133, killer (1)
"Don't make a fuss! Stop it! Stop, stop, look! Do you think that's the guy you're talking about who has been following us? Sasha hurried at them as she pointed to the man who was walking towards them.
"That? You have to think about it, the consequences of playing us are very serious. After Jiajia and the others heard Sasha's scolding, they asked suspiciously while stopping playing.
"You think you're a monkey? Who has the spare time to trick you? That's it, the one in yellow. Sasha glanced at Jiajia angrily, and then pointed to the young man in the yellow bathing suit.
"It's him, he's the one who's been following you all along. Why did he come here, did he really like you? Want to talk to you? Tian Tian looked at the person Sasha was referring to who was already walking towards them.
"What's on us? Maybe I still like you? Yao Jiaxin also asked Tian Tian angrily.
"It's like, we're all family people. It's you who are the ones who choose them. Sasha echoed disapprovingly.
"Cut, people don't know if you have a family. Why don't we guess who people will look at? Jiajia retorted disdainfully, and made this suggestion with a wicked smile.
"Just guess, but can't you guess in vain? Whoever people talk to is whoever loses, and they have to eat seafood tonight. Sasha was not far behind and coaxed.
"Great idea! I think it's okay. Hey, hey, here, here??????" Just as Meng Meng whispered excitedly, the man passed by them.
"Huh? No way? Didn't even fancy any of them? Tian Tian muttered softly in surprise.
"It's over, the seafood is in the soup again." Sasha also muttered a little disappointed.
"A foodie is a foodie. I can't forget to eat for any time. ”
"Hey, you didn't open your mouth or what? Do you dare to say that you don't eat? ”
"Alright, stop arguing. People are going to go far away?????" Yao Jiaxin muttered incomprehensibly while scolding the chattering Sasha.
"No, I have to ask. Hey, handsome dude?????" Yao Jiaxin said and shouted at the man.
"Hello! How can we help? The man asked politely, looking back.
"Ah, no, nothing? You are? Yao Jiaxin asked a little embarrassed.
"Deepwater lifeguards. What's wrong? Is there something wrong? ”
"No, nothing. You're busy. Yao Jiaxin squeaked in embarrassment.
"Hahaha????? Look at your little bit of interest! All of them are very amorous! As soon as Sasha saw Yao Jiaxin's embarrassed appearance, she couldn't help but laugh.
"What about others? What about you? Do you dare to say that you haven't been sentimental? ”
"It's just that I'm embarrassed to talk about others. Isn't the handsome guy following you to save you? The two of us were nervous for a while. Jiajia echoed Tiantian and pouted dissatisfiedly.
"There are no couples who don't blush." Although it is difficult for us to trace back to who said this classic philosophy. But we have to admit that this is really a very classic philosophical saying. And that's exactly what happened.
No matter how good your relationship is, how loving you are! Faced with people who grew up in two completely different living environments and had completely different upbringings. Inevitably, there will be some differences; Plus the little things in life, etc.
Friction and contradictions will inevitably occur. At this time, no matter how good the relationship is, it will face a corresponding test. In particular, it is a test of wisdom in eliminating friction and resolving contradictions and crises. If it is not solved well, once the conflict breaks out, it will be tricky to solve.
Yao Jiali had a conflict with her husband over issues such as paying off the mortgage and buying a car. As a result, her husband yelled at her because he was too angry for a while. She threw that naughty bag son home. I went back to my parents' house in anger.
Although this trick is the most commonly used killer trick for married women. But it's also a trick with a long tradition. It is impossible to verify when this tradition began; But in modern times, most of them should have started from the Republic of China.
After all, in the ancient times of "three obedience and four virtues", women were absolutely obedient to men. Plus a very strict mother-in-law. No daughter-in-law would dare to go against her husband's wishes, let alone return to her parents' house in the event of a conflict.
Of course, in more distant matriarchal societies, it is not known whether this will be the case. However, this is not very likely. After all, it was a feminist society. Since the woman is the boss.
Don't all men have to be as obedient as today's 'strict wife'? Then it is impossible for men and women to have conflicts. There will be no women going back to their parents' homes.
Even if the women's return to their parents' homes came after the Republic of China Revolution, it should not be rare. After all, it was still a semi-feudal society at that time. Many people's minds have not yet been liberated. Except for some who have received a Western education.
Or they are influenced by revolutionary ideology, basically, most people should still be in the shackles of feudal etiquette; Especially the women of traditional families and the vast number of rural people. Then they would not be able to do the feat of 'returning to their parents'!
The precedent for this feat should have been started after liberation, when the vast number of women had undergone a thorough revolution and their ideological consciousness had been greatly improved. Of course, these are also difficult to verify. However, many literary and artistic works have interpretations.
Of course, this feat should be vigorously popularized after the reform and opening up. After all, since then, the status of women has improved like never before. Women's rights have also been greatly improved, and almost every household has a wife and is the head of the family.
Since the wife is the head of the family, she can't be provoked or touched. Otherwise, the consequences are serious, and men know it. However, thousands of years of feudal tradition have made the machismo of many old men still linger.
At the same time, if they encounter an unreasonable, brutal and domineering master, the men's patience is also limited. Under the impetus of the flesh and blood, it is inevitable that there will be feats of unbearable and uprising and resistance.
It is these feats that challenge the limits of women's rights, and angry women will naturally use the killer trick of "crying, making trouble, and hanging themselves" or returning to their parents' homes to maintain their authority.
Isn't that how Carrie Yao is? In order to maintain her authority, she shoved the crying little naughty bag into her husband's arms in a fit of anger, turned around and went back to her parents' house. Although, the little naughty bag is already seven years old.
It won't be as hard to carry as a baby anymore. This trick doesn't work as well as it used to. However, when the timing is right, it is still very lethal. Yao Jiali just saw that her husband was about to go on a business trip, so she used this killer trick. (To be continued......)