The weather was getting colder, and in the afternoon, Jin and Wen Chunyi sat in the room, doing their work, and the two of them talked. Every day, Wen Chunyi would tell the Jin family what her sisters-in-law chatted with her and said. Wen Chunyi is not an ignorant person, she understands the intentions of her sisters-in-law to some extent, she writes down what they said very carefully, and understands the involvement between the families by the way.

When the spring of next year arrives, Wen Xiuyu gets married, and the four rooms add people, and family affairs can no longer be as simple as before. Jin sometimes looked at Wen Chunyi and said with some concern: "Xueduo, Chi Chun is a good boy, but after you get married, you have to follow his mother in everything, and you can't be too self-assertive." Wen Chunyi smiled and nodded, Wen Da and Young Grandma explained to her in private that the Zhong family had never thought of setting a family affair for Zhong Chichun so early, and this family affair was Zhong Chichun's meaning, so Mrs. Zhong had been making trouble with him for a few days.

Grandma Wen said comfortingly: "After a woman gets married, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important, but how your husband treats you is the most important thing." A mother-in-law has a son in her heart, and some things will be more or less tolerant of some daughters-in-law. After you got married, you kept the rules on the big side, so that the third aunt couldn't find fault with it, and she couldn't deliberately embarrass you. If you don't understand something, the third aunt doesn't speak, you can use the excuse to talk to the eldest aunt and the second aunt, they are all friendly people. I didn't want you to know about these things, for fear that it would affect your relationship with Chi Chun's mother.

But I thought about it, if I don't say it, your eldest aunt naturally can't say it, so if you marry into the Zhong family with dark eyes like this, if the third aunt remembers the past. You are also a rough character, but I am afraid that as time goes by, there will inevitably be disputes. It is impossible for Chi Chun to accompany you at home often, and the inner house is uneven, and the third aunt is an elder, and the relationship between husband and wife will be affected. You know in your heart how to respect your elders and respond to your elders' attitudes. The relationship between husband and wife will be deepened. Wen Chunyi was very grateful and looked at Grandma Wen. whispered: "Sister-in-law, thank you for mentioning me." ”

Grandma Wen secretly breathed a sigh of relief in her heart, and everything looked like this family affair was complete. But to be honest, it didn't work well at the beginning. How will it be in the future. It also needs Zhong Chichun to have a heart. Wen Chunyi acted cautiously. The Zhong family is not allowed to have concubines and daughters born, but the men may not be as dedicated as the third master of the Zhong family. Hearing the news that the young grandmother heard from her mother's family, the grandfathers of the Zhong family. Before getting married, they all had a room, but when they got married, they were sent out. And Zhong Chichun is because he has been outside for two years, and the family has not had time to arrange a room for him.

Now that the two families have decided on their affairs, Zhong Chichun will also participate in the scientific examination next year, and it is impossible for the Zhong family to arrange people around him. Wen Chunyi thought about it very clearly, it is impossible for her to take all the good things in the world. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no experience of living together, and because of the relationship with the same man, they live under the same roof in a hurry, and they have their own living habits, so they can get along so quickly. Zhong Chichun is the beloved child of the Zhong family, he can be willful, but as his wife, he has no right to be willful, only to bow his head and be a man.

Wen Chunyi did not tell the background of this family affair that the family knew about it. However, Wen Chaoqing heard a little about the small turmoil that the Zhong family had had, and he was very worried about Wen Chunyi, and when he saw that she was still the same as before, his heart was somewhat calm. Wen Chunyi listened to the words of her sisters-in-law, and somewhat understood some things, this is an era where absolutely men are in charge, and going with the flow is the only thing a woman can do. Wen Chun thought about it, and was glad that he and Zhong Chichun had never had affection, so he would not beautify the life of the Zhong family in the future, the base point was set low, take your time, and always find a suitable way to get along.

After Zhong Chichun came back from outside, Wen Chunyi only saw him twice, including the time when the Zhong family came to the door. Wen Chunyi heard that Zhong Chichun also came to Wenfu with his family, but it was only because after the family affairs were set, it was inconvenient for the two to see each other again, and it was said that this would make the marriage go badly. must wait until the marriage letter from the government comes down before the two can meet. It was only at this time that people understood that after the marriage certificate came down, this family affair could be considered stable. After Wen Chunyi knew about these things, he asked the Jin family, and Fang learned that the marriage letter of Wen Xiuyu and Miss Zeng's family had already been done after the filial piety.

It turned out that Miss Zeng was already her sister-in-law, and she only had to hold a ceremony. No wonder Wen Xiuyu and Miss Zeng's family come and go from time to time, and the people of the Zeng family are clearly happy to have a relationship between them, but they are not allowed to have private meetings alone. Wen Xiujun brothers and Wen Chunyi both followed Wen Xiuyu out to meet Miss Zeng and Zeng brothers, two families, so they are still acquainted. Miss Zeng's brother knew that Wen Chunyi had set up a family affair, and after Wen Chunyi was inconvenient to go out, they also asked someone to send a wedding gift, and when it was convenient, everyone would go out to play together.

Wen Xiuyu was happy to see that his younger siblings got along well with the Zeng family, and he said with a smile: "Judging from the relationship between the brothers and sisters of the Zeng family, we know that the Zeng family is upright. After Wen Chunyi knew that Miss Zeng was her sister-in-law, her heart also settled down, and the two sisters-in-law wrote letters from time to time to exchange some experiences, generally saying that it was some small things in the family, such as the style and pattern of Wenfu's winter clothes, and the preferences of the elders in Wenfu that Miss Zeng wanted to know. And Miss Zeng will also tell Wen Chunyi what her family has heard, and by the way, she will gain some knowledge.

After Wen Chunyi's family affairs were settled, Miss Zeng specially asked someone to send Wen Chunyi many new patterns, which were very suitable for the patterns of sachets and handkerchiefs used in gifts. She also made a special mention that the fragrance of spices in the sachet may not be liked by everyone, so it is better to make more commonly used handkerchiefs. Although it takes ten gifts to give, it is economical and practical and everyone can use it. Listening to the words of the future eldest son and daughter-in-law, the Jin family also agreed: "Xueduo, listen to your sister-in-law, making a handkerchief is more convenient than a sachet." Your Aunt Qingxun has prepared the materials for a long time, and she will send the fabrics over when your family affairs are decided. ”

After Wen Xueyi got married, Jin and Qingxun would save some for Wen Chunyi whenever they encountered rare material. After Wen Chunyi's family affairs were settled, Qing Xun came to the door to talk to the Jin family, and said directly: "Miss, the fabrics we have prepared over the years, I think it is still a little worse, I asked my family to look for it in other stores, and I will definitely let the little lady's dowry look at it and have a face." I look at the little lady's wedding dress, and I also let the embroidery girls in the store customize it together, they have received a lot of work over the years, and they are the most fashionable wedding dresses. has such a shop at home, but you can't be wronged by the little lady. ”

Wen Xueyi's wedding dress back then was also refined by the pù embroidery lady of Qingxun shop. The Jin family prepared some dowries for Wen Chunyi, but it was prepared according to the specifications of ordinary people, and now that Wen Chunyi wants to marry the Zhong family, it will be too weak. Jin Fengyan and his wife, after Wen Chunyi's family affairs were settled, also hurried to Wenfu, and Jin Fengyan's wife hurriedly stuffed silver into Jin's hands. Jin knew that the life of their young couple was not easy, the family had a lot of entertainment, the children were small, Jin Fengyan's monthly salary was not much, and the family had to save money.

But after Kim refused several times, he finally had to go on. The Jin family told Wen Chaoqing and his three sons about this, and reminded them that when they have the ability in the future, they must remember the kindness of their uncle and aunt. The brother-in-law of the Ma family and Wen Xueyi directly said to Wen Chaoqing and the Jin family: "Father, mother, and sister's dowry is still how much silver is missing, we will make up for it." Hearing that Chaoqing and the Jin family would let their married daughter make up for their sister-in-law's family affairs like this, the two shook their heads and said that it was enough, and when they saw their son-in-law and daughter's expressions of disbelief, they had to tell them their family background.

Wen Chunyi handed over the silver in his hand to his parents early, Wen Xiujun had been reluctant to spend the silver taels, and this time he also handed it over generously. Wen Chaoqing and the Jin family always knew that their sister and brother had silver in their hands, but they didn't expect that the two of them would have fifty taels of silver together. The brother-in-law of the Ma family and Wen Xueyi heard the Jin family reveal the amount of silver in the hands of the two siblings, and the brother-in-law of the Ma family laughed and said: "It's good that the silver in the hands of Xueduo and Brother Jun is emptied, and the two of them will have the heart to earn silver taels again." "The brother-in-law of the Ma family admires this pair of sisters and brothers quite a lot, and the two of them are thinking about the idle book, and they haven't seen them fall short.

The brother-in-law of the Ma family heard that Xue Yi mentioned that when they got married, the two sisters and brothers emptied the silver in their hands, and later when Wen Xiuyu decided on the family affairs, the two sisters and brothers handed over the silver in their hands again. Now when it was Wen Chunyi's turn, the hands of the two sisters and brothers were emptied again. Wen Xueyi glanced at the brother-in-law of the Ma family, and said to Wen Chaoqing and Jin with a smile: "Dad, mother, a few years ago, Xue Duo and Brother Jun asked their brother-in-law for help, and they must be divided into his brother-in-law afterwards. ”

There will be two happy events in the fourth room next year, and the silver taels in the family must be tight. The brother-in-law of the Ma family is a flexible person, with good popularity, and he still has a certain ability in earning money. He smiled and said to Wen Chaoqing and Jin, who looked uneasy: "Father, mother, next year's family affairs of Xiuyu and Xueduo, the family will use a lot of silver taels." In the past few years, we have also saved some silver taels, thinking that it is the family affairs of our younger brothers and sisters at home. Xiuyu is a man, as long as his face is passable and his interior is a little simpler, he will treat his brothers and sisters of the Zeng family sincerely in the future.

It's just that a sister can't do it, if you marry someone else's family, you must be able to get by with face and lining. People like the Zhong family, people who come and go, it is inevitable that there will be individual people. As brothers-in-law and sisters, we do our best to make her dowry heavier, and her life in her husband's family is better, and we are comfortable in our hearts. "The brother-in-law of the Ma family has always felt that his wife's younger brothers and sisters are all people with a conscience, and when they were in trouble, they all changed their ways to help their small family. (To be continued......)