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Zhu Yushen was speechless for a while, and didn't know how to answer her. Xiao Rong paused for a moment, and without waiting for him to answer, she continued: "I only learned later that girls nowadays are too high-minded. Some of the girl's parents are also short-sighted, and they expect to get a lot of oil and water out of their future son-in-law. If they can't meet their demands for the time being, they won't agree, and they don't care what kind of life their daughter can live in the future. ”

Zhu Yushen interjected: "It should be said that many girls and their parents can't look at problems from the perspective of development. ”

Xiao Rong sank her face and retorted: "Don't just say that girls are bad!" A lot of men are also very sour. Their own conditions are not very good, and they also require girls to look like and how they look, to have formal jobs, and to have family conditions that are not bad. Those who do not meet the requirements are unwilling to marry. What kind of teacher should be matched with teacher, what kind of worker should be matched with worker, and what kind of bank should be matched with post office. They are quite narcissistic, too.

As a result, there are many people who are not too young, and they have not yet married a wife, and they deserve it! To tell you the truth, when Shen Bing and his wife first introduced me, I also thought you were sour. Because I met an elementary school teacher before, he couldn't accept a peasant girl who didn't have a formal job.

But you took the initiative to come to my house, and you did well. After I went to you, when I thought about it, I made up my mind. ”

Zhu Yushen was a little stunned, he stopped, and asked rhetorically: "If you don't make up your mind that day, then won't I be finished?" Or are we not sure if we can do it? ”

Xiao Rong said: "Do you think it is so easy to marry a girl as a wife? ”

Zhu Yushen said: "This is true! ”

Since then, Zhu Yushen's life has changed a lot, and he has moved to live on the street. Previously, his life was largely confined to the area around the school. Just occasionally go to town to buy something. Now he has to go back and forth between the school, the house in the town, and Xiao Rong's house.

If it's good weather. When he and Xiao Rong were resting again. The two of them would ride together to some nearby attractions and enjoy the joy of falling in love. Sometimes I would take Nanzi to the county seat by car. Every time he went to the county seat, Zhu Yushen would generously buy a lot of food and toys for Nanzi, and occasionally he would ask Xiao Rong to help Nanzi buy a new set of clothes, so that he could dress brightly like children of the same age.

But every time she spent a little more money on Nanzi, Xiao Rong was not very happy. Zhu Yushen also understands her feelings. After all, people are selfish, and she has paid so much for her son. At least not in a short period of time, it is unlikely to pay off.

If her sister Xiao Huifang had a normal life, it would be different. In that case, she is spending money on Nanzi now, and when she has a child in the future, her sister will definitely return it and spend the money on her child.

Zhu Yu doesn't think so. He told Xiao Rong that Nanzi used to be poorly dressed and dirty, and some women once scolded him for being like a cat vomiting. In this case, those of us who are more relatives as difficult children. is responsible. If you let it go, you don't care about anything. There will definitely be people scolded behind your back. At a young age, the child almost lost his parents, which is tragic enough. Shouldn't it be better to spend some money on him and make his life a little better? Why do we want to recompense for good deeds?

In fact, whenever he did something for Nanzi, looking at Nanzi's little face with a bright smile, it also made him feel great relief and satisfaction in his heart. That's enough, he thought.

If no one cares about the troubled son, if he survives tenaciously, he will most likely have a revenge mentality when he grows up. It may also spell disaster for his relatives who were once indifferent to him. Isn't it a good thing to help them at a small cost, and at the same time get a good mood and benefit the body and mind?

Xiao Rong listened to these words and thought: Shen Bing's wife once said that Zhu Yushen can not only write but also speak, and it is true. It's just that they haven't gotten married yet, but they already have a child by their side, which always makes her feel awkward.

At this time, Xiao Rong already had a huge sense of dependence on Zhu Yushen. I think he is really more mature, although he is not a year older than her. He's the kind of person who makes people feel safe. She knows that many girls nowadays don't like boys of her age, because most of those gay men are impulsive and sloppy. When talking about the object, he also likes to be willful, sometimes good and sometimes bad, giving people a great sense of uncertainty.

And those men who are the age of their uncles, after years of tempering, are much calmer, and have also formed more mature values and outlook on life. In this way, naïve and sensual girls are easily convinced by them and seduced by them. It's okay if these men are single, but it's a big deal to combine with them to be an old husband and a young wife. But it is different for those who have been under siege, and the ending is most likely to end in tragedy.

Reports of such incidents are everywhere, which also leaves the girls at a loss. But Xiao Rong thought that she herself was lucky, meeting such a young man who was not very old and unmarried, but his thinking had reached the level of maturity of her uncle, wasn't the chance of this kind of thing happening very small? Isn't it worth her secretly rejoicing? So after she and her mother got angry, she took the initiative to propose to Zhu Yushen that she would get a marriage certificate after New Year's Day.

In Zhu Yushen's consciousness, love needs to be constantly cultivated and watered, and there is also a compromise with his lover. In today's society, in silence, personality has been greatly expanded. If both men and women only act according to their own will, the result will definitely be a huge conflict and even collapse the relationship with each other. Whenever he saw a grand, lavish wedding, he thought it didn't seem to prove anything, because it wasn't proportional to the degree of love.

If the wedding is unprecedented, and after a few years, the two go their separate ways, then the wedding becomes a farce.

Therefore, whenever Zhu Yushen attends the wedding of colleagues or relatives, he expresses cautious optimism about the words or vows of those newlyweds under the master of ceremonies.

Since he didn't know much about those people, he came to witness their love, which also made him uneasy.

Once, at the wedding scene of a couple of colleagues who had been divorced and reunited, when he heard those beautiful words, he was so impulsive that he almost rushed forward to slap his mouth - how can you explain what you have said in the past?

He felt that in such an occasion, since everything was a fait accompli, it would be better to say nothing at all. Over the years, his words and deeds, and his creations, have basically maintained this core value. (To be continued......)