(Another morning without money...... By the way, those who want to join the group see the work related. The group number and everything are now inside. I'll change the introduction directly, and those who want to support the author will go to see the work. By the way, I scanned the list this morning when I had nothing to do, and suddenly found a very good novel, called "The Zombie Miss with a Torch". The author didn't recommend it because of the cute girl.,It's a pit.,Acquaintances, etc.,But this novel is really cute.。 Above. ）

The failure to advance and retreat indicates a wrong move in the plan.

As we all know, no matter what the degree of interpersonal communication, advance and retreat are a link that cannot be ignored.

As the saying goes, 'only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not grandchildren, and those who are far away are resentful.' The words of Sage Kong are now suspicious of sexism, but this sentence really speaks to the relationship between people and people.

Many times human interactions require a ruler to measure. A rush of blood only makes people feel scared and panicked. It can't help but make people think that you have some other intentions. It is inappropriate to shave the head of the picker to be hot. Therefore, many times the interaction of friends is like finance, there is a back and forth, and it is the same thing that only communication can generate value.

Let's say you talk to a new friend about your interests and hobbies for a day and borrow an eraser. You gave it back to him the next day, and lent him a disc that you talked about yesterday. He returned it to you after the third day, and after discussion and research, you decided to go out and play together. This kind of dialogue and the exchange of objects is also an important part of interpersonal communication. It can even be said that all friendships extend from this process of exchange and exploration.

Perhaps we should call it cautious discovery?

I learned about their personalities and hobbies, and communicated with them according to their preferences. It's great if you happen to know a lot, and you can communicate without hindrance. Even if you don't know the way, you can deal with it superficially.

Even if none of these are possible, the disadvantaged group is still a good condition for communication. It's not uncommon for you to start complaining halfway through a conversation. Everyone likes to see the tragedy of others, because it makes them feel that they are living a good life. Appreciating and comforting someone crying is also a quick way to bring the relationship together.

The price is that you may not be able to hold your head up in front of him for a long time.

At the end of the day, the essence of interpersonal communication is the same as playing games. It is necessary to know when to move forward and when to retreat, and to use unexpected events to reverse or improve relationships. So I don't really care about these things.

But how to say it, I'm a very kind person.

Well, I'm a good guy by nature. You may not believe it, but I basically don't do anything to kill them all. For example, I would not do such a thing as a threat to the end with a threat condition. I prefer to leave some space between each other, the persecution is not so harsh, and the same help is enough.

Unfortunately, not everything went according to plan.

“…… So then, there is the question of where to go, there is no problem with democratic voting, right? ”

"I'm fine."

"Since both of them said that there is no problem, then I naturally have no problem."

"Well, that's good."

He held his chin under the snow and nodded.

I have to say that the mobility under the snow is really strong.

just said that she wanted to form a team, and in the afternoon, she pulled a girl into the team. It seems that he is still the representative of the Chinese class in this class, right? Anyway, it's a girl with glasses and a good smile.

And it's a very typical girl who is good at talking.,Good at communicating.。 To put it bluntly, he has no ability to judge, and he is carried away by the atmosphere, and he will not do anything but be an echo worm. It is a good number. Anyway, this kind of girl probably won't do anything else except make up the numbers. But then again, she was able to find her teammates so quickly, so why didn't she do it in the morning?

"Let's talk about it."

Arbitrarily pulled out a notebook from the desk, turned the oil pen under the snow, and looked serious.

Huh? Not really, right? Isn't it nice to just go somewhere in this kind of thing?

"So, what do you want to do under the snow?"

The representative of the Chinese class wearing glasses showed a smile of three plus signs of affinity and zero adaptability under the snow. Sure enough, in exchange for the Snow Maiden, she was as blue as an ice peak, with a little solemn gaze.

"First of all, we have two girls here, and we can't do heavy physical work, such as moving in the store warehouse or something, which I believe is understandable to you, right?" Saying that it was democratic politics, after only symbolically asking under the snow, he wrote heavy physical strength in the notebook with the girl's wry smile, and then put a cross next to it.

But to be honest, I appreciate this kind of decisiveness. Rather than the ostensible democracy, it would be better to elect a relatively acceptable option. So I also nodded and said I had no opinion, and let Xue Xia continue to say her choice.

Anyway, she had already thought about it, didn't she? This guy is definitely the kind of 'you know this' kind of character.

"Really? It's great that we can come to a consensus. ”

He didn't raise his head under the snow, but he seemed to smile, and his hand kept jerking down some words in his notebook.

"Also, because they are all girls, they still have to cut off the mental strength or long-term fatigue. And because of a man with a unique appearance and heart, the appearance service industry is also on the veto list. And judging by the recent traffic and the surrounding geographical location, the direction of shopping guides is not suitable for us......"

Methodically speaking his thoughts, the notebook under the snow quickly recorded a large number of crosses and punctuation marks. The girl who used to be an echo insect had already changed her expression of amazement, looking at the snow girl who was struggling to write with admiration.

I guess I was scared by the overwhelming talent gap, right? Even if you want to tidy up, there are few people who can think about even the smallest things like under the snow. Even the likes and dislikes of several people have been recorded in that notebook, and it is almost like using a human brain to perform a chaotic calculation. And the simple map on the other side makes people wonder if this guy simply memorized the map. That's why I'm relieved to put all the power in her hands.

Because she really will choose the best choice.

"Judging from the nature of several of us, the areas we are good at and the situations we dislike, as well as the addresses and endurances of our respective families, there are not many places that allow us to exercise ourselves to the maximum and not be overloaded. Most of them are working as miscellaneous things in cultural companies...... Therefore, this company in this place is the best choice for us. ”

The pen in the snow's hand stopped, and with a smile on his beautiful face, he handed the simple map in his hand to the two of us. The moment I saw that position, four big words came to mind.

Hoisted by his own petard.