Chapter 309: Affiliation
Although Jin still didn't feel at ease with smelling the spring, she couldn't think of anything else to say when she heard her say so clearly. She had been living in the inner courtyard, but she had little experience in fighting. In the past, in the Jin Mansion, Aunt Qiao supported her, and she did not suffer a real loss. After marrying into the Wen Mansion, Wen Chaoqing only had a room, and later did not add a concubine room, and the inner house can be regarded as a Qing Ping.
The mother and daughter returned to the room, Jin's face was covered with sweat, Wen Chunyi's little face was flushed, the two went into the inner room to clean up, and changed into home clothes and came out. Wen Chunyi laughed at Jin and said: "Mother, you don't need to avoid going to the backyard to tell me those words, you can tell me in the room, and it won't be a big deal." Jin glanced at Wen Chunyi, she thought about it and smiled, and said, "I don't raise children as carefully as my aunt, you are all children who grew up on your own." Before I got married, my aunt told me that as long as there are many women, the battle between the inner house will be endless, and it will be difficult to distinguish between victory and defeat.
In fact, it is said that it is the heart of a man who fights for it, and in the end, it is all about the heart, the heart is not moving, and the heart of the man has nothing to do with it. When I got married, she told me, don't be stupid enough to be shown favor by a man, so you put all your heart into it, and if you want to pay your heart, you can only use it for your children. In fact, my aunt took good care of me, and I also watched too much backyard right and wrong. Every year, my father added a delicate concubine, and when that concubine was favored, she was so sharp that even my mother-in-law had to avoid three points. My aunt often whispered to me that as a concubine, I don't know my duty, it's too much, and I'm afraid it won't last long.
Later, after the concubine fell out of favor, it didn't take long for her to disappear into the Jin family's inner house. Usually such people. If you have children, you can't see them give birth. Kim had a bitter smile on her face, when she was a daughter in the boudoir, since the governor, she had been afraid to live her life, afraid that her aunt would have an accident that day, leaving her alone. When Wen Chunyi was able to enter and exit the big room freely, the scenes of wives and concubines fighting in the big room had already been staged in a different venue. As for the other four-room people, others don't like her. She doesn't like people either. I don't just go into the yard door of other houses.
Regarding the rights and wrongs between the upper generation, she has learned to take a peek. Whether it is the old aunt or Aunt Qiao, they are just a flower that men occasionally pick up, and they will be thrown away as soon as the flowering period is over. These two people are also two temperaments. A person turns a blind eye to the child he has born. After they reach adulthood. Even if I want to use it, I have never taken it seriously. And the other person cherishes the child he has born. Strive to find a way for them to live safely, and strive to start planning for their future as early as possible. The old aunt has spent her whole life on men, and all she gets is the favor of men when they are idle.
Aunt Qiao's lifelong efforts have been spent on her children, and what she got is that after she goes, there will still be legends about her in this world. Wen Chaoqing never mentioned the matter of the old aunt, and Wen Chaocheng probably wished that there was no such biological mother. And the Kim family often mentions Aunt Qiao with nostalgia and talks about the words she once said. Jin Fengyan treats the Jin family closely, the age difference between the sister and brother is much, and there is no chance to get along, but the sister and brother can still be affectionate with each other, which must be due to Aunt Qiao. After Aunt Qiao went, Wen Chunyi saw a thick sadness on the surface of Jinfeng Rock.
The Jin family had the heart to tell Wen Chunyi more about the things in the Jin Mansion in her memory, Wen Chunyi was like listening to a play, and she was also willing to listen to what happened. The house fight in the Jin Mansion was so fierce, and the old lady Jin was not as generous as she appeared on her face, and she had never been soft on those concubines who wanted to cover her. Aunt Qiao was able to survive smoothly, because she understood that in the inner house of the Jin Mansion, Mrs. Jin was still in charge. Wen Chunyi felt that the deeper reason was that Aunt Qiao had never liked Mrs. Jin all her life, and she used him like a stallion.
Wen Chunyi also understood what the Jin family was doing now, she was worried about the people she would marry in the future, and there were many women around her, so she told her these things in advance. And Wen Chunyi also thought very clearly, a man who was too heavy and lost his character, she would never marry anyway, she was too lazy to spend all her future days on the cause of dyeing her hands red. The person she wants to marry, she doesn't expect others to love her, she just hopes that the person has a good character, doesn't pay too much attention to women, and the husband and wife live a respectful life and raise children.
Wen Chunyi knew that she was getting older, and her family affairs could not be dragged on. In this era, you can't think about those affection or anything, it's the idea of burying yourself deep in the pit. She wants to learn the love between men and women, that is, floating clouds, looking at it from afar, gorgeous and splendid, but if she wants to reach out and touch it, she can only touch nothingness in the end. She is to guard her heart and live her life well. In this era, men don't have the saying that they have changed their minds, at most they just set up a saying that they spoil their concubines and kill their wives. Wen Suyi's flamboyant and splendid woman now knows how to be silent.
Wen Chunyi smiled and talked to the Jin family, and she said some examples of the difficulty of being the mother of the housekeeper in the house. Wen Chunyi sometimes deliberately diverted her words, she felt that because the Jin family was so worried, the days of the fourth room would not be able to go on quietly. After Wen Chunyi smiled and listened to Jin's words for a long time, she opened her mouth and said cautiously again: "Mother, you can rest assured." I didn't think about what kind of good life I would live in the future, I just lived a peaceful life. You say I'm like a father, but in fact, I think I'm like my own grandmother, I don't have much affection for others, I only treat real relatives closely.
You also know that there are so many people in the house, and everyone has several excellent sons. They often say that the boy is good, but in my heart, except for my own brother, I have never remembered any idlers. The Jin family was dumbfounded, Wen Chunyi was indeed a person who didn't care about everything, she never mentioned people from other families, even when she repeatedly talked about the young master of the Lin family in front of her, she was calm and indifferent. Jin couldn't say how she felt in her heart, she only felt that her daughter had become such a light temperament today because of the grievances she suffered when she was a child.
Wen Chunyi originally persuaded the Jin family not to worry too much about her future, but she didn't think that she would be sad. The mother and daughter fell silent, and after Wen Chaoqing came back, Wen Chunyi breathed a sigh of relief, she hurriedly left the room, and Wen Chaoqing went to comfort the Jin family. Wen Chunyi waited in the courtyard, waiting for Wen Xiuyu to return from Mrs. Wen, she listened to the sound of footsteps outside, and looked at the people who walked in, the young man who used to be so dignified has grown into a restrained young man, and his shoulders can already take on things. Wen Xiuyu entered the courtyard gate and immediately laughed when she saw the people waiting in the courtyard.
He approached Wen Chunyi, smiled and whispered, "Xueduo, are you annoyed by your mother's words again?" In fact, my mother is worried that you have such a temperament, marrying into someone else's family, can't stand those inner entanglements, and wants to persuade you to learn to be a gentle person from now on. I think you will never suffer a loss if you listen to your mother and do what she says. Wen Chunyi rolled his eyes directly at him, and naturally slapped him on the forehead again. Wen Chunyi gestured to the door and said, "Dad is back, I'll let Dad talk with you, and I'll come out to pick you up." ”
Wen Xiuyu stopped and talked with Wen Chunyi in the courtyard, he looked at his demeanor with a relaxed attitude, which made Wen Chunyi sigh and said: "Brother, I am really reluctant to give you to Sister Zeng for nothing, no matter how you treat me in the future, I will not be as interested as I am now." Wen Xiujun's face sank and said, "Xueduo, I'm your brother, that may not treat you well." Wen Chunyi has never been afraid of Wen Xiuyu's face, she smiled and said: "Brother, if you have a sister-in-law and a child, you will have the heart to treat me as well as now, but I am afraid that my mental strength will not be enough."
Besides, I'm just talking about it, but I still hope that you and your sister-in-law will live a good life and live as happily as your eldest brother and sister-in-law. "Wen Xiuhua and his wife are a rare couple who are in love, and after them, so many young couples in Wenfu have their own problems. Husbands and wives may have been happy at first, but time quickly overturned this apparent happiness. Wen Chunyi looked coldly at these couples who were not in harmony with each other, and they were always depressed, they were already in such a situation, and they had to be bound to live in this life.
Wen Xiuyu looked at Wen Chunyi funny and said, "Do I need you to worry about it?" You still have to think about your relatives, you will not have a good life in the future, I am afraid that my father and mother will bother the three of us brothers every day. Your sister and I both want to live a good life, even if we can't get along like my eldest brother and sister-in-law, she and I can get along like my father and mother. The reason why other couples have a bad life is just that men are too attentive, women are too leisurely, and they have to worry a little when they have nothing to do. Look at the new sixth sister-in-law, she is a good person, who can coax the third aunt to convince her.
When you are idle, follow the new sixth sister-in-law to learn two tricks, and our family will not have to worry about your situation after you get married. Wen Chunyi laughed lightly and said, "Brother, neither the sixth brother nor the sixth sister-in-law would like you to say such things as the new sixth sister-in-law." My sixth sister-in-law and I have different temperaments, and I have no way to learn these experiences from her. She is the eldest daughter-in-law of the third room, and I am the one who can't be the eldest daughter-in-law. However, I also admire her, looking at a very kind person, not like a person with a bad wrist, she can make the sixth brother talk better than before, and the third aunt and mother all said that the sixth sister-in-law is good. ”
Wen Xiuyu laughed and said: "This is the husband and wife who have fallen in love with each other, and the sixth brother just can't like the outstanding talent like the former sixth sister-in-law." I saw that he treated his sixth sister-in-law quite well. Xueduo, I don't look forward to how talented and beautiful my future sister-in-law is, I just hope that you can vote for him. Wen Chunyi smiled, such a thing is hard to come by. (To be continued......)
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