Chapter 10031: Propose Relatives (Ask for Subscription!) ）

The Xu family's mansion, the old Xu family's family has finally gotten together, knowing that Xu Yinglong is coming back today, even the old man has a rare day off.

In the living room, the family is chatting around the sofa, and the small teapot on the coffee table is boiling mellow tea.

Seeing that the tea was almost boiled, Xiaomei immediately sat up and lifted the teapot and poured a cup for everyone one by one, and then took the teapot to the kitchen to fill it with water and continue to boil.

Seeing her daughter so obedient and well-behaved, Xiao Ruoying couldn't help but say: "Xiaoying has really grown up, I really don't know if I will be a good boy from that family in the future!" ”

Xu Ying's mother's sudden words made Xu Ying ashamed, her face turned red to the base of her neck all of a sudden, and she said angrily: "Mom, what are you talking about, you are only 18 years old this year, you are still a minor, and you are still far from getting married!" ”

"Hehe, 18 years old is not young, you girl has lived in China since she was a child, and she doesn't know the outside world. Have you also spent some time in Indonesia and know what is the legal age of marriage for Indonesian girls? Mother said with a smile.

"I really know this, isn't it 16 years old. But what you are talking about is a remote mountainous area, and the real metropolis is actually similar to our country, such as Jakarta, Surabaya, Medan and other places, where girls generally get married two or three years after graduating from university. Xu Ying said immediately.

"Oh, how do you know?" Xu Da said in surprise.

"Some time ago, the little president of Indonesia held a wedding for his son, you shouldn't have forgotten this!"

"Knowing this, didn't you also attend that wedding? How. Did you know that at that time? Xu Da asked with a smile.

"Well, I chatted with the bride for a while. That's what she told me. The little sister nodded and said.

Xu Yinglong smiled and said, "Mom, the situation in Indonesia is different from ours. It is a multi-ethnic country, and many places have the habit of marrying early, and it is too normal to get married and have children at the age of 15 or 6. However, our country is very strict in the management of this, except for some bitter cold places in the mountains and wilderness, there are few places where parents agree to their children to marry before the age of 20. ”

The mother smiled and said, "Girl, you will be an adult in a few days, what gift do you want?" ”

The little sister looked at everyone, and then said, "I just want the whole family to have a happy meal together, not only you." Even the two sisters-in-law and Xiao Ling'er are here. ”

Hearing that Xiaomei's request was so simple, Xu Yinglong couldn't help but be moved. The other three elders of the Xu family were silent for a while, and then looked at the little sister with more loving eyes.

Xu Yinglong immediately said: "No problem, when the time comes, I promise to fulfill your wish, and my brother will hold a lively coming-of-age ceremony for you!" ”

"Thank you, brother!"

"Girl, you're about to become an adult, can Mom ask you a question?"

"Mom, what's wrong with you, why are you suddenly polite. You're giving me goosebumps all over my body! The little sister looked at her mother with a wary look and said.

The mother glanced at the little sister and said, "Mom just wants to ask if you have a boyfriend?" Look scares you! ”

The little sister patted her chest and said, "I'm scared to death, I thought you were going to ask something, I'll tell you the truth." I didn't! ”

"How is it possible, why don't you have a boyfriend when you go to college, and my daughter is so beautiful. How can there be no boy pursuit? Mother said incredulously.

"Mom, I've only been in college for a few days and won't be in college. Besides, not having a boyfriend doesn't mean no one to pursue! In fact, none of the people who pursued me in the school had a regiment and a battalion. It's just that I think they are too naïve and irresponsible, so I didn't agree to be friends with them! The little sister said proudly.

"Oh, I didn't expect my Xiaoying to be so attractive, so tell your mother what kind of boy you like?" Mother asked again.

"The person who wants to marry me must be a real man who stands up to the sky, he can be handsome, he can be from an ordinary background, and he can have no money. But he has to really like me, and he has to have a sense of responsibility. The little sister replied.

"Hehehe, I didn't expect my girl to have this vision, not bad!" Mother said with a smile.

"Of course, a real man will create a blue sky for the girl he likes through his hard-working hands, and he will step on the wide avenue through his solid legs, and step on the colorful auspicious clouds to marry the girl he loves! And men who don't have a sense of responsibility are bastards who think with their lower bodies, and they may even juggle between several women, well, just like my brother. ”

Xu Yinglong smiled bitterly: "You girl, just say it, why do you have to get involved with me, really!" If your two sisters-in-law were here, your brother and I wouldn't have been miserable by you! ”

"You've said it all, two sisters-in-law! You think this is the old society, you can still have three wives and four concubines, Hanlei's sister-in-law is so good to you, not to mention that you ruined people, not only did they not send you to prison, but also gave you children. In the most difficult time for our family, it was my sister-in-law who came forward to help us and did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to hire a lawyer for you. It's good for you, I hooked up with Ruoxi's sister-in-law just a few days after returning to school, fortunately, Hanlei's sister-in-law has a good temper, otherwise I would have fallen out with you if I was in the middle of it! The little sister said.

"Girl, this matter is not as simple as you think, you can talk to your sister-in-law when you go back, and you will know that you have wronged me!" Xu Yinglong smiled bitterly.

The mother also smiled and said, "Girl, it's actually wrong for you to say this about your brother. It's not that you can't criticize your brother, nor do you support your brother's three wives and four concubines, but as a woman, what kind of partner to find is not to find the best man, but to find the most suitable. ”

"The most suitable?" Xu Ying looked at her mother suspiciously.

"Girl, what you just said is also a bit reasonable, once a woman chooses a man who has no sense of responsibility, she will be like a kite tied to a silk thread, floating around and never finding her direction, never being steady, and the higher she floats, the more painful she will fall. No matter how successful a man is, it is difficult to give a woman a sense of security if he lacks a sense of responsibility. ”

The mother continued: "Many women may feel that their partner is not satisfactory in some way, but what kind of man is the best? In fact, there is no best man at all, only a man who is suitable for himself. As with most things in the world, no man is the absolute best, and no man is really worthless. Some men may be very considerate, some can earn money, some are very family-oriented, some are very emotional, and some men can solve anything smoothly when they are widely accommodated, but it is basically impossible for these advantages to appear in the same person. ”

So when a woman has a man, if she wants to be really happy, what she needs to do with her heart is not to desperately find what he is inferior to others, but to try to find out where he is better than others. Looking at the good side of everything will always make life more optimistic, and the same is true for treating partners. Seeing more shortcomings reduces satisfaction, which in turn compromises happiness. ”

"Perhaps, but it seems a little early for you to tell me this, and I may understand it when I'm in love. But anyway, I still think that a man's sense of responsibility is the most important, and I think that when our family suffered a great change the year before last, those who had pursued me and those who were chasing me all shrank back like hot hands, lest our family would affect them. At that time, you were not with me, and my brother was also arrested, and if it wasn't for Hanlei's sister-in-law suddenly appearing and lending me a helping hand, I don't know if I would have survived. The little sister said in a deep voice.

"Hey, it's not early, in fact, Mom has other meanings for telling you these things today!" Mother said.

"What do you mean?" Xiaomei hurriedly asked.

"Someone proposed to me and your dad and wanted us to marry you!" Mother said in amazement.

"What?"

"How is that possible?" Xu Yinglong and Xiaomei were both shocked. (To be continued.) )