Chapter Ninety-Seven: Lies X Jokes X Stories (I)
"I, ah, until now there is finally a problem, this problem is probably a problem that should have been shown earlier, sued you earlier, and taken measures earlier, but in terms of results, I failed, isn't this situation strange? I'm pretty confident in myself. , although not as sharp as those celebrities, but in many ways quite sharp, it is better to say that those celebrities are not sharp at all, right? They are always looking at big things, big events, and they don't have the heart to think about other things. I've mentioned this before, but I'm getting it in the wrong direction. To give an example, it's like mistaking Joel for a person who didn't have any sense of responsibility after his daughter's death, but in fact he still protected Ellie, the boss who extinguished the fireflies for Ellie, and didn't accept the so-called future of humanity. ”
Standing at the back of the stall, near the bottom of the stairs leading to the second floor, there is a large space for resting.
Holding a bottle of water, he sat next to Sayou, and the words just now were spoken after she drank half of the bottle of mineral water, and she didn't stop to breathe on the way, this person really still has a powerful place.
As for the example mentioned just now, Sayu quickly knew that the Joel she was talking about was the work of the [Naughty Dog] company that had been secretly open for two years, and had won many game awards in 2o13, such as the game "The End of America" for Best New Work, Best Storyline, Best Game, Player's Favorite Award, and many other awards.
This is a PS4 exclusive game.,But it's perfect in every way.,The only thing that's missing out may be the one-hit kill system.。
However, these words are found on some game forums, and for Sayo, he is very interested in this work even if he rarely plays single-player games.
Of course, Sayou has also made a little unknown preparation for this work, for example, he already knows all the plot flow...... Thinking about it in this way will inevitably make the whole game experience much less enjoyable......
Now is not the time to talk about the game, and Sayu stands up from his position. He didn't quite understand what Luo Zhe said, did she forget to remind herself of something?
"It's a lie, a lie, don't look shocked or puzzled, isn't it quite an easy situation to understand? It's not that you're good at lies, it's that you're a teenager and you can only rely on lies, right? This is not to say that your life is a lie, but it just shows that you often use lies as a teenager. Some people will definitely be dissatisfied with you like this, but I know quite well that the reason why you did it was also a last resort. Right? Are you a liar? ”
"It's not likely, but from the perspective of biological evolution, deception is one of the most basic phenomena in nature. From the deception of the human immune system by the surface proteins of viruses to the mimicry of insects, deception is the ability of organisms to evolve in order to reproduce better. If there really is a disease that can't lie, it's simply a terminal illness. In order to suffer from such a terminal illness, one has to lie, and perhaps the human subconscious is repeating such a message. ”
"I don't know about that, but if it goes on like this. Isn't it weird? You're doing the right thing, but you're using something that's not right......"
"Lies don't have to be wrong, it's Miss Luoshi, you're too nervous. Lying is associated with identity maintenance, self-presentation, and impression management. The 'self' in everyday social life is more or less adapted and packaged, and people usually adjust their expressions and expressions according to the current environment to shape the appropriate image and identity, obtain or improve the emotional support of others, influence the preferences of others, win the approval of others, and so on. The realization of these goals is of great significance to the smooth progress of people's social interactions. ”
To put it bluntly, a false self is better to get along with others, and confessing one's heart to each other will only widen the distance between people.
Although the confession is good, the depth of understanding is also good. But even so, you still feel that it's someone else's business, not your own.
If now Sayou knows the fall of the qiē. I understood all the thoughts in her heart, and that would lead to a distance.
In addition to the guilt of knowing someone else's secret, there is also the fear of not being able to adapt to such a simple and straightforward situation.
If the world becomes too direct, it will only cause chaos, and those who are glamorous on the outside may become lazy squatting at home when they return home, so will they still tell others about this gesture?
Hiding some part of yourself is the true way of life, and straightforward life often leads to unspeakable misfortunes.
It is said that stupid couples are happy, but are those stupid couples really happy?
And what do they get when they open their hearts to each other? What will happen?
"According to you, a young man, this world is really quite dark. Of course, it is understandable that society is very dark, and people's growth is just jumping from one cage to another, but do teenagers really think that this is good? It's nice to have some real seasoning once in a while, isn't it? ”
"Miss Origo didn't pay attention to the analysis of others? Other people's conclusions are not entirely accurate, but they should be brought up here. In addition to the fact that it can be troublesome to be straightforward between people, not only in the adult world, but also in the psychological theory of exhibition psychology, children who can lie mean that they are more able to understand the psychology of others, and tend to have better cognition and higher IQ. Obviously, lies are the main tool for understanding others. ”
Because the use of lies can get closer to the other party and make a consensus between people.
After all, if you lie, you can make up all kinds of reasons to make the other party think that you are on the same side as him, and they are in the same boat.
If both parties have the same sense of crisis, it will be much easier to get along.
Although this principle has not been proven, if two people of the opposite sex are working together for a certain goal, they are likely to care more about each other.
Of course, it's not just about love, but also about other factors or feelings, all of which are decided by the person concerned.
"And Miss Osaruchi. Evolutionary psychology argues that although the human individual is inherently selfish, there are also altruistic behaviors; Altruistic behavior is not only limited to blood relatives, but also exists between strangers, and altruistic behavior based on reciprocity is an important factor in social development. But deception occurs if one party tries to take advantage of the other party's trust in its reciprocity. The act of lying itself will evolve according to the feedback of the results, and as the frequency of lying increases, the other party's ability to recognize gradually improves, and the behavior of lying will become more difficult to identify, and even deceive oneself. This also shows that if you have been living with lies, you will also immerse yourself in lies, and to put it bluntly, lies are like dreams, aren't they? ”
Sayou also gave an example, that is, the once famous movie "Inception", in which the protagonist once stayed with his wife in a deep dream for a long time, and finally led his wife to commit suicide in reality.
Just as lying too much confuses oneself, living too long in a dream is also a way for oneself to understand what reality is over there.
Zuoyou's reality is obvious, you don't need someone to remind yourself, and the reminder of the break, this may be regarded as a transit station for explanation.
"If you explain it according to you, young man, in order to better prevent lies from being revealed, wouldn't people strengthen their ability to deceive themselves? After all, there is a saying that 'only if you deceive yourself, you can deceive others!' This will contribute to the success of the lying act. ”
That's it, don't think that this kind of behavior only brings harm, in fact, this kind of behavior has great benefits. This description is a bit exaggerated, but it is more or less the same, the self-deceived individual is in a more peaceful and healthy state of mind, which is beneficial to his overall suitability, after all, no one will pick some unreliable and sad lie to deceive himself, that will only outweigh the losses. (To be continued......)
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