Chapter 38: Alexander of Business (Part II)
Wang Wei listened to Wu Wei's words about where to put his heart, and suddenly woke up and said, as soon as you say this, I feel that I have taken a step forward, yes, we just want to let go, why don't we think of the question of where to put our hearts?
Wu Weidao said that if you want to solve the problem, you must have the right way. That year, I was thinking about the problem of spiritual stability, I felt that it was difficult to be stable wherever I put it, the feeling of hanging in the air, and I also wrote the topic of rootless grass, Hao Han went to my office, just saw the topic I typed on the computer, and was particularly surprised, how can rootless grass live, so can you imagine such a grotesque topic? That was my real state of mind at that time, and I thought about it like this, and suddenly I had that strange experience.
Wang Weidao, I think that to solve this kind of problem, we have to rely on our own understanding. And there's what you say to follow the right way.
Wu Weidao, the idea that accompanied me at that moment was to help the world and save people, you raised this entanglement, I didn't think about it, what to do after putting it down?
Yes! Wang Wei suddenly felt that he understood something, and let out a sigh. Yes, why are you in a tangle, isn't it because of what you are doing at the moment that you are in a tangle, if you don't do what you are doing, what will you do?
Wu Weidao, this is to solve the problem of where to put the heart.
Wang Weidao, hearing you say this, I feel that I have taken a step forward from just now.
Wu Wei said again, I want to let go and feel that it is difficult to let go, a bit similar to the feeling of being trapped in a mental maze and not being able to get out, at this time, people must take the initiative to try various ideas, that is, try to think through, so that they can feel at ease. After trying all kinds of ideas, whether you should let go, whether you should let go, whether you can find a suitable support to put it down, think about it but you shouldn't put it down and can't put it down, it's not a question of letting it go. It's a problem that shouldn't be let go at all, and if you make this clear, you should warn yourself not to think about the problem of letting go, and if you don't let go of the problem, you will naturally be relieved of the entanglement of wanting to let go, but concentrate on dealing with the pressure of the business world, concentrate your wisdom and find a way to succeed, and the pressure is gone, and the crux of wanting to let go will naturally dissolve. If it fails. That is, if you don't let go, you have to let go, it's a forced cut and abandonment, and you have to give up if you don't give up. That's pain. If you want to let go, there are also elements of unwillingness in the face of pressure, and if this happens, you will be entangled, which will affect your own state of play, limit the level of play, and what you can achieve through guò efforts is easy to achieve. This is the self-limiting self-limiting oneself. It's better to simply let go of a fight, and then talk about it after the fight, if you can think of this Cheng dù, you have actually put it down. Put it on what you're doing.
Looking at Wang Wei's thoughtful appearance, Wu Wei said, I have said too much, and the meaning is quite complicated. It means that if you think it through, you will know how to deal with the problem that it is difficult to let go if you want to let go, in fact. In the end, it's about how to deal with the pressures in the business world.
Wang Weidao, what you said is to think through, try to think about all kinds of possibilities, isn't it a spiritual breakthrough to achieve self-realization?
At this time, the two people in front of them stood there waiting, saying that you are chattering and not looking at the scenery.
Wu Weidao, we are also watching the scenery, it is the scenery in our hearts, and the scenery is infinite.
Song Judo, here you are again, who can understand your set?
Wang Weidao, I felt inspired by listening to it. said to Li Ping again, I didn't tell you, two years ago, the boss gave our management team a collective reduction of three levels of wages. He also said to Wu Wei, many years ago, I was demoted from the position of general manager to a department manager. However, they were all transferred back later. If you don't do it well, even your wife and children look down on you.
Wu Wei said with a smile, if you think like this, you can't fall into the entanglement of letting go and not letting go, if you toss yourself like this, your wife and children will also look down on you, they want to say you, you can do it, don't do it for yourself, don't do it at all, if they say this about you, can you still stand it? What they want to see is that you deal with it successfully.
Wu Wei said again, your boss said to you personally, he wants to hand over the position of chairman to you, this is a small explanation, he sees that you have the potential in this area, the chairman can do it, why did the position of general manager encounter such a tangle? We are all vulgar, vulgar and vulgar, we can't let go, or we can't get around a vulgar word, just because we are vulgar, we have to use vulgar procedures to solve problems, don't deliberately seek to get rid of vulgarity, fall into that tangled and can't get out, calm and calm, when it's time to let go, it will naturally be put down. The melons are ripe and falling. I guess that the relationship between you and the boss is currently your first priority, he sees you tortured like that, without a word of comfort, maybe it is a test of your loyalty to him, persistence is still important, focus on finding a way to do what you want to do in front of you, that is, what you just said, put your heart on something, or you should put your mind on what you are doing, and be happy to do it, that is, be happy to put it on what you are doing, do it happily, be happy, go with nature, At the same time, cultivate and develop their other hobbies and interests, and meet the fate left and right.
Wu Wei also said, there is a God in the West who teaches people there, who will teach the Chinese how to behave? Now it is generally realized that being a human being has become a problem, especially when it comes to specific conflicts in real life, who will teach them? Westerners will think of God, realize that they are guilty, repent and do what God teaches, and there is a set of procedures, which are the procedures taught by God, and return to God's orbit. The Chinese lack such a procedure, that is, the procedure that has been established with great difficulty is not strong, and the differential order structure that Fei Xiaotong talked about, every time there is a corresponding moral element at work in a relationship, and there is a lack of a universal element, and everyone respects and pursues the procedure. There is a rule, you can oppose anyone, even the party government, the imperial power, but you can't oppose the profession of your own choice, you have to oppose the profession of your own choice, you can't live. Of course, the professional environment will be poisoned and polluted by people, and the four negative effects of the workplace will squeeze and crush people. How can one hold on to one's foothold? There is no way to do that kind of environment, you can't help yourself, and you don't have a choice. Not enlightened, too dark and savage, strangles human nature. Now the environment is different, much more enlightened than in the past, you can choose again, you have the freedom to choose. Freedom, that is, you can choose what you want to do, and no one will tie your hands and feet. Besides, now that you have reached this stage, you really have to let go and have the capital to let go, so when you think about it, what is it difficult to let go.
Wang Weidao, thank you for your enlightenment, I didn't expect your thinking about music to have such a deep meaning in it, which makes you worry, and I also complained to my eldest brother, after all, he is in his fifties.
Wang Wei's mobile phone rang, he opened it to answer, it was Ruizhi calling, saying that they had arrived at the hotel. (To be continued......)