Chapter 591: For the sake of it
A few days later, the yard of Mrs. Qianzhi County was bought by Mrs. Liu's maiden brother. Mrs. Liu said to Zhong Chichun: "That yard is very good, and it is next to the yard of the future magistrate, so the house can be safe." Wen Chunyi felt that she had really grown common sense in the market, and after listening to Mrs. Liu's words, she also felt that she was reasonable.
In the past few days, there have been several new things in the small town of China, and the people in the government are so busy that they can't stop. The parents of the two families sued their sons and daughters-in-law for being unfilial, and the parents of both families were convincing, and the sons and daughters-in-law of the two families cried and complained about their grievances. Since the day of the incident, Mrs. Liu has been talking to Wen Chunyi every day about the situation, and by the way, she also wants to hear about the possible follow-up developments from Wen Chunyi. Zhong Chichun casually mentioned it to Wen Chunyi and said: "This kind of family matter is the most unclear about the merits. It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and persuade peace or not to disperse. ”
Wen Chunyi has always known the severity, and the rumors are most likely to end up in an unrecognizable end. She just smiled and said to Mrs. Liu: "My grandfather never discusses business with me, so I still have to listen to you talk more about these things." Lady Liu looked at Wen Chunyi with a sympathetic expression, she overestimated the feelings of the young couple. The look in her eyes made Wen Chunyi secretly shake her head, she only had that little ability, why bother to discuss what the men were doing. Woman Liu sighed and said to Wen Chunyi: "The situation of the two loves is actually a little different, one is too partial, and the other is too elder-in-law.
I heard that Lord Zhong wants to mediate privately, and the man in my family also thinks that it should be so, blood relatives, and now they still have some scruples about each other, but they can still get it back. Besides, you can't make trouble without getting along. Wen Chunyi also felt that although there was such a scene and there was a rift between relatives, it was like blood after all, and it was better for outsiders to persuade them to ease the relationship. Towards the end of October, Zhong Chichun told Wen Chunyi one day that the two parents had been persuaded to reconcile. decided not to sue his daughter-in-law again. He sighed and said: "Parents have made such a scene, no matter what the purpose is, in recent years. Father-son relationships can be a bit stalemate. ”
His tone was regretful, Wen Chunyi listened to the nurse's mother-in-law say what he heard, there is a family of parents who are indeed too much, bullying their sons to be filial to their daughters-in-law and cowardly. The mother-in-law said, "They are all grandfathers and grandmothers. For the sake of children and grandchildren, you can't make trouble in front of the official for a while. This is still Lord Zhong's Qingming. Willing to give them the opportunity to drop the lawsuit. I have heard people say that their grandchildren are very harmful in their studies, and this will affect their future to some extent if their parents are not filial to their parents in the government. No matter how filial the son is and how cowardly the daughter-in-law is, I am afraid that he will not be able to tolerate his parents being so arrogant. ”
Naturally, I have compassion for the other parent, the nurse mother-in-law. I think that my daughter-in-law is too unfilial, and my parents will do such a thing when they are forced to go to Liangshan. The mother-in-law obviously didn't want to mention the family's affairs. It is said that the pair of old people who complained about it were also unfilial to their in-laws who treated them back then. Thinking about it, the actions that children have watched them from an early age are now just retribution. Wen Chunyi listened to these words into her ears, and after having a child, she began to examine her own shortcomings, and she didn't dare to follow the rules on the face as before, but in fact, she was still a person who did her own thing.
After reflecting on the reasons why the third husband and wife of the Zhong family treated her like this, she also had a supportive attitude towards Zhong Chichun's feelings for her parents. Her son, who has a pair of amiable grandfathers and grandmothers, is naturally better than having a pair of grandparents who are at a stalemate. Although I don't know what the relationship between Brother Chen'er's ancestors is, she must do well as a junior. Parents are the first teachers of their children, and she believes that her children can become a bright and bright person in the future. Zhong Chichun smiled and listened to her feelings, hugged her with a smile and said, "It's already good that you're like this, you don't need to make too many changes." ”
Wen Chunyi looked at Zhong Chichun's expression, she thought to herself that she couldn't be a saint, but she was afraid that when her temper came, she would also have an impulsive attack. smiled and said to Zhong Chichun: "I told you such a thing to ask you to remind me in the future when my feelings are abnormal, don't go down the wrong way." Zhong Chichun looked at her funny and said, "I like you to treat me with true affection in front of me, I can't stand you still looking at me as coldly as before." With such a soft-hearted nature, there is no crooked path for you to take. As long as you don't be coaxed into the past, at home, you can do whatever you want. ”
Zhong Chichun has gone through many family disputes these days, and after hearing all kinds of strange reasons, he deeply felt that his wife's character was too pure, and the third husband and wife of the Zhong family made a fuss like that, obviously to toss her so that she couldn't stay at her husband's house, and she just went to complain to her grandfather and grandmother. If she doesn't have a strong elder, I'm afraid that she will not be a person who will do anything secretly, so she can only have a seizure when she can't bear it. Zhong Chichun originally felt that the elders of the Wen Mansion were too powerful, and directly interfered, so that his parents fell out of harmony.
But after going through some unprecedented things these days, he feels that fortunately Wen Chunyi has a mother's family who is willing to support her, and the relationship between their husband and wife can have a chance to reach the point where they can't help but blend together. After Zhong Chichun's heart went through eighteen twists and turns, he was no longer the person who was persuaded by his parents and trusted them wholeheartedly. Some words have some insights, he can't say anything to Wen Chunyi in his life, but he can say it to two staff gentlemen who treat each other as elders. He said to the two staff members very reflectively: "In the first year of my marriage, I acted too immaturely, and I was too convinced that my parents would plan for me.
The more cases I solve now, the more I understand the selfishness of human nature, and parents should also divide which kind of parents they are for the sake of their children. People of such temperament as my father and my mother, who have never acted without regard for others, could think deeply for their son, who wanted to be happy for a while, but almost missed my marriage. Now I understand that since I got married, my parents and my wife have a natural boundary, and they are the bridge between me. Zhong Chi Chun couldn't say what his parents were or not, but he already understood that Wen Chunyi treated him with cold heart day after day, and later the relationship between the two was able to recover, only because there were ancestors who presided over justice, and he always had her by his side. (To be continued) R655