Chen Ming looked at everyone deeply, and couldn't help but be a little worried, these people have very different personalities, the only thing they have in common is that they don't know how to pick up girls, and Zhao Li also went home on a blind date after being injured.

"No matter how difficult it is, we all want to learn, Brother Ming, you can pity us bachelors!" Chen Xiaohu pleaded.

"Then I ask you, what kind of first impression should you make on MM?" Chen Ming asked.

"Brave? Strong? Macho? Soft guy ......"

Chen Xiaohu said a lot in a row, and Chen Ming shook his head, feeling that he was too tiger-brained.

For these bachelors, Chen Ming played the role of a master of love, and earnestly taught: "People get along with each other just like falling in love, only by understanding each other deeply can they have a chance to blossom and bear fruit, and they may also part ways." ”

"These are not the point, the point is whether you are 'deep' or not, I think to make a good impression on MM, the main thing is four points!" Chen Ming continued.

"Which four?" Zhong Shifa couldn't help but ask first.

At this time, no one laughed at him, they all pricked up their ears to listen to the key points, as if they had become good students with upward hearts, for fear of missing the key points of the exam.

Chen Ming smiled lightly, and at the same time told everyone about his concept:

"Number one, and I think the most important thing, is to show MM that you're motivated.

The biggest charm of men is that they have a successful career, and young people can't talk about "success" if they don't work for a long time, so you have to make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Anything else can be nonsense, but this question must not be ambiguous, you must tell MM that you are confident in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.

Second, you should appear confident and responsible, don't be like a child, then you can show a responsible side, girls are very lazy and hope to find a support, you have to show your confidence and sense of responsibility. It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice.

Third, don't be too serious, but don't be too casual either, be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed. Girls like men who are a bit cynical, so don't seem to care about everything, that's too dull.

Fourth, a man who appears to be mature, calm and unhurried in the face of things has a fatal attraction to MM. ”

Chen Ming finished speaking in one breath, and everyone surprisingly did not interrupt halfway, they all nodded deeply, and they were in awe of Cheng Chen in their hearts, and they spoke too profoundly.

However, Chen Buhu didn't understand a little, and continued to ask: "How can you be not serious and casual?" ”

Chen Ming thought for a while, and said, for example: "Let's put it this way, if you go to open a room with a woman you like, but both of you are the first time, the woman says that you can't touch her at night, and if you really don't touch her in order to respect each other, you will definitely break up the next day, which is not very serious, that is, fake serious, and you will shoot when you just shoot." ”

Chen Xiaohu nodded deeply, indicating that he understood.

Chen Ming paused and continued: "You can't be too casual, it's too much, at least in front of the person you like, you can't behave too badly, don't just be casual with other women." ”

"So what do you do after getting the first impression of a girl?" Chen Xiaohu continued to ask, and also asked everyone's voices.

Chen Ming was helpless, so he had to patiently explain: "This is the second stage to start chasing, I have summarized five steps by myself!" ”

"Say it quickly!" Bai Fang hurriedly urged, and they all listened attentively, and Chen Ming was a little hungry and thirsty when he adjusted his appetite.

In order to let his future bodyguard get a healthy physical and mental exhibition, Chen Ming had to generously explain the five steps of pickling girls:

"First, the most important thing at this stage is not to be in a hurry, don't make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others."

"Why? Isn't it chasing people, why can't you let her know? Li Jingwei couldn't help but ask.

"Think about it, most people won't take a fancy to you at a glance, but they won't hate you at a glance, they are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), goodwill needs to be achieved with the continuous increase of understanding, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity for further development." Chen Ming told his experience with Long Xin.

"Oh, too!" Li Jingwei nodded with a smirk, for him who has never been in love, he really doesn't understand these things, and he can even say that he has six tricks out of seven tricks, which is simply ignorant!

Seeing that they still didn't quite understand, Chen Ming continued: "Think about it from the perspective of a girl: if you rush over so directly to get a partner, the girl must have psychological pressure." If you find out that you don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick on you? So if you start out in a posture that you want to win, you'll basically be instantly OPASSED! ”

"Okay, they don't need to know much yet, let's talk about the second point!" White urged.

The six trainees rolled their eyes, but they were instructors, so they didn't say much.

Chen Ming nodded and continued: "Second, start with a low profile: first of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend", originally an "ordinary friend", you want to become a "good friend", and if you have taste, you can also ask the other party to become a "confidant" or something, in short, don't say "chase you". ”

"Why?" Li Jingwei asked again.

"Shut up and let Brother Ming explain well!" Everyone angrily pointed at Li Jingwei.

Li Jingwei was helpless, in order not to arouse public anger, he listened silently and didn't say more.

Chen Ming patiently explained: "Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have no chance to reject you, which can reduce the psychological pressure of the girl and enable you to have a smooth relationship." Don't have the illusion that you will agree to marry you after knowing each other for three days, you must fully communicate and understand, and feelings do not arise out of thin air. ”

"Well, that makes sense!" White nodded deeply to himself.

Chen Ming glanced at everyone, took a sip of the tea handed by Zhao Li, and continued: "Third, don't be too impatient in the process of dating, be open-minded, don't pester people all day long, whoever treats you like this, you will be tired." A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words - "hot and cold, want to catch and indulge". You pester people all day long and naturally don't think you're good, if you are properly cold for a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits you are in. Also, don't come up with the ambition of "you don't marry", it's too cheap, and sometimes you can play some tricks. ”

"That's how well it is, that's it, no wonder I failed before, it's too good to dare to love others, why are people so cheap!" Zhong Shifa stood up and responded.

"Hehe~" Chen Ming smiled lightly and continued: "Fourth, you must create opportunities appropriately, as I said earlier, don't make things immediately become "you are chasing others", and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls, at this time it depends on your creativity. You can gather intel and find a way to turn the wait into an encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other person to do something with you. In short, this is the most technical place, and if you can't do it, you can ask Du Niang. ”

"Who is Du Niang?" Zhong Shi, who doesn't use the Internet much, asked.

"It's Baidu, you don't know this? Despise you! White jokingly raised his middle finger.

"Go!" Zhong Shi laughed and scolded.

Chen Ming paused and continued: "The last point is also the most important! ”

Speaking of which, the ears of the heavy man are erected even straighter, for fear that it will be a great loss to miss every sentence, every word, and every punctuation mark.

"Don't be careful: It's rude to give gifts to others casually, some people chase girls eagerly, and like to often buy things to give to others, but I don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo this. As the saying goes, "no merit is not punished", you are exerting pressure when you give something to others like this, and people will feel that they owe you, so they will find a way to pay you back, and if they can't pay you back, they will find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you favors. If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together, girls can naturally see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together rather than becoming something to take home. ”

After saying a paragraph, Chen Ming felt like he had become a master of emotion, but he had never found that he could say so much before.

But Chen Ming was a little puzzled, he had finished talking for a long time, for more than a minute, and everyone was still silent in the words just now, and there was no reaction at all.

"Papa~"

After a long time, Bai Fang took the lead and snapped his palm: "Okay! That's a great point to say! ”

After the applause, Chen Mingcai felt that these people were normal, and then said: "In short, you lead the way in, and the cultivation depends on the individual, as long as you combine these theories and slowly practice them, you will definitely not worry about not finding a girlfriend." ”

"Brother Ming, can you write down what you just said, I'm stupid, one ear goes in, the other ear comes out, and I almost forget it!" Luo Haibo said a little embarrassed.

"I'll go, if you don't say that I really forgot, I forgot most of it!" Chen Xiaohu followed.

"This ......" Chen Ming was full of black lines.

"Hehe, I knew I couldn't remember, so I just recorded it!" Li Jingwei said with a smile.

"Stinky boy, good job, I usually look at you stupid, but this time your brain is quite bright, remember to give me a copy at night!" The white side was full of appreciation, and as an instructor, he exercised special powers.

White's first sentence sounds weird, and the latter is ......

For these people, Chen Ming was a little speechless, and then asked: "I want to ask you, what is a girlfriend?" ”

"Hehe, then you don't need to say it, men understand!" White sneered.

"Haha~" Everyone laughed.

Chen Ming shook his head and said solemnly: "Although Brother Ming and I are more 'fraternal', I also know that "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise, since I love it, I have to take it." Of course, if you're just having fun, you have to know what you want! ”

"You start dating a girl, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", to "very, very good, talkative friends", and one sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" hold her hand; "Willow Tip on the Moon", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this point, she is already your girlfriend, whether she admits it or not, she already mentally thinks that you are his boyfriend. I know the most clever, until I went to bed, I didn't ask "if you want to be my girlfriend", and in the end the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "So, don't rush to break the window paper, the hazy the situation, the better it will be for you."

Speaking of this, Chen Ming felt so tired that his brain felt a sense of shock, and finally added: "Why does a husband have no wife? Some MM are really snobbish, this kind of person is only a minority, if you are not convinced, you can be angry and try to be strong, and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time", absolutely do not mislead others and yourself. ”

The crowd remained silent, deeply reflective......

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