Chapter 998: Awkward
"What's so strange about you and Zuo Jiang not talking?" Chu Xia looked at Lin Mengran with a faint expression, "However, I always want to remind you, just make a proper fuss, don't always force him to show your position in his heart, if you continue like this, there will always be regrets." ”
"Did he say something to you?" Lin Mengran sat up straight and looked at Chu Xia worriedly, "Did he say he didn't want to be with me anymore?" ”
Chu Xia looked at her speechlessly: "Didn't he explain it to you, why are you still entangled?" Could it be that your so-called indifference is actually a lie? ”
"I really wanted to stop worrying about him at the time, but the more I thought about it when I came back, the more uncomfortable I became......" Lin Mengran sighed, "He himself said that the Zuo family members belong to Xiao Shumei, so even if I really marry him in the future, I will definitely not be liked by the elders."
And what I can't figure out the most is that since he doesn't like Xiao Shumei and doesn't plan to be with the other party, why should he take care of the other party and talk and laugh with the other party?
I don't hate Zuo Qi'an, and I can even say that I like it a little, but what do you think of my attitude towards Zuo Qi'an now? Why can't he do what I can?
I think what he is doing now can only show one problem, that is, his feelings for me are not as deep as he himself said. ”
Chu Xia looked at her speechlessly, if this person was like this, she really didn't know what to say, especially with a character like Lin Mengran, who didn't care about anything, but was actually very sensitive.
This is also related to her upbringing, she has been shrouded in the aura of Lin Mengye since she was a child. Ignored by most people, now emotionally. There will be less security.
But if you really want to talk about it, Zuo Jiang is also responsible. has been dating Lin Mengran for such a long time, you should be clear about the other party's personality and do less things that make the other party misunderstand.
Moreover, that Xiao Shumei looks like a scheming master.
Although Zuo Jiang said that he had always disliked the other party because of the other party's scheming, what Lin Mengran said also made sense. If you don't like it, why provoke it?
If it were her and Zhou Mikang did this, would she be able to accept it? Thinking from such an empathy, Chu Xia had more understanding of Lin Mengran's approach.
"Boss, I don't think you look good like this......" Seeing that everyone was staring at each other, Li Xinli opened her mouth and looked at Lin Mengran with a serious face, "The time you have been with Zuo Jiang is no shorter than the time I have with Jiang Jie." You should have an understanding of Zuo Jiang's character, he is a person who is gentle to everyone, then, his approach is not expected at all.
I don't say this to stand and talk without backache. Because Jiang Jie is also a person with a gentle personality, at the beginning, I saw him laughing with the female colleagues in their unit. I'm also quite uncomfortable, so. I especially understand your feelings.
It wasn't until my sister's incident happened that I really understood. Moderation does not mean that we abuse good people, nor does it mean that we will lose proportion, as long as we give enough trust, and at the same time, express our dissatisfaction, one day, this contradiction will no longer exist. ”
"I've already told him, but he still talks and laughs with Xiao Shumei......" Lin Mengran frowned tightly, "You also saw it this morning, right?" ”
"Then what is the ...... talking and laughing" Wu Jingbo looked at her speechlessly, "Fortunately, I saw the scene at that time, otherwise, I would really mislead you." ”
"Yes." Yang Xiaoli quickly answered, and looked at Chu Xia, "Don't listen to this guy's nonsense, in the morning, it was Xiao Shumei who stopped Zuo Jiang from talking, Zuo Jiang smiled lightly and nodded, and then turned to meet us."
At that time, the boss's face was pulled down, and we didn't want to talk to her in front of Zuo Jiang, but later after the class was busy, we put this matter aside, but I didn't expect that she would keep it in her heart. ”
"Boss, to be honest, you're a little too sensitive right now." Li Xinli said.
"Am I sensitive?" Lin Mengran pursed his lips, "Anyway, I just don't like the way he talks and laughs at other women, if it goes on like this, the two of us will probably have to break up." ”
Chu Xia Bai glanced at her: "Don't talk nonsense, if you really do this, Lin Mengye will die of joy, and most of the girls in the school will definitely clap their hands, you and Zuo Jiang are together, how jealous you are, you don't know it yourself, right?" ”
"If it weren't for the fact that I really liked it, I would have let it go a long time ago......," Lin Mengran looked entangled, "I know, what you said makes sense, and I also know that I am a little more suspicious."
But I'm such a character, I want my feelings to be very pure, of course, I'm not saying that he can't deal with the opposite sex, I just ask him to pay attention to proportion.
If he can't do it, no matter how much he likes it, I can only let it go, it's not that I don't love it, it's that I really don't want to hurt myself or hurt the other party anymore, can you understand what I mean? ”
"Understood...... Yang Xiaoli hugged her shoulders with a helpless expression, "But, why do you look like this?" Unless......" she glanced at Chu Xia before saying, "unless you find a boyfriend with a personality like Master Zhou." ”
"You pull it down...... Lin Mengran pushed her away, "That kind of character requires absolute strength, do you think I have the ability to find a man like that?" ”
After hesitating, Yang Xiaoli comforted: "Look for it slowly, maybe you will find it." ”
"With my face, do you think it will attract the likes of that kind of man?" Lin Mengran rolled her eyes as she spoke, "I'm self-aware, don't tease me, okay?" ”
Chu Xia looked at a few people speechlessly: "Are you not going to be friends with me?" ”
"No, isn't it ......" Yang Xiaoli flattered her and grabbed her, "We're complimenting you......"
"Pull it down...... "Chu Xia Bai glanced at her, "This kind of praise is still waived, we are now helping the boss solve the problem, can you be serious?" She turned to look at Lin Mengran, "I can understand your mood, and if you put it on me, you may be able to account for it, but everyone is right, Zuo Jiang is that kind of character, if you don't mind, it will only make you get farther and farther apart."
My advice is to give the other person time, slowly correct it, and at the same time, tell the other person what you really think in your heart, so that he can understand where your taboos are.
Just like when I talked to Zuo Jiang at my house before, you just said that you didn't like him to be so close to his childhood sweetheart, and he also agreed, and he stayed away from each other in the future.
However, if Xiao Shumei goes to him, in terms of his character, he really can't be ignored with a cold face, then the contradictions between you will still exist, and if there are too many contradictions, the relationship will definitely be affected.
Boss, it's useless for us to persuade you now, the key is to figure it out for yourself, it's easy to let go, but it's not easy to let yourself not regret it in the future. ”
"I understand......" Lin Mengran nodded, "Let me think about it again, to be honest, I just said that I was angry, if I really let me be separated from him, I still can't bear it."
I know that on my terms, it is absolutely high to be able to get his like, and it may be precisely because of this that I have become very unconfident, I ...... Let's make an effort to adjust. ”
When several people walked into the classroom, Zuo Jiang looked at Lin Mengran with some concern.
From the morning to now, the other party didn't pay attention to him at all, and several times, he took the opportunity to lean over and want to say a few words to the other party, but he didn't succeed, and he knew that it must be the morning when he and Xiao Shumei talked to cause the other party's misunderstanding.
But......
He tugged at his hair, his mind in turmoil.
For Xiao Shumei, he really didn't have the slightest feeling, even if he wasn't with Lin Mengran, he wouldn't choose Xiao Shumei, but no matter what he said, Lin Mengran was suspicious.
This made him feel a little faint anger in his heart, since he chose the other party, he should give enough trust, just like him, knowing that Lin Mengran used to like Zuo Qi'an, but he never asked Lin Mengran not to associate with Zuo Qi'an.
If it is according to Lin Mengran's standards, he should also be jealous.
Why is the request one-sided?
The more he pondered about it, the more Zuo Jiang felt that he was right, and his original intention of taking the initiative to find the other party to admit his mistake after school faded, not only that, but after school, he didn't even take care of the other party and went back to the dormitory alone.
In fact, after an afternoon of thinking, Lin Mengran had decided not to be entangled in her own imagination, and also decided that if Zuo Jiang looked for her again, she would give the other party a step down, and in the future, she would try to avoid this contradiction.
But she didn't expect that she waited all afternoon, waiting for such a result! is not a gentle and good temper, and if the other party makes such a fuss, her stubbornness can be regarded as completely up.
Feelings are a matter of consensual thinking, since this relationship is worthless in the eyes of the other party, what is the need for her to insist? Why bother with this?
She made a decision in her heart, but she didn't say it, seeing that everyone was looking at her with some worry, she smiled easily: "Why are you looking at me like this?" ”
"Boss......" Yang Xiaoli called her, but she didn't know what to say.
On the contrary, in the early summer, I have been dating Lin Mengran for so long, and I understand her temperament, just by looking at her expression, I can understand what she thinks in her heart.
However, she knows better that at this time, any persuasion is useless, and the emotional matter still has to be solved by the two of them, so she pretended not to find anything and said goodbye to a few people with a relaxed face.
Not long after eating in the evening, Lin Mengran came, her eyes were a little abnormally red, and she looked like she had just cried. (To be continued......)