Chapter 6 Sophisticated Human Feelings
After coming out of China Merchants and getting into the car, Hou Shuai frowned and asked, "District Chief Li." Are you going to let go of those who play mahjong during work hours? ”
Li Xiaoning smiled slightly and said, "Otherwise, what else?" I am an assistant to the district head, not the secretary of the Commission for Discipline Inspection. ”
"But it's too cheap for them! Besides, you weren't the secretary of the Commission for Discipline Inspection before. Hou Shuai muttered. He had also heard of Li Xiaoning's prestige, and knew that when Li Xiaoning was serving in Binhai, he pulled down many corrupt officials and corrupt officials. So this time he was able to be Li Xiaoning's secretary, he was full of passion, and he desperately hoped to follow Li Xiaoning to do a great job. Unexpectedly, he arrested China Merchants this time, but Li Xiaoning couldn't plan to do it, which greatly hit his enthusiasm.
"You. It's the same as when I first graduated. Li Xiaoning seemed to see through Hou Shuai's thoughts, and scolded with a smile. If it was in the past, he might have dealt with the affairs of China Merchants Bureau vigorously, and he would have punished a group of people, including Xiao Yiyang, at any cost, but now he would not do it. Because he is now standing at a higher height, his vision is broader, and his thinking is more comprehensive.
"Is it only slick that is mature?" Hou Shuai held back for a long time, but finally couldn't hold it back, and asked a slightly sarcastic question.
Li Xiaoning originally didn't plan to explain too much to Hou Shuai, because now Hou Shuai is still young and his mind is not mature enough, so he naturally stays on the surface when he sees things. Li Xiaoning also came from this stage, and naturally knows that young people in this period cannot listen to "good words and persuasions", because they think that they are right, and the so-called "good words" are just some outdated loser's remarks.
But Li Xiaoning saw his own shadow in Hou Shuai, he planned to treat Hou Shuai as a partner, not just a secretary, so he felt that it was necessary to make his words clearer, otherwise there would be an estrangement between the two people, and it would be difficult to get along with each other sincerely.
After a slight sigh, Li Xiaoning opened his mouth and said, "Xiaohou, have you heard a sentence?" It's called -- there are no eternal friends, no eternal enemies, only eternal interests. ”
"Heard!" Hou Shuai hesitated for a moment, but replied honestly.
"What do you think?" Li Xiaoning asked again.
"It's too pragmatism, ignoring human feelings." Hou Shuai expressed his opinion.
Li Xiaoning smiled slightly and said: "You said that this sentence ignores people's feelings, and the implication is to admit that this sentence is too rational. ”
"That's not what I meant." Hou Shuai hurriedly argued.
"And what do you mean?" Li Xiaoning asked rhetorically.
"I ...... I don't know what I mean. Hou Shuai said helplessly. He subconsciously resisted this sentence, but he had to admit that this sentence was still a big truth, and it could even be said to be the truth.
"I actually know what you mean." Li Xiaoning breathed a long sigh of relief and said, "Our people have been imperceptibly influenced by Confucianism since childhood. It is believed that in life, we must pay attention to benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith. However, this sentence strips away all morality and emotion, and summarizes the relationship between people as a naked relationship of interests. It sounds uncomfortable, but it hits the nail on the head. Have you ever wondered why some people are prosperous and some people are poor?"
"I've thought about it." Hou Shuai replied honestly, "There are many reasons for this, including personal ability, social relationships, opportunities, etc. ”
"Have you ever thought that except for those with particularly outstanding abilities and those with particularly poor abilities, most of the other people's abilities are similar?" Li Xiaoning asked again.
"I didn't think about it. But you're right. Hou Shuai seemed to understand what Li Xiaoning was going to say, and his tone began to be less rebellious.
"As for chance, it's luck. It may be that in some periods of time, some people have had particularly good luck and some people have had particularly bad luck. But if you extend the time to a certain span, say ten or twenty years, do you think the sum of the luck of most people is actually about the same? Li Xiaoning continued to say seductively.
"Yes!" Hou Shuai replied helplessly again. Because he found out that what Li Xiaoning said was also TMD's truth, and the truth could not be refuted.
"Since everyone's abilities and luck are similar, but their achievements are very different, or even worlds apart, it seems that the key to success is actually in social relations." Li Xiaoning said with a teasing smile on the corner of his mouth.
"This ......" Hou Shuai found that he had jumped into the pit he had dug, and he jumped straight into it. He wanted to say that what Li Xiaoning said was wrong, but he couldn't find a reason to refute it at all. And he found that the truth is really so simple, that it only takes a simple method of elimination to reach a conclusion, but it is such a simple truth, a truth that is close at hand and within reach, that almost everyone, including himself, has not discovered. Or rather, people selectively ignore that the key to success is actually social relationships.
Li Xiaoning actually didn't plan to listen to Hou Shuai's answer, because he knew that Hou Shuai couldn't answer this question, so he continued: "In this world, there are talented 'poor people' everywhere. They are only eight years old, rich in learning, and even have the ability to go to heaven and earth, but why did they end up poor and unaccomplished? And many people who are not talented can become famous and proud? It's all two shoulders and one head, why is life so different? ”
"Why?" This time, Hou Shuai didn't answer, but asked subconsciously. Because he found these seemingly simple things, he really didn't know anything. You can only ask for advice honestly.
Li Xiaoning himself sighed, and then said: "The reason is that people are sophisticated!" In a certain way, whether you understand the sophistication of people determines whether a person's life is prosperous or poor! When Li Xiaoning said this, his expression was a little gloomy, because these truths sound so bullshit, but they are real truths. And he himself has gone through so much before he began to understand.
After adjusting his sitting posture, Li Xiaoning continued: "Successful people are people who understand this. They read the nature of society and the unspoken rules of interpersonal communication, know what the other person needs, know what the other person is thinking in their heads - if you want to catch a fish, you have to think like a fish! What is the secret to success? In fact, it is very simple, just four words of sophistication.
If a person wants to mix up a little bit, he must understand the world! This is a basic requirement. If you don't understand the world, don't mix it up as soon as possible. Because it was doomed from the beginning that there was no possibility of success, it would only be a waste of energy to toss like this.
In fact, as long as you think about it a little, you can come up with a lot of facts around you. You will find that a really smart person behaves and does things just right, and not only reaps real benefits, but also loses a good reputation; And some people are knife-mouthed and tofu-hearted, and they do a lot of favors to others, but none of them say that they are good, and they have cultivated many enemies around them. This is mostly because of the ignorance of human feelings.
It's easy to live, it's easy to live, it's not easy to live. There are too many people in our country, and the pressure to survive is too great, if you want to mix well and make a name for yourself outside, you must let yourself know a little bit of the rules of the game. Life is like a game, people who don't understand the rules of the game will eventually die ugly, and people who are skilled in the rules of the game can have a good time in the game, have fun, and play what they want! ”
Li Xiaoning's words made Hou Shuai fall silent. He needed some time to digest these seemingly sleek words, because although he didn't want to admit them, he understood that these words were actually true, and they were the truths that broke the unspoken rules of life! At the same time, he also understands that this is the advice that Li Xiaoning summed up with countless predecessors and his own painful experience.
After a while, Li Xiaoning continued: "You now understand why I didn't punish those people from China Merchants, right?" When you are wise, you are wise, and when you are stupid, you are stupid. When necessary, it is also wise to be a 'fool'.
If I had to be black and white, and if I had to stab the affairs of those people in China Merchants to the Commission for Discipline Inspection, those people would just be warned and demerited. That would do us no good at all, except for a few more people who hold grudges against us, and for what we are going to do. ”
"But...... But it's so cheap, they really feel like it's a bag, and it's also damaging to your prestige. Hou Shuai hesitated, but once again fulfilled his duties as a secretary and expressed his opinion.
Li Xiaoning said with a meaningful smile on his face: "You haven't thought about it, why did I ask you to write down those people, and why did you report to me in front of Xiao Yiyang?" ”
"You mean...... Hou Shuai's eyes lit up, "I understand." High, really high. Hou Shuai happily patted his ass.
"Drive well! Who's the one who hit it? Li Xiaoning scolded with a smile. This smile is genuine. Because he knew that Hou Shuai had already understood. This shows that this young man's comprehension ability is still good, he can keep up with his own pace, and he can become a qualified assistant and tacit partner.
Li Xiaoning really didn't plan to report what he found today to the Commission for Discipline Inspection, but he did let people, including Xiao Yiyang, know that he had evidence that they were not doing their job. To put it mildly, that is, the pigtails of Xiao Yiyang and others have been held in his hands now.
People's thinking is actually very strange, when one of their own small mistakes is grasped by others but not exposed, the heart will infinitely magnify the bad consequences. As Li Xiaoning said, the people in China Merchants are actually some small mistakes, at most they are enough warnings, demerits, etc., but if they have these evidence but do not make it public, Xiao Yiyang and others will obediently stand on Li Xiaoning's side. As for the rectification of work style, there is no need to worry, Xiao Yiyang will definitely work hard to rectify it, because he has to make up for it.
Therefore, if it weren't for Hou Shuai's interruption, Li Xiaoning's thinking would have already begun to think about things that really need to consume his brain. And this brain-consuming thing, the first thing that came to mind was Yu Tong.
PS: Some readers said that one chapter a day can't be high. Shouldn't that be more? Isn't it? Forget it, let's have more than 200 words in this chapter!