Chapter 277: Confidante (II)
When Wu Wei heard her words, he really had that feeling of empowerment. I thought about it, and then said, I also thought about what to write next step and how to write while writing.
Jiao Mei said, you should think about this problem. Wen Ru looks at the mountains and does not like to be flat. I know you have the ability to solve the blockage quickly.
Wu Wei thought to himself, this delicate girl is here to help herself relieve, so she smiled and said, You are a very wise woman.
Jiao Mei showed a bright smile on her face, and said, I am so happy to hear what you say, I can say from your mouth that I am wise, I am really wise.
Wu Weidao, my nephews and nieces, are very attentive to their uncles and uncles, they like to evaluate us from the point of view of wisdom, and they pay attention to learning from our experience as elders. It's a very effective way to learn.
Jiao Mei said that many of my colleagues praised me for my change, saying that I was much more harmonious than in the past. I know in my heart that it is under your influence that you are my mentor and friend, and besides, women are always supple in order to make men like.
Wu Weidao said that the Creator created men and women, and they prescribed their respective temperaments, and people must not go against the will of the Creator. No matter how weak a man looks, he also has a strong side.
Jiao Mei said, after knowing that you wrote novels, I also paid attention to asking some people who understood, they said, if you don't understand people's temperament, you can't write novels, at least you can't write good-looking novels.
Wu Weidao, I understand what you mean by asking me today, everyone has their own ability to relieve their own entanglements, in fact, various religions also emphasize the self-understanding of human nature, we must also see that everyone has the ability to self-understand and self-understanding, I just add a little help. You just mentioned the problem of love slaves, and I understand that if the emotional problem is dealt with well, it will help to enhance people's wisdom.
Jiao Mei suddenly laughed and said, Ah, I almost forgot to ask you. That time in the hospital, you said that I had Buddha nature and entered the Buddha path, and I was a little puzzled when I heard it.
Wu Wei said with a smile, I have read a few Buddhist scriptures, and I am willing to experience the Buddha nature and Buddhism of the people around me, the Buddha said that Buddhism is also the law of the world, Buddha nature and human nature are interconnected, and everyone will reflect some characteristics of Buddha nature. However, I haven't figured this out yet, and I'll talk about it when I understand without you asking.
Jiao Mei smiled. I'll be patient. She thought for a moment and asked, "What kind of emotion do you mean by emotion just now?"
Wu Weidao will make people happy emotions, kindness, friendship, family affection, love, and a wide range of human feelings.
Jiao Mei asked again, what will happen if you don't handle it well?
Wu Weidao, of course, will block the door of the mind. Caused by the decline of intelligence.
Jiao Mei smiled, so to speak, your emotional problems have been handled well, otherwise you would have written something. How can the ideas be so extensive, like a stroke of genius.
Wu Weidao, emotional intelligence refers to the wisdom of dealing with emotional problems, of course. How well it is handled depends on the joint efforts of the parties involved, and wishful thinking is not good to handle. Emotional processing in particular requires tacit understanding. Before coming this time, we were getting together at a table of friends, Song Rou received a call from you, and after she put down the phone, she praised you for being beautiful, young, rich and virtuous.
Jiao Mei smiled, so I want to thank her for her understanding and tolerance of me. I'm going to have a boat for a while, or I'm going to waste this great time. After saying that, she got up and went to drive the boat, and drove on the huge lake, feeling the cool breeze blowing her hair and scattering it.
Wu Wei knew that she always deliberately avoided topics involving Song Rou.
Jiao Mei said while driving the boat, I will accompany you to drink some more happily in a while, and then call the driver to send you home, otherwise my sister-in-law should think about you again. Besides, next time I pick you up, let's go to Ouyang Lan to have a look.
Jiao Mei drove the boat, seemed to think of something, hurriedly parked the boat to a shaded place, returned to the seat and sat down, facing Wu Weidao, I thought of the book you wrote again, I always feel that what you wrote to relieve the entanglement, as if you were trapped by something?
suddenly touched Wu Wei's sensitive nerves, and he also vaguely felt something, but it was not clear, but it was broken by Jiao Mei's words. Although I am clearly aware of being caught in a condom, I am still at a loss as to what this condom is.
Whoever started the trouble should end it. Jiao Mei thought about it, and said with some worry, I feel that it may not be accurate, you wrote about small practices and big practices, are there also small entanglements and big entanglements?
Her words made Wu Wei feel like he was suddenly open. He immediately realized that although she hadn't seen the chapters he hadn't uploaded later, she seemed to have a premonition, and she really knew a little bit about it. Wu Wei couldn't help but stare at her delicate face with a trace of sorrow that could not be hidden, he was worried about himself, and he had feelings of love in his heart.
He remembered that he had written a paragraph, but it had not been uploaded at the time, and it was estimated that she had not seen it. So, he recounted to her that everyone longs for health, but health can't avoid death, but people are still so obsessed with health, once they suffer from any disease, they will inevitably seek medical advice to achieve the effect of curing illness and prolonging life. One day, he read a book in which he said that God is a very high level of spiritual phenomenon that has been achieved through long-term cultivation. For example, many people try to get close to God, or try to get close to Buddha, but they can't. In this way, it seems that some unknowable force has designed such a super dilemma for people, on the one hand, they want to try to avoid at least delayed death, and on the other hand, they are trying to get close to God, and because they can't get close and can't avoid the end, they get people into such a super dilemma.
Jiao Mei listened to his narration, and immediately showed a bright smile, and said, I know that you are a big feeling, I feel that this kind of tangle is the real big tangle, it is simply super tangled, and the tangle you relieved before is too different, not an order of magnitude at all. Have you ever thought about how people can get caught up in such a tangled, and how can you help people get out of such a big tangle? Your super program,Didn't you have a premonition that you were going to encounter this super tangled?。 If so, you're amazing. The tangles that you have encountered and thought of before are simply pediatric level when compared to this tangle.
Wu Wei has never clearly realized that this is the super entanglement he has to face since he realized this super dilemma, but he was unexpectedly broken by her words, and a smile of enlightenment appeared on his face. He smiled and said, what you said is super tangled, this is a very good idea, I'm afraid it takes super perception to explain why people fall into such a super tangled, since it is super tangled, naturally it also needs a super solution to relieve it. It's just that I haven't thought about it yet. However, no matter how big or small the entanglement is, I am afraid that the principle of the entanglement is still the same.
The sister who has been staring at him, from the joy on his face, saw that he wanted to open, and said, this is a good thing, small in the big, tangled is originally a small problem, big is big, although the tangled is small, if everyone has it in their hearts, it is a big problem. Sure enough, it is a master of relief, since I got acquainted with you, I have been thinking about the fact that there is really a coincidence in the world, and it happened that I ran into it again, and your help to me is spiritual, and I feel that being with you has a feeling of purification. Don't worry, you can't relieve it at the moment, as long as you have a clear goal, it will be easy to do, and I will accompany you to relieve it. I just don't know if I'm up to it.
Wu Wei wanted to say that she was his confidante, but how could she say such a thing to her face, she could only hide it in her heart.
Jiao Mei seemed to see that he had something unspeakable, and simply said generously, there shouldn't be anything to say between us, do you have any thoughts about me hiding from me. What do I say to you, I have you as a confidant, but I don't know if I am qualified enough.
Wu Wei said busily, I wanted to say this just now, you are my confidante.
Jiao Mei said, what is wrong to say like this, it shows that you are still wary of me. It is no wonder that there should always be a distance between men and women, which is good for both parties. Besides, I'm a single woman. Don't worry, though, I'll take care of myself. Then he sighed again, his eyes filled with tears, and lowered his head to hide it.
Wu Wei knew her thoughts, and said busily, I know that it is really wronged for us to maintain such a relationship.
She shook her head, threw the hair that was hidden in front of her eyebrows back, and said with a chic smile with teary eyes in her eyes at Wu Wei, We used to get along very happily, why are you so sad, you and I have so many things to do, blame me, little girl. We just chatted about emotional intelligence, how can it involve the emotions between us and become mentally retarded, you just don't go to your heart. I've always felt that our interactions are facilitative. I just said that I want to drink some with you, and you should drink more too, so that you can rest and change your brain. Come, have a drink!
Wu Wei listened to her words, and couldn't help but feel refreshed, he was originally worried that she always talked about human servility, especially when it came to love slaves, which was a common aversion in Buddhism, but fortunately she was able to see it so openly, indicating that her worries were superfluous. So, he raised his glass and responded enthusiastically.
When he returned home in the evening, Wu Wei brought back a handbag. Song Rou took it and said, it's quite heavy, what's it?
Wu Weidao, I don't know anything, when I got out of the car, the driver gave it to me, saying that it was the boss's meaning.
Song Rou exclaimed in surprise, so much money! (To be continued......)