Mrs. Wen and Grandma Wen entered the room with the Jin family, and after the three of them sat together and discussed, they decided to listen to the men's opinions. Jin's heart calmed down, and her daughter's family affairs were clear, she smiled and said to Mrs. Wen and Grandma Wen: "With your help as a staff officer, my heart is much more stable." ”

After the Jin family quickly said goodbye and left, Mrs. Wen sighed and said to Grandma Wen: "Eighteen's temperament, look at the fourth aunt who is most like you." Over the years, regardless of the ups and downs, her heart has remained stable, and her adaptability is very good. Grandma Wen smiled and didn't answer, she felt that Wen Chunyi was about to be cold by nature, and her feelings didn't fluctuate much. Mrs. Wen looked at Grandma Wen and said: "Now the main thing is to take a look at the man's temperament, and that temperament must be open and generous, but it can't be as light as eighteen." Two balls of ice together, they can only freeze each other, unable to warm up. ”

Hearing her words, the young grandmother couldn't help but laugh and agreed: "The temperament of the eighteenth sister, I look a little colder, but the children say that they like people like their aunt, and they say that she plays with them, and they are very attentive. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mentioned Wen Chunyi's temperament for the first time, and both of them felt that her temperament was just afraid that she would not please the elders, and as for the joy of her husband, she could only meet the right person. The two exchanged glances and felt that it was very necessary, and when they looked at each other, they created a condition to give the two parties a chance to meet and then decide on their relationship.

Jin went back to the room, and when she saw Wen Chunyi sitting steadily, she was a little anxious and said, "Xueduo." Your mind is still on the dowry. Wen Chunyi looked up at her in surprise and said, "Mother, I have inquired with Aunt Qingxun, and my dowry is already very generous in ordinary people's homes." Compared with the dowry that my sister married her brother-in-law back then, I think it is even more. My sister-in-law is going to enter the house next year, and she can't empty the house for me. What's more, the two younger brothers below want to study, and they will also marry their daughters-in-law and enter the house in a few years, and at that time, even if I got married, I couldn't show it. ”

Kim listened to her. Think about her words. Wen Xueyi, who is already married, although she still cares about her family, she can no longer devote herself to taking care of her mother's family as before. What's more, the daughter who gets married takes care of her mother's family like that. If outsiders know it, they will only laugh at their mother's brothers, and they will not be useful one by one. Can't afford a home. There is such a painful lesson as the Xu family. Everyone in Anseong no longer thinks that it is filial piety for a woman to take care of her mother's family. After Mrs. Wen wen, the connection between Wenfu and the Xu family became even more indifferent. Second Mrs. Wen didn't seem to remember that she still had this relative, she devoted herself to her grandchildren.

Kim no longer advises him to hear the spring. Sifang's family background is weak, and he has saved some silver money over the years, and most of it has been spent with the marriage of the eldest daughter, but when the younger daughter gets married, the whole family does not want to treat her badly, and it also costs the silver money saved later. The eldest daughter-in-law will enter the house, and in the future, the family will no longer be able to let the children act as before. Jin sighed lightly, nodded and said, "You must always prepare more of those embroidered sachets." Wen Chunyi laughed and said: "Mother, Aunt Qingxun and my sister have prepared nearly a hundred sachets for me, and I don't marry a big family, these are enough to recognize relatives." ”

Wen Chunyi looked at Jin's worried expression, she thought about it and said, "Mother, I haven't decided to marry yet, and I don't need to worry about these things for the time being." What we used to do, we still do. Wen Chunyi thought very thoroughly, she had never met someone who treated her like the sea in her previous life, and in this life, she was also not a person who was as beautiful as a fairy, so it was better to follow the trend of this era, and when it was time to get married, she would pick a person who was pleasing to the eye, and it became a big thing. As for dreams that are too extravagant, such as happiness, they are tightly stored and do not need to be turned out, arousing dissatisfaction with real life.

Little people, don't think about changing the world, don't do it yet, and be taught a lesson by the world first. Be a person who follows the trend, and will not be discarded by the times. In the next few days, Kim no longer stayed in the fourth room as usual, and she often went to the big room to discuss the progress. Wen Chunyi only heard that he was already checking, so he waited for the man's response, and then made an appointment to go out and meet outside. Because of Wen Chunyi's experience of seeing each other in a teahouse, this time, Mrs. Wen resolutely did not support the arrangement of seeing each other in a teahouse.

Autumn is deep, Wen Chunyi feels that the spring of Wenfu is strong, Mrs. Wen's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the Jin family often go out together, after five days in a row, Jin and Wen Chunyi mentioned in detail the five families they see, she carefully said the conditions, and then interrogated Wen Chunyi's meaning. Wen Chunyi listened to her words, and it sounded like the conditions were roughly the same, except for the different surnames of the man's family. It's just that she doesn't want to pick the right person from the five families, and this kind of thing will add so much to her reputation. She whispered, "Mother, why don't you help choose." ”

Jin couldn't bear to smell the spring unpleasantly, so he thought about it and said, "Wait for the night, I'll discuss it with your father and brother, and then I'll come and talk to you." Wen Chunyi breathed a sigh of relief, such a blind date, she felt embarrassed and nervous when she thought about the atmosphere. Jin looked at Wen Chunyi's eyes, and she sighed secretly in her heart, she had never seen anyone before, and her daughter would be so indifferent. After nightfall, the main room of the fourth room was very lively, and she was going to avoid Wen Chunyi who was going back to the room, but out of curiosity, she also cheekily stayed to listen. Wen Chaoqing and his wife and Wen Xiuyu brothers all turned a blind eye and let her stay in the room.

Wen Chunyi listened to them discuss the five candidates, and it sounded like they could all match people, instead of just seeing a few thin symbols on the paper like her. Wen Xiuyu obviously had a good impression of the second child of the other family, and he spoke for him again and again, saying: "I have seen him twice, and I see that he is a steady person." Jin frowned slightly and said, "Your sister-in-law said that he has a shortcoming, that is, he is really not smiling, and Xue Duo is not a person who likes to talk." With such a temperament, he is only afraid that after getting married, he will suffocate Xueduo in the future. ”

Wen Xiuyu looked at Wen Chunyi, who was listening, and saw her with an excited look on her face, as if listening to someone else's business. He could only turn his attention back and sigh in agreement with Kim's words, saying, "Xue Duo's temperament is sometimes quite boring, and she wants to find another person who is as boring as her, and in the future, their little children will be pitiful." Wen Chunyi glanced at Wen Xiuyu, and when she saw that Wen Chaoqing had already glared at him, she directly ignored the past. This second young master of the Fang family passed by like this. There are also four family choices, one of which is selected, Wen Xiuyu didn't have time to take a look in private.

He asked to wait until he had seen it before talking about the family. After discussion, soon the third young master of the Zhang family talked a lot when he was a child, and Wen Xiujun inquired clearly. The reason is that Wen Chunyi's temperament is not as good as she imagined, and she is afraid that after getting married, she will do it directly because the man talks too much and gets upset. Wen Chunyi listened to their words on the side, imagining the violent scene, and felt that it was indeed so. When the third person is afraid that the peach blossoms will be countless in the future, they can become a reason, Wen Chunyi can only say that there are various coincidental factors that can be achieved by marriage.

The five candidates all have their own shortcomings, and finally everyone came to ask Wen Chunyi's opinion. Wen Chunyi sighed softly and said, "I thought that I had a bad reputation when I was a child, and when I grew up, I didn't whitewash my reputation. I don't know if other people will choose me like this, I feel sad when I think about it. Daddy, brother, you pick slowly, you can choose whoever you want, as long as other people's families are equally happy. Wen Chunyi's words reminded the people in the room, Wen Chaoqing and Jin's faces showed a worried look at the same time, Wen Xiuyu said calmly: "The rumors stop at the wise, whose daughter is young and has no problems." What's more, you are a rare sensible child when you are young. ”

Wen Chunyi once again sighed at her place in the hearts of her family, it turned out that she was such a perfect person. Wen Chunyi took a look at the expressions on Wen Chaoqing and Jin's faces, she sighed secretly in her heart, the past can't be mentioned lightly, and the most hurtful thing to mention is the hearts of Wen Chaoqing and Jin. She laughed, and said with a look of unmindfulness: "My brother is right, if I believe the rumors outside, such a family, after I marry in, I am afraid that I will not be comfortable." If you want to choose, you must also choose a family that doesn't care about rumors. Wen Chunyi left very comfortably, anyway, she is not the one who can make the most decision in the end, and it is not good for her to know more.

Wen Chunyi had a good night's sleep, and after getting up in the morning, the family had breakfast, and Wen Chaoqing and his son went out. Jin said to Wen Chunyi with a cautious expression: "I still want to discuss the candidates we discuss with your aunt and sister-in-law again." I'll talk to you again when I'm settled. Wen Chunyi looked at her with a headache and said, "Mother, you don't need to be so nervous, it's best to follow fate." The Jin family finally quickly looked for Mrs. Wen and talked to Mrs. Wen, and waited until the two villains happily ran to find the spring to pull the vegetables, and the three of them pulled the vegetables back, and she never came back.

On this day, Jin's watch was too mysterious, but fortunately, Wen Chunyi was not a curious person, and after asking her once, he didn't have the heart to ask again. Anyway, what should come can't be stopped. I heard that blind marriages and dumb marriages have had many happy marriages. She might as well just bet on it. Winning and having a happy decades, losing is just a light life for decades. Wen Chunyi quickly figured out the joint, in the previous life, she had seen how many lovers with strong affection, after getting married, in just a few years, the affection drifted away with the wind. Some husbands and wives have even become enemies who know each other best for various reasons.

Wen Chunyi was too calm, and Jin's heart was not at peace, and she thought about it: "Xueduo, do you want to talk to your brother and take a look at the five people we talked about first?" Wen Chunyi didn't have the heart to look at other people's future husbands, she shook her head lightly and said, "Mother, I believe in the vision of the elders, you decide." (To be continued......)