Always thinking about people's problems has formed the inertia of thinking.

One day, Wu Wei suddenly realized that my heart is in me, it does not belong to me, it belongs to everyone, my heart is in my body, I am at home, my heart does not belong to my body, and naturally it does not belong to my family. No wonder Song Rou is so angry, blaming herself for not eating the fireworks in the world, living for her buddies, her heart is always going outward, what do you think and do for this family every day, what do you worry about, let you always pretend to be someone else in your heart, have that ability, don't start a family, don't marry a wife, don't have children, it's all yours, how you want to think and think when you are a single, how free you are, no one cares about you.

Song Rou said that she still felt angry, and asked Wu Weidao again, what have you done when the child has grown so big?

Wu Wei said: First, ideological guidance, and second, logistical support.

Song Rou sneered when she heard this, what is the logistics support?

Wu Wei said with a smile, when Wu Song was seven years old, he took him to participate in an academic activity, a table of people ate at noon, and he also followed the table, at the beginning everyone praised this child for his clear eyebrows and beautiful eyes and understanding the rules, this child saw that there was a pot of meat that he particularly liked to eat on the table, and put it in his mouth one after another, and his mouth was full, and he picked up a piece and stuffed it into his mouth before he finished chewing and swallowed it, I was very embarrassed to see it, and said to him very angrily, you eat slowly. The others advised the little ones to eat with him. I looked at the child's ugly eating appearance, felt guilty for being a father, and had no heart to eat, drink, and laugh with everyone, and barely cope. When I returned home, I told you that I would often make pot-wrapped meat in the future, and I wouldn't be bitter for my children in the future.

Song Rou was even more worried when she heard this, you still have the face to talk about this topic, you have to have this thought, and go out to lecture as soon as possible to make money. When I think of my children thinking that bananas were black, my heart is very uncomfortable. Song Rou was about to go to the hospital to see a doctor's number, so she specially bought a large brown fresh and plump banana and a few other fruits, and took them home first and waited to go to the hospital with Wu Wei in the evening.

The child came back from school and saw the banana and asked her, Mom, what is this?

Song Rou said, you don't even know this banana?

The child said, "I thought the bananas were all black."

It turned out that the family was strapped and wanted the child to eat more fruits, so Song Rou had to buy some cheap bananas that had turned black, or other fruits that were not so fresh and fresh, giving the child the impression that the bananas were black. Later, Wu Song went to college, and the class asked each student to tell a story, Wu Song told the story of the black banana, and the students were surprised when they heard it, isn't your family condition very good?

Wu Wei said with a smile, I have worked hard to guide the child's learning.

Song Rou snorted, which father doesn't do that.

Wu Weidao, what I do to my own children, I'm afraid they may not be able to do it to my level.

Song Rou thought about it and stopped squeaking. She also remembered some interesting stories about her children's studies when they were young.

When Wu Song was in primary school for three years, Wu arranged for Song Rou to go to learn English at night, and after learning a few times, Wu Weiyi checked, only to know that the children did not review and strengthen after listening to the class, so he said, how can you learn English like this, you must read a lot of memorization, you must be able to remember and write it down silently, first start with the alphabet, you must be able to memorize it proficiently, and repeat it. After instructing, Xiao Wu Song quickly entered the state.

Before an exam, Wu Wei read Wu Song's textbook and reminded him, which is heavier, a pound of iron or a pound of cotton? Wu Song replied casually, just as heavy. The next day, this question really appeared on the exam paper, but the answer filled in by Wu Song was iron-heavy. Xiao Wu Song later took the paper back, and the two of them read it, but Song Rou laughed badly, your father gave you this question the first day, and you answered it correctly, how can you still answer it wrong in the exam? Xiao Wu Song also looked a little embarrassed and shy, maybe he answered with his feelings.

When Wu Song was in the fourth grade of primary school, Wu Wei attended the parent-teacher meeting, and heard from the homeroom teacher who had just transferred from another school that there was no one in the class who was not sloppy, and hoped that the parents would cooperate with the school to supervise the students. The next morning, Wu Song picked up his schoolbag after breakfast and was about to go out, Wu Wei said, I'll take a look at your homework. As soon as he saw that the handwriting was sloppy, Wu Wei picked up the pen and wrote a comment under the homework. Xiao Wu Song's face changed color when he saw it, showing a worried and frightened look, and he didn't dare to put his homework book in his schoolbag. Wu Wei was also distressed when he saw it, and asked, will you be sloppy in your homework in the future? Wu Song muttered quietly, no longer sloppy. Wu Song said, tear down this page and make up the homework again. On the first night before the final exam in the summer of this year, Wu Wei checked the extracurricular math workbook, and originally asked Xiao Wu Song to follow the progress of the course to do exercises, but the next day he took the exam, but saw that the questions in the first half of the workbook were not done, so Wu Weihuo came up and asked Wu Song to do it immediately, and he and Song Rou sat next to him and watched. Wu Song took three hours to do all the questions in the exercise book, and then he went to bed with confidence.

Guan Jingtao talked about Wu Wei with his colleagues, he is a great good, everyone wants to be promoted, everyone wants to be fulfilled, he is not for money, I will prove it.

Yin Yuan listened and said suspiciously, why are you not for money?

Wu Wei is not a person who only thinks about money, for the sake of money, he made this and provoked that, chirping all day long, messing up his mind, hurting his anger, and not having a good face, it is not worth it. Where does the money come from? It's not a lot of money, it's hard-earned money, it's so easy? Don't stare at that money with your mouth wide open.

Wu Wei believes that it is the greatest luck that he can come to the world. He can go to work and do things for laid-off people as much as possible, act when he hears the news, send letters immediately, and act diligently; He understands and understands the pressure on the workers, and when he quits, he should try his best to avoid the burden of office workers, and simply quit, imagining that he is like a prisoner who has been trapped in a cage for a long time and is suddenly released, so that he can walk freely and absorb the sun, water and nutrients of nature. He himself reflects on how to navigate the meat grinder-like workplace and navigate between many roles with ease. He believed that his actions would bring good and good fortune to others, and he did not seek anything for himself, but only wanted to enhance the blessings of others. His actions have always won the favor of others. He knows what he says and does to make people happy. He will also be distracted for a while, worrying about who to provoke, which is annoying, and he will immediately restrain and adjust. Sometimes he would rather close himself flatly, thinking that this is also a special kind of self-packaging in life, although such packaging will be misunderstood and misinterpreted, but never justify anything, the more good things are depicted, the more brilliant the bad things are depicted, the more black they are, he expects that sometimes doing nothing will be more able to protect themselves, achieve themselves, and avoid life risks than doing things. He even advised those who had just attained their heights not to seek merit, but to seek no fault. This made him enter and leave the workplace, without big ups and downs, no great joys and sorrows, and he was conscientious, diligent and positive when he was promoted; When he encounters setbacks, he often finds reasons from himself, silently accumulates energy, and looks for space and opportunities for release. He always felt that there was an inexhaustible energy in him that drove him to achieve a rich and colorful life. He rarely confesses himself, and he leaves more opportunities for confession to others; He rarely argues with others, and he is good at proving himself with his obscure actions. Therefore, he subjectively does not make enemies, and objectively no one has trouble with him.

Chinese society in his generation to prosperity and strength, but also a huge adjustment and rupture of the social structure, the social income gap widened, the unit social system disintegrated, he and his contemporaries bear the pain of reform, he saw that some contemporaries in the labor pain is difficult to heal the pain, short pain into a long pain or even a lifelong pain, increased his sense of distress, a strong sense of responsibility, sense of mission, so that he did not decline, but to achieve self-redemption and then save others. As an office worker, he does things for laid-off people as much as possible, so that he must visit during the Spring Festival, see when he is sick, and come to happy events. Some people don't understand what he does. He firmly believes that sharing happiness is to enhance happiness and multiply happiness, which is a multiplicative effect; Sharing the pain is to alleviate the pain until it becomes nothing, and it is the division effect, and he plays the role of this effect as much as possible. Different stages of life require different transformations and transformations, and a deep understanding and sympathy for people. A few years ago, the deep understanding and sympathy for the laid-off people who quit the workplace early, a few years later, so that his understanding of the fate of people has a better grasp, and he will be as free as possible from the burden of office workers, he said to those office workers, thank you very much for giving me understanding, love and respect, but you must not always want to comfort me, help me pass the lonely and lonely life, you try to focus your time and energy resources on the front of the workplace, you have the pressure, difficulties and challenges that you must face, I am waiting for you here, After you retire from the workplace, you can enjoy a carefree and carefree ideal life together. He cannot achieve his spiritual freedom in such a way as to burden and worry about people. His freedom was utter freedom, and he felt that it was easier to have a higher level of experience in a state of spiritual freedom and to share this higher level of experience with others.

He has ample opportunities to avoid all kinds of misfortunes that people encounter, he has the privilege of reducing the fatigue of life, although he has been tortured by all kinds of hardships but has become a rare opportunity for enlightenment, he has always maintained a posture of hard work, and he has the qualifications of optimism that make him calmly cope with the challenges of the world. His sense of responsibility extended in all directions, and he actively put forward constructive suggestions to the party and government organs in the city, and the articles he wrote were published in various periodicals at all levels.