Originally, Mrs. Peng was a little anxious. She was anxious to hug her grandson, but what she was afraid of was that her son was still as playful as before, and she didn't think much of her desire to be a grandmother as a mother. So I thought that this time my son would still be the same as before, and after listening to her words, he would treat it as if he hadn't heard it, and then go out to play with his buddies. But the result of the inquiry was that she was a mother.

When Mrs. Peng half-jokingly proposed to her son that she wanted him to meet the daughters of her little sisters, Peng Weining, who had always been dismissive, resolutely told her mother that she would not meet her sisters' children like this kind of "blind date". This kind of immediate and decisive answer directly made Peng Ma shocked and angry at that time.

Of course, the saying that good friends is not popular in this era, otherwise Peng's mother will be even more worried about whether her son doesn't like girls. So when Mrs. Peng only asked her son why she was so resolutely unwilling to meet these little sisters, she suddenly saw her son's face flush. Mrs. Peng, who intuitively felt that there was an article in it, also told her son with encouragement that if she had any ideas, she could just talk to her as a mother. Where is there a topic between mother and son that cannot be discussed? But the answer she got from her son made her, a big mother, feel embarrassed.

Although Peng Weining was a little embarrassed, the personality of the soldier still made him show his mother and his thoughts. He fell in love with Uncle Shen's daughter, the little girl who called him Brother Shen.

Speaking of which, Mrs. Shen Yiyi is no stranger to Mrs. Peng. And his son also brought other people's daughters to his house before. For such a beautiful and well-behaved little girl, with smart grades and an atmosphere of work, Mrs. Peng also loves it very much in her heart. Let's be honest. When her son was originally selected by Shen Jianguo to his own troops, Mrs. Peng had such thoughts in her heart. At that time, she was thinking about kissing and kissing.

Her husband and Shen Jianguo can be said to have had a lifelong relationship, so the relationship between the two families has always been good. Moreover, the daughter of the Shen family will not be far worse from the appearance of her little sister Yang Rui alone. From the perspective of her, who wants to be a mother-in-law, it is ideal to be able to find a girl's family who knows the other party's family well. So, although I didn't break it with Yang Rui. The two families actually had a tacit understanding at that time. She also has full confidence that her son will definitely be able to enter the eyes of the Shen family.

As for letting her son bring other people's little girls to the house by the way, of course, the more she looks at this little girl, the more she likes it. The two families had only to open the layer of window paper before. Because in the end, the big idea still depends on whether the two children can meet each other's eyes.

The turning point of the matter really happened after Shen Jianguo suddenly appeared with a father who was in a high position as a national leader. For anyone who knows Shen Jianguo, this news is shocking enough. Some people see the opportunity to climb the big tree, but the Peng family and his wife see a huge gap in the status of the two parties.

Although some acquaintances jokingly said to themselves that with their long-term relationship with Shen Jianguo, as soon as Shen Jianguo has such a family background, then it is logical that his family can borrow a little light. But Commander Peng and Mrs. Peng were not interested in such a statement in their hearts.

They asked themselves about the friendship of Shen Jianguo's family at that time. There's no utilitarian component. On the contrary, Shen Jianguo, who had been hiding his family background for a long time, was not higher than Commander Peng at that time. And the sincerity of the Peng family and his wife to the Shen family is also the simple revolutionary emotion of wanting to help their comrades-in-arms and brothers. Since we never imagined that our brothers would one day be higher than our own status, why should we introduce utilitarian thinking into our relationships?

However, the gap in the status of the two sides is real. I didn't know it before, but I don't necessarily pretend not to know after learning about the status of both parties. That's still really hypocritical.

The Peng family couple, who didn't think about getting any light, and at the same time wanted to avoid any gossip, gradually reduced their contact with the Shen family from then on. They originally wanted to help the Shen family, or to be able to share a little army resources with the Shen family, but since the Shen family was very related. Moreover, Shen Jianguo has now been promoted to the deputy commander of the Capital Military Region, so he will have to make less progress in the future.

The Peng family and his wife adjusted the way they interacted with the Shen family. It didn't let Commander Shen Jianguo, who was a little nervous, pay attention to it, but Yang Rui, who was Commander Shen's virtuous helper, was careful enough to be able to detect the changes in the relationship between the two sides. It's just that although she noticed it, she didn't say it, but put it in her heart. In her heart, she also thinks that this kind of thing is actually difficult to declare. I don't necessarily have to ask people why I don't pay attention to myself now! It's just that she knows it too. Judging from the frequency and manner of the current interaction between the two parties, it seems that the marriage that everyone used to have some interest in now may be abandoned.

Mrs. Peng was indeed a little reluctant in her heart and decided to give up the previous plan to let Shen Yiyi be her daughter-in-law. The traditional habit of the Chinese is to marry high women and marry low women. If the daughter wants to marry into a family that is better off than her own family. But marrying a daughter-in-law means marrying into a family that is slightly worse off than your own family. Now Shen Yiyi's home is higher than the lintel of his own home, and it doesn't seem to be very suitable in terms of traditional Chinese customs.

There is actually a simple truth in this. Probably people who want to marry a daughter-in-law don't want to be a daughter-in-law and have too much power. For example, often mothers-in-law will arrange for their daughter-in-law to do some housework or something. I also hope that my daughter-in-law will take good care of her son. In this case, if your daughter-in-law is low-marryed, then the daughter-in-law will generally appear more low-key and more obedient.

But on the other hand, if the lintel of the daughter-in-law is higher than her own house, then she will marry a princess. The most that may be a mother-in-law is to live separately from her daughter-in-law, and the real hard work is her son.

Often in such a marriage, the son's waist is not straight enough, and he will even be crushed by the daughter-in-law. It should be said that few people who are mothers will want their sons to be crushed by their daughters-in-law. This means that although she was quite satisfied with Shen Yiyi, a little girl, before, once the status of the Shen family suddenly became higher than her own family, her position immediately changed.

It's just that with such considerations, Mrs. Peng doesn't have the confidence to tell her son. Although this kind of careful thinking is normal, it is not something that can be put on the table. She was even a little ashamed to mention it in front of her son. Therefore, for her son's thoughts, she could only ask her son side-by-side if it would be better to have a chance to see a few more people. It's always a good idea to have a little bit of a choice.

But Peng Weining did not hesitate to refuse his mother's proposal. The reason he gave was simple. I am usually busy with work, and I don't have any extra time. And I obviously have a good idea of a girl in my heart.,If you have time, the girl you think of must be that one.。 So, the idea of looking at more than one is simply a waste of time. Peng Dashao simply ignored his mother's kindness.

From his girlfriend's point of view, Peng Weining's resolute answer is definitely an uplifting answer, and it is an answer worthy of reward. But from Peng Weining's mother's standpoint, her son's answer made Jiang Xia, a mother, fall into great embarrassment.

I have already discussed with my husband and will no longer talk about marrying Shen Yiyi into the family, but my son just gave himself such a show. It's a bit of a bolt from the blue. Is it necessary for you to adjust some of your strategies some time ago?

It can be said that after talking to Peng Weining, Peng's mother has not settled down. How to deal with the relationship between her family and the Shen family really made her start to have a headache.

After confiding in her husband about her real troubles, Peng's mother seemed to be relieved and felt much more comfortable in her heart. The breath that had been stuck in his chest was smoothed. Just after listening to his wife's detailed introduction, Commander Peng looked at his wife, and his expression seemed to be a little strange.

Commander Peng looked at his wife for a while before sighing: "Alas...... I mean, you seem to be overthinking. Don't you think it's a little early for you to worry about this question now? There is no such thing as a skimming of these eight characters, and if you start to think about it now, it is really a little trouble-seeking. ”

"How can it be early? The son has already said that he just likes the child one by one. When I think about this now, I don't mean it's too early. ”

Of course, Mrs. Peng was going to protest. In her concept, basically her son's words mean that she may have a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship with Shen Yiyi.

"If the son has such a meaning, then he has to chase the child one by one. Now you haven't spoken at all, you don't know what other people's opinions are, and you can't sleep at night, do you think it's normal for you to be like this? (To be continued......)