Wu Song sent a letter to Wu Wei.

Dad:

Our post-80s generation bears a lot of pressure, college entrance examination, employment, work, finding a partner, buying a house, having children, taking care of the elderly, one after another, catching up with the parents with better conditions, that is very lucky, I have such parents, belonging to the very lucky inside, how to face the pressure at work, that must be faced by yourself. You want to know about the ecology of our post-80s. I told my dad a story about a child. The master of the story is a female classmate in our class, named Tong Ling. From her experience, I feel that the contradiction between Tao and people that my father said is very representative, and it is more acute than that of people of your time. Tong Ling is very beautiful, and once meant that to me, and I also somewhat recognized her, but there was no clear expression between the two of them. I found out that she always went out late and returned early, guessing that she entered that way, you also know some of the inside stories of contemporary college students, maybe we don't have fate, and gradually became estranged, and then I got along with Bai Xue. After Tong Ling knew that I was getting along with Bai Xue, once I met her alone in the school yard, and she specially said to me, you probably don't know my situation, and you will slowly know it in the future, which is a lifelong regret between us. It turned out that her parents were both laid off, the house leak happened to be a rainy day, and there was a sudden accident, his father was unfortunately diagnosed with cancer, and his mother had to work several jobs around the clock, not only to save for her tuition but also to raise high medical expenses. In desperation, she had no choice but to go out late and return early, earn money and study at the same time, and sacrifice her youth to earn medicine for her father. If it were like a general story, I wouldn't tell this story for my father, I feel that there are some intriguing things in the story of the child's soul, especially when my father writes about the boundless paradise, revealing the contradiction of life and life. If you don't handle it well, it will increase the risks in your life.

It is said that Tong Ling was forced to enter the Tao helplessly, and in the painful choice of asking for face and money, she finally chose to ask for money and not face. She was originally a girl with good character and good looks, and she was forced to enter the Tao, and there were naturally concepts and rules in it, and after the guidance of her sisters, she quickly overcame the psychological barrier. According to her own conversation with a very good female classmate, she said that she feels good as a massage girl, as if she was born to do this business, and she was also under the ugly, obscene, low-level, and disgraceful psychological pressure of doing this line of work at the beginning, and gradually she realized the fun. It is the kind of fun that treats massage as a profession, and it is comfortable to serve others and have a sense of happiness, and she has also found her own potential, she doesn't care about tips, and she doesn't mess around with private work. Work your skills, and humbly seek advice from sisters with high skills and positive paths. Massage is not what people preconceive. It's just the filthy and dirty sensual satisfaction that massages the soul and communicates with the heart, and the kind of highly skilled heterosexual massage contact is very helpful to reduce people's mental pressure and heal mental wounds. It gives people spiritual soothing and comforts the soul, can make friends with guests, add a layer of positive meaning, and combine it with mental health. She herself felt the legitimacy of a profession from it. Dad has four major positions for the workplace effect, and I think that in the line where the massage activities engaged in by Tong Ling and it is difficult to get rid of pornography, the expression will be more prominent, where young women will be more devastated, but I am glad that she has not fallen victim to the laggards. She herself felt that she was enjoying a sunny life inside, and relied on her efforts to reduce her mother's burden and raise enough money for her father's medicine. Unfortunately, her parents later knew that she had earned money from massage, but they refused to accept it, and soon her father died of poverty and mental torture. Tong Ling once suffered the double torture of the shame of an unclean profession and the unfilial piety that caused his father to die of illness. She was not crushed by the misfortunes of life, quit massage and concentrated on hard work, and later was admitted to graduate school.

I tell my father this story because I think that the pressure and fate of our generation, especially the elders, should be more understanding, understand the hardships of some of us, increase a little tolerance, and more importantly, see the intervention and participation of our generation, the original dirty and dirty areas will be purified by decontamination and poisoning, which is an impact and challenge to traditional concepts, and help liberate those sisters from that humiliating state.

The story is quite vivid. Nothing is absolute, and society generally believes that massage is an inglorious profession, but as long as you concentrate on doing things, you are self-reliant and self-reliant, and you are much more respectable than those in power who are greedy and corrupt. This story is also in line with the theme of the novel you wrote, music itself is not divided into professions, and of course doing massage can also be fun. Western classics are also willing to talk about prostitutes, prostitutes are the lowest jobs in people's eyes, but they also have humanity and shining points. The contrast between the prostitute and the so-called upper class is more reflective of human nature. Including "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling", in fact, in this novel, the war is just a background, and the prostitute saving the virgin is what the reader needs to think about. I think that this story should be put into the whole novel, adding some elements of contrast, that is, some negative examples to tell things. In fact, you don't need to read too much, and you can naturally improve the layering of the story or novel.

Dad:

I feel that the novel does not have to stick to the form, and the average reader can understand it, or simplify it

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I have been on a business trip in the past two days, I live in a four-star hotel, and the outside is Fairy Lake, and I just went out for a run, and I feel in a good mood. Nowadays, the work of a lawyer is too intense, and it seems that it feels like a crime to not work overtime at night, so I think it is necessary to exercise and take some time to run or swim every day. The day after tomorrow, our department is going to Yungui to play, we go on Friday, come back on Sunday, due to the tight time, someone built yì to go to Libo to play, so we do not have Huangbo Waterfall in our itinerary, I think it is a little regrettable, go to Yungui once can not go to the most famous Huangbo Waterfall.

I took the lead in the itinerary, car rental, and accommodation for this trip, and I will be responsible for the procurement when I return to Nandu tomorrow. Actually, these jobs are arranged by lawyer Xiang, and I am reluctant to do them, because they are all thankless things, and if other people understand better, I will dedicate it, but if someone chirps crookedly, I feel very annoyed.

Overall, I think the work of a lawyer is very busy right now. But the effort is not proportional to the return. As soon as I was nervous about work, I felt impetuous, and I wanted to finish things early, but some work needs to be done quietly, and work slowly and carefully. Sometimes I feel that our working atmosphere is not tolerant enough, and if there is no problem, we will be caught, not for me, but for me.

Child:

At this time, the most important thing is to persevere. Hold on, and the child has too much capital and conditions to hold on, and the disproportionate pay and return, or misplaced, or even deformed and distorted. Anyone can encounter it, and that requires unwavering persistence. As for doing some chores. Leadership trust. In addition, this is just some of the things that I have to undertake in stages of life, and they will gradually disappear, and I have to pay a few people in the teaching and research department for a while, divide rice and autumn vegetables, etc., who wants to do that work. Isn't this the story told by President Li Jie about fetching water and sweeping the floor? Doing this kind of work can help you gain a personal advantage. Others are willing to cooperate with you, and it is also your contribution to this group, and shopping is also to exercise your body, activate your brain, increase your ability to do things, and expand your service network. Since you have done it, you must do it well and make everyone satisfied.

Child:

Right. Writing a novel doesn't have to be confined to form, and I also realized that writing a novel is inherently a law that has no fixed law and is a self-contained law. A person can be dissatisfied with everything else and unwilling to do it, but he cannot shake the work and career he is engaged in. I have never wavered in my studies and research. I remember that in the first letter that Mr. Xiang sent back to you, he mentioned that you should do useless things, which is too important. Think about it, is it useless for my father to write novels now? But after I revised it last night, I felt that in my life and in the process of writing novels, I was doing something to transform people's minds, how to transform people's minds? Like a computer, it needs to program mental activities, and use this program to sort out and relieve all kinds of entanglements in people's hearts, and this program also needs to be constantly revised and upgraded, and it is very important to do such a thing, and I feel very valuable. Children should also consider their own minds now, take a mirror to look at what is in their hearts, and examine themselves by themselves, which is what my father said about self-realization and reflection.

Child:

In the past, when your uncle Rui was taking the postgraduate examination for three consecutive years, I said to him at that time, you will not gain the effort you use in the postgraduate examination, but will also harvest in other aspects, which is a lifelong investment. He thought about it for a moment and said yes.

More than ten years ago, I read in an article written by a foreigner that some scientists said that the vast majority of scientific discoveries are made driven by curiosity, and are not driven by this or that award as we imagined.

Dad:

You're right, I'm in a much better mood now, and I don't bother with doing these things anymore

It is to contribute to the collective.

Child:

When I was a teacher in the 80s and 90s, almost all the teachers went outside

At that time, our family was very short of money and very nervous, but mentally we would not be nervous because of lack of money, and the pursuit of thought was pure, so I wanted to study something decent. Maybe I'm a natural musician, and I can experience pleasure in everything I do, and I have a vivid sense of pleasure. This may have something to do with the structure of the brain and later development.

Child:

It's best if you feel like you're a part of the collective, "I'm in a much better mood now, I'm not bothered by doing these things anymore, I'm just contributing to the collective." It shows that you have become more and more connected to this collective, which is the sign that you are truly integrated into this collective, and it is a new leap from being willing to do things for this collective to loving this collective. Don't think about money in isolation, money should be attached to things, kill a few birds with one stone, the idea of doing things should be higher than thinking about money, get money by doing things, and do things to feel interesting and meaningful, the key is that you have cultivated an interest in collective work, not just to do projects, such interests should be cherished and cared for to deepen and expand, relying on the resources of this collective network network resources You can do more and more things to do bigger and bigger, more and more interested in doing it, forming a new benign interaction.

Child:

More money and less money, of course, depends on the attitude of lawyer Xiang, but more fundamentally, the client you serve is the final decision, you must serve the client wholeheartedly, and the client responds to you well, that is the moment that really determines your fate. Isn't my dad just a student who has a strong response and the school attaches great importance to it; The provincial line is also listening to the direction of the society, which has attracted attention. Your Uncle Rui has already changed jobs in Nandu Securities, and their boss has a customer gathering and mentioned that your Uncle Rui has done a good job in the project. The boss immediately decided to recall and promote him to vice president of finance. It is necessary to love the collective and serve customers wholeheartedly, so that the situation can really be opened. Once, when we invited the team of the Municipal Federation of Social Affairs to dinner, I was not familiar with their new chairman, but later I got acquainted, and he said that when I was nominated, those vice chairmen always raised objections when I was mentioned, but when I was mentioned, they spoke in unison. Children should pay attention to the doorway inside humanity, and both internal and external cultivation is the smooth road of life.

Child:

Originally, the computer was turned off, and I also lay down. I felt that there was something else to do, so I got up and read a few pages of the Nobel Prize-winning "Mother" that I liked to read, and I felt that the mother in the novel was relieved and relaxed when she handed over the problems that her son encountered that she could not extricate herself to, and believed that God could help her solve them. Religious people. When you encounter a problem that you can't solve that you can't think of, you think of God. Where to find God? Look for it in the Bible. But the Bible is so thick, there are so many ideas in it, and so many words are spoken, which sentence can be just right? Before the symptom, people can't get rid of the torment of confusion and pain, and they can't communicate or dissolve. Created a need, profession exegesis of the Scriptures, priests, pastors. There is also a sacred place, the church, in which people enter, and the guilty and misdeeds must unreservedly reveal their hearts and repent, and the priests and priests will guide and enlighten them, and there is no word that will make the "sick and sinner" suddenly enlightened. In the past, I wanted to build a bridge between religion and the secular, but now it is very difficult, there are so many secular religious concepts in between, how can people transcend and leapfrog, and be able to easily get along and return between the two worlds? The so-called transcendence is to let people reach a consensus on many issues with each other. In the novel "Mother", the mother's son is a priest, and he fell in love with a woman, which was originally a very beautiful love story, but this love happened between a priest and a secular woman, and naturally became an ugly and blasphemous matter, which was discovered by the mother, causing complex mental activities, and finally died suddenly in the church where her son presided over the service because the mother could not bear the psychological impact of the huge mental torture.

The disc from the child, it is funny at a rough glance, such a funny is not suitable for festive and somewhat solemn wedding scenes, foreign weddings should be held in churches, and it has also begun to become fashionable in our country, presided over by priests or priests, it is higher than solemnity, it is sacred, how can it be funny? ! In particular, Sino-Japanese relations are currently so tense, and the United States is again on the side of Japan, and Obama's lens appears. The child imagines what will be the impact of such a disc once it is released in the wedding scene. Moreover, judging from the artistic style of the zuò alone, it is too rough and inferior. I've been to some weddings, and when I saw the screening of the discs made in advance, I felt that the style was not high, so it was better not to put it away, it was a mess, and the merchants only wanted to make money, but we had to have the ability to recognize and appreciate ourselves. Recently, I have been thinking about writing novels, there is a professional term, the narrator, that is, the author, the narrator has an omniscient perspective, that is, what the author writes must be familiar to him, no wonder the reader can read what kind of person the author is, and the narrator also has a profession. If you think about it, there are so many questions that can be asked from such a single disc, and there is an omniscient perspective problem here. Why am I writing to my child again? I feel that in the daily life of children, there are many things that need to be vigilant and pay attention to the risk points of life, especially in such a highly sensitive period. A few days ago, I said to your mother that if there is a change in Sino-Japanese relations that we did not expect in a few days or on October 4, we will also make random adjustments to the wedding ceremony. The two children also need to be mentally prepared. With so many relatives and friends gathered together for children's affairs, our intention is to do a happy event, to create a festive and festive atmosphere, and people come to share our joy and want to see the festive scene. This is also a very important process of emotional accumulation for children, children should take the initiative to think about things, do things, observe things, and play a leading role in the whole process, and strive to have a good appearance. (To be continued......)