Chapter 143 Husband and wife are together
Wu Wei sighed, the way of the program he understood, made it up and made up, but he still didn't jump out of the entanglement, this tangle is in his own life, just by his side, the Tao and love, are what he loves, and he can't let go of it and wants to have both. Throughout the ages, there have been scandals about the history of the true history and the lace of the wild history, but it is very rare to hear the scandals of the enlightened people, and occasionally I hear about the monks who cheated in the temple, which is also the reason why the impurity of cultivation leads to the impurity of the six roots. In his view, the Word fulfilled his love, and love fulfilled his Word. He thinks of a mutually reinforcing type. He is also deeply aware that the world that Song Rou gave him is limited after all, and how he will face this entanglement.
Song Judo, you can do those things if you want, but don't marry a wife and have a son, it's all yours. I want to live a peaceful life now, and I don't want to worry about that anymore. I'll have to take care of myself. Besides, those things shouldn't be your own business.
However, Song Rou's mind is also strange, after all, when she sees what Wu Wei wrote, she feels a little proud, and she says it when she meets people.
Wu Wei thinks that Tao and love are also completely compatible and consistent, which is a natural move. If the current situation still makes the two incompatible, it shows that this situation is too cold and ruthless. God tested Abraham's faith by burning his son. Job's faith was tested by a very cold and cruel approach. Wu Wei also often feels the sharp conflict between Tao and love, but he always feels that there is still room for turnaround, and it has not developed to the point of incompatibility. He himself does not advocate returning to the bitter cold conditions to engage in production and life, ideological and cultural creation activities, and does not approve of the realization of people's spiritual purification and improvement through penance, like the Buddha once felt that blindly penance has caused himself to be troubled by physical emaciation, and even life is difficult to maintain, how to have the physical strength and energy to carry out an extremely difficult artistic conception improvement, so that he began to take the initiative to accept alms.
Wu Wei seems to have gone through a cycle of reincarnation, and returned to the issue of Tao and love, Tao and man, but. Now he is less helpless and more vigilant and conscious. Song Rou was also purified and improved under the influence of his tireless persistence and painstaking efforts, and received her response from the depths of her heart, which made him germinate a strong desire for both husband and wife to be Taoists. He was excited by this idea, if both husband and wife did the same thing, like getting up together, going to the morning market, buying vegetables, cooking, tidying up the house, visiting relatives and friends, playing mahjong and watching children, wouldn't it become a great blessing in life, and also become a superior strategy to fundamentally relieve oneself from the entanglement of the Tao and others.
So, he said to Song Judo. We have already passed the painful stage of life in our lives, but many people around us are still living in pain, and we should do what we can to send warmth to them.
Song Rou responded, I don't owe anyone, but many people owe me. We live a life of migratory birds, and we don't rely on anyone, who they think about when they are good. They have the conditions to choose what they think when they live as migratory birds, complaining that they have no eyesight. I don't have your realm, you want to do what you do, but. Money can't make you go down the drain, and I'm not a charity. Besides, if you want me to do it, I have to be willing to do it. You can't force me to do it.
Wu Wei thought about how to get her to do it with him, and the idea made her feel happy. Thought. Only follow the trend.
Wu Wei also advised her to read more books.
Song Judo, don't look for me about reading, I want to be able to read, and I can still get it into your hands, let's dream.
Wu Weidao, you always watch those family talks and programs, look at it, look down on yourself, your mind goes with the past, your own family is fine, you will feel lonely, the whole thing comes out, you don't learn the ability to say and adjust, but you learn how to do the whole thing.
Song Judo, I'm willing to watch, I'm willing to do the whole thing, you can't control it. You do yours, I do mine, what do you care about me? What did you do, did I interfere with you?
When she saw a wonderful story on the TV show, she told Wu Wei with a smile on her eyebrows, and called Wu Wei to follow along. One day, the hero in the TV series pretended to be sick and lay on the bed covered with a quilt, and watched the heroine walk into the house to visit, so he lifted the quilt to expose his thighs, and joked, look, is it white? Seeing this scene made Song Rou giggle. There are no surprises in the world. Before the laughter had stopped, I heard a knock on the door. The two of them heard such a knock on the door and realized that something must have happened. Wu Wei opened the door, only to see the neighbor standing at the door, and said anxiously, come over and help, the old lady has just passed. Wu Wei Song Rou had a very good relationship with the neighbor's house, and when she heard such unfortunate news, she hurriedly dressed up and went to the neighbor's house.
Wu Wei and Song Rou were both surprised, the old lady seemed to be very good all along, why did she pass suddenly, without any warning beforehand. I heard the young woman in the neighborhood crying that her mother-in-law was sitting on the bed watching a TV series just now, and saw the scene in the play where the man asked the woman if her thighs were white, and the old lady had a heart attack, and it was over. The two followed the old man's funeral.
Afterwards, Wu Wei analyzed to Song Rou that the old lady in the neighborhood wanted to laugh when she saw such a scene in the TV series, but at that moment she was worried that her daughter-in-law was by her side, and if she laughed, her daughter-in-law would be annoyed that she was not serious, so she wanted to hold back. The impact of wanting to laugh was under the pressure of strong self-resistance, and the impact force formed exceeded the psychological capacity, which led to a tragedy.
Song Rou felt that it made sense in her heart, but she said angrily and nonsense.
However, under the influence of Song Rou, Wu Wei gradually became interested in family talk and similar programs, and praised the performance of some mediators and hosts.
Song Judo, I am willing to watch this kind of show, and I am happy.
Wu Weidao, if there is something wrong in the family of the people around us, how about helping to make peace?
Song Rou glared at her with big eyes and said, you are willing to worry about that, you go, I don't want to take care of those idle things, I have nothing to do when I am full.
She said that as long as Wu Weizhang Luo visited his seriously ill classmates and family members who were in difficulty, and accompanied his brothers and sisters to play mahjong, she was still willing to go with her. Wu Wei subscribed to some journals that women were willing to read, and she also put on her glasses to look at it for a long time, and giggled when she saw the excitement, and asked Wu Wei to read it. The two have converged on their interests, and their common interests have become more and more extensive.
The two watched a face-to-face program on TV and talked about the interesting story of Wu Song's childhood. Wu Wei talked about Wu
When Song was in elementary school, his homework was sloppy, and he tore off a piece of paper. Wu Song immediately corrected it.
Song Rou reminded, look, come whatever you say.
Wu Wei's attention was also attracted by the TV show. The show is a conversation between the host and an academic celebrity, and the theme is that good habits start with dolls.
After some pleasantries, the celebrity said, "I hated my mom when I was a kid." Immediately caused an uproar in the audience, and there was a lot of gossip, you fainted, how can you hate your mother, what did your mother do wrong. It's also Mom, you're telling the truth, how can there be such a way to be funny.
The celebrity continued, "I'm not an open show, and I'm not funny. I'm talking about how I really felt at the time. How do you describe how my mom felt in my heart at that time? We all know that the cruel punishment of the Dao is harsh, maybe that's what it feels like. When I was in elementary school, my mother didn't finish my homework, so my mom just took the homework book away and saw that I was finishing my homework late. Just put the book away and didn't let me do it. I was crying and saying, "Go tell the teacher." My mom said, you go and explain to the teacher tomorrow. If the homework is not completed, it is indispensable to be criticized by the teacher. I couldn't hold my head up in front of my classmates, and I began to hate my mom because she made me criticize at the teacher and embarrassed in front of my classmates. One day after dinner. My mother saw that the homework was a memorization and persuasion, and she stared at me and asked me to memorize, but I refused to memorize. My mom just threw the textbook out of the window, and it happened to be raining heavily that day, so I cried and went downstairs to retrieve the book. When I came back from downstairs and entered the door, I didn't see my mother, my clothes were wet, so I went to the bedroom to look for clothes, and I saw my mother sitting on the bed crying. But I hated and thought in my heart, let you cry, I didn't ask with concern, comfort, and I was still thinking fiercely in my heart, who told you to be so cruel to me, and I found clothes from the closet and deliberately stomped my feet out of the closet. Later, I realized that my mother was crying because she felt even more uncomfortable when she saw me uncomfortable. In particular, I was very impressed by one thing, the first day my mother went to a parent-teacher conference, and the next morning, I had already picked up my schoolbag after eating and was ready to go to school, and my mother asked me to take out the homework book, she wanted to see it, I put down my schoolbag angrily and took out the new homework book that I had just used last night and threw it to her. She picked it up and flipped through it, so angry that she tore up the notebook at once, then threw the waste paper scraps into the garbage basket, and said hatefully, let your homework be sloppy again. Now I want to cry without tears, I know that the problem is in myself, and my mother has said it many times, but it hasn't changed. My face also became very uncomfortable. Now I don't even have a homework book, how can I explain it to the teacher. My mother saw that I had the intention of repenting, so she said, "I will be sloppy in my homework in the future, right?" I nodded, muttered quietly, and was no longer sloppy. My mom said, "Okay, find a new notebook and copy the homework again." I changed it, but I hated my mother even more in my heart, how could there be such a mother for her daughter, seeing the mother of the little classmate who was so distressed about her daughter, I hated it more and more. I write my homework, but my mother doesn't give me an eraser, so I rarely write typos now, and my homework is basically done all over again, and I rarely change what I write.
The host smiled and said, you have to thank your mother for that.
The celebrity continued, I still hate her in my heart. I have a table mate in elementary school, and her mother is very spoiled by her, spoiling her, not doing her homework, always copying me, sometimes she doesn't even bother to copy, just let me help her copy, and then buy me some delicious food. I didn't know if it was wrong, and I thought it was to help my classmates do good. The teacher naturally wanted to criticize her, and I was also criticized, blaming me for doing such a good thing, and urging her to do her homework by herself is the real help for her. I didn't dare to help her copy her homework anymore, she made trouble, and after the most trouble, the teacher didn't dare to criticize, her mother didn't dare to say, and her classmates didn't dare to touch it. But the teacher began to praise me, saying that I was well-bred and had a good tutor. Through the comparison with my situation at the same table, I suddenly understood that my mother loved and loved me so much that she hated me and was so cruel to me. My hatred for my mother suddenly turned into a strong sense of gratitude, and when I returned home, I cried and said to my mother that the teacher praised me for being educated, but I was not good and did not understand things, and I blamed my mother. My mother listened to me, and tears came down, saying that you finally understand your mother's hard work, and your mother will never do that to you again. At that moment, I felt my mother's voice soft and hot, and I felt a feeling of melting in my heart, and I threw myself into my mother's arms, and my mother couldn't help but hug me tightly, as if I was afraid of being robbed by others. I said, don't worry, Mom, I'll never be the same again.
Seeing this, Song Rou was also moved, and said that mothers all over the world are in the same mood for their children.
Wu Wei smiled and said, look, you are here again.
Song Judo, as soon as I saw such a show, I couldn't control my emotions.
Wu Weidao, this shows that you have a good heart.
Song Rou said angrily, then you are still angry with me.
The celebrity on the TV show continued, my mother said that when she was young, my grandmother treated her like that, and later said that girls can't beat and can't ignore it, so they have to be ruthless, although the school teachers are strict but not ruthless, and many small problems in the family will easily develop into bad habits, and those crimes are developed from small mistakes, and the more mistakes are made, the bigger they are, and they can't be pulled if they want to. I still feel funny when I hear it, and the family education will also be inherited, but I think my grandmother's mother does it reasonably, and good habits should start from the baby. The audience burst into laughter, and some of them leaned back and fell in laughter.
The host smiled and said, based on your experience, you should sum up one thing, a celebrity has a great grandmother behind him.
Celebrities, unfortunately, when I understood the reason, my grandmother was no longer alive, and I thought, I want to carry forward my good habits, which is the best tribute to my grandmother.
She said to the audience who were still laughing, "You laugh, there's something to come." At that time, our school used my mother's experience as a successful case study of tutoring. Some classmates joked, I didn't expect you to have experience at such a young age. The school held a special parent-teacher meeting, and now my mother is famous, but I didn't expect to be offended, and my classmates have come to me to talk about things, saying that after the school promotes my mother's experience, their parents have something to do, and they are ruthless. Parents listened to the teacher's analysis and felt that it was very reasonable. Teachers have to face dozens of children, repeatedly correcting students' homework, and will also be tired, you just think that the sea of questions tactics will make our students tired of learning and hating homework, but I didn't expect teachers to be tired of teaching and changing homework. Teachers will also lose patience when correcting our bad performance, and it will be no wonder if we are used to seeing our various performances fall into familiar routines, and it is normal to see what is abnormal. At this time, it is necessary for parents to supervise and cooperate, find that the student's problems are corrected in time, or pass them on to the teacher in some way, so that the teacher will be vigilant and pay attention to it. As for whether the words are written or not, the teacher has criticized them a few times, and the teacher no longer takes them seriously, thinking that the good writing is the student's own business, but the right or wrong thing is the teacher's business. When I went to high school, I heard a saying that our test-taking education is to find faults, and it is based on students' understanding of right and wrong, and I feel quite reasonable. If parents read our homework and simply tear up the notebook like my mother did, or mark a few words on it, the teacher finds that the homework book is missing or sees the words that the parents have criticized in the homework book, which will naturally attract attention. However, I feel very fortunate that my mother is ruthless, but she has never beaten me, probably due to the influence of her mother, girls can't beat, but I didn't understand that she was so cruel to me at that time, I also asked my father behind my mother's back, am I my mother's biological child, if so, how can I be so ruthless. My dad smiled and said, do you suspect that I found you a stepmother, your mother is good to you, she hates iron and steel, this is called jade into a device, one day you will understand your mother. Now I understand better, my mom is not a tiger mom, and my dad is not a wolf dad.
The audience burst into laughter when they heard this.
Celebrities, I had a male classmate at the time, said to me, what you said is quite reasonable, I should thank your mother for her contribution to education, and when I have children going to school, I want to tell my daughter-in-law, and educate children like your mother, so that children can be like you, and become celebrities after graduating from key universities, and you can also introduce how good habits are formed.
Wu Wei Song Rou, who was a TV audience, was also amused by these words, and laughed with those viewers at the scene. (To be continued......)