Wishing for a son to become a dragon and a woman to become a phoenix should be a common instinct of human beings. Not to mention humans, even animals will take care of their young in every possible way. Not only will they instinctively take care of it, but they will also be given a lot of hunting and survival skills.

Animals are still like this, and we, who are at the top of the evolutionary chain, are naturally concerned about the healthy growth and development of future generations. This should be a common trait of all human beings. Otherwise, how could there be so many parents who have worked hard to educate their children?

It's just that in the process of the evolution of human civilization, the way of educating children has changed greatly. For example, in Eastern culture, it is customary to be responsible for the whole life when educating children. And parents in the West.

is very good at teaching children to work their own after they become adults at the age of eighteen. Even give children a lot of encouragement, motivation, and opportunities to experience from an early age. For example, if a child falls, motivate him to be a strong child.

Encourage him to get up on his own. Encourage your child to dress themselves, do something on their own, and so on. Such parents raise children who are strong and independent; or the ability to survive is very strong.

In contrast, education in Eastern cultures is much inferior. Whether it is a rich family with superior conditions or a poor family. From the moment the child is born, the parents act as full-time nannies.

Parents always feel that their children are small and always feel very sorry for their children, so they give them a comfortable life with clothes to reach out and eat to open their mouths. As a result, not only does the child suffer much worse in terms of independent survival; It can even become lazy.

This is the main reason why some of the most common gnawing old people are appearing now. All of them are in their twenties, and even those in their early thirties are still raised by their parents. This is an incredible thing in Western culture.

In addition, it is easy to keep them in the corrosion of spoiling. Become willful, domineering, selfish, and delicate. There are even many who don't even know the most basic things and can't do well. This is also why in Eastern culture, there are many things about killing fathers with sons.

If it is a palace struggle and a property dispute, there will be more such incidents. At the same time, there are countless things that are disrespectful, unfilial, and rebellious. In modern times, there have been many disputes with parents over property.

These are rare in Western cultures. Because they have instilled in their children the concept of independence and self-improvement from an early age. And give the children a lot of exercise, but also for their growth and development to provide a good opportunity.

Therefore, many young people gradually break away from their parents after they reach the age of 18. There is nothing more to do with them than family affection. If there is anyone who still asks their parents to sponsor them when they become adults, or they still pay attention to their parents' property.

That's a shameful and incompetent thing. So in Western culture, we rarely hear about the rich second generation and the like. After all, in their cultural philosophy, if they don't earn it by their own hard work, it's not their own.

No matter how much property your parents have, it doesn't have much to do with you. Because of this, the children of the richest man all started from working as a salesman, and constantly trained themselves. If it weren't for the successful entrepreneurship over there, why would there be so many more people than on our side?

At the same time, their parents do not expect their children to provide for their old age. In a well-developed security system like others, when you are old, you may enter a nursing home, or have enough security ability to support the elderly. There is no need to worry about pension and other things at all.

Because of this, parents are not dependent on their children. Without dependence, there are no worries, and you can let go of your children to carry out bold experience education. When the children know that all their wealth needs to be accumulated by themselves.

They don't have a sense of superiority or a bad mentality of dependence. Therefore, in the West, let alone graduating from university; is just an adult, and most of them have gone out to start a business and work hard. This is also an important factor in promoting the progress of Western civilization and the development of society.

Otherwise, how could the West have far surpassed our civilization of thousands of years in just a few hundred years. This cannot but be regarded as a credit to the success of people's education and enlightenment. We can't say that their education is terrible.

We're pretty good for nothing. But at least, there are many advanced and successful aspects of people's education. The important role played by these advanced countries in social development and civilization progress is obvious to all and is worthy of our study.

In particular, young people's attitudes towards career and marriage are worth learning. Especially in terms of the concept of marriage, people care about what they have in common in all aspects, and whether they can be happy and happy when they get along with each other.

In many cases, I don't think too much about my family, car, house, etc. As long as the other party has a stable income, can support the family, and can make the family live a happy life.

As for cars, houses, etc., it is completely up to them or two people to work together to make money. This is a very proud and fulfilling thing in the eyes of others. It's even very romantic and happy.

But who of us has this enlightened and advanced idea. It will be considered stupid, naïve, naïve, and even unbelievably other. And our idea of chasing fame and fortune is incredible and even shameful in the eyes of others!

After all, people advocate long-term development achievements, not impure profit-making or some transactions on our side. When it comes to these, everyone should deeply feel the same way, many of our young people, many times when facing feelings.

The first thing to consider is your own immediate interests. For example, women should consider whether the other party's family background is good, whether they have a car, whether they have a house, whether they have a good job, how much savings they have, etc. Men are thinking about whether they are beautiful or not.

Even they have to consider whether the family has money and so on. Just look at it, when our Chinese people are looking for foreign objects, most of them are staring at the dollars and green cards in their hands.

Even if the other party has nothing, then at least he is a foreigner? At the very least, you can take the opportunity to go abroad? There may be some unexpected benefits. Therefore, there are not a few emotional liars who go abroad.

This is also a big factor why some foreigners look down on us. Actually, we sometimes ask ourselves to think about it. The lack of virtue done by our black sheep compatriots makes us ashamed and ashamed, and even looks down on ourselves.

There is no need to say anything about these rights and wrongs, just feelings. Of course, there is also a great need for us to reflect. After all, it doesn't do anyone any good to let it spread. At this time, it is not difficult for us to understand why some foreigners have such good conditions.

found a very ugly Chinese girl. Because, many times, people don't have bad motives. We only care about the feeling and happiness of being with each other. As long as you can get along well and live well, it's enough.

When we think that foreigner is incredible, people still think we are unreasonable. Although, the gap between us and others cannot be simply measured by right and wrong.

The problems that we have are not just about education. But a lot of times it's up to education. In particular, the gradual enlightenment of people's education and the concept of child-rearing, as well as the change of advanced progress, are also inseparable from the tremendous function of education.

This is not to say that our concept of education is not enlightened at all. In fact, our ancestors were still very wise. Thousands of years ago, Meng's mother's three migrations, and later mother-in-law's tattooing, etc., are all classic traditions of our ancestors' very enlightened education and motivation for their children to grow up.

Unfortunately, thousands of years later, we have all lost almost all the traditional treasures of our ancestors. Even many parents can't fully understand what Meng's mother is moving three times and what her mother-in-law's tattoo is talking about.

Then they can't be expected to educate their children. In the past, after we have evolved for many years, maybe few people will remember such a thing again. However, there are also people in front of the eye who can not only remember these classic traditions.