life is not necessarily perfect. We just adjust our mentality and make ourselves feel that our lives are perfect. Senior brother told you so much, in a word, I want you to change your mentality in a timely manner, change your mentality. The mood will suddenly be brightened, and people will no longer torture themselves for those trivial things. ”

Xu Chunmei seemed to understand what I meant, and asked with a confused face: "Senior brother, what do you say I should do now?" I said, "Now." It is to combine psychological counseling and medication to get rid of your inner confusion. Specifically: First, adjust your mentality, when you don't meet the best in your life. You have to work hard to be yourself and try to make yourself as perfect as possible, so that the person in your life will be more in line with your heart's requirements. For example, you should study every day while exercising or doing extracurricular activities such as yoga and ballroom dancing to enrich your spare time. As long as you keep yourself busy, you don't have time to think about those unhappy things. After persevering for a while, you will find that your persistence can change a lot of boring things and boring thoughts in your life. Second, forget about the past that cannot be changed. Life goes on every day, and yesterday quickly becomes a memory, and sometimes even the memory becomes dull. People must learn to forget some unpleasant people and things, so as to maintain a sunny and upward good mood to meet every rising sun, when dusk, you will not be annoyed by the good time of the day, the most important thing now, no matter how good the idea needs to be implemented from now on. Third, learn to forgive. In fact, it is not easy for everyone to live, and they all want to live a comfortable life. Li Wei and Liu Yuexiao are on good terms, although they inadvertently hurt your feelings, I believe that this kind of hurt is unintentional. What's more, Li Wei has been pursuing you for a long time, but you don't agree to others, which shows that you don't have Li Wei in your heart at all. Your current mood is completely a child's angry behavior, not the temperament that a college student should have. Fourth, if you feel unwell, you can take some appropriate medicines to achieve qi and soothing drugs, such as royal jelly oral liquid, sedative drugs, etc. ”

When I started to speak, I observed that Xu Chunmei was still full of indifference, and after listening to me say so many truths, and it was said in easy-to-understand words, Xu Chunmei listened patiently from doubt, and finally nodded frequently in admiration and said: "Yes, what the senior brother said is good, I am inexplicably envious of your talent." ”

I said, "Master Confucius said that if you learn without thinking, you will be reckless, and if you think without learning, you will die, what do these two sentences mean?" In fact, it is just a matter of learning and thinking. From here, we can deduce that we should not only learn cultural courses, but also use the theories in cultural courses to guide our real life, so that we can apply what we have learned. ”

In the end, Xu Chunmei said: "Listening to your words is better than reading for ten years, thank you for my brother's guidance, so that I can get out of the misunderstanding of life." Tong guò talked to you today, and I suddenly became enlightened. Now that I have forgiven Li Wei and Liu Yuexiao from the bottom of my heart, since I have forgiven them, of course my mood has calmed down, my mood has calmed down, and my mentality has improved. The mentality is good, let alone taking any oral liquid. ”

I said, "You really think so, I'm really happy, and I want to see that optimistic and cheerful little sister in the past." Xu Chunmei said, "Don't worry, I will." ”

Seeing that Chunmei's mentality had improved, I said, "Seeing that the May Day holiday is coming, I want to ask a few people to fly to Haidong for two days." Xu Chunmei asked, "Who are you dating?" I said, "If Yu Jinling and the others go, we can go together in a group, and the other is our people from the Information Department, who wants to go can go together." ”

Xu Chunmei said: "As long as you organize it, I will go with you, I feel that I am very down-to-earth with you." I said, "If you want to go to Haidong this time, I want you to go for a break together, relieve the tense study atmosphere, and relieve your pressure." ”

Xu Chunmei said: "Thank you, brother, I like you so much." I said, "Hehe, liking is a faint love, don't say who you like, or learn to appreciate each other first, maybe you can go further." Xu Chunmei said, "Ah, I admire your senior brother. I said, "I also admire the cheerful and lively girl you used to have." ”

Xu Chunmei said: "You just have more eyes than others, and when you talk about appreciation but not love, you are actually leaving a way out for yourself." I said, "It's easier to appreciate, but love can make people feel very stressful, so I never say love, I'm used to a faint liking, and silent appreciation is more suitable for us." Xu Chunmei said: "I like it lightly, there is nothing wrong with silently appreciating it, I like it like this." ”

I said, "It's Friday again, it's time to eat, let's eat, I'll invite you." Chunmei said: "No, today the senior brother solved the mystery for me, I should invite the senior brother, I must invite you today, even if you invite me again at noon tomorrow." ”

I said, "Okay, that's it." I got up first, Xu Chunmei said that she couldn't stand up, and reached out for me to pull her, and my hand naturally reached over and grabbed her hand. A handful pulled her up from the cement slab, and the two of them held hands and walked towards the outside of the nursery. (To be continued......)

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