Chapter 164: Two people's worries
"What we have to value is the man's self-motivation and diligence. Is there any sincerity to be good to yourself? These are the most tangible things. It's much better than what you think about good-looking, family background and ability. β
Li Feng leaned on the pillow, hugged his sister and said softly: "Skills are all learned, stupid nothing." If you are diligent and learn a few more times, you will be able to do so. If you are self-motivated, you will learn. If you don't have this mind, no matter how capable you are, you will become incapable. β
"When we look for a man, we naturally have to find something good for ourselves. He's not good to himself, so what is he looking for?! He is sincere to you, hardworking and self-motivated. That's it. The others, he can earn by working hard. Maybe later, but he'll be good to you. β
Li Feng said, sighed and said softly: "Liu Er is stunned, the environment in his home is very good. Now that they are motivated, there are also many girls who want to deal with other people. But they don't want to think about it, while you are picking others. Aren't people picking on you?! β
Li Feng's words made Li Lan's chick nod like pecking rice. It's really like this, after some of my classmates' friends knew that they were with Peng Laosan, they all thought why didn't they look for Liu Er? !
Liu Er was stunned by his family background, but his father was the leader of the field. And his ability is not bad, now he is doing external contact for Liang Sanping, and he will travel to Wancheng, Wenchang and Qiongzhoukou on business if he has nothing to do.
But what about Peng Laosan?! Basically, he stayed here in the treasure pavilion, which made people bored. plus Peng Laosan's previous reputation and what happened last time. Many girls feel that he is still a little worse than Liu Erzi.
"Of course, I'm not saying that Liu Er is not good. He is also very good and hardworking. But the environment at home is better, and the people are capable. Naturally, I have to pick you! What do you have that he has to marry?! β
Li Feng hugged his sister and said with a smile: "The man's family is looking for a wife." It's much more realistic than our girl's family looking for a man. Liu Er was stunned like this, it would be more realistic. He thinks more about whether you are beautiful or not, whether you are good or not, but whether you are suitable or not. β
Li Lan nodded desperately, in fact, she also knew some things. Many people who went to talk to Liu Er's family told Liu Er's family to come back. Some of them met with someone once, and it was not appropriate for the matchmaker.
You're picking on someone. Aren't people picking on you?! Bamboo door to bamboo door, wooden door to wooden door. As the old saying goes, dreams are right, and many times the deep-rooted survival zΓ i is present in people's minds.
People may not usually bring it up, but when they really encounter marital problems, they will consider it. Marriage, in the end, is not a matter of one person. It's two families, and if it's a new group of families, then it's going to be a matter of three families.
In the mutual run-in between families, if the gap between the two sides is too large, then it will cause mutual dissatisfaction and rejection. The new family is sandwiched in the middle, and it is difficult to talk inside and out. Both ends are angry.
Marriage is indeed a personal matter. But it's never just a personal issue. Mishandled words. Then you will be extremely stressed in your life, work, and even mentally. This can even affect your future life and plans.
"The third person is not a bad person. In the past, I did something out of tune, but now people have changed. Work hard to learn the ability and work diligently. It's not bad. β
Li Feng hugged his sister and said softly: "You go down, I think this man can be relied on and entrusted." That's enough. What do other people think, why do you care so much?! It's you who live with him for the rest of your life, not them. β
"Those people don't have back pain when they stand and talk. Look only at the surface and not the inside. Whether you will be doing well in the future or not, that's your business. It has nothing to do with them. That being the case. Why don't you listen to your own and listen to them?! β
Li Lan hugged her sister and was silent for a while before saying, "Sister, I know." I know how to do it. β
Li Feng nodded with satisfaction and said to his sister: "It's good that you know how to do it, this matter is your own business after all." You're the one who makes the decisions. As an older sister, I can only sue you for one thing. β
"We can make any choice. Any decision can be made. But what we need to know is that the choices and decisions we make today will cost us in the future. Is this price good or bad. It's all the result of our decisions today. So, be cautious. β
said. Li Feng patted his sister's face and said, "Sleep!" We have to get up early tomorrow! Li Lan hummed, lowered her pillow and hugged her sister and fell asleep like this.
Liang Sanping didn't sleep at this time, and his strong habits made him accustomed to work at this time. Not long after Ye Jianwen returned to Jiangkou, he called Liang Sanping.
"Someone's eyeing you!" Ye Jianwen startled Liang Sanping when he opened his mouth, what is this eight boys doing Liang Sanping knew very well in his heart. He said that he was being targeted, so it was strange that he was not nervous. But then Ye Jianwen's words made Liang Sanping's hanging heart put down.
"You do your best to sort out the materials on the road construction, believe me! Someone will come to you soon to find out about it! Ye Jianwen on the other end of the phone smiled at Liang Sanping and said, "I can't scare you bastard!" β
Liang Sanping had no other way than to scold Ye Jianwen, a bastard. And whether he is coerced or enticed, Ye Jianwen just said that he doesn't say who is interested in this matter. Just sue sΓΉ Liang Sanping, this is the best one opportunity.
"I heard that your kid proposed to Li Feng's family?! What a good thing! I'll tell the head of the regiment about it when the time comes, and come to your wedding together! Ye Jianwen on the other end of the phone said with a smile: "When the time comes!" Give you a big red envelope for the kid! β
"If the red envelope is not a red envelope, it's good that you guys have arrived." After a pause, Liang Sanping said to Ye Jianwen on the other end of the phone: "You have to be concerned about this matter outside the border!" Be careful with your own safety to prevent them from jumping over the wall! β
"Hahaha...... No matter how high a dog jumps, it's just a dog after all. Give a stick and they will be honest. Ye Jianwen on the other end of the phone said to Liang Sanping with a smile: "I can write a book about the experience of dog fighting." Don't worry about me. β
"You just have to take care of what you're doing, and this is your best chance. Don't miss out, or you'll have to wait a few more years before you get a chance to come up with your idea......"
So, Liang Sanping began to write his own plan. Compared with the last time, Liang Sanping's plan this time is more detailed, especially mentioning the investment in Qiongdao and the views of Heung Kong Capital.
If you want to impress those old fritters, you have to come up with something real. They are sensitive to the number jΓΉ, and Liang Sanping is absolutely convinced. And those who are able to come here and are interested in their plans.
Liang Sanping is sure that this person must not be simple. You must know that at this time, it is necessary to take a big risk to be interested in Liang Sanping's plan. Without confidence and courage, I will never make this choice.
Since Ye Jianwen said that this is an opportunity for Liang Sanping, it means that this person at least has the right to build at the highest level. And his right to build yì is still the kind that will attract attention. Otherwise, Ye Jianwen would not have said so.
"Tuk Tuk Tuk ......" Just when Liang Sanping was struggling to write, there was a knock on the door. Liang Sanping is very strange, who will come to visit after all these points?!
"Come in! The door was unlocked...... "Liang Sanping's room was nothing except a few wooden chairs and a bed." So he is basically too lazy to lock the door. Besides, this is the family area of the employees.
Usually people come and go here and there are employees or their families who live here, so there is no need to lock the door. And Liang Sanping really never lost anything. On the contrary, from time to time, people put some fruit or something in his house.
"Third child, why are you coming to me so late without sleep?!" Liang Sanping's door opened, and he couldn't help but feel stunned when he looked up. The one who came in was Peng Laosan, one of his right-hand men.
"Hey, hey, hey...... Brother Sanping, I can't sleep and want to talk to you......" Peng Laosan rubbed his hands a little embarrassed and said, "I didn't bother you, did I?!" β
Can you not bother?! Liang Sanping put down the pen with a wry smile and said to Peng Laosan: "Okay!" If you kid have something to do, let's just say it, we've known each other for more than a day or two. Don't you know me?! Hurry up and say. β
Peng Laosan did not speak directly, but sat on the wooden sofa chair and took out a cigarette. first gave Liang Sanping one, and then took one himself. Press the lighter to fill the smoke with fire, and then you said leisurely.
"Brother Sanping, you tell the truth. Do you think Xiaolan and I can make it?! But seeing Peng Laosan with his head bored, he said in a deep voice: "You know, I used to be a fool. The reputation is not good, I'm afraid of ......"
Liang Sanping smiled, stood up and patted Peng Laosan's shoulder and said, "What are you afraid of?!" When you came to trouble me at that time, why didn't you kid be afraid?! Now this little thing, what is there to be afraid of. β
Peng Laosan looked up at Liang Sanping, lowered his head and said, "I really like Xiaolan, she is a good girl." But what I'm afraid of is that Aunt Liang and Uncle Li don't agree. Now there is a lot of gossip about me from people outside......"
After Peng Laosan got along with Li Lan, they were quite satisfied with each other. Especially Peng Laosan, he also wants to get married! But now the situation is that after that incident, some people began to gossip about him behind his back.
Especially the group of people who were cleaned up by Liang Sanping in Jianghai Farm. Although these people are convinced, they are still unhappy in their hearts. But they didn't dare to trouble Liang Sanping, so spreading Peng Laosan's gossip became the only thing they could do. (To be continued......)