Chapter 633: Wen Feng who seeks change with affection

(Eleventh Seven, special thanks to the book friend Rong's 10,000 reward, who often chatted privately with the pipe and put forward some good suggestions.) )

The bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused.

If something happened to someone else, Fang Zhicheng would definitely make a pertinent suggestion, but when it happened to him, it was like spinning in a fog, and he didn't know what to do.

And Feng's suggestion to Fang Zhicheng was like clearing the clouds and fog, making Fang Zhicheng's mind extremely clear for a while. His biological mother Su Qing is actually a victim, why should he be so estranged from her? He could have thought of it before, but he didn't want to admit it. Feng's words made him suddenly brightened.

After a short period of silence, Feng suddenly exhaled softly, and Fang Zhicheng asked sensitively, "Do you have something on your mind?" ”

Feng glanced at Fang Zhicheng and said with a smile: "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I am persuading you, but I can't figure out a lot of things." ”

Fang Zhicheng said: "If you don't mind, I can be the person you confide in." ”

Feng glanced at Fang Zhicheng and said, "Did I tell you?" I find it a little quirky. ”

Fang Zhicheng said: "Is it because of age?" I have a lot of old friends, the oldest of whom is in his seventies. Fang Zhicheng didn't brag, when he was in Yinzhou, he often wandered into Nanyuan Old Street and made a group of very old friends, including Tong Siqing's father Tong Mengyuan and others.

Feng pursed his lips and smiled, and said, "I'll tell you a story, the hero of the story is a friend who has a good time with me." ”

Fang Zhicheng tugged at the corners of his mouth, but didn't laugh, if ordinary people said so, it was basically his own story. The so-called well-played friends are nothing more than a cloak of hypocrisy.

Fang Zhicheng said with a very serious expression: "Listen to me. ”

"More than 20 years ago, my friend had just started working, and her family introduced her to a partner. At that time, although it was not like the feudal society that paid attention to the words of the matchmaker of the parents, basically if the family arranged a blind date, it would be the lifelong partner of his own generation. Feng sighed, "That's it, and the two got married soon." However, they all have good and strong personalities and focus all their energy on their careers. Because the workplaces were separated from each other, they soon lived in different places. Now married for more than ten years, they suddenly moved to live together, and the relationship between the two is like strangers, and they talk no more than ten sentences a day. ”

A very ordinary life is full of helpless sorrow. After the reform and opening up, although the society emphasized the freedom of marriage, most of the marriages were old, so there was no emotional foundation between husband and wife, and as a result, there were still many people who had passed the generation.

Fang Zhicheng said: "Has your friend ever thought about divorce? ”

"Divorce?" Feng shook his head, "Now they are both very high-status people, if they divorce, it will definitely cause an uproar, affecting their image and future, so they value the status of husband and wife more than any family, and even if one party has a crisis, they will unconditionally support each other." Although the two did not communicate, they had a tacit understanding in this regard. ”

Fang Zhicheng analyzed: "Their marriage is like an alliance......

Feng smiled and said, "In fact, this kind of alliance is far stronger than other forms. ”

Fang Zhicheng saw Feng explain marriage like this, sighed, and said: "Habit is a terrible thing, your friends are used to loveless marriage, and slowly see it as a norm, and it is right to acquiesce to it." The only way to change the status quo is to break habits...... However, it takes a lot of courage. ”

Feng naturally understood what Fang Zhicheng meant, and a helpless smile appeared at the corner of his mouth, and said, "Divorce?" That's impossible. ”

Fang Zhicheng shook his head and said with a smile: "There is not only one way to solve the problem. Marriage needs to be managed, if it is always the same, when the two get along together, of course, they will not be surprised, bland, or even boring, but if they work together towards happiness, give each other a little warmth and surprise from time to time, and cultivate each other's feelings, they may be able to make a difference. ”

Feng was slightly stunned and said with a smile: "I...... My friend probably won't be able to take that step, she's similar to mine, she's a pretty stupid person, and she's not good at expressing her feelings. ”

Fang Zhicheng shook his finger and said, "Governor, as your best friend, you must give her confidence, because if you take a step, you may not be far from true happiness." ”

A light flashed in Feng Mei's eyes, and she smiled, "I'll try...... Go and persuade her. ”

Fang Zhicheng thought for a while and added: "In fact, there are many ways to ease the relationship between husband and wife, such as buying him a little gift on the other party's birthday, or getting a candlelight dinner to increase the romantic atmosphere, and you can consider some fun in life and wear it when you sleep...... You know......"

Feng glanced at Fang Zhicheng angrily and said, "Do you need to be so troublesome?" ”

Fang Zhicheng nodded seriously and said, "You have to recognize...... You should let your best friend realize that life is as complicated as work. She has a successful career and should know how much hard work it takes to be successful. In the same way, if she wants to be happy in life, she has to put in the same effort. ”

Feng smiled and said, "I didn't expect you to become a life coach, you are not very old, and you think about some problems very thoroughly." ”

Fang Zhicheng smiled: "High emotional intelligence, this is innate. ”

Feng Qian said: "IQ is important, EQ is even more important." I understand what you mean, so I'll talk to my friend and see if she's willing to make some changes. However, it's a two-way street, and if her husband doesn't like it, what should she do? ”

Fang Zhicheng encouraged: "Just like our investment promotion, if the company does not accept itself at the beginning, or even expresses malicious intentions, then retreat?" Generally, they will choose to face difficulties and grind hard bubbles. ”

Feng smiled: "Although the analogy is not very appropriate, there is still some truth. If my friend succeeds, I'll thank you. ”

Fang Zhicheng waved his hand and said: "Success is secondary, the key is that life has changed, even if they have become estranged from each other because of this matter, but at least she has changed for life, instead of passively accepting the current fate unchanged, this is actually an attempt and breakthrough." ”

Feng sighed lightly and whispered, "Yes, it should have changed." ”

Of course, Fang Zhicheng knew that everything that Feng was worried about came from the cold husband and wife relationship between her and Song Di. The grapevine said that the two have not had children for so many years, and that is because they have not lived as a couple.

Song Di's position in Fang Zhicheng is very special, he is not only the Bole of his own life, but also the teacher of his officialdom, in addition, Feng has always been difficult to get along with in the outside world, but Fang Zhicheng gets along with him, but he feels the softness of Feng's heart. She's just habitually disguising herself as strong. If the relationship between the couple can be eased, this is a very happy thing for Fang Zhicheng.

After lunch, Fang Zhicheng said goodbye and left, after Feng returned to the office, he held his chin and thought for a long time, and then took the initiative to call Song Di, "Are you coming back for dinner tonight?" ”

Song Di was slightly stunned, the two have been living their own lives for so many years, and they don't interfere with each other, why did Feng take the initiative to ask himself today, Song Di felt that something big would happen.

Song Di thought for a while and said, "Originally, there was an event that would be delayed very late, so let's do it, I will push off that activity and come back for dinner in the evening." ”

Seeing Song Di say this, Feng sighed in his heart, and sure enough, as Fang Zhicheng expected, he first tried to break through, and the other party would also stick to him one step. One step closer to each other, such a strange relationship will be eliminated one day.

Feng returned home half an hour early, and it was a little strange for the nanny to see Feng come back so early.

Feng smiled: "I have something to talk to your Uncle Song about in the evening, I asked the secretary to buy you a movie ticket, you can come back after watching the movie." ”

is also a clever person, knowing that Feng hinted that he would make room for the two of them at night, he nodded and said, "Do you want me to make dinner before going out?" ”

Feng shook his head and said, "It's okay, I'll make dinner." The car is waiting outside and the driver will pick you up tonight. ”

nodded, and sighed secretly in my heart, what is wrong with this master today, why is it so abnormal!

More than an hour later, Song Di rang the doorbell at home, found that he didn't come to see the door, frowned slightly, took out the key and pointed it at the keyhole, went into the house to change his shoes, and found that the home was a little dark, the sky outside was dark, and the lights in the house had not been turned on. Song Di was full of doubts, wondering if Feng was afraid that he would not come back, didn't he say that he would let himself come back for dinner, and if he had something important to talk to him?

Song Di sighed, turned around and came to the restaurant, her pupils suddenly dilated, and a beautiful and mature, charming woman sat in the dark, she was wearing a red dress, revealing fragrant shoulders and a beautiful figure.

Song Di suddenly brightened up and smiled: "Is this a surprise for me?" ”

Feng blinked, turned around and turned on the stereo not far away, and the room instantly became a little more emotional.

She smiled and said, "So how are you feeling now, surprise or frightened?" ”

Song Di sighed: "I thought I was in a dream, forget it, I still don't pinch myself, if this is a dream, then let me never wake up." ”

It was the first time Feng had seen Song Di say such an emotional sentence, she lit the candles on the dining table, and the red and bright firelight made her face look lively and charming.

Feng said softly: "Let's make this dream even more dreamy." ”

The two have been married for many years, and the relationship seems to be plain, but it is actually very deep, when one party encounters problems, the other party will not hesitate to help the other party, but there is always a gap that has not been opened.

Tonight is very special, Feng uses an indescribable charm to make Song Di unexpectedly intoxicated.