Song Xueren listened to Wu Wei's words, and seemed to be moved, but he still shook his head regretfully, I am like this, how can I have such a big spiritual head, and I can live for a few years, I told them, I can do it for a day, and when I can't do it, I will throw it away.

Wu Weidao, I see that you still have spirit, so I said this to you, I forgot about it, just show you some of the things I wrote.

Song Xueren listened and said, I told him on the way to send my grandson to university, let him rely on his own knowledge and skills to follow his own path in the future.

Wu Weidao, I walked in the community of Nandu, and I often saw children running around and falling, and their parents followed behind, but they did not go up to help, and they must let the children get up by themselves. The kid seemed to understand what was going on, and when he fell, he habitually looked at the adult, and got up on his own. If we are in front of the sky, or in front of our invisible God, we are compared with the sky, compared with God, and even inferior to children, what difficulties, setbacks and even disasters are encountered, the sky is also looking at how we deal with it, to see if we are facing it positively, standing up and facing it ourselves.

If Song Xueren has enlightenment, I also think that no matter how difficult it is now, it is not that there is no food, clothing, and no house to live in.

Wu Wei further said, you may have fallen into a blind spot in this place. You think that the face is always given by others, but in fact, the face grows on yourself, and you are giving yourself a long face. If you do something, people will naturally respect you, if you are always there to complain or count on others to help, and those children who have fallen and wait for adults to help, what is the difference?

Song Xueren said, it's easy to say if you don't encounter anything, if you have such a thing, what should you do?

Wu Wei continued. Of course, I say this to you, you may think it is not appropriate, and when you are not in trouble, think about it yourself. In fact, every person and every family does not face such and such problems, and now, in the whole country, there are too many people in prison who get cancer. Don't you have to face it yourself? Even if there are no such problems, there will be other problems, but many people do not complain, and even through these disasters, they have realized enlightenment after some thought. On that day, I also said to my sister-in-law that people usually realize something when they are in such a state. Today, I'm going to let you go. Nowadays, people want to see smiling faces. I don't want to see a bitter face.

Song Xueren was told by his brother-in-law like this, and he felt that it made sense in his heart, but he still couldn't put it down for a while, and fell into contemplation. Song Rou and Song Yun were originally chatting about Yu Bing in the hall. Hearing Wu Wei's words, he also listened.

Song Xueren noticed that they were also listening to the conversation between the two of them in the hall, and they were about to get up and close the door when they were sitting on the bed. Wu Wei hurriedly stopped and said, don't close the door. Wu Wei and Song Rou were particularly disgusted with Song Xueren's bad habits of muttering about his family behind his back. In his house, he has to close the door to talk about his family, so that his family can hear it, doesn't it feel that Wu Wei and Song Rou are involved in the boss's activities. became his accomplice, an annoying and hateful accomplice like the boss.

Song Xueren's move to close the door was stopped by Wu Wei, and he still whispered to Wu Wei, I felt that I was nothing big at that time, the driver gave me 300 yuan, and explained that he only had the 300 yuan in his pocket.

Wu Wei listened to it and thought to himself, Song Rou is in the house, you don't say it, you only tell me when she goes out. So, thinking further, after he was hit by a taxi, he would definitely feel that he was nothing serious, so he opened his mouth to ask the driver for money, maybe 1,000 yuan, at least 500 yuan, but he said to Song Rou on the phone, we can't lie to others, so we let him go, otherwise, how can there be a car number that is not remembered, and the mobile phone number is not left? It must have been the driver who gave him the money at the time, and he also made a broken promise. There was a deal behind his back, but he pretended to be righteous to his family, this is hypocrisy, and he still didn't forget to earn face for himself. He didn't say anything to Song Rou about the driver giving him money, because he was afraid that Song Rou would see through his tricks at a glance and be exposed by her on the spot, and his carefully woven face would be lost.

Wu Wei realized that someone had said that poor people must have something to hate. remembered that Song Xueli had chatted with Song Rou again, saying that Song Xueren was a tragedy, Wu Wei corrected that he was not a tragedy, it was a farce and a scandal, and he played the harlequin of life but didn't know it.

At this time, Song Xueren said to Wu Wei again, there is no problem with your sister-in-law's affairs at home, you can deal with the past, there is a matter of Yu Bing, and a big hole has been stabbed, and there is no way at all. Your sister-in-law and her sister didn't spend less money, they are sisters, I didn't open my mouth with you, I want to open my mouth with you, why can't I give me this face.

Wu Wei realized that he couldn't get around the knot of wanting to borrow money and ask for money, but he was afraid that if they didn't ask for some money from him, they would be unwilling, but he couldn't find a more suitable reason for a while, and once he encountered any new changes, he thought that he had finally found a suitable reason, and he would definitely get excited, just like Yu Bing was excited to find his reason for fraud when he saw his mother-in-law suffering from cancer.

Wu Wei fell into deep thought for a while. After Song Xueren was implanted with a pampering program by his grandfather's doting since he was a child, in his life, an invisible psychological magnetic field was gradually formed, he was covered by such a psychological magnetic field, and his thoughts and behaviors were firmly tied and ruled by such a powerful magnetic field. At this time, he was already difficult to get out of trouble, coupled with his wife's cancer and the incident of Yu Bing, which constituted a huge psychological pressure and deepened his mental crisis, his self-esteem and face-loving psychology not only did not disappear, but became more extremely intense, and his attitude towards others was extremely sensitive, which only exacerbated his frustration. Whoever shows the slightest consideration for him will have unrealistic extravagance, and if the extravagance is not satisfied, he will become dissatisfied until it develops into resentment. He didn't know what to do, self-esteem is based on self-confidence, self-reliance and self-reliance, and it was his grandfather's doting that made him rely on his status as the boss to establish respect out of thin air, which harmed him and missed his life. He has never come out of such misunderstandings.

Wu Wei's fate for Song Xueren, thinking of his own fate, the mental activity program he compiled, through continuous revision and upgrading, through his words and deeds, and the release of energy, will gradually form an invisible psychological magnetic field, and he will also be bound and ruled by such a magnetic field. The difference between his fate and Song Xueren's is that he is unaware, and he is in a completely conscious and voluntary state, everything is active and autonomous, and can be adjusted accordingly randomly, and the continuous revision and upgrading of the program is the result of his own choice of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. However, there is a limit to human effort. Wu Wei consciously realized that when he fell into the arrangement of the god of fate one day in the future, how would he break through the spiritual dilemma and achieve a successful breakthrough?

Just listen to Song Judo, it's dark, let's go.

When he said goodbye and left, Wu Wei said to Song Yundao, I told your father that he should celebrate when he encountered such a thing and was able to go home safely.

Song Yun also smiled and said, it should be celebrated. (To be continued......)