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In Chinese culture, there are several different meanings of human affection. First, human affection refers to the emotional reactions that may occur when an individual is exposed to a variety of different life situations. Second, human favor refers to a resource that can be used to give each other when people conduct social transactions. Third, human affection refers to the social norms of how people should get along with each other in Chinese society.

In fact, Xu Junran also understood that when he called Guan Bo, he would definitely owe the other party a favor.

And he understands that Guan Bo is very willing to give himself this favor.

One of the main motives that motivates the Chinese people to "do favors" to others is their expectation of reciprocation from others. In a culture that emphasizes "a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring", when the ruler of resources gives favor to others, it can be expected that the recipient will eventually return the favor when he or she has the opportunity. However, because it is difficult to measure human favor by objective standards, not only is the time of the other party's return far away, but the way in which the other party will return is also difficult to predict. Therefore, the resource disposer can only estimate the possible return he can make according to the power of the other party. The higher the status of the other party, the greater the power, and the more resources he has, the wider the level of his return, and the richer the way he can repay. Conversely, the lower the other person's status, less power, and fewer resources at his disposal, the more limited the rewards he may make.

In a relationship-oriented society like China, the social relationship possessed by the individual is also a very important power. When considering whether to "do favors" to the other party, resource managers often consider the price they pay and the possible return of the other party, and often consider: who are the people in the other party's network? How much influence do these figures have on themselves? If the other party "has made friends with the powerful and has no dealings with the powerful", and these powerful people have direct influence on themselves, the resource ruler may "look at the face of the Buddha without looking at the face of the monk" after considering their possible response. accede to the other party's request; Conversely, the resource dispenser is likely to reject his plea.

All in all, when faced with a human dilemma, resource dispensers often consider the price they must pay and the expected gains and losses, and weigh the importance to decide whether to "do favors" to the other party. If the price he has to pay is certain, and the person who intercedes with him has great power and a good relationship, the resource disposer does not matter whether it is to the other party. Or if he rejects the other party, and the absolute value of the expected return is much greater than the price paid, he is likely to accept the other party's request. Otherwise, he is likely to refuse the other party's request. In Chinese society, people who have no power, no power and no social connections. In addition to the frustration of the bureaucracy, he often sighs that "the world is hot and cold" and "human affection is as thin as paper", and this is the reason.

"County Magistrate Guan, that's right, I have a relative of a friend who sells vegetables in our county vegetable market. I'd like to ask you to do me a favor and find them a stall near the wet market. ”

Xu Junran thought about it. Said to Guan Bo.

Rather than asking Guan Bo to investigate those illegal industrial and commercial office cadres with great fanfare, it is better to first give the big bull and his family a stable source of livelihood, after all, for them, there is a good reward for good and evil for evil. Far less important than the fact that you can eat.

Guan Bo was very surprised that Xu Junran would call him to do something, so he quickly nodded and smiled: "Okay, so let's say hello to the industrial and commercial office." The county magistrate, you can ask that relative to go to the leader of the industrial and commercial office and report my name. ”

Xu Junran nodded: "It's troublesome to County Magistrate Guan." ”

Put down the phone. The two of them sighed in unison, and couldn't help but shake their heads and smile bitterly.

The amount of power and status of the trustee in the mind of the resource manager will affect the latter's willingness to allocate the resources at his disposal in favor of the trustee. From the perspective of social psychology, the so-called "face" refers to the social status or prestige obtained by an individual due to his achievements in society; The so-called "face work" is actually a kind of "impression decoration", which is the behavior of an individual deliberately doing it for others to show in order to make others have some specific impressions of themselves.

In Chinese society, the social relationship of an individual is one of the important factors that determine the social status of an individual. A society that pays attention to the law of human affection is inevitably a relationship-oriented society. The amount of power that people judge not only by their own attributes and the resources at their disposal, but also by the network of relationships to which they belong. The larger the individual's social network, the more powerful people there are, and the greater the image of power in the eyes of others. Therefore, in Chinese society, we can not only see many people using situational background, clothing and grooming, and mannerisms to show off their wealth, knowledge, status, and other power symbols; Someone can also be seen showing his relationships. These are the so-called "face work".

Xu Junran naturally disdains to do that kind of face-saving work. For him, helping the big cow is just a small thing.

Guan Bo is the executive deputy county magistrate, and Xu Junran knows very well what kind of ambitions this deputy county magistrate sent from the province has.

And for Xu Junran, he has the confidence to control all the qiē in his own hands.

At dinner in the evening, Xu Junran specially asked Sister-in-law Zhang to call Da Niu and Xiaohua to come to him for dinner, according to the seniority in the village, they called Sister-in-law Zhang, and also called Uncle with Niuniu. Although the age is about the same, the seniority is there, and Xu Junran's psychological age has already passed the age of not being confused, so it should naturally be taken for granted.

Niuniu sat beside Xu Junran with a smile, eating the dishes that Xu Junran gave her, looking very happy.

Xu Junran looked at Da Niu and said slowly: "Don't worry, things are not as bad as you think." Let Sister-in-law Zhang follow you tomorrow to get the vegetables and the car back. ”

Xiaohua sobbed and said, "It's useless to come back, the dishes that were confiscated by them last time didn't get them back at all." A cart of vegetables that was confiscated today must have been taken home by those people. ”

As she spoke, she thought of the vegetables that she and her husband had worked so hard to make, and she couldn't help but say bitterly: "That's the autumn vegetables that I and Da Niu worked hard to survive, and now they are gone......"

Xu Junran's face changed, his mood was a little heavy, he ate a few bites hastily, put down his chopsticks, and walked out. Sister-in-law Zhang couldn't help complaining about Xiaohua and said, "Cry." Crying, you know that crying hurts people to lose their appetite, you ......" I wanted to count her down again, but seeing her aggrieved appearance, I finally sighed and didn't say anything more.

She never dared to tell the identity of Xu Junran, but said that she is now a nanny for others, and this is the male owner of the family.

Sister-in-law Zhang is already thirty-six or seventeen years old. It's not good-looking, a rural old lady, after seeing the big cow and small flower hanging on the wall of Xu Junran's house with him and Lin Yuqing, naturally he will not suspect that the two of them have anything, and they have ulterior motives for some people in the village. Now they know that it is all envy and jealousy, and the life of this aunt is almost the same as that of the palace.

If Sister-in-law Zhang was originally just an ordinary rural woman, after entering the city to work as a nanny for Xu Junran, she still retained her simple and kind heart from the countryside. In her thoughts, County Magistrate Xu and Miss Lin gave their family this happy life now. Then you can't make trouble for County Magistrate Xu.

Therefore, when Da Niu asked her if there was any way to solve her current troubles, she hesitated for a long time.

However, Xu Junran's words at the dinner table. Sister-in-law Zhang suddenly had confidence, and she said to the two of them: "Tomorrow, let's find a few more people, go together to get the dishes back, and ask the leaders of the Industrial and Commercial Bureau for an explanation!" ”

Unexpectedly. Three days later, Da Niu came to find Zhang's sister-in-law. Sue sù She has already contacted several farmers whose vegetable carts were confiscated, and went to the county industrial and commercial bureau to discuss the explanation.

Sister-in-law Zhang had no choice but to follow everyone to the Industrial and Commercial Bureau.

It was impossible for a group of peasants to enter the industrial and commercial bureau, and they didn't look like big people when they looked dressed, so before they could enter the gate of the industrial and commercial bureau, several uniformed security guards came out of the guard room and stopped them.

"What are you doing?" The security guard's tone was not good, and he asked the peasants.

Da Niu plucked up the courage to say what he meant, indicating that his group of people had come to return to his vegetable cart.

The head of the security guard was a tall thin man, with a pockmarked face, looking very vicious, after listening to the words of the big cow, he said coldly: "Get out of here!" Don't look at what kind of place this is? Do you know what you call it now? Call the siege of government institutions! They're stupid. Dare to go wild here and catch you all into the game! ”

A large group of peasants looked at each other, and no one dared to speak, for for they seemed to be different from what they had imagined.

Xiaohua was also a little hesitant, pulled Sister-in-law Zhang's sleeve and said, "Auntie, let's go home." ”

Looking at the arrogant appearance of those security guards, Sister-in-law Zhang remembered the last time she heard the county magistrate Xu talk about the fact that farmers should protect their legitimate rights and interests, and she suddenly became energetic. She has been working as a nanny for Xu Junran's family for the past six months, and she has seen many leaders of various departments in the county, which of these people is not polite to her? After all, the seven-rank official in front of the prime minister's door, even if it is a nanny, it is also the nanny of the county magistrate's family, and today he was reprimanded by several doormen and security guards, plus in front of a group of villagers who thought they were good in the county, which made Sister-in-law Zhang's face suddenly unbearable, and she walked directly to the front of the crowd, pointed to the tall doorman and said: "Tell your leaders to come out, we are reflecting the problem, you don't take a big hat to buckle us." Sue you, you can't scare anyone! ”

"Yo he! It's still quite a master! ”

The tall security guard grinned, glanced at Sister-in-law Zhang, waved his hand as if chasing flies, and said, "Hurry up, I'll catch you at the police station in a while." ”

At this time, some old people feel that it is not good to be seen after a long time. Persuaded: "Let's go back first, and report the problem through normal channels." Government agencies cannot be contained. ”

The tall security guard glanced at Xiaohua in the crowd, pointed at Xiaohua with a smile and said, "Otherwise, let that big girl report to us, report alone." ”

At this time, the big bull and tiger in the crowd roared, rushed to the tall man with an arrow step, punched him in the face, and scolded in his mouth: "Dare to tease my daughter-in-law, Lao Tzu will kill you turtle bastard!" ”

The tall man let out a loud cry and was knocked to the ground in one fell swoop.

As soon as the security guards saw that their people had suffered a loss, they immediately pounced on the big cow, and the vegetable farmers here also panicked, and the young ones also rushed forward, and a large group of people scuffled together.

This trouble. It alarmed the people in the Industrial and Commercial Bureau, and several uniformed people ran over from afar, and Xiaohua shouted in fright: "Big Niu, run." ”

Da Niu was throwing a security guard holding him to the ground, and when he heard this, he shouted at Sister-in-law Zhang: "Auntie, you go quickly!" ”

was making a lot of noise, and the long sound of the car "Di Di ......" behind the vegetable farmers sounded, Xiaohua glanced back, and then pulled Sister-in-law Zhang's hand in surprise and said, "Auntie." Uncle, why is Uncle Xu sitting in a car? ”

Sister-in-law Zhang was stunned when she heard this, and when she turned her head, she found that Xu Junran had already stepped out of the car and was looking at this side with a cold face.

Seeing Xu Junran looking towards him. Sister-in-law Zhang's face turned red suddenly, but she was scared in her heart, afraid that County Magistrate Xu would be angry because of her involvement in these things and dismissed herself.

A few people from the industrial and commercial bureau didn't pay attention to the car behind the farmers, shouting at the farmers, and several security guards finally knocked down the big cow, and the tall man who was punched by him was so angry that he didn't care that the outside of the compound was already full of people watching the excitement. Crackling slapped the big cow's mouth, and scolded loudly: "Bastard, dare to beat Lao Tzu, I have to ask you to squat in the fence for ten years." ”

Liu Huaqiang also got out of the car at this time. Seeing that the expression on County Magistrate Xu's face was about to catch up with the rainy day, his heart suddenly burst out. He had a good relationship with Wang Hai, director of the Bureau of Industry and Commerce, and the two had a record of classmates in the party school of the county party committee for a period of time, but Liu Huaqiang did not have his current status at that time. As his status in the county continues to rise, naturally his relationship with Wang Hai is getting better and better.

Seeing that Xu Junran didn't plan to enter the door. Liu Huaqiang knew that the county magistrate Xu was angry, and he hurriedly walked in front of the cadres of the industrial and commercial bureau and said loudly: "Call your director, the county magistrate of the county government has come to inspect the work!" ”

In a word, everyone was stunned.

The security guards of the Industrial and Commercial Bureau, who had just flaunted their might and beat people, were dumbfounded all of a sudden, and the staff members who were shouting and scolding at the peasants were also dumbfounded.

They only noticed at this time that they didn't know when, the No. 2 car of the county party committee had stopped at the door of the industrial and commercial bureau.

"Xu, County Magistrate Xu!" Someone spat out these words, but his face turned pale.

Xu Junran snorted coldly, glanced at the people from the Industrial and Commercial Bureau lightly, and said coldly to Liu Huaqiang: "Old Liu, let's go back." ”

After speaking, he didn't hesitate at all, turned around and got into the car.

Liu Huaqiang sighed when he saw this, knowing that Xu Junran was really angry this time, he shook his head at the few people who recognized his identity at the Industrial and Commercial Bureau, turned around and went back to the car. The car started and left the county industrial and commercial bureau directly.

When Wang Hai, director of the county bureau of industry and commerce, came to the door, he was about to cry!

The more he reaches a certain level, the more aware he is of the different roles of power in different people.

Not to mention anything else, it angered the county magistrate Xu, not to mention himself, the director of the industrial and commercial bureau, even Zhang Xibin, a member of the Standing Committee of the county party committee and director of the county public security bureau, didn't he make self-criticism on the Standing Committee of the county party committee this morning?

So at this moment, Wang Hai's face was extremely pale, looking at the people around him who were watching the excitement, as well as the people from the Industrial and Commercial Bureau, he couldn't help but shout loudly to the security guard: "What the hell are you doing stunned?" When do you think this is? Dare to detain the masses? Let me go! Let go! ”

As he spoke, he pointed at the tall man and scolded, "Apologize immediately!" People don't forgive you, you fuck off! ”

After saying these words, he put on an amiable face and said to the peasants, Da Niu and Xiao Hua: "Folks, I'm sorry to let everyone be wronged. In this way, let's go to the house and say, what are the situations and requirements, and everyone can mention them to me. ”

For the sake of today's plan, we have to stabilize these peasants first, otherwise once the county magistrate Xu asks about this matter, if he doesn't answer well, he may get into big trouble. After all, for Xu Junran, a county elder with a background in the provincial capital, many cadres in Incheon County today are even more afraid of him than Bai Lin, the secretary of the county party committee.

Xiaohua followed behind the crowd and asked Sister-in-law Zhang, "Auntie, Uncle Xu, is it a big official?" ”

Sister-in-law Zhang nodded lightly and made a small gesture, but she was beating a drum in her heart, and she didn't know if County Magistrate Xu would be angry that she was involved in these things.

Wang Hai listened to the peasants' opinions amiably, reviewed his work for not being meticulous and in place, and made a good deal of façade work, and only then hurried to the county government after beating away all the vegetable farmers. Although the industrial and commercial bureau has its own system. However, if the county party committee really wants to deal with the leaders of the county industrial and commercial bureau, the city bureau will still respect the opinions of the local party committee. Not to mention the promotion and transfer within the system, the evaluation of the local party committee is a factor to be considered.

Xu Junran didn't say anything, after listening to his report, when talking about the few people who had beaten people outside the door and had now been warned and punished, Xu Junran frowned slightly: "Just warn it?" ”

Wang Hai's face changed, and he hurriedly said: "The warning is only a preliminary punishment, we are still investigating their other mistakes, if we find more stringent mistakes, if necessary, they will be directly expelled, and handed over to the judicial authorities for accountability." ”

At this time, he didn't care about the relatives of the bureau leaders among the security guards, if anyone had an opinion, he would come to the county magistrate Xu and talk about it.

Xu Junran nodded and said: "Although it is said that the farmers made the first move, but the cause is also because of your rough work attitude, which caused a very bad impact afterwards, and now the task is how to eliminate the bad influence, as for how to deal with it, it is up to you to decide, Director Wang." Xu Junran originally just wanted to go to the Industrial and Commercial Bureau to meet with Director Wang and talk about the problems involving the surrounding farmers in law enforcement, and he didn't want to catch up with such a show, which was also considered Director Wang's bad luck. (To be continued)