Everyone may have the same feeling, that is, when faced with things that have nothing to do with them, they will become cold.

This is also a matter of course, because those things must have nothing to do with their own interests, so they will become indifferent.

However, interpersonal communication will amplify this influence, and let one's interests be involved with friends and classmates, and the scope of the impact will become larger, and you have to care.

It is precisely because of this that those who are withdrawn hate to associate with people, and in addition to making people cowardly, there is a certain possibility of getting into trouble with people they know.

But it's not all bad, at least it's a good idea to build a more friendly relationship with other people......

If you think about it carefully, Sayou didn't have any friends originally, not because he didn't want to make friends, but because he didn't find friends with the same interests and hobbies.

In the world of adults, there are many more complexities than you think, which makes it difficult to find someone with the same dream.

Most adults will think about their own interests, their own gains, their own risks, the final result, etc., and because of too many constraints, they dare not do what they want to do.

Unlike children, who can do whatever they want, this is one of the reasons why adults have a hard time understanding children...... There are many differences and differences in values.

In the past, when I was a student, my teacher used to say that I wanted every student to be able to establish their own circle, but that was just wishful thinking on the part of the teacher.

Just like the movie "Confession", there is a passionate teacher in it. I want to have a good relationship with my students and build a harmonious and motivated class, but in fact those students are just cooperating with the teacher.

It's good to smile too. Whether it's friendly or not, it's all a false thing, and people can't help but feel sad and ridiculous.

Perhaps it is the relationship between teachers and teachers, who like to impose values on their students, so that they can continue to move forward according to their own imaginary paths, depriving them of the autonomy that belongs to them.

Since the younger classmates are in the rebellious period, then that kind of method will definitely not succeed. It will only bring failure.

In fact, the so-called circles in schools are just two kinds of differences: 'whether you are suitable for them' and 'whether you are difficult to get along with them'.

The people in the circle described by the former belong to the Present School, and the people who 'find it difficult for them to get along with themselves' are forcibly arranged into the circle of the former. It's just going to cause trouble.

No one is born to be annoying, and of course, no one is born to be liked, and it depends on the change that the day after tomorrow.

Getting along with others is not just a matter of smiling and laughing. There is also a need for more means of communication and learning how to behave in the world.

Guys who are good at getting along with others can easily complete the task of forming circles. In turn, the guys who are not good at it will only be excluded from the circle.

However, it would be a mistake to take the liberty of treating people who are excluded from the circle as miserable people, because such people often have characteristics that others do not have.

It's not that lonely people are special, at least they have to be more objective in their way of looking at things.

Because you don't have to care about balance, because you don't have to worry about the thoughts of the people around you, because you don't need to force yourself to make others accept.

As the so-called disobedience to the ear, this is probably the case. Guys who are excluded from the circle are often able to see the center of the matter clearly. Point out the vulnerabilities it has.

But just as water only flows downward, people's thinking always follows the current.

Once that guy deliberately stirs up a wave, it will be seen as a rebellious act and will be washed away by the raised rock.

Flowing with the current, gently blending into the crowd is the way of smart people, but there is no courage to do so.

Water flows lower because of gravity, so what is the purpose of climbing high? Overcoming gravity?

No, that's impossible, and the reason why people go to higher places is just because people want to figure out what other people are doing by looking down.

Because the height is enough, you can see where you want to see and understand what the people around you are doing.

After all, no one doesn't worry that the people around them will do things harmful to them.

It's as if a sound has a time to travel, and sooner or later the troubles that arise will reach your ears, so those who stand on a high place want to see the troubles beforehand.

After all, light travels many times faster than sound, so people in high places can know about trouble in advance.

Those at the top of the class can see a lot of things......

The feelings of the popular being confessed, the unpopular being bullied, and the feelings embraced by ordinary people, to put it bluntly, are the rights of the winner.

However, like the victor, the lonely person has the ability to look at most problems from an ordinary point of view, and there is bound to be a contradiction between the two.

This is the same as one mountain does not tolerate two tigers, so there will be a situation where the current charge bullies the non-current charge.

Sayou takes this qiē for granted, and that's why Sayou can see certain things very thoroughly and understand what they are thinking.

Immediately after, Sayou, who learns about this idea, has a responsibility to maintain the status quo.

Therefore, the difficulties faced by Jiushi, the thoughts that lingered in her heart, she couldn't sit still, just watch from the side.

Although it was said before that I hoped that Jiushi would solve it by himself, but sure enough, Sayou hopes to be able to contribute, because Sayou ...... That's the only way to survive.

In addition to maintaining his own current life, he also wants to maintain the present of other people, and does not want a huge change to happen.

"Jiushi, this sentence may not be my turn to say, but you, you don't need to care about other things besides now."

"It's true that it's not your turn, because you're obviously a person who always cares about things around you, and you let me only look at my present, but I'm ...... Also understood. ”

Knowing Sayou's thoughts, even so, Jiushi still didn't show a real smile.

Now that Jiushi is working alone, she should know what to do.

Having said all this, human life is really so wonderful.

It is full of infinite possibilities, but after contacting it, you will find that those possibilities may no longer exist.

So, where should we go next? (To be continued......)