Chapter Thirty-Eight: The Style of Life for the Tao and the Man

A new vice principal of the school is used to listening to everyone's discussion of Wu Wei, and he already has a clear stereotype in his heart, and then he looks a little wooden, and occasionally sees him sitting there and playing poker with everyone, so he is surprised and said, Xiao Wu can also play poker? I was surprised to see him playing chess with others, and he could still play chess? Others laughed and said, not only will it be very good, but I don't believe it

Try the game, and when you try it, the chess peak is really aggressive. I thought he couldn't drink, but when he drank, he was quite generous and could be open. Those who clearly say that he is a real person and do not show his face, and those who do not understand say that he will not come. People who didn't know him from outside asked him what kind of work he did at school, and he replied that he was a teacher, and people were surprised, "You still give lectures?" People who know the Tao say that not only can they speak, but they also speak very well! Gradually, some people around complimented Wu Wei, saying that people like him want to be promoted, and if you want to press him, he can't suppress it.

Wu Wei began to attach importance to being a person, but the relationship with Song Rou was tense. Wu Wei, who changed his concept, began to be enthusiastic about defending outsiders, and Song Rou felt left out. Wu Wei always thought that his family was easy to handle, and his family would not be as caring as outsiders. Song Rou was born by caesarean section, and intestinal adhesions were accidentally formed during the operation, resulting in periodic paroxysmal intense and unbearable pain, Wu Wei actually ran out of Song Rou when the paroxysmal pain was strong to accompany outsiders to drink, and no one cared when he came back from the meal, and his colleague Wang Wei felt unbearable when he heard the news and sent medicine to see the scene, but Wu Wei didn't have anything to do, and said that it would pass after a while, which hurt Song Rou's heart. After the others left, he cried with tears and said, do I still have a place in your heart, seeing me go out to accompany others like this, if you want any important guests, they are all those donkeys and horses. You take out your conscience and think about it, I give my heart to you, and serve you like a child, the socks have not been washed, the leather shoe polish has not been polished, the change of clothes is put on the head and limbs in the morning, and when you wake up, you can see it naturally, and I almost put it on you like a child. Picking up and dropping off children has never made you worry about it, you didn't see those young people in the courtyard riding cars to school early in the morning, and then coming back to class, the daughter-in-law didn't do it by the way, let the man run down and pout, lack of this and less that, what do you worry about outside things, outsiders have praised you for finding a capable daughter-in-law, do you take me seriously, don't

Having said that, it's too late to say anything now, complaining that I'm blind and looking for someone like you, I can only say that my life is miserable.

Song Rou cried like this, Wu Wei felt guilty, hurry up and accompany me, I am not what you think at all, I marry you is the greatest happiness in my life, it is my ancestral grave that smokes, bless me for marrying such a beautiful and capable daughter-in-law, don't be angry, I will cook immediately, my son is also hungry, I want to eat something. Song Rou's face gradually came over a little, and you will slap a sweet date, and it will still taste like that after that. Wu Wei saw that the rain had passed and the sky was clear, so he hurriedly smiled and said, It's all mine, it's not me, I'm making you angry again, son, come here, you can't make anyone angry if you make anyone angry, remember. Xiao Wu Song said very obediently and remembered. Wu Wei asked, who are the two who are provoking, do you know the way? Wu Song nodded, knowing that he said. Wu Wei said, it's good to know the way, pay attention in the future, and don't mess with anyone

Gas. Song Rou burst into tears and said with a smile, it was originally her own fault, but it was used to educate children, just take care of yourself. Wu Wei accepted it when he saw it, and hurriedly went to cook.

At this time, there was a sensational incident at the school.

Last year, President Cui, who was newly incoming, promoted two people, one was Wu Wei and the other was Hao Han, who served as deputy directors of the teaching and research departments of the two majors. But the good times didn't last long, and only a year later, Hao Han was dismissed by Principal Cui because of a fierce quarrel with another director. Wu Wei heard about this after returning from a business trip at that time, so he went to Principal Cui's house and went straight to the point

said to Cui Zhen, I didn't have anything else to do, so I just wanted to talk about the handling of Hao Han.

Cui Zhen regretted it a little when he heard it, hey, why didn't I ask for your opinion at that time? How are you?

What do you think about this?

Wu Wei did not hide his point of view, and said, he dealt with Hao Han too much, is it Fang Guangshen

with the whole person.

Principal Cui was surprised, your department head Fang Guang did not participate in any opinions, it turns out that you think so, this kind of treatment has protected Hao Han, and the director who disagreed with him asked that as long as he retains his major, he can be dismissed, and at that time, considering that the two of them can no longer work together, in order to protect Hao Han's major, he did this kind of treatment, and transferred the director to another school

Research room.

After hearing this, Wu Wei said to President Cui that Hao Han originally wanted to do his job hard, and after every teaching and research activity, he went to the office at night to see if there were any unextinguished cigarette butts on the floor, and looked at the doors and windows

Is it closed and locked, worried about what will happen? Principal Cui nodded thoughtfully. After such an incident, Hao Han naturally couldn't figure it out, so Wu Wei took Hao Han to comfort him by writing something.

Wu Wei had a very close relationship with Principal Cui's uncle Ma Tian, Ma Tian turned out to be a person from the school to do some logistical work, knowing that his father-in-law was going to come to the school as the principal, so he quickly transferred to the bank as the vice president of a branch, although the two of them did not work in the same unit but still lived in the same building. Ma Tian always goes to Wu Wei's house three or four nights a week to talk and communicate. Ma Tian claimed that there was a lot of fate between the two people, what fate? The daughters-in-law of the two people have one in common

Words, Song Rou Cui Rou. This matter has become a topic that Ma Tian often makes fun of, and when he saw Song Rou at Wu Wei's house, he shouted, daughter-in-law! What are you busy with, come and serve your husband! Song Rou smiled and said, the one who is not doing the right thing is here again, do you dare to shout like this when you go home?

Ma Tian is simply Wu Wei's source of information, as soon as he comes, he will talk endlessly about the inside story of the school. Fang Guang was also transferred with Li Jie, Li Jie began to be very good to him, moved from other counties and had no room to live, Li Jie deliberately vacated a set of student dormitories for his family in the school, and the meal was in the cafeteria, life was very convenient, and he was arranged to be the head of the finance department, there were many things including transferring teachers, designing the curriculum system, compiling teaching plans, and letting him preside over it, Fang Guang's wife arranged to do finance, everyone thought that Fang Guang was Li Jie's most trustworthy person. However, Li Jie's attitude towards Fang Guang suddenly became very indifferent for some reason, if it weren't for the husband and wife who bought a pair of very fashionable jeans for Li Jie's youngest son and sent them home, but they were rejected by others, Fang Guang was still in the dark, and the husband and wife returned home to carefully recall and take stock of what they offended Li Jie, or what they were rude about, and they felt that there was nothing wrong to do something sorry for people, but they fell out of favor with Li Jie in a daze. Ma Tian asked Wu Wei, what do you know because of the Dao? Wu Wei said, where do I know these things? Ma Tian said that there were people above the newly transferred Pu Zhi people, and when they came, they were arranged to be the head of the personnel section, and they were considered to be Li Jie's successors, and after the Pu Zhi people came, they ate in the canteen, and Fang Guang often prepared good wine and food to invite Park to his home, and complimented Park Zhi at the wine table and said that the future of the school was his. Such words reached Li Jie's ears

Duo Li, I was jealous in my heart, and secretly thought, I'm still too early to die, that's it, it's too snobbish.

Wu Wei heard from an insider that there was news that President Cui of Bank A in Nenshui City had come to the school as the principal. At this time, the provincial bank has changed the new president, and the school has been upgraded to a deputy department-level unit, and many people in the bank want to serve in the school, but the new president of the provincial bank has a very good relationship with the president of Nenshui City, and he gave this opportunity to be promoted, Li Jie is the secretary of the party committee, Cui is the principal, and the principal responsibility system is implemented to show the importance of Cui Zhen. Cui Zhen is a smart person, straightforward, professional, very talented, and very domineering. When he was still the vice president, he went to a branch below one afternoon to inspect the work, and saw that the president of the branch was drinking with a few people, and said angrily, The president is leading the work hours to drink, I want to remove you. President Ma was drinking, and in front of his subordinates and guests, he was removed because of drinking, I hadn't heard of it, I was not convinced, I couldn't help but get angry, patted the table and said, I see that you removed me, even if you have the ability, the bank is not opened by your family, you are a ** vice president, I see how you removed me, I said that I felt puzzled, and said angrily, what the hell is going on with me still pretending to be an egg, we don't pee him, and then drink! The people at the table persuaded one after another, Cui Zhen shouted, you see if I can remove you, and left after speaking. He immediately rushed back to the city bank and asked for an urgent convening

The party committee immediately made a decision to remove President Ma, and then rushed back to the branch with the document to announce the decision of the city bank. Of course, the president of Ma was not convinced, and reported that Cui Zhen had a problem with his style, and the deputy director of the personnel department was sent to lead a team to investigate, and the conclusion was that there was indeed no evidence for the investigation, and he went back to report that the president of the provincial bank and Cui Zhen were friends. It wasn't like that at all, and after suppressing this matter, the deputy director of the personnel department was transferred to the operations department. After Cui Zhen later became the president, he listened to the work plans of the following departments, he sat there and habitually squinted his eyes and listened, some reporters did not understand his style and thought that he did not listen carefully or dozed off, so he deliberately compressed or omitted the content of the report, and even had a sense of teasing, he immediately prompted, why can't he pick it up? Hearing some of the big tail materials, I was angry and immediately scolded, what kind of ** thing was written! Take it back and rewrite it!

Fang Guang, who fell out of favor with Li Jie, set his sights on Principal Cui who was coming, Cui Zhen had dinner with the assessment team from above and was sent home in the middle of the night, Fang Guang deliberately waited downstairs in Cui's house to talk about the school situation. When Cui Zhen came to a new unit, he was naturally anxious to understand the situation in all aspects, Fang Guang's approach was in the right place, and Fang Guang was very scheming in the city government, and he won Cui Zhen's appreciation and trust after three or two deep talks. Ma Tian often chatted with Wu Wei about some peachy news, saying that one day when he looked in at the door of Li Jie's office, he saw Li Jie stripped naked and his thighs on the body of a young female employee who was also naked. Wu Wei is not interested in this kind of information, nor is he as keen as some people to spread this kind of information, knowing the Tao is knowing the Dao, and even people like Fang Guang don't talk about some things with others without going behind his back, saying that he has a tight mouth. During the Spring Festival this year, Ma Tian asked Wu Wei to go to Fang Guang's house to pay New Year's greetings, Ma Tian and Fang Guang sat in their room and chatted, Fang Guang's brother-in-law had just been transferred from the army to the line through Fang Guang's way, and he lived in his house without a room for a while.

Brother-in-law, the head of the people, we can't come out of the army, the relationship is very clear layer by layer, and we are too tired to do that. Wu Wei said, when you go to work in the place, you have to slowly adapt to it, otherwise you won't be able to eat, you just have a ready-made teacher to dial a little. Fang Guanglian shook his head and said, we can't learn that set, besides, that set is good for others, so we have to be awkward to take it.

One night, Ma Tian came to Wu Wei's house, Wu Wei showed him the summary of reform he had written, Ma Tian looked at it and said, I'll find someone to help you see how about it? Wu Wei asked, who do you want to show it to? Ma Tian said, to a deputy mayor in charge of industry in the city. A few days after he took it

Came with great interest, the deputy mayor is very sure of your things, thinks that there are insights very profound, he guesses that the person who wrote this material should be in his fifties, and he will meet and nag one day. Wu Wei felt that he must be very happy that what he wrote could get such a person, and he preached to Ma Tian that any member of the leadership team could make a wrong decision alone, and once it was brought to the meeting, the decision made by collective discussion must be correct. Ma Tian shook his head and said, it's not as you think. Wu Wei was puzzled, there is always a fairness in the discussion at the meeting, it is like a procedure, how can those stupid, dirty, ugly, vicious and unsightly ideas be put forward and passed at a formal meeting, it should be ashamed to speak. Martin said that Washington said that politics is the most intelligent and charismatic profession, and it is a pity that it is polluted. What's the deal with pollution? There are many dirty and ugly things that are often put forward in an upright and high-sounding manner, and the so-called party committee decision is often the case when one or two people touch their upper lip and lower lip, and then take it out and announce that it is the decision of the party committee. The way in which the meeting was decided was very complicated, the communication before the meeting was in series, the mutual understanding during the meeting, and there were those who did not squeak, those who pretended to be deaf and dumb, and those who suppressed and retaliated.

Another night, Ma Tian came to Wu Wei's house with great interest, and said before he sat down, I ran to the river today, looked at those pebbles, and imagined that the pebbles were not that kind of appearance, the original appearance should be angular and hairy, and then after tens of millions of years of flowing water, it became a sleek appearance, I think of people, when they first entered the society, they also had ideals and pursuits, and they were a kind of rough style, or hairy young men, who gradually became old and mature after experience

So it's sleek. Wu Weidao, it makes sense, I think of myself, this person has no regrets in his life. Ma Tian listened to it and admired it, no matter whether he has any regrets in life, it is great to be able to say this. Ma Tian said again, look at Yunfei from the school, you are originally in a unit, you don't know him yet, that person just walks around every day, and you don't see what he does, but no benefit can fall behind him. Wu Weidao, he is not a simple person, he is very smart, he has a good brain, he can't offend people, he can get the way, he turned out to be a boiler burner, and it is not easy to mix with the current position of the director of general affairs, and the two of us can talk about it very much. Song Rou listened to the interjection, and it was okay to talk about it, Yun Fei came to my house that day, saying that he had a bus a long time ago, he came up from the back door, and saw Wu Wei at the front door arguing with the conductor about something, not because of his own business, but for other passengers, he said that when he saw Wu Wei arguing in front, he wanted to get off the bus quickly and avoid the point. At that time, I said, how can you be a big brother like this, seeing that the elder brother is in trouble, he didn't come forward to help watch the jokes and avoided it. When I said this, he didn't squeak, and he looked embarrassed. Wu Wei said with a smile, I thought at the time, Yun Fei is too, how can he talk about such a thing in person, isn't this embarrassing for himself, Song Rou also reacted very quickly, but he shouldn't be able to come to the stage in front of others. Ma Tian also smiled when he heard this, your wife is a stubble. Song Rou smiled and said, you have to pay attention, don't fall into my hands in the future. The three of them laughed.

Wu Wei cherished Hao Han's talent very much, and when he wrote, he spoke endlessly, and his eloquence was excellent. Ma Tian looks dashing, very aggressive, has business talents, and can pick it up and put it down. Ma Tian's father-in-law removed Hao Han from his position, which naturally caused a gap between Ma Tian and Hao Han, but Wu Wei didn't care about this matter, and how to deal with the two of them.

Wu Wei regards the two people as a window to observe the society, and grasps the changes that occur in the society through the changes in the behavior of the two people.

From the handling of the relationship between Hao Han and Ma Tian, it can be seen that Wu Wei's style of being a man is Tao, taking Tao as the main thing and supplemented by people. only

Only when there is a way can people achieve career and achieve people's height.

Wu Wei also has his own peculiar understanding of the academic path he has taken. In a unit, a person needs to be recognized by everyone for what to do and what to achieve, and some things need to be voted on, so that you have to maintain everyone, although you are not willing to do some things, you have to welcome peace, and you have to pay more attention to maintaining the leadership, only to read and write articles to publish, do not have to go through this complex interpersonal relationship procedure, do not need everyone to vote for the leader to sign, he experienced the joy of success brought to him by the academic way, not only in fame and fortune, but more importantly, with that kind of freedom

The process of sprinkling, the thrill of discovering something new.

His attitude towards interpersonal relationships has gradually formed the characteristics of taking the Tao as a person, not to maintain people for the sake of making friends, but to use the Tao as a person, to show people to help people with the Tao, and to tell people the truth he has understood. In handing over people, he also chooses people by the Tao, people who don't have to work and don't seek the Tao have nothing to do, he doesn't look down on disdain, he values people who are accomplished, ambitious and talented, even if he is a little lacking in personality, he also starts from his own experience, confidants and people, and does his best to protect and promote, slowly even Song Rou can see it and say to him, you can look down on people who others don't look down on, but people who can't do it with others

It's okay with you, I think you're that kind of person. Around Wu Wei, some people who want to do things and can really achieve things are gathered, forming a small atmosphere of doing things. As soon as people from other offices entered their department, they felt very different, and there were so many people who were immersed in their studies.

Hao Han suffered a major setback, so he simply broke the jar and broke it, and Principal Cui also cherished Hao Han's talent and wanted to redeem it, but Hao Han was a man who was soft and not hard, and his originally somewhat radical personality was even more extreme, which made Principal Cui very annoyed, but what to do with him. Once, Cui Xiao

The chief said to Wu Wei that the school is different from the bank, and if the person is not good, he can be assigned or adjust the position, but the school is not good, there is no other place to go, and the teacher has a major and it is not easy to adjust it casually. Wu Wei said that if there is a chance, we should still consider Hao Han's problem and give him a chance.