Song Rou said to Wu Weidao, I think the psychology of the boss is quite similar to Hao Han, there are such people, always thinking about face, but always encountering things that others don't give face. I wondered, why do they value face so much? Sometimes even for the sake of that face, they dig out their hearts and minds, and would rather spend money to earn face for themselves, what do they think?

Wu Wei said with a smile, this is vanity, and people who love vanity pay special attention to face.

Song Rou asked puzzledly, you said they always think about face, are they tired?

Wu Wei said with a smile, it depends on whether they can get the face they want, if they get it, their vanity is satisfied, and what they experience in their hearts is pleasure. I have also been thinking about this question, for the reason why some people's vanity is particularly strong, perhaps their face has suffered a major trauma, and they have not been effectively healed and recovered, and it has become their heart disease, which makes them more and more afraid of face, and as a result, they appear overly sensitive and fragile to face, and what can easily pass with others will become an insurmountable obstacle to them.

Song Judo, knowing that they have vanity, just try to be satisfied, so as not to offend them.

Wu Wei said with a smile, it is not easy to satisfy people's vanity, vanity, in fact, has not been achieved, that is, it should not be had, but he wants to get it in the middle of nowhere, such a request has not become a luxury? Besides, it is impossible for others to always take care of his vanity and try to satisfy him, satisfaction means giving, and it depends on others whether they are willing to pay for his vanity. It's easy to fall into the trap of vanity and find it difficult to extricate yourself. If you satisfy his vanity, will it stimulate his vanity to swell further?

Song Rou said disdainfully, who has the leisure to always think about how to meet his vain requirements.

Wu Weidao, what you said is too right.

Song Judo, it's not easy to get your praise.

Wu Wei pretended to be serious and said, what you just said is quite high in wisdom, what kind of person is he, it is worth others to always consider how to meet his requirements. People with a strong sense of vanity. They often imagine themselves to be higher than others, and then have too high expectations of others, and they become resentful when they can't meet them.

Song Judo, you're to the point.

Wu Weidao, everyone wants to live a glorious life, but Feng Shui takes turns, just like you always want to take the first as the champion, which is simply impossible.

Song Judo, of course. I don't need you to say it.

Wu Weidao, when you can't get the first place, can you still feel the brilliance.

Song Judo, his face is dull, he is self-conscious, you didn't see the losing side crying bitterly on the stadium? It must be a very embarrassing feeling in my heart.

Wu Weidao, at this time, he should think of those who stand behind him when he takes the first. The face is dull, and then go to appease people.

Song Judo, who thinks about so many things, isn't it a prince and a loser.

Wu Weidao. In fact, at this moment, what I want to think about is that I still want to win the first place, or in other words, I feel that I have no face and want to earn back face.

Song Judo. Why are you coming back around, annoying, annoying. Who has the leisure to always talk about these shadowless things.

Wu Weidao, you are peaceful, not vanity.

As she spoke, Song Rou became angry, and Wu Wei felt inexplicable.

Song Rou really said angrily, I hate you when you look at your strength at the wine table, at that time, you didn't even look at me, you were busy making others happy, and I didn't want to see it appear.

Wu Wei realized that he didn't give her face, so he made her angry like this. From this point of view, the issue of face is really complicated, her face is not out of love vanity, but purely out of concern for herself. I also said that others love face, and my performance at the wine table is not also a manifestation of love for face? I want to order more dishes and drink more wine, for fear that I won't accompany the guests, and I take the madness on the wine table as chic, even if I lose my temper, I don't care. I also entered a mental misunderstanding, and my gaffe was mistaken for a generous act to earn face.

Song Rou said again, I have seen it, others can drink in moderation, just as soon as you drink too much, even I don't look at it, familiar people have seen the fame, saying that you drink yours, I am angry with me. You always think that it's interesting enough for you to drink like that, what's so funny? It's just to love face, and talk about others, you yourself have that vanity, how much you can drink, you don't have an accurate number in your heart, for that is interesting, you would rather hurt your body, and your wife and children don't care. When you drink yourself to death, do you want that to be interesting? also said that others value face, you are that kind of person, but the face you value is different.

Wu Wei intends to play a round game, let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, there was a poor man who hung a piece of pigskin on the door of his house, and every time he went out, he had to wipe his mouth with that piece of pigskin. One day, a guest came to the house, and the child shouted: Daddy! Father! The piece of pigskin you used to wipe your mouth every day was taken away by the dog! After the guests left, the child was beaten well.

Song Rou listened to it and said dissatisfied, the old-fashioned stories should be a new thing.

Wu Weidao, it's very interesting, you can't say it in public, sometimes, you are already ugly, and you think it's enough to save face.

Song Rou was curious, who is that?

Wu Wei laughed at himself, drunkard.

Song Rou snorted, I don't know you yet, it won't be you as soon as you get on the wine table.

Wu Wei asked, you say, is face annoying?

Song Rou simply said, if you should lose face, you should not want it, and if you should not give it, you will not give it.

Wu Wei still wanted to defend himself and said, I don't just love face, but value feelings.

Song Judo, here again, I'd rather hurt your body than hurt your feelings, when you drink badly and drink to death, who will say that you value your feelings? Zhen Hao drank to death, who do you listen to say that he is emotional?

Wu Weidao, I'll tell you a little story. The story is that in the seventies of the last century, when a train of foreign aid military vehicles transporting grain passed through a certain place, they were robbed by hungry people, and reported to the top.

Song Rou's head came really fast, she immediately said, fortunately, she understood that the people of her own country could not eat, and she went to help others, so as not to be dissatisfied with her own people and starving, and understood how much sin she could make her family suffer.

Wu Weidao, what you said is quite clever, you want to make others happy by satisfying others, but if you can't satisfy them, you will attract jealousy, and you are uncomfortable in your heart, which is too stupid.

Song Judo, you are that kind of person, you get drunk and go to accompany others, people don't say anything about you and say that you drink and lose your temper, you hear others talk about you like this, you don't understand what's going on? I'm ashamed of you.

Wu Wei didn't squeak when he heard this. He realized that he had unknowingly fallen into the trap of face, but instead ridiculed other people's love of face, and mistook the love of face for self-esteem and self-protection, and the result was that he fell deeper and deeper. (To be continued......)

PS: He realized that he had unknowingly fallen into the trap of face, but instead ridiculed other people's love of face, and mistook the love of face for self-esteem and self-protection, and the result was that he fell deeper and deeper.