Seeing people's hearts for a long time (1)
"The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time!" This philosophical saying is not only very incisive, but also very general! In daily life, in many cases, we need to get along with him for a period of time before we can know how he behaves.
Sometimes, though, you can tell what kind of person he is from his face. For example, honest and simple, hypocritical and sleek, insidious and cunning, full of fierce faces, etc. Coupled with his words and deeds, you can basically understand some of the person's situation.
However, these understandings are all superficial. If some people are very good at disguise, then you will not be able to know the truth about him. How else to say, "A man should not be a person." So to get to know a person.
You still have to get along with him, and it's even better to be able to work with him. In this way, you can get to know him more deeply from his personality and other aspects. No matter how good he is at disguise, after all, "temperament is difficult to change".
Knowing a person is not only important for making friends, but also about a lifetime of happiness and the success or failure of a career. Of course, the premise is that you are ready to be with him for life, or start a business together. If you have such intentions.
Then you'll have to get to know him well. Otherwise, it will cause you a lot of damage and damage. The worst thing is that one misstep will become a thousand years of hatred! Although this is an exaggeration, it is also possible.
If there is no such possibility, Yao Jiaxin's best friend Meng Meng will not suffer from it! That's a long story. Originally, Meng Meng thought that he had found a gentle and considerate Ruyi Langjun who could rely on him for life.
She even began to plan to talk about marriage. But recently, she found that her boyfriend not only had a lot of abnormalities, but also became very different from before. Even I became a little unrecognizable.
Even though the appearance is still the same sunny smile. But. Behind these smiles, there are some more things that make people wonder and wonder. And he doesn't care about Meng Meng as much as he used to.
The main thing is that there are signs of a change of heart. When Meng Meng cried like Yao Jiaxin at first, Yao Jiaxin persuaded Meng Meng not to be too careful and retreated in her heart. Because. She also feels that her boyfriend does have a lot of unpredictable things.
If nothing else, let's just talk about his restless and self-conscious character. It's very unsettling. Originally, he was already a person with a girlfriend. Supposedly, you should keep a proper distance from other girls. But not only did he not care about Mengmeng's feelings, but he also still mingled with other girls.
Although, it was for his job, and he had to do it. However, anyone with a discerning eye can see that it is just an excuse. Even if you're a fashion designer and can't do without a female model.
That doesn't mean you can spend all day and night with them. That doesn't mean you don't have to keep your distance from them. There are not a few people who get along with costume artists and female models, but no one is like him.
It's no wonder that Mengmeng will be suspicious and cry like Yao Jiaxin. However, this can't be blamed only on Mengmeng's boyfriend. Mengmeng also has an unshirkable responsibility in choosing the gatekeeper. Despite the feelings of this thing. It is impossible to be so rational in many cases.
Especially for low-IQ women who are in love, there is little rationality at all. However, then we have to examine his character well? After all, this is the person who wants to take TOEFL for life!
This is not to be sloppy. But Yao Jiaxin got on someone else's thief ship in a daze. To put it bluntly, it's not that the economic conditions of the people are better. Although Mengmeng's boyfriend is not a rich second generation or an official second generation.
It's just that I met a few gods of wealth in terms of clothing design, and I made a lot of money. It's a petty bourgeoisie. plus the appearance of people with dignified appearance and talent. Naturally, Meng Meng is attracted by the spring heart and dizziness.
Because of these, he will naturally attract the wind and butterflies; Coupled with his restless and self-contained personality, it is not too surprising that he can do something out of the ordinary. In the face of such a person, anyone will be suspicious.
Who is to blame for this? It's no wonder that many girls nowadays often keep their eyes on Gao Fushuai. I only care about the superior conditions of being rich and handsome. There's still a lot to look at their character.
Even if the other party is like her boyfriend, he is not handsome. But as long as you have money and are suave, you will also be confused by some money worshippers. Although this cannot be regarded as the responsibility of a gold worshipper.
But they are also responsible. If they weren't so vain, greedy for pleasure, and less money-loving, they wouldn't be caught in bed easily. They will not be dizzy and looking for life by their play.
Speaking of which. It seems that it is all these rich men. But a slap can't be slapped, and if it weren't for those money worshippers who sharpened their heads and stuck them up, they might not be so unscrupulous.
Not to mention some money worshippers with ulterior motives. did everything they could to make these rich men who were close to the rich and handsome fall under their pomegranate skirts. If you count those special cases. Then you have to cry out for those rich men.
Of course, they also have an unshirkable responsibility. The main thing is to use their unique advantages to play with the feelings of those who are simply ignorant, have ulterior motives, or throw into the hugs. Even if it's not bad enough like her boyfriend.
But as long as there is some restlessness and self-control. Or if there are some flowers, then there is the possibility of transformation. Before making such friends, you need to be very rational to understand and examine the character of the friends you are dating.
Of course, it's not that we're too guarded or suspicious of everyone. The main thing is to avoid harm, we just have to take some protective measures. No way, who let us live in such a complex and materialistic era!
It is precisely under the temptation and stimulation of materialistic desires that many people, in order to satisfy their vanity and endless materialistic enjoyment, they are single-minded, crazy, and even unscrupulous to satisfy their desires.
And ignoring, or not thinking about something rational at all. For example, the character that needs to be treated carefully when making friends and choosing a mate. Especially some money-worshipping girls with strong vanity have little rationality at all.
But the result? The only one who can be hurt is himself. Just like the clouds. Although Meng Meng is not a money worshipper, is she? It's not so unscrupulous. But the vanity is stronger. (To be continued......)