Chapter 15 Don't marry a beautiful woman and seek peace
Chapter 15 Don't marry a beautiful woman and seek peace
The white-faced scholar sent Yu Xiaoying's message of refusing to date to Zhou Guoliang in time, Zhou Guoliang's face was pale, and he drooped his head and said nothing.
The white-faced scholar said: "Xiaoyu's decision is wise, you have to recognize the situation well." Ge Chunsheng and Yu Xiaoying are a legal couple, even if they are getting a divorce, you must avoid it. Otherwise you can't tell with a hundred mouths. According to my analysis, the surname Ge will never admit defeat easily, and Xiaoyu must prepare for a protracted battle if he wants to achieve the goal of divorce. During this time, you must not give Xiaoyu any trouble.
From the perspective of old classmates, I also want to advise you, we have not known Ge Chunsheng for a year or two, we should know that he is a difficult person, once he has a grudge against him, he will not want to be stable in this life. And the power behind him cannot be underestimated, and small workers like you and me cannot afford to provoke him.
There is another point that I don't want to say, but we are good friends and have to talk about it. In my personal thinking, I will never marry a beautiful woman as a wife, and it is not that 'if you can't eat grapes, you will say that grapes are sour'.
Some people say, 'There are many rights and wrongs in front of the widow', and there are a hundred times more rights and wrongs of a beautiful woman than a widow! I'm not alarmist, nor am I malicious slander against beautiful women, beautiful women look pleasing to the eye, who doesn't care? But marrying home as a wife is another thing, and I have to think about it a little more complicated.
These words may not be heard, and it is not that Xiao Yu is not a bad person, but in this world, many things are not something that can be controlled by a person, otherwise, we are all optimistic that you and Xiao Yu are a natural pair, who knows that Lu Dao will make it like this, you can do it yourself! ”
Zhou Guoliang's face was like earth, he didn't expect that the phrase "don't marry a beautiful woman as a wife" would come out of the mouth of a good friend. Everyone has a love for beauty, and "heroes are sad to pass the beauty pass" is the same in ancient and modern times. In the past, when his father objected to marrying Yu Xiaoying, he also said things like "red face and trouble", Zhou Guoliang thought it was his father's excuse to cover up his dilemma, he was in his fifties, and his family was still poor! Yu Shunli and his father work in the same factory, both are maintenance fitters, why is the Yu family so nourishing? We have already bought TV sets, and our family can't even afford a cassette recorder. It is obvious that he is incompetent, but he spills his anger on Xiao Yu's head, what is wrong with Xiao Yu being beautiful? Do you want to squeeze her with some push-and-go words?
Zhou Guoliang returned home with a stomach full of anger, smelling all the old smell of tattered furniture, and his mood was even more depressed. He slipped into his little room and lay down on the creaking bunk, not even bothering to answer his mother's call for dinner.
The Zhou family is a two-story building handed down from ancestors, with an old-fashioned building with a front living room and a back kitchen. Zhou Guoliang lives in a stairwell, and the upstairs facing the street is the bedroom of his brother Guodong, sister-in-law Baguio and little niece; The one on the north side is where my parents live, and there is a small attic in it, and some miscellaneous items are piled up.
On the dining table in the living room, Zhou Jianxing and his wife Fang Shuqin, son Guodong and Guoliang have a total of four dishes and chopsticks. Baguio had a big quarrel with Guodong last week, and in a fit of anger, he took his little niece back to his parents' house, and he has not returned.
It was getting late, the lights on the street were already on, and the shadow of Gordon was not visible. Zhou Jianxing said that he didn't wait, let's eat first. Fang Shuqin asked Guoliang to eat, but did not hear a response. walked to the small room and saw Guoliang closing his eyes tightly, his face full of tears, and he didn't say a word. Fang Shuqin pushed and pulled a few times, Guoliang didn't move, Fang Shuqin had to quit, and said to Zhou Jianxing, crying!
Zhou Jianxing's expression was gloomy, and he walked to Guoliang's bed silently. It took a long time before he spoke. "Guoliang, listen to me, I know that you hate me in your heart, and you shouldn't stop your marriage with Yu Xiaoying, I'm for your good. As the saying goes: 'Marrying a wife and virtue is not marrying, and making friends is not wealth.' ''Motu's color is good, and the ugly woman's house treasure. 'Do you also know why Baguio quarreled with Guodong and went back to his parents' house, isn't it because the Zhou family is poor? Do you say you have a good time? What's the use of Baguio being beautiful and putting it at home as a vase? ”
Zhou Guoliang closed his eyes and didn't speak, thinking to himself, don't you blame yourself for not being capable, you still complain about this and that, what does it have to do with being beautiful and having a poor family? Baguio returned to his parents' house because Guodong was addicted to gambling and didn't care about his wife and children, not because he disliked the poor Zhou family!
Zhou Jianxing said to himself: "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Although our Zhou family is poor, we also live the same life, use more money if we have money, use less if we don't have money, as long as we have a good time. Yu Shunli's family is richer than ours, so he is happy? Yu Xiaoying looks like a flower, and now she is getting a divorce, and her unhappiness is because she is good-looking and provokes right and wrong. Wherever she goes, someone will move her bad idea. Can this kind of wife marry home, can it be reassuring? ”
Zhou Jianxing's words, Zhou Guoliang has long been tired of hearing them. At this moment, what he wanted was not to marry Yu Xiaoying home, Yu Xiaoying's attitude made him discouraged. The matter is clear, one wants to leave, and the other refuses to live or die. Yu Xiaoying's protracted battle cannot be fought for three or five years. What's more, Ge Chunsheng is still playing a scoundrel, splashing dirty water on Xiao Yu and his heads, making others confused. In these years, there is still a market for those who play hooligan tricks, and there is no way for serious people to take advantage of them.
Zhou Guoliang became more and more convinced that only by taking the method of retaliating with a tooth for a tooth and treating others in the way of others could he export his evil anger, and he naturally thought of asking the white-faced scholar how he was prepared for that incident.
The white-faced scholar is a projectionist at a popular cinema, and Xiuxiu works as a waitress at the Jufengyuan Hotel. Due to the nature of their work, it is not easy for the two to get together. Once both parties are free, their date location must be in the cinema, which is a unique advantage for white-faced scholars. Under normal circumstances, white-faced scholars will choose to invite Xiuxiu to watch the internal movie. Most of the internal films are Hong Kong films and foreign films, and there are many scenes of romance and love, which can play a role in fueling their relationship.
The white-faced scholar is quite satisfied with Xiuxiu, and he often compares her with Yu Xiaoying and Wenwen.
He still remembers reading a Tang poem about peonies in junior high school: "Peony is bewitching and chaotic, and a country is crazy and spares no expense." If the peaches and plums in the East Garden, the fruit becomes speechless and becomes yin. The white-faced scholar thought that it was very appropriate to use this poem as a metaphor for Yu Xiaoying: the beauty of the peony was enough to make admirers smit. Since Wu Zetian in the Tang Dynasty, not only from the court, down to the people, but also the custom of ornamenting peonies. Every late spring, the carriages and horses who enjoy the flowers are crazy and crazy, and they come one after another, so the peony is extremely valuable. Yu Xiaoying is like the best peony in the flower, "one look at the city, and then look at the country." "Yu Xiaoying is regarded as the factory flower of the machine tool factory, and she deserves it!
In the eyes of white-faced scholars, the beauty of the country and the city is still good, and it is not necessary to have it. As the poem says, how can peonies, like the peach trees and plum trees in the East Garden, silently bear fruit into yin and benefit people? Although beauties are pleasing to the eye and may not bring benefits, they often hear stories of ill-fated beauties, and "not marrying beauties" has become the principle of white-faced scholars.
In contrast, Xiuxiu is not as impressive as Yu Xiaoying's outstanding appearance, but she has the elegance and elegance of daffodils. Although narcissus is extremely ordinary, she appears on the desk and balcony every time after the cold weather and the withering of flowers in the evening of the year, and wins the reputation of "Lingbo Fairy" with her white and fragrant, emerald green, and delicate and graceful.
In the eyes of white-faced scholars, Xiuxiu's endearing and pitiful thing lies in her innocence and straightforwardness, like a piece of white and flawless crystal, which can glimpse her inner world at a glance. Getting along with her does not feel psychological pressure at all, on the contrary, it will produce a sense of manly responsibility, which stimulates the motivation to love her, give her happiness, protect her, and prevent her from being harmed in any way.
Completely different from Xiuxiu is Wenwen, and the white-faced scholar thinks of wild chrysanthemums. In autumn, the wild chrysanthemums that bloom in obscurity in the wild, with small yellow flowers and no notice, are neither the autumn chrysanthemums that Qu Yuan said "the autumn chrysanthemums of the evening dinner", nor the famous flowers that are loved by the world and "appreciate the chrysanthemums of the double yang", but they are leisurely and colorful. Her beauty lies in the word "wild".
The white-faced scholar and Xiuxiu discussed Wenwen's affairs.
Xiuxiu said: "In the eyes of the world, Wenwen is a woman who does not abide by women's morals and does not know how to be honest. In fact, her debauchery is given by the kind of righteous gentleman who makes a report on the stage and closes his mouth and claims to be a thorough revolutionary. You tell me, people like Wenwen, do you hate and despise her? ”
The white-faced scholar was silent. His thoughts went back to that era, when these enthusiastic young people who sang songs and were determined to fight the heavens and the earth came to the icy mountain village in groups, and then one by one they showed their magical powers, and left the place where they left unforgettable joys, sorrows, and sorrows. Until the last one left, only the only weak, helpless and bullied Wenwen was left, crying in the bleak wind and cold rain.
Later, Wenwen also returned to the city, and soon went to the hospital to have a miscarriage. What happened to Wenwen in the last period of time after she was left alone in the mountain village, Wenwen didn't say, and their comrades in the trenches didn't ask, in fact, they didn't need to ask. Now Xiuxiu's words only confirmed his guess.
The white-faced scholar said to Xiuxiu: "Everyone has the right to live, and everyone has their own way of survival. As long as she does not harm the interests of others, what qualifications do others have to demand and accuse her? ”