340 Training of children
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Look at those people with wives and concubines, the back house has been peaceful for a long time, young daughters-in-law abortions, slippery tires abound, I deceive, the concubine room thinks about seizing the wife's position all day long, and the main wife prevents the concubine room from giving birth to two hearts all day long, you calculate me, I calculate you, either the east wind overwhelms the west wall, or the west wall blocks the east wind...... With such a family and such a house, how can a man who is so good work hard outside? β
This is probably the most Yu family words since Su Yan can remember, both grace and power, Daniel said people, and coerced people were all used by her.
Yu's tone changed, and then became stern: "Who said such a rumor as a family split, after the family banquet, I went to the Buddhist hall to kneel and reflect." Doing stupid things again and again is really not a long memory. The Jiang family's sons and daughters do not accept concubines, but they can't lose their sons, and the wives they marry for you are all chosen by thousands of people, and they can be worthy of you. Don't let the old woman feel that there are times when she looks away.
Jiang Jiaerlang is worthy of you, you ...... You also have to be worthy of the Jiang family, your husband and children, can they all look at it? If they do the same with you in another day, when you are old, you will not want to live a peaceful life. When I marry a wife, as a mother, I am no longer a child, and I use my brain when I speak and act. Inside, you can't manage the house and settle down; Outside, you will cause trouble for your husband's family, what is the use of the Jiang family keeping you with such a woman? β
Yu has never been so angry as he is this year, shouting loudly, not like the usual spilling appearance, but aggressive in words, and Su Yan is also the first time to understand the majesty of her mother.
Even Jiang Shuncheng sat on one side and didn't dare to come out, and all the children and grandchildren lowered their heads, listening respectfully and humbly.
Even the children who were a few years old didn't dare to speak up, and sat honestly one by one, watching the Yu family exert their might.
He Shi trembled slightly, what did Yu mean by this?
Does it mean that if she does not listen to counsel like this, she will be divorced?
She was abandoned and returned to her mother's home, what about her children?
She really doesn't have a face.
Yu Shi exhaled, held the teacup, took a sip, moistened his throat, and said, "Okay, the family banquet begins!" Today, my old woman said that there are many of them, so that everyone should remember, 'If the family is peaceful, it will prosper, and if the family is chaotic, it will be defeated.'" ββ
Su Yan seemed to hear that Yu's words were not only said to everyone, but also to He's when he divorced his wife. Could it be that the rumors of the separation of the family in the house were caused by the He family. Moving her eyes to He's, she seemed to be frightened, her face was as pale as paper, her head was lowered, and no one dared to look at her.
Jiang Shupeng comforted in a low voice: "Pay attention to the future." It's easy to talk about everything on the side, don't say anything about separation. β
She just said it casually, she didn't want it to spread so quickly, at that time, it was the girl next to her and Zhang Shuangshuang's girl, her own girl knew that she was a straight person, and she wouldn't talk nonsense. It must be Zhang Shuangshuang's girl who came out, which is clearly asking her to scold.
He thought about his heart with hatred, and was full of anger, but he didn't dare to attack, and he hated Zhang Shuangshuang half to death in his heart.
Zhang Shuangshuang pretended not to see it, sandwiched the fish on the table on the side, and was picking up the fish bones for the eldest young master Qijun, and said cautiously: "You eat slowly, be careful of the thorns." β
Jiang Shulin and Jiang Chuan, who were originally preoccupied, cheered up after listening to Yu's words.
What Jiang Chuan's thought was: Grandmother's words clearly mean that the Ninth Princess is an excellent person, but ......
He was still afraid.
Jiang Shulin looked calm, thinking that he was going to marry Liu Fei in more than ten days, and no matter how heavy his heart was, it was much lighter.
This family banquet was a little dull and serious, and both men and women did not dare to be angry, even Jiang Shuhong was also well-behaved, sitting honestly on the side and listening to Yu's lectures.
Yu thought that Jiang Shuhong had been staying in the small study in the east of the mansion recently, and it had been half a month, so he didn't go to the eldest lady's house. glanced at it with his eyes, and said, "That kind of thing in the room, just play around, such a big person, don't let me worry about you." β
If the Jiang family does not accept concubines, it is impossible for a girl in the room to become a concubine and aunt.
Jiang Shuhong said in a low voice: "My son knows the truth. β
"It's good to know the way. As soon as February begins, I will be busy with the marriage of the sixth child, and I will tell you about these things in advance. Yu looked at Shen with her eyes, she was also humble, and replied in a low voice: "Mother-in-law is at ease, daughter-in-law and eldest master can be saved." β
Seeing that they knew the truth, the Yu clan did not repeat it.
Jiang Shuncheng calmed down, took a piece of fish and put it in Yu's bowl: "Eat quickly, if you don't eat, the children won't dare to move the chopsticks." He smiled flatteringly: "You are the hero of my Jiang family, you gave birth to six sons for me, and my lineage is prosperous, and you are indispensable." β
It's better to have more children and more blessings!
Shen thought that he had given birth to three sons and took the heir soup, and he regretted it inexplicably at the moment, knowing that Lu Dao had also given birth to a bunch, look at the Yu family, children and grandchildren around the knee, how happy this is.
Yu Shi smiled, his face was much warmer, "Eat it all!" I talked a little too much today, but I also saw that some people were too delinquent. I didn't speak anymore, and many rumors spread outside, and it really didn't look like that. β
Shen stood up and said to the grandmother and girl who were serving on the side: "You send people to spread the word everywhere, if there are any more people to discuss the matter of separating the family, it will be thirty sticks at the least, and the house will be sold at the worst." β
Mama answered, and led the girl to spread the word everywhere.
Jiang Shuncheng sandwiched braised pork to eat by himself, and said: "After the family banquet, except for the ignorant children, all the men went to the big study. β
The sons replied "yes".
Seeing that he was a little bored, Shen got up and said, "Everyone finish eating the fish in the bowl, I'm going to tell a joke." β
Yu stretched out his finger and said, "She's a pleaser." β
Shen glanced around and said with a smile, "You've finished eating all the fish, right?" β
No one eats fish anymore, and even the big * milk, which feeds the child with fish, also takes chicken for the child.
Shen said: "Once upon a time, there was a man who was very afraid of his daughter-in-law. One day, he secretly ate a box of rice cakes while his daughter-in-law was not at home. was discovered by his wife at night, scolded him severely, and punished him until the third watch before he was allowed to sleep. The next day, the more he thought about it, the more he couldn't figure it out, and he didn't know what was wrong with his fate, so he went to the street to find a fortune teller to tell his fortune.
The fortune teller asked, 'How much is Gui Geng?' He hurriedly replied, "I didn't kneel for long, but only until the third watch." The fortune teller said, 'I'm not asking this, I'm asking you how old you are?' He said, 'How many more boxes do I dare to steal?' I only ate one box. ββ
With jokes, the atmosphere is immediately different.
A room full of people leaned forward and backward laughing.
Du He didn't laugh, but said puzzledly: "Can you kneel for a box of rice cakes?" β
Yu Shi trained his children and grandchildren, but he didn't take it to heart, and said: "We don't understand, that in ordinary people, only half a catty of pork during the New Year abounds." β
Jiang Shukun said: "The Niu family in the east of Zhuangzi, Jinyang's hometown, because his daughter-in-law bought half a catty of meat for her sick son to eat, Uncle Niu beat Aunt Niu hard, saying that the money was reserved for the New Year. He smiled, "It's so bad that when I saw that my mother asked Mama Tian to go to the butcher to buy meat, I was afraid that my father would beat my mother when he came back." β
The three older sons have all endured hardships, and the two eldest have deep memories of their childhood.
Jiang Shuhong took over and said, "My two younger brothers and I often watch our mother tell Mama Tian to buy meat, but every time, the three of us brothers eat a bowl of noodles with oil soup. But he didn't even see the shadow of the flesh. β
Jiang Shuncheng thought of the bits and pieces before his high school, and felt ashamed, if it weren't for the Yu family's virtuous family, there would be today's wealth. "Your mother is reluctant to eat herself, and even a bowl of oil soup is given to the three of you, it is for your father to study, and your grandmother is not well, so I and your grandmother eat it."
Murong was very sullen and said, "Didn't Shu Kun say that there were still dozens of acres of land in his hometown back then? β
Jiang Shuncheng said: "When the eldest was six years old, Shun Xin got married, and Shun Xin's daughter-in-law thought that we had three sons and did not want to live with us. After three days and two ends, your grandmother knew about it, so she made the decision to live with us separately. At that time, the family had sixty acres of land, and your mother, who was kind-hearted, gave them thirty acres of land, and gave them the newly built yard.
How could life be so good, I went to the imperial city to take the exam, she was afraid that I would lose my body, so she went back to her parents' house to borrow money, and your grandfather and grandmother were not there at that time. Your uncle is a real person, and your aunt is afraid that we will not pay it back, so she will not say anything. Your mother is a fierce person, and your uncle sent money behind your mother's back, and you don't want to live or die. sold the dowry shop and scraped together the money to send me out. β
Hardships are shared, and husband and wife are deeply affectionate.
When Jiang Shuncheng was underdeveloped, the Yu family did not dislike him.
When her sister-in-law thought that Jiang Shuncheng was poor and refused to marry, she voluntarily married him and took her dowry and domestic servants to Jiang's house.
is the eldest lady of the family, but she can also endure hardships, take care of her mother-in-law and raise her son, which is why Jiang Shuncheng can tolerate her and connive at her. He can't be to outsiders for the time being, but he is very good to the people next to him.
When Yu scolded him, he could endure it, thinking that she had lived a hard life with him for many years, no matter how much she went too far, it would be very good for him and his mother.
Jiang Shuncheng thought of his old mother, before she died, Jiang Shuncheng, who had become developed, was not good to his wife, and specially said, "The wife of the chaff will not go to court", this is the last word, and it is also a reminder to treat the Yu family well.
He couldn't help but said, "This is too wrong, right?" I heard the third master say that the new courtyard was built by my mother-in-law, and it was bigger and more beautiful than the old house, but it was a serious brick house. β
In order to be in the countryside, a brick house is an excellent house, which costs more than the house next to it, and must be solid and decent.
Yu said with a smile: "Sister-in-law is like a mother, your grandmother is old, you can't let Shunxin and his family have a bad time, treat them well, and let your grandmother be relieved." After discussing with your father, I might as well give them a good life, so that they can live a good life, and everyone will be comfortable. Besides, Shunxin also grew up with me, so it's so embarrassing for him. It's all a family, so what can you do so clearly? It's nothing to suffer a loss, home and everything is prosperous. β
He felt that it was unfair, but in Yu's heart, it was all worth it.