There are a lot of things that need to be done, that is, mainly by impulse. For example, if you don't have an impulse, you will find that there are many things at home that you don't need to buy at home. Another example is getting married, there are many moments after getting married, when you think back to the things before you got married, you will sigh that if you think too much, you won't get married.

The same goes for handshakes. Although you will have a lot of worries at the beginning, for fear that you will lose face if you don't get a response to your concessions, but when you have the courage to say everything in your heart, you will find that the more you say, the more you will be unable to stop. In fact, there is also a kind of conflict that Shen Yiyi has not experienced, such as confessing to someone.

After Shen Yiyi began to question Qian Qian one by one, she found that the embarrassing and cold scene she was afraid of before was actually not staged as she expected. Even if there is such a scene, I can completely fill this cold situation by my constant speech.

Qian Qian was completely unprepared by Shen Yiyi's group taking the lead in firing, so she didn't know how to deal with it at all. She would not take the initiative to tell Shen Yiyi about her own thoughts, especially the reason why she and Shen Yiyi had a bad relationship was because of the boy, which would make her completely lose face in front of Shen Yiyi.

So Qian Qian just kept repeating one sentence: "You know what you have done." Don't pretend to be a good person here! ”

Shen Yi could see at a glance that there was no progress at all in such a conversation, and he would not get to the point if he continued for another hour. Her patience ran out a little as well. Originally, he wanted to save some face for Qian Qian and let her admit the reason for the opposite. In this way, everyone's face is still a little passable. But if Qian Qian has been avoiding the essence of the problem in this way, the problems between each other will never be solved. Of course, Shen Yiyi didn't want to go on like this.

"Qian Qian. I'm going to wear it. You don't have to be so angry and refuse to admit it first, listen to me first. What I'm going to say next. There's absolutely nothing to make fun of you. I just want everyone to stop going around in circles with each other and get to the heart of the problem, so that we can solve the contradictions between us. Shen Yi kept saying in vain.

Qian Qian was a little at a loss by Shen Yiyi's words. She didn't know that Shen Yiyi would directly expose this matter and not give herself a chance to dodge at all.

"You don't say it, but I have eyes and brains. I myself wonder what is it that makes you change so much. I thought about it carefully. Careful observation, coupled with repeated verification, finally discovered. It turns out that it was one person who made you abandon the kind of relationship we had before. ”

Every time Shen Yiyi said a word, Qian Qian's heart became more nervous. After hearing Shen Yiyi mention someone at the end, Qian Qian's nervousness reached a peak. There was a trace of fear in her heart, but there was also a trace of anticipation. Is it after this demon in my heart has been revealed? Will you feel at ease?

"Who is this person? I'm afraid I won't say it. You know it in your own heart. Of course, I probably don't have to mention his name in front of you. Because when I say that there is such a person, your mind automatically fills in the blank with this person's name. It's just that I'm angry at how you took me as the cause of the problem between this person and you and demanded responsibility from me. Shen Yiyi still didn't spit out this person's name in the end. She felt that she was trying to solve the problem between Qian Qian and herself. But the boy was innocent. His name should not be the name mentioned during the quarrel between himself and Qian Qian at this time. The wall has ears, and maybe it will bring a lot of trouble to others because of his unintentional mention.

As Shen Yiyi said, as soon as she mentioned that there was such a person, she immediately set aside a place in Qian Qian's heart for the name of such a person. And her mood was also a little relaxed and a little lost because Shen Yiyi didn't say that person's name in the end. The psychology of girls is such a contradiction. Sometimes I can't tell what it's for.

Thereupon. Qian Qian and Shen Yiyi really started a conversation without mentioning the name of the boy who caused trouble.

"If it wasn't for your relationship, why did he never notice me. Never listen to me as much as you hear; Why does his gaze always revolve around you, but never look at me the way he looks at you? The dissatisfaction accumulated in his heart was all poured out towards Shen Yi at this moment. In the end, Qian Qian's voice involuntarily raised.

Shen Yiyi secretly breathed a sigh of relief when he heard Qian Qian really express his dissatisfaction. What she is afraid of is that Qian Qian does not face the problem, but keeps going around this problem. In that case, the contradiction between the two will always be only superficial and shallow, and there is a long way to go from truly solving the problem. Now that Qian Qian has said the question, she can answer it in a targeted manner.

"Qian Qian, do you think you are a princess or a queen? Shouldn't the person you like keep an eye on you and not look anywhere else? Does the person you like have to revolve around you and not be busy with other things? Shen Yiyi asked Qian Qian one by one, "I'm not saying that you don't deserve such treatment." Actually, I think that in a way, every girl is a princess and a queen, and one day she will meet a man who is willing to give her the treatment of a princess or a queen. But that doesn't mean she should expect every man to treat them like a princess or a queen. Even if you are the Queen of England, you cannot be the Queen of the Chinese. Isn't that so? If you expect to be treated like a princess by every man, it's a disease, and you have to be cured. ”

Shen Yiyi directly dismissed Qian Qian's possible mentality as a princess's illness. She said that Qian Qian had unrealistic expectations, and hoped that every man would revolve around her. But Qian Qian felt aggrieved when she heard it. When did she think that? Isn't that a vixen thinking like that? Does she look like a vixen? Shen Yiyi, who snatches someone's boyfriend, is a vixen.

Qian Qian said with annoyance: "What are you talking nonsense? When did I say I wanted every man to do that to me? I just want that person to do this to me. But he doesn't do that to me, he does that to you. You still say that about me. Don't you know how to be ashamed at all?! ”

Shen Yiyi asked her rhetorically: "Why should I feel ashamed? Can I choose how others treat me? For example, it makes me uncomfortable that you treat me like this now, but you care about how I feel. Change your attitude? It's simply not within my human power, so why should I be ashamed of something I can't control? ”

Qian Qian was quickly stopped by this very clear logical question. She really couldn't answer that question. Yu Liang could only sacrifice her skills again and began to divert the topic: "But why doesn't he do that to others, just to you?" Do you still say that you are not responsible? ”

"Don't you think it's more appropriate to ask the person who can control his feelings and let him answer you?" Shen Yiyi asked Qian Qian amusedly, "I'll ask you." I'm sure you've been observing me for a long time. Which eye of yours has seen that I have behaved differently towards that person than I have towards other people? Something like a vixen has to be that person that I treat differently than I do to anyone else, and in that case if the other person treats me differently. I said I was seducing people, and I admitted it. But in this situation, I haven't done anything myself. You put the blame on my head, you yourself are a reasonable person, do you think such an idea is rational enough? ”

After Qian Qian was asked by Shen Yiyi one by one. She thought back to the Shen Yiyi she had thought about in the past. I did find it difficult to find an example of Shen Yiyi having any smoky flattery. In fact, Shen Yiyi, whom she knew, had always been far more interested in learning and her off-campus life than in school. Even Shen Yiyi didn't live in the school at all. The amount of time she had contact with that person, apart from the time for class, was pitifully measurable. And with Shen Yiyi's personality, in full view of everyone, it is impossible to have any improper behavior at all. Otherwise, Shen Yiyi's attention is so high, there is a little bit of turmoil. It would have been known to the whole school for a long time. And so far, there has been no such rumor at all, which shows that Shen Yiyi really has the confidence not to admit that he has done anything.

In fact. Qian Qian herself didn't know that Shen Yiyi wouldn't do anything wrong at all. With Shen Yiyi's conditions, it is not a problem at all to find a man who is better than that person. Not to mention anything else, the one named Wang Kai, who usually comes to pick up Shen Yiyi, looks tall and handsome, and whether it is demeanor or financial resources, it should be more attractive to girls than that person. Qian Qian fully believed that as long as Shen hooked her hand one by one, that Wang Kai would not be able to escape her palm. And Shen Yiyi didn't even make a move on that person, so how could he do it and rob that person by himself. However, it is precisely because she has done nothing that she will lose to someone who has done nothing, that this is the most unbearable frustration. It is precisely because of this that he will be angry with Shen Yiyi. She had to be sure that Shen Yiyi must have done something, and she would lose to the other party. Only in that way can Qian Qian convince herself that she has nothing inferior to others at all.

However, as Shen Yiyi calmly opened up to speak, Qian Qian found that the kind of little trick she thought she had won was nothing in front of others. All thoughts are clearly seen. And the kind of anger that I want to use to anesthetize myself will look so ridiculous in the eyes of others. And his own image, because of his own anger, will it look particularly ugly?

Qian Qian's heart is already in chaos. She was no longer as firm as she was when she decided to fall out with Shen Yiyi. On the contrary, she was already a little at a loss. Because of the reasons he used to convince him to hate Shen Yiyi, he looked so pale and powerless under Shen Yiyi's cocoon.

After Shen Yiyi finished defending himself, he just opened a pair of big eyes and looked at Qian Qian. She was collecting Qian Qian's facial reactions after hearing her defense, and then guessing about her inner activity, so as to decide what she wanted to say next.

Seeing Qian Qian, it seemed that she had been moved by what she said. Shen Yiyi thought about it one by one, but he still had to give the other party some comfort.

She sorted out her thoughts and said to Qian Qian: "Classmate Qian Qian, since I have already said this, I might as well say a few more words." In this matter, I can say responsibly that I have not done anything that would cause anyone to misunderstand. I'm sitting upright in this kind of thing. So again, as I said earlier, I never felt like I was sorry for you in any way. ”

"As for you asking why that person didn't treat you the way you expected. If the other person has already made a commitment to you and established a relationship with you before, then it is not right for him to treat you like that. However, if people have not made any agreement with you, nor have they said that they have a special relationship with you, then you have no extravagance to others, and others have no responsibility. ”

"It's just that I think that a girl must love herself first. The older generation often says that girls should be reserved. Such a reserve is not the kind of feudal thinking that some people understand. In fact, I think that in the relationship between men and women, the one who begs for more is always more likely to get hurt. Why put yourself in such a low position and always wish someone else would give you a little more? When others know that you are more in need than the other person, you are already in a passive position. In such a situation, your thoughts, your feelings, are all affected by others. In this way, you may lose what you really cherish. ”

"So I think that if you crave that feeling, it's better to start by learning to let go. Tell yourself that you don't really need each other that much, and then face students and life with your most confident side, and show it to everyone. In this way, you may be able to get a happiness that you never thought of. ”

Shen Yiyi couldn't help but tell Qian Qian his views on love and life together. She felt that Qian Qian was just confused by her feelings for a while, and made a not so smart choice. And she, as Qian Qian's classmate, is also the victim of Qian Qian's stupid choice, and has the responsibility to tell some life experiences and rescue the other party from the young and naïve stupidity. This is not only to save Qian Qian herself, but also to save herself. Shen Yiyi really didn't want to get involved in this ridiculous whirlpool of life. (To be continued.) )