Chapter 63 Talks About Mother

Soon after Kangxi returned to the palace, a news came out - Manchuria was covered with blue flags, and Wu Yashi, the daughter of the mighty leader of the guards, was canonized as a concubine because she was pregnant with a dragon heir.

Shuyun frowned when she heard the news, not because of jealousy. But Shuyun remembered that it was recorded in the history books that Wu Yashi was a concubine who was named a concubine after giving birth to Yongzheng, but now it has been advanced. Is it because of myself as a born-again person that history has begun to change?

A few days later, Han Daren, the vanguard of Wu Sangui's troops who occupied Tingzhou in the first lunar month, surrendered to the Qing Dynasty. Since then, Kangxi has taken another step forward in the pacification of the three feudatories.

Just when Kangxi was just breathing a sigh of relief, bad news followed.

In February of the seventeenth year of Kangxi (1678 AD), Liu Guoxuan led the Zheng army and attacked Haicheng. Lang Tingxiang, the governor of Fujian in the Qing Dynasty, and Huang Fangshi, the admiral of the navy, were stationed in Zhang. Zheng army besieged Haicheng, Cai Yin's troops helped, in early June, the city was exhausted, the Qing army starved to death, more than 10,000 people were killed in battle, the Qing army's deputy commander Mu Helin, land governor Duan Yingju hanged himself to death. Lang Tingxiang was dismissed, Huang Fangshi died of fright, and Haicheng was captured on June 10. During the same period, Changtai, Tong'an, Nan'an, and Zhangping were also occupied by the Zheng army, and the Zheng army began to besiege Quanzhou, and Fujian Province was shaken.

Kangxifu, who was a little more leisurely, fell into the tense and busy government again.

Despite this, Kangxi still did not forget to arrange the trivial matters in Shuyun's daily life, and asked about everything one by one.

As early as the first month, on the third day after Kangxi returned to the palace, he sent 6 grandmothers in their 30s to 40s, ranging in age, and they were very neat. And some of these six people were young. The old man who once took care of Kangxi is said to be very good at conditioning pregnant women and taking care of children. The other two are of age. But because he had a skill, he was not sent out of the palace. is still listening to Kangxi's side, and she is a very powerful palace maid.

At the same time, Kangxi sent 10 additional guards to protect the safety of Zhuangzi. These people are all good at one in a hundred, and Kangxi handed them all over to the commander of Bayan.

While busy with the war, Kangxi did not forget the compilation of the Kangxi Dictionary, as well as the promotion of Chinese pinyin and punctuation.

After the first month, Zhang Ying, a bachelor of waiting, and Gao Shiqi, a Chinese scholar, handed the excerpt with the promotion plan to Kangxi's desk. It plans in detail the compilation format of the Kangxi Dictionary, the number of personnel required, the time to complete it, and so on. There are also steps and specific methods for the promotion of Chinese pinyin and punctuation.

Kangxi read this plan and was very satisfied with the work of Zhang Ying and Gao Shiqi. I wanted to recruit the two of them and let them do what the plan was described. But after thinking about it again, this matter involves people who read all over the world, so we should be cautious and solicit everyone's opinions more, so that there will be less resistance to implementation. Those respected old scholars and courtiers must have inquired.

Kangxi thought of Shuyun again, after all, it was the Chinese pinyin and punctuation marks she first used, and Shuyun traveled all over the world. Experienced and knowledgeable. Could there be any different opinion in this regard. So Kangxi decided to ask Shuyun's opinion first. It would be even better if Shuyun could make some useful additions to the current plan.

Just take this opportunity to go and see Shuyun, Kangxi has been busy with the war in the south recently, and he hasn't seen Shuyun for more than a month. I really thought about it. ~ And she is pregnant with a child, and she is not accompanied by me, and I don't know if Lu Dao will feel uncomfortable. Even though the grandmothers report to me every day about her situation. But those minions are used to reporting good news and not bad news, which is really memorable. ~ Thinking of this. Kangxi couldn't bear it anymore, and immediately sent Li Dequan down to arrange. Get ready to go to the Xiangxue Sea.

Shuyun is three months pregnant, but she has not yet begun to show her pregnancy, wearing a sky blue loose robe, a loose bun tied on her head, and only a white hosta with a simple style and inlaid with a black big dong pearl. The skin is crystal hydrated and the cheeks are tinged with a faint flush. is leaning on the sofa, holding a bird's nest in one hand and a small spoon in the other, and sending it to the ruddy little mouth one by one.

When Kangxi came in, he happened to see her lazy and comfortable appearance. At the same time, I couldn't help but feel bitter in my heart~ I thought about her all day long, worried that she couldn't eat well for a while, worried that she couldn't sleep well for a while, afraid that she would be cold, and afraid that she would be freezing. But she is good, leisurely, and looks not only in good spirits, but also red in the face, as if she has gained some weight. Is it so comfortable that you don't miss me at all? ~

Seeing Kangxi come in, Shuyun looked a little happy and smiled at him, "Your Majesty, why are you here at this time, you haven't eaten yet." This bird's nest is very nice. As he spoke, he lifted the bowl in his hand to the top, "It's Mama He's stewed, the craftsmanship is really good, you can also have a bowl, first pad your stomach." I'll cook it myself and cook something delicious for you later. ”

Seeing Shuyun say this, Kangxi finally felt a little more comfortable. Hurriedly stopped Shuyun, who was about to get up, pressed her to the sofa, and sat down herself. Although there was still a faint feeling of unhappiness in his heart, he couldn't help but reach out and hug Shuyun into his arms. And he said, "Don't be busy, watch your body." I will arrange for Li Dequan to come to Sheng in a while. And until the child is born, you are not allowed to cook anymore, just leave these trivial matters to the minions, and I have sent them to be by your side. You just need to keep it honestly, and be responsible for giving me a healthy child when the time comes. ”

Shuyun didn't argue, and nodded obediently. He smiled again and said, "Don't worry, although I haven't given birth, but after all, I know how to heal, and I know how to regulate my body." Besides, my current age is the most suitable for having children, not only is it good for children, but my body is not prone to problems. You can rest assured. ”

When Kangxi heard this, he was very interested. So he asked, "What, is this birth still related to age?" ”

"Of course, the age of 23-30 is the golden age for a woman to have children. During this period, the woman's whole body is fully developed, and if she is pregnant and gives birth, the pregnant woman has fewer adverse symptoms, the risk of childbirth is small, the fetus grows and develops well, and the incidence of premature birth, malformed babies and dementia babies is the lowest. Of course, the best time to conceive is from September to October, autumn pregnancy, late spring and early summer, when the probability of giving birth to a child with various diseases is much smaller than that of other months. But now the custom is to get married at the age of 12 or 3 and then have children. At this stage, neither men nor women are fully developed, so how can they give birth to healthy offspring? ”

Kangxi frowned and said, "No wonder I couldn't keep the children earlier." But 23 years old is really older. ”

"Actually, as long as you reach the age of 18, there is not much of a problem. I'm talking about the year old, of course. There is also the fact that we have never paid attention to the education and training of girls. In fact, mothers have more influence on their children than fathers. Our family has always paid great attention to the origin of the marriage partner. In fact, if you want to give birth to an outstanding next generation, you should pay more attention to the knowledge, cultivation, and character of girls. Moreover, as long as you are a mother, if you are outstanding in these aspects, it is very beneficial for the child's future growth that she can be raised and enlightened by her mother before she enters school, or if she has frequent contact with her mother. ”

Kangxi smiled a little playfully and asked Shuyun, "You will ambush me, do you want to persuade me to give you this in your stomach to raise you personally?" ”

"That's just one aspect. But what I'm saying is true, and there's a basis for that. Some countries in the West have begun to pay attention to this research. In order to study the influence of motherhood on people, some scholars in Britain selected 50 successful people and 50 prison inmates in their countries and sent them letters asking them to talk about the influence of mothers on them.

An inmate from the prison wrote: When I was a child, my mother took a few apples, red and different sizes, and I took a fancy to the biggest and reddest one. Mother asked us, which do you want? I was about to say that I wanted the most popular one, but my brother preemptively said what I was going to say. When his mother heard this, she glared at him and said that a good boy must learn to give the best things to others, and not always think of himself. So, I had an idea and changed my words and said, "Mother, I want the youngest, and leave the eldest one to my younger brother." My mother was delighted to hear this, kissed me, praised me for being a sensible child, and rewarded me with the biggest apple. I got what I wanted, but I learned to lie. Later, I learned to steal, rob, fight, and commit unforgivable crimes by any means in order to get what I wanted. At this moment, I am writing to you here, recalling my mother's influence on me, and the matter of sharing apples is the most impressive. The reason why this criminal became a criminal was not because he made up a lie because he observed what he said when his mother was sharing the apples. However, the benefits that can be obtained from lies have left an indelible mark on his young heart. And constantly remind him that lies are more effective than truth. This event had a decisive impact on his later behaviour and perception of the outside world. The mother's inadvertent approach in a small matter led the child to go wrong and become a criminal, which may have been something that the mother would never have expected.

Another letter was written by a very famous official: When I was a child, one day my mother took out several apples, of different sizes. My brothers and I are vying for the big one. My mother held up the reddest and biggest apple in her hand and said to us, "This apple is the reddest, biggest, and most delicious, and everyone wants it." Very good! So, let's have a competition, I'll divide the garden into three pieces, one for each of you, and weed, and whoever does the fastest and best will have the right to it. "The three of us competed to weed, and as a result, I won the biggest apple. I am very grateful to my mother, who made me understand one of the simplest and most important truths. Be an honest man, do your best to do things, don't be lazy, don't take tricks. That's why we can succeed step by step. Shuyun adapted the investigation of American psychologists a little and told Kangxi.

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