Chapter 12 Special Training
Seeing that Wang was not angry, he continued: "These things, such as celebrity calligraphy and paintings, antique vases, and other things, are not something that money can buy, and they have to be sold by someone, so many official families have begun to prepare dowries for their children from a very young age!" When I saw my wife, I didn't seem to have this intention, but I just wanted to ask my wife, what kind of charter is it? Miss is nine years old this year, and these dowries must be prepared early, and it is not too late to prepare! ”
Wang opened his mouth, this, he was exposed to so many things at once, Wang's brain said that it was not enough, and he said later: "Well, what Mama said is reasonable, but I still have to discuss this with the master, Mama, you see?" ”
"It should be, it should be, I just give Mrs. a reminder, a lot of things are starting to prepare now, it's not too late, although the time is a little urgent, but, when the young lady gets married, the dowry is rich, and the young lady can live well, right?" Rong Mama said.
Mama Rong said these words politely, dare to say this, the main reason is that the three members of the Wang family are really good, as long as what they say is reasonable, they will not be angry, and Mama Rong also saw that the Wang couple really loved Wang Ya, did not prepare a dowry for Wang Ya, without this awareness, Mama Rong would also remind, otherwise, even if she tried her best, if the Wang family did not appreciate it, Mama Rong did not have to put her face on the cold ass of the Wang family, as long as she fulfilled her obligation to remind them.
The Wang family is indeed not angry, but for the first time, they faced the matter of Wang Ya's marriage in the future, and they were a little caught off guard by the arrival of the word dowry, and they didn't have to think about the dowry given to Wang Ya, anyway, they couldn't give birth to children in this life, and their family property must be given to Wang Ya. If someone is willing to pass on a child, the Wang family is also willing, for not being able to pass on the family line for Wang Sheng, the Wang family is not guilty, but if the Wang family is allowed to leave the family property to the stepson who does not know where the road is, the Wang family is not happy, so naturally, all the family property should be given to their daughter, but the Wang family did not think of it. It turned out that this preparation of the dowry was such a complicated matter.
Wang's mood was very complicated, but she finally realized that she could no longer treat the current things with her previous vision and previous views, and her status had changed. Then she should also change with it, and not be so narrow-minded. Otherwise. Wang also had a hunch that he would be cocooned because of this.
In the evening, when Wang Sheng came back, Wang said to Wang Sheng the suggestion made by Rong Mama, of course, for Wang's own. Wang didn't say anything, but just said about Wang Ya's dowry, and he wanted to start picking up Wang Ya's female red, qin, chess, calligraphy and paintings.
Wang Sheng listened and agreed very much, and said, "What Mama said is not wrong. We should be ready, today a colleague also told us that they married a daughter, basically half of the family's property to go, the things to prepare are called more, what antique vases, what celebrity calligraphy and painting, what Zhuangzi to marry, many of them, said that people with background will do this, so, we should be ready, our family only has a child, these things have to be left to her. ”
"Kid and his father, blame me for not being able to do this!" Wang was told sad by Wang Sheng, and he couldn't help but redden, and he blamed himself a little.
Wang Sheng hugged Wang and said: "Child, mother, look at what you said, don't you like it, what do you mean by blaming your body and bones?" If it weren't for my uselessness, I couldn't let you have a good confinement, and this kind of thing wouldn't happen, don't worry, it's enough for us to have a little girl in our family! Wang Shengdao.
Although Wang Sheng does want a son, but he is not without conscience, it is impossible to take a concubine or something for this matter, although Wang Sheng has not had a concubine, but he also knows a lot of filth in the inner courtyard, Wang has lived a hard life with him in the past, he has not complained at all, he always pays silently, Wang Sheng doesn't know how others are doing, anyway, he can't do such a thing.
Wang said movingly: "The child is his father! "Wang's original heart was dead on whether he could have children, and he didn't want to see it, but seeing Wang Sheng like this, Wang couldn't help but think about it, and felt that he should no longer go to see it, it couldn't be cured before, maybe the doctors there had limited medical skills, but now it's different, they all say that the people in the capital are outstanding, maybe there is a doctor with good medical skills here.
The next day, Wang said to Mama Rong: "Mama, what you said is very reasonable, but you also know Lu Dao, I don't know how to prepare the dowry, and I want Mama to teach me, for the etiquette you said, Mama will teach me when she has time, as for Miss, please also please!" ”
Mama Rong couldn't help nodding secretly, sure enough, this family was not mistaken, and it was the master who could accept it with an open mind.
Mama Rong got Wang's words, and she was not polite, and told Wang and Wang Ya etiquette every morning for an hour, and trained Wang's walking pace and posture, so that the walking was like flowing water, and the skirt foot lines did not move.
In addition to this, in the afternoon, Wang Ya and Wang have to learn to taste, not to mention anything else, the popular tea tasting, not to mention proficient, at least not to understand anything, everything that the upper class basically knows, now they have to pick it up. There is also to learn how to identify clothes, understand the material of clothes, good or bad, how to match colors, will match clothes and jewelry by yourself, have a vision, and have a good eye for jewelry, don't just stare at those magnificent jewelry, that is the behavior of nouveau riche.
Wang's is okay, because she is a married woman, Rong Mama's requirements are much lower, only require Wang's behavior to behave properly, and then, you must know how to match your own clothes, distinguish the quality of clothes, and know a little bit of your own maintenance knowledge, to put it bluntly, it is to make people feel that Wang is a qualified official wife, living a petty bourgeois life, and has a good vision, which will not make people look high, but at least it will not be laughed at, of course, Rong Mama also said, if it really won't, you must not pretend to understand, otherwise, It's even more troublesome to mess with jokes.
In addition to these, Mama Rong also asked the Wang family to slowly pay attention to the interconnection between officials, especially between the inner houses, who is friendly with whom, who has enmity with whom, that is, when holding a banquet, we should pay more attention to these things, and explained some basic table manners to the Wang family.
Don't look at it too much, there is a comparison, Wang Ya has to learn all of these things that Wang Ya has to learn, not only that, but she was also pressed by Mama Rong to learn needlework, reading and reading is nothing, but Mama Rong also wants Wang Ya to learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
Originally, Wang Ya wanted to resist, but Mama Rong said: "Miss, if you really want to be like an official lady, don't you want to be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting?" Doesn't Miss want to be like that? ”
Just like that, let Wang Ya learn obediently, Mama Rong smiled secretly in her heart, she knew that Miss Lu Dao would agree, usually when she talked about what those official ladies were doing, Miss was always bright-eyed.
Wang Ya has this heart, Rong Mama naturally wants to teach Wang Ya, but, for the qin, chess, calligraphy and painting, Rong Mama can only comment, but she does not have this ability, Rong Mama herself is not good at playing, let alone teaching Wang Ya, so, Rong Mama means to quickly give Wang Ya a lesson to come back, generally now can be a teacher, qin, chess, calligraphy and painting are proficient in everything, if not, Gao Jin hired an old master, it is also possible, however, it is best to be a woman, some famous talented women in the capital, it is not for nothing that they become widows, Rong Mama's most impressive thing is that Su Xiaomei, the sensational talented girl back then, but unfortunately her heart is higher than the sky, but she accidentally married a gentleman for a while and was tortured, but fortunately, this gentleman drank too much later, and was jealous of others in the restaurant, and was accidentally beaten to death.
Later, the in-laws couldn't tolerate Su Xiaomei, just because Su Xiaomei didn't have a child, and her mother's family didn't like Su Xiaomei very much, when the queen was there, she was very embarrassed when she talked about Su Xiaomei.
Therefore, the best candidate in Mama Rong's heart is this Su Xiaomei, the key is that Su Xiaomei's character is also worthy of admiration, and it is not that no one came to the door to ask for marriage after Su Xiaomei was driven out, but Su Xiaomei said that it was a good woman who did not marry a second husband, although that gentleman was very scummy, but she could not be unrighteous and did not plan to marry again, which caused a sensation in the capital, and it was for this reason that Mama Rong and the queen would hear about Su Xiaomei, and they would be at ease with Su Xiaomei.
As for the female celebrity and cooking, Mama Rong plans to teach it herself, not that Mama Rong is proud, in fact, her embroidery work was one of the best in the palace back then, but she has never only served the queen, so she is unknown.
Moreover, in order to make the queen stable, the queen's maiden family focused on cultivating Mama Rong, the female celebrity and cooking skills were not too much, the kung fu of making tea was also first-class, and she would comb her hair, and there were some maintenance methods, so to speak, Mama Rong was really a treasure, and it was impossible to dig it up, needless to say, the most precious thing about Mama Rong was the experience of that life.
Therefore, these two things, Mama Rong plans to go into battle in person, the female red, Mama Rong is the director of all families, what Shu embroidery, Su embroidery, double-sided embroidery she will, and cooking, in fact, Mama Rong's cooking skills can not be said to be good, but once other chefs can't reach, that is, Mama Rong is good at making medicinal food, in fact, the general meal does not need Mama Rong to take action, but like medicinal food, the recipes in Mama Rong's heart, there are not a hundred, there are also eighty, and they can be arranged according to the season.
Rong Mama now mainly focuses on cultivating Wang's words and deeds, as well as walking, instilling etiquette in Wang, some common sense, and some knowledge, Rong Mama has also trained the little maid before, although the content is different, but it is good to let Rong Mama have a reference, train Wang, that is handy. (To be continued......)
PS: Bow to Agatha for contributing the 6th pink to this book, Bow to thank Mercury's Masked Superman for contributing the peace charm to this book, and bow to thank Lazy Tong for contributing the 7th pink to this book!
I'm sorry everyone waited for a long time, I can only say that I didn't mean to meow~!
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