Chapter 158: Transformation of the Happiness Model

One day at noon, Wu Wei and Song Rou were having dinner at Hao Han's house, He Fei called Wu Wei, and said that he had always wanted to pick up his brother and sister-in-law. Is it okay to pick up my brother and sister-in-law tonight?

Wu Wei listened, I have something tonight, your father's hospitalization, why don't you tell us in advance, so let's go and take a look. How old are you?

He Feidao, 84 years old. The doctor was worried that the old man of this age would not be able to get off the operating table due to anesthesia, and the operation was very successful, and this morning, my brother-in-law came to take my dad back. Send my dad away and call you quickly, it has been twenty days since Guan Jingtao Zhang Luo picked up his brother and sister-in-law last time, and I can't help it in a hurry. How about tomorrow night?

Wu Weidao, there is something to do tomorrow night.

He Feidao, you wait for my call.

A few days later, Wu went to the morning market for Song Rou and met He Fei, He Feidao, just tonight. He laughed at himself again, catching up with tomorrow is Children's Day, just when the two festivals are coming.

In the afternoon, He Fei sent a text message to Wu Wei to inform the hotel where the evening party would be.

The scenes of several happy gatherings are not described one by one. He Fei said to Wu Wei and Song Judo, the three of us earn a salary, and my brother and sister-in-law get an annual salary, don't look at how little I earn, do you think I'm happy?

Song Judao, of course you are very happy, the Moutai wine I prepared for you is still there, waiting for you to be promoted, and give you praise.

He Feidao, sister-in-law, don't boast about officials now. Our unit just mentioned a chief of staff, looking for a few good buddies to get together, but it was videotaped, and it was not clear whether it was public funds or private invitations on the spot.

Wu Wei to Song Judo, next time we will please. But it has to be like a dot.

He Feidao, the money of the two of you is enough to spend, what are you keeping it for?

Song Judo, the child is waiting.

Wu Wei took over the topic and said to He Fei and the others, you also persuade your sister-in-law, she is still stuck in the past life mode, I watched her strangle herself like that, but I couldn't make sense.

Song Judo, my son all said about me. Earning 10,000 yuan now is the same as earning 100 yuan in the past.

Yan Ming's daughter-in-law, who has never squeaked and works in the party school, is thrifty and has good morals. My mom was cheated on the other day. When she came out of the tax bureau, a woman stopped her, saying that she was the director of a sub-bureau, named Li Dongmei, and she was in urgent need of money. But I don't have cash for a while, can you lend her some? When my mother heard this, she said her real name and surname, but she didn't think that the director of the tax branch could borrow money with her, an old man. felt that people begged for themselves, because they trusted him, so he said that he didn't have so much cash in his pocket, and he deliberately took that person home. took a thousand dollars, and the man was gone. When we get back, listen to my mother. When asked about the person's appearance, he didn't dare to tell the old lady that he had been deceived, so he had to say that he would borrow it.

Wu Weidao, the one in our family is still stuck in the past life mode, happiness also has a model, always want to save and save, save to save, what to keep that money for? Leave the child behind? Now we leave 100,000 or 80,000 yuan to our children, and in the future, the children will earn 50,000, 100,000, or 200,000 yuan.

Yan Ming said, what my brother said makes sense.

Wu Wei, who was encouraged, suddenly said excitedly, the thing that my brother and sister said just now about my mother being deceived also shows the problem I want to talk about. We Chinese always stay in the past mode of suffering, willing to appreciate and see people struggling in poverty and suffering, and then reach out to help and obtain moral satisfaction. I have been thinking all these years, if China is always stuck in such a state, how can we catch up with and surpass the developed United States, Britain, Europe and Japan? Today, China has established and improved a social security system covering the entire society, and there will be no more starvation deaths, and a special relief mechanism has been established even for serious illnesses. We can no longer appreciate and sympathize with those expressions of suffering. People who are always in such a state must not be accustomed to seeing happy and happy smiling faces, and they are either jealous or hateful. We have struggled and struggled, and even the horizon of poverty has not surpassed the past, which can only show that our struggle has stayed at a too low starting point, and we have repeatedly returned to the low starting point to launch efforts again and again, and such a fate is very sad for our country and this nation.

Yan Ming kept nodding his head in acquiescence while listening. After Wu Wei finished speaking, he also said, I have always considered such a problem, but I don't think about it as deeply as my eldest brother.

Wu Weidao, the story told by his brother and sister just now, the liar actually took advantage of the bitter appreciation mode in the old man's heart to succeed.

Song Rou said with a smile, he is also a strange person, what he remembers, no matter when, in the early hours of the night, he gets up and writes, and then sleeps after writing, maybe he thinks of something again, and gets up to write again. I don't know where he got that energy.

Guan Jingtao said, the eldest brother is a late bloomer. People of this age can still do this, many people just want to do it, but they can't do it, and they can't meet his standard if they do.

Wu Weidao, happiness also has a model and a standard. Just now, He Fei said that there are various stages of life, and when you reach that stage, you must do what you must do, and you must work hard to do it well, and he specifically mentioned that you must do good deeds. Before I came back, I was with the king for them, and he asked the question of how difficult it is to let go, and I said to him, I want to let go of my heart, and there is a question of where to put it. When He Fei said that doing good deeds means putting down his heart and putting it on doing good deeds. I also thought, when you shouldn't put it down, don't think about letting it go, just take it and pick it up.

Yan Ming listened to the sermon, yes, responsible. People of our age should carry forward the spirit of responsibility, and it is not the time to let go.

Wu Wei continued, "We went to see her 84-year-old aunt and uncle-in-law last week. My uncle-in-law was suffering from two types of cancer, and I saw that my brother-in-law had achieved a great understanding after the catastrophe in his life, and the questions he raised were very thoughtful and clear. In the face of your sister-in-law, the people who are not blessed, the people who will not be blessed, and the people who want to be respected and deserve but are lost, your sister-in-law knows who Lu Dao is talking about. He also said to me that such a family needs people who play a lubricating role. My uncle-in-law saw that she was always staring at me and drinking, and said, you still need someone who loves you. So many questions are asked in a row. I also read it online.

He Fei sighed with emotion, it is indeed not easy for such an old man to ask such a question. However, I want to say a few words for my eldest brother, and my sister-in-law should not be upset when she hears it. He earns so much money, he just wants to drink some wine, besides, the last time we got together, I said that he is now writing novels, it is also a job, it is a career, for him, it can also be said to be a living, he is also very willing to write, excited, he can't say when he gets up to write, he drinks some wine, for him, it is a need. Literati all have such a hobby. Li Baidou has a hundred poems about wine, and he may be excited when he drinks it, and his thoughts come. Sister-in-law must think about this issue and must give space to the eldest brother. Otherwise, my sister-in-law will become a person who will not be happy, and she will not let her eldest brother be happy. In the eyes of his brothers, he became a sinner.

Wu Wei was busy coming out to play the round, she was also changing, sometimes she followed others to the supermarket in Nandu, saw that there was no wine, and deliberately did not squeak, bought it back and put it in the cupboard, but it was too little to buy back at a time. This is already a very remarkable improvement for her.

Song Rou also said to He Fei immediately, don't say it, I'll listen to you in the future. You also know in your hearts that I am sick because of the problem of alcohol. The morning work person is good, wait for the evening to get off work, say that there is something, left and right will not come, put you in a hurry, wait for the back, it is someone sent back, no one else has anything to do, he himself drank too much, everyone at the wine table is a relative, and the respect is endless. I don't drink too much in one day, and I have it early in three days and two days.

Guan Jingtao said with a smile, the eldest brother really made his sister-in-law angry in those years, once he drank too much, and he couldn't find a home when he drove back, he took out the eldest brother's mobile phone and turned the number, and called me casually when he saw my phone, I hurried to go, the eldest brother was really drunk that time, how to persuade him not to get out of the car, and he wanted to drink, I had to call my sister-in-law, and it was strange, as soon as he saw his sister-in-law coming, he obediently got out of the car, and we laughed at the time. We sometimes discuss, and R&F also said that if it was changed to someone else, like the big brother, he would have drunk to death a long time ago.

Song Judo, finally retreated, my heart immediately opened, thank God, how much money I earned, I am happy. Now, you say so, in the future, he will drink if he wants, but fortunately, no one will force him to drink, and there are not so many scenes like in the past, and he can drink as much as he wants, otherwise, I, who is a sister-in-law, has really become a sinner in front of you as a younger brother, and when the time comes, I can't stand it, if he doesn't write a novel because of this, wouldn't I be guilty of adding to sin?

He Feidao, over the years, we, the elder brothers, have also watched our brothers and sisters-in-law come all the way, and it is not easy for you to get to where you are today, like my eldest brother, who does not fight for anything when he encounters anything, but he has not left anything behind, I feel that my eldest brother is very clever in doing this. Come, a few of us are younger brothers and sisters, and we will toast my brother and sister-in-law together! (To be continued......)