VIP Chapter Table of Contents Chapter 165 Talking to Father-in-law about Development

It was Wang Zerong and Lu Hanyan who went to Xiang Nan's home for the first time. It is strict along the way, if it weren't for the secretary Pei Yifei, he wouldn't be able to enter this gate.

The home of the provincial party secretary! Wang Zerong really couldn't believe that he would one day walk into such a family, and he would still be a son-in-law.

"Xiao Mi!" Xu Sumei saw Lu Hanyan entering the door, and was so excited that she ran forward and took her hand and sat on the sofa.

After the enlightenment of Wang Zerong and Lu Qingfen, Lu Hanyan finally accepted this reality, and Wang Zerong took her to Xiang Nan's home.

Although Xiang Nan's home is very magnificent, Lu Hanyan doesn't have any feelings about this qiē, she still feels that her home in Kaihe is warmer. Now Lu Hanyan's heart is full of a kind of timidity, she feels a kind of fear, afraid that this qiē is a dream, thinking of Lu Qingfen waiting in the villa, she can give birth to a real family feeling for Zhong Qingfen.

Xiang Nan looked at Lu Hanyan and said: "Xiao Mi, for so many years, we have found many places, and we are thinking about you all the time, we are all very happy that you can go home." Xiang Nan seemed very calm when he spoke, but Wang Zerong could still see a kind of joy in his expression.

Xu Sumei took out a photo album and told Zhong Hanyan about her childhood while flipping through it.

Seeing Xu Sumei's excited appearance, Wang Zerong was also happy for Xu Sumei, as a mother, she should care very much about her daughter.

Lu Hanyan gradually integrated into Xu Sumei's family affection, and the two talked about the situation after the separation of the two parties.

"Zerong, come to my study." Xiang Nan smiled and looked at the situation of Lu Hanyan and Xu Sumei for a while, then stood up and beckoned to Wang Zerong.

Wang Zerong hurriedly stood up and followed Xiang Nan.

Xiang Nandi's study is very large. An array of books of all sorts is plentiful in the bookcase. Xiang Nan sat down on a chair first. Said to Wang Zerong: "Sit down and talk." "Now he has that kind of majesty of a superior.

Wang Zerong walked to the chair opposite Xiang Nan and sat down.

"Zerong. We only have Xiaomi, our daughter. Missing for so many years. Be able to get her back. We are all very happy about this. More than 20 years have passed. Xiao Mi is married. As a father. I feel like I owe her a lot! This is very sad to say.

Heard what Xiang Nan said. Wang Zerong said: "Hanyan has lived a very happy life since he was a child. Her adoptive mother was very kind to her. ”

Xiang Nan nodded and said, "I've asked people to check on this." Lu Qingfen is really good to Xiao Mi. A woman puts all her energy on Xiao Midi. ”

"Zerong, since you and Xiao Mi have received a marriage certificate, you are now her husband, I want to hear your plans for the future." Xiang Nan looked at Wang Zerong and said. In fact, with Wang Zerong's conditions, if it weren't for Lu Hanyan's special circumstances, it would be impossible for him to marry Lu Hanyan, and the Xiang family is not a small door.

Wang Zerong said: "I feel that my life in Kaihe is not bad now, and I will work hard step by step." ”

Xiang Nandao: "I have been paying attention to your situation, although you have a lot of accidents in your development, but this also shows that you are a person who can seize opportunities, but you may not have found it yourself, and you have not really faced the reality so far." ”

Wang Zerong really didn't know how much Xiang Nan knew about him, and when he heard what Xiang Nan said, he looked at Xiang Nan inquiringly.

Xiang Nandao: "You are Xiao Mi's husband, I don't want Xiao Mi to suffer any more, so, I hope you can bring her a happy life, as my only son-in-law, you have to adapt to your life as much as possible." From these words, he also expressed his dissatisfaction with Wang Zerong's current ability, looking at Wang Zerong from Xiang Nan's eyes, Wang Zerong is simply a person who has no understanding of officialdom, and in the long run, Wang Zerong will definitely not be able to go far, Xiang Nan also learned about Wang Zerong's development history through his own channels, and also understood the relationship between Wang Zerong and the so-called provincial leaders, and soon discovered Wang Zerong's many accidents, while feeling funny, he also took care of Wang Zerong's son-in-law, He hopes that Wang Zerong can grow as much as possible

Xiang Nan seems to have a deep apology for Lu Hanyan, so he also wants to help Wang Zerong, his son-in-law, as much as possible.

"Zerong, I also know your current situation in Kaihe, don't look at the scenery, but can you really solve those problems? What I want to tell you is some of my impressions over the years. ”

Hearing this, Wang Zerong immediately paid attention to it, Xiang Nan can become the secretary of the provincial party committee, there should be a lot of officialdom experience, he is willing to point himself, this really sees himself as a family.

"As the old saying goes, if you want to take it, you must give it first. I don't know if you really understand the truth? ”

Xiang Nan looked at Wang Zerong.

Wang Zerong

This is the principle of giving. ”

Nodding, Xiang Nan said: "Yes, the words "give and de" are very easy to understand, almost everyone knows this truth, but there are a few people who can really use these two words well, these two words are very important in the officialdom, you must use your heart to understand, these two words contain the way to be an official." There is no absolute in officialdom, any kind of attempt to take advantage of other people's weakness, ignorance or needs to benefit themselves is undesirable, this officialdom is even more so, officials who can be constantly polished from the grassroots, no one can see them as ignorant people, if anyone looks at them like this, then he does not understand this officialdom at all, if you can really deal with the sacrifice and have to deal with it in the officialdom, you are half the success, this thing is easier said than done! ”

Seeing Wang Zerong pondering, Xiang Nan smiled slightly, Wang Zerong's development is too fast, many things have not really been seen clearly, from what he has learned, Wang Zerong in the county self-righteous division of the Standing Committee members into the camp of friends and enemies, his style in Kaihe can not satisfy Xiang Nan, this is simply that he did not understand the officialdom, especially Wang Zerong in the Kaihe County Standing Committee does not have a few real hardcore subordinates, so that Xiang Nan has some worries for him, which shows that Wang Zerong has not understood this way of willingness.

After Wang Zerong thought for a while, Xiang Nan continued: "The wisdom, courage and harmonious landscape that a person presents are the result of strength, why can't some people gather a group of people to follow around them, the key point is that he didn't let people see his strength, courage, generosity and compassion from him, you are now in Kaihe also have such a situation, have you thought about it, why are people willing to follow you, you don't show people your strength, no one is a fool, How will people follow you? ”

Wang Zerong said: "At the same level, everyone is about the same, what can I give to others?" ”

Xiang Nandao: "People's ** is inseparable, you can't give others what you don't have, if you want to master the right to speak, you must first have energy, this energy is multifaceted, to make people feel that you can progress with you, in order to get greater benefits." What you said just now is not right, you think that you do not have something that you can give to others, this is wrong, each person's needs are different, maybe the things you don't value are what others need, this lies in a kind of balance and exchange, you have to work more in this area in the future, sometimes some reasonable exchange can make you get great benefits from it. ”

Wang Zerong felt as if he understood something, but he couldn't say what he understood.

Xiang Nan knew that it was not difficult for Wang Zerong to understand this, but it was not possible to really use these in officialdom in a day or two, he could only click on it now, and it was up to Wang Zerong himself to do it.

As soon as the topic changed, Xiang Nan asked: "Zerong, I thought about it for a while, you have two options now, one is that I will help you transfer to the provincial capital and go to a certain department to take up a position first, but the position will not be high, and it will develop slowly, this road is good for everyone, Xiaomi can also be transferred back, and she can often return home." The other way is to continue to work in the county and develop step by step, which is a bit difficult. ”

Wang Zerong thought carefully about the situation of the two roads, although the road to the province is good, but if he really gets to the province, he will become useless if he finally makes a qiē, and Wang Zerong is also a little arrogant, he doesn't want to live under Xiang Nan's halo all the time, he wants to rely on his own ability to fight a world, although he is still a novice in the officialdom, but, with the kind of peculiarity he has, he doesn't believe that even Kaihe's officialdom can't be leveled.

"I still want to develop in Kaihe." Wang Zerong said to Xiang Nan.

In fact, Xiang Nan said two ways to see Wang Zerong's ambitions, if Wang Zerong really chose the first way, he would feel that Wang Zerong did not cultivate a future, now seeing that Wang Zerong chose to continue to stay in Kaihe, a smile appeared on his face, and said to Wang Zerong: "I'm glad that you can choose to stay in Kaihe, this is what I want you to do, don't look at Kaihe is a little complicated now, I believe that if you can cope with the complex situation of Kaihe, it will be very useful for your next development." Speaking of this, Xiang Nan said to Wang Zerong: "Kaihe County is a place for you to train, I won't help you a little more, everything is up to you to solve, unless I have to, I will take action, in addition, the matter that Xiao Mi is my daughter will not be spread out, and you will not have any leverage." ”

Wang Zerong nodded and said: "I understand that if I can develop with my own ability, this is a kind of exercise for my own ability, and I will do it with my heart." ”