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Zhu Yushen heard Shen Bing say this, and he remembered the past. This is that when he first talked to Xiao Rong, Shen Bing and his wife made a lot of efforts. Especially Mrs. Shen, it took a lot of energy to do Xiao Rong's work alone. However, the matchmaker who faced him is now in this situation, which can really make people worse. For a while, Zhu Yushen was very embarrassed and helpless.

Then Shen Bing opened all the windows and turned on the electric fan to blow the air. Zhu Yushen sat down with Shen Bing at this time. Zhu Yushen said: "I have only heard people talk about your affairs in the past two days, but what people say may be far from the actual situation. What happened to your parents? Your children are still living with them, right? ”

Shen Bing sighed a few times in succession and said, "This is really hard to say." I guess you probably learned about me from Jin Jun. This guy is straightforward and fast-talking, and he speaks to the point, and that crow's mouth thief can pull it. After you went to work in the city, I had a lot of dealings with him.

When my father was sick and needed a lot of money for treatment, Jin Jun said that this incident was likely to have an impact on our relationship between husband and wife. Most of what this guy said was right, but it was too naked for people to accept for a while. Do you remember the time when the three of us were drinking at his house, he mentioned that the busty woman next door to his house used to fight with his husband, and he said that if this happened again, he would have to call me to fight.

I didn't expect this to happen later. This woman, whom Jin Jun calls a fat wave, has a more pungent personality. She married at a very young age and had two children. And her mother-in-law died early, and her husband worked outside all the year round to earn money.

So she can only live with her husband. and the husband together to pull the children to live. People have been together for a long time. There will always be contradictions. This is a normal thing. It's okay for other people to quarrel, but this pair of father-in-law and daughter-in-law don't count if they quarrel, they still have to fight.

As soon as the fight began, the old pole desperately shouted for help. Except for Jin Jun, who occasionally went to the rack, the others were either indifferent, or simply stood by and watched the excitement. Jin Jun was annoyed, because the people next door often quarreled and beaten, which made him unable to live in peace. So he put the blame on me. The beautiful name is to let me rub some fat oil when I pull the rack.

Although this is a joke, the number of times I pull the frame is too much, and Fat Bo seems to have a good impression of me. When she's not working, she likes to find an opportunity to talk to me. Since her husband is away all the year round, and my wife works in the city all the year round, there is no resistance for the two of them to get in touch. But when others see it, they will soon think about the bad side, and after a long time, it will be okay and fine.

Then it happened that my father was terminally ill. I have an older sister who is more than ten years older than me, so my father is also in his sixties. When the disease is detected at a city hospital. My father was so decadent that he couldn't do it. Because our family is relatively poor, I can't get much money when I work at the police station; My wife doesn't make much money working in the city. My sister's family is the same as my parents. They are all people who dig in the dirt.

Therefore, if people like us have a serious illness, it must be very difficult to spend a huge amount of money to treat it. The point is, we only bought a house in the city two years ago. The house in that place is not easy to borrow, and more than 100,000 yuan are all made up by yourself. Of course, parental sponsorship accounts for the lion's share. Because our husband and wife have not been working for a few years, they are married, and they have children, so how can we have any savings? There is also borrowing from others.

In the past, my wife and I rented a house in Huangzhen, rented the house in the city to others, and the difference in rent was still a little bit in the account for a year. But as soon as the old father fell ill, things were difficult to do. If we give up treatment, my father himself will definitely be unwilling, and our sister and brother will also be unbearable. Because then the old man will soon be gone! Although it costs a lot of money and the result of the operation can only prolong the old man's life for a few years, it seems that it has to be done.

In addition, the pressure of public opinion from the outside world also forces us to do so. If we let the old father give up the treatment, he will definitely be scolded in front of the villagers. Because it's always easy to outnumber others, but it's your turn, but it's not like that at all. In fact, the villagers are generally in poor condition, and if the old people in their family have such a serious illness, most of them will give up.

In short, pressure is being put on us from all sides, and we have to do something. In view of my own situation, I feel that there is no other way but to sell the house to make money. Because most of the money when they bought a house was sponsored by their parents, it was their life's work.

Second, we really can't think of any other way. When we bought a house, we borrowed a lot of foreign debts, and now people are in a hurry, and we are slow to make money. It's already hard to repay the money, so how can there be any other spare money? At the same time, if you borrow again, you will definitely not be able to borrow money, and to be honest, you will not dare to borrow. Because of the huge debt, after all, it's not fun. I really couldn't help it, so I decided to make this decision.

At that time, I first told my old sister about this idea. The old lady was silent for a while, and then she agreed. She said that if she had the money, the rest would be easier. She doesn't have any money, but she can do a little more. Then I brought up the idea in front of my parents, and they didn't say anything, just sighed. Seeing this scene, I told my wife about this idea. When my wife heard this, she almost fainted.

She said that this house is of great significance to both our husband and wife, how can we say that we can sell it? Besides, where will we live after selling the house? Renting a house is not a long-term solution after all; The house in my hometown is also very dilapidated, and I can't live in it anymore. If we sell this house, our efforts for so many years will be in vain, and we will be beaten back to its original shape.

She also said that it was precisely because of this house that her parents were willing to marry her. In addition, it also made her not lose face among relatives, friends, and neighbors. However, if she finishes playing with this house after only a few years of marriage, how can she explain it to her parents and people around her? Where will her face go in the future?

She told me that her uncle had the same disease as my father before that. The conditions of her uncle's family are roughly the same as ours, but her uncle took the initiative to give up the treatment considering the current situation of his children who are not optimistic. Saved a lot of money for my children. It also saves a lot of work. So. She said, "Can't my father learn from her uncle?"

I listened to this. I was so angry that I slapped her because I'm an impulsive person. Who knew that this fight made her completely firm in her attitude, she said that if she sells, the two of us will not live anymore!

I looked back and thought about it alone for several days, and finally, we quarreled again in front of my parents. She had no scruples to bring up the more extreme idea again, and her father burst into tears when he heard her; The mother sighed while being angry.

But afterwards. My wife and parents didn't mean to compromise on either side, which made it really difficult for me to do it. After this incident, my sister criticized my wife in my ear to be indecent. And the old lady also told me that there is a big difference between people. So it's very cruel to ask our father to give up treatment like her uncle did! Besides, this is not realistic, according to what she knows about her father, the old man is determined to go to the hospital for treatment.

Of course, I definitely know what my sister said. The point is, if I sell the house. Then I really can't live with my wife. I told my sister about my concerns and difficulties. How do you know that the old lady said firmly, a heartless woman like me. Don't! Born a child is not very dependent on her. Because children live with their parents from an early age.

In addition, the elder sister also said that because my wife and I have been separated for a long time, I can't guarantee that the woman has already been on good terms outside. Because a woman is alone, she has always been the object of harassment by restless men, and she will definitely have different dreams in bed in the long run.

Of course, I didn't admit what my sister said, so I warned her not to talk nonsense. But the old lady seemed to be prepared, so she took me as an example and shook out all the nonsense of hearsay. She said the relationship between me and Fat Bo, saying that it was all because of the long-term separation; She said that you have done it yourself, and you still ask others to do a good job and keep your innocence, how is this possible?

Damn, when my sister said this, it made me red-faced. In fact, at that time, Fatty Bo and I were just more able to talk, and we often talked together to seek some comfort. So I argued with reason, and almost quarreled with my sister, but my sister behaved calmly.

She finally threw out a sentence, saying that she didn't want to care about the between our husband and wife. However, the matter of the old man's money for treatment was left here, she was born a daughter, and she did not take a dime of the family. So whether the old man wants to be sent for treatment or not actually has nothing to do with her. Because she doesn't need to bear the pressure of public opinion, when people want to scold, they will only scold the son who has made the old couple pay a lifetime of hard work, and will not scold her, the daughter who has always been upside down! What the hell is going on, she told me to watch it.

Oh, I was so worried. There are almost no friends around me who can talk to me, because everyone is very busy, and there are not many young adults left in Huangzhen. In the end, I still told Fat Bo about my grievances. Fatty Bo really sympathized with me, and she advised me that there was no need to listen to my wife. Because if you don't have a wife, you can marry again, but if your father doesn't have it, you won't be able to get it, and you will definitely regret it for the rest of your life.

Then she reasoned with me for hours, and I was very excited. It was on that day that I made the decision to sell the house! It's so easy for people to look down on me. Since I bought this set before I got married, and there is only my name on the property certificate, it is very convenient to deal with this matter, and I just hang it out.

In addition, in order to get this done as soon as possible, the price I put up is also quite low. Because I'm an impatient, I've always paid attention to quick solutions in doing things, and I'm afraid of long nights and dreams. What our family didn't expect was that due to the reasonable price, someone took a fancy to the house the day after it was hung out, and said that they could pay for it immediately.

We got the money very quickly, and I gave some of it to my parents, and that money was enough to pay for my father's surgery and follow-up treatment. I used part of the money to pay off the debts I had borrowed before.

In the end, I sent the rest to my wife, hoping to get some forgiveness from her with this money. How do you know that after she received the money, she cried for a few days, and then ran away with her things without saying hello. Later, she called me and scolded me viciously, saying that the two of us were done playing since then.

At that time, my heart was in turmoil, and I sighed that my life was so miserable. Left is not right, either offend his wife or his parents, and there will be no good ending anyway. I really felt wronged, and then I hid in my room and cried a few times.

After that, soon the old lady's phone called. She first praised my deeds, saying that this can be the standard of a filial son. She said that the old man had already gone to the city to be hospitalized, and there were still a lot of things to do, and I still needed to spend a lot of energy to serve, so that I had the opportunity to fulfill my filial piety.

Although the old lady said so, I was still angry a few days before the old man was hospitalized, and let the old lady's family wait there. I wanted to talk to my wife, even if I was scolded by her, but she just ignored me. It made me feel more and more lost and helpless.

When I was so lonely, I had to talk to Fat Bo again. When she found out about my sale and money, she called me a fool. She said that she shared everything with her own woman, what did she do with the money? She said that from this incident, it can be seen that I am a very stupid person, and I am not worthy of a woman's life.

Then she sighed and told me about her thoughts and concerns. Before, when the two of us were together, she often complained that her husband lacked virtue and raised a little woman outside all the year round, and it was useless to earn more money. But she didn't think so anymore. Because she looked at our respective situations, she had two children and I had one. If we are combined, we will have to have at least two children living with us.

Although her husband doesn't care if she stays or not, she can't let go of the children, and she doesn't think that I will be able to raise them well in the future. So that's the end of our relationship! In this way, I can't move forward, and there is no way back. The old man's illness has completely ruined my life! I don't know what the future holds. ”

Hearing what Shen Bing said so much, Zhu Yushen finally figured out the ins and outs of this matter. He felt that Shen Bing really didn't seem to have a way to solve this matter perfectly. This is just like what Jin Jun said, everything is because of poor conditions, if you have money, you don't have to worry about it at all. (To be continued......)