"Mom, I'm not going, besides, Wang Yexue and I don't have any emotional foundation, even if we force ourselves, we won't be happy."

Yun Tao said a little against his will, after all, Wang Xue is very beautiful, and he also wants to have such a beautiful woman in his heart, every man has a "love for beauty", otherwise there are so many cases of "heroes sad to pass the beauty pass" in history.

"What kind of emotional foundation do you want, I haven't even met your dad yet, so I gave a kiss, and I didn't know each other until I got married, until you grew up so much, and your dad and I didn't have anything unhappy." Wang Mei said.

In Yuntao's parents' generation, arranged marriages were very popular in the countryside, and the arranged marriages at that time did not want to be so free now, and let the children of both sides meet each other, let the two talk alone, listen to the opinions of the children, if both parties are not satisfied, this family affair will be yellow, and the parents of both sides will not force them.

At that time, the arranged marriage, that was really all done, many men and women did not even meet, the parents had already set the date of marriage, many men and women were married on the day of the marriage to know the appearance of both sides, regardless of whether the men and women were satisfied, anyway, the marriage was concluded, the two were tied together for this life, as for the happiness, at that time the rural people did not talk about this, as long as there was a "wife and children hot kang head", they could eat enough, it was happier than anything else.

Arranged marriages have a long history in China, and in China's long feudal society, what is important is the order of parents and the words of matchmakers. There is a sentence in "The Book of Songs, Qifeng, Nanshan": "What is it like to marry a wife? Tell your parents. "The slightest violation of the rules and the idea of transgressing the rules will be criticized as a great rebellion.

In ancient China, etiquette and law all regarded arranged children and humble marriages as the privileges of parents and elders; "The order of the parents" and "the words of the matchmaker" are the requirements for the establishment of marriage. The "six rites", which originated in the slave society, namely "Nacai", "Asking for a name", "Najib", "Nazheng", "Asking for a date", and "Greeting", provided a basis for arranged marriages.

The laws of successive feudal dynasties all had provisions on the right to marry. The "Tang Law and Discussion" stipulates that parents and other legal elders are the children and the officiating spouses. In the second year of Hongwu of the Ming Dynasty (1369), it was decreed: "Marriage is presided over by grandparents and parents." Grandparents and parents who have no parents are married from the remaining relatives. This shows the great power of parents in arranged marriages.

In fact, arranged marriages are not only in China, but also exist in the Western countries that first advocated free marriage, and in the Christian Bible Deuteronomy 7:3 there is a paragraph "Do not marry your daughters to their sons, nor let your sons marry their daughters", which shows that fathers have the right to arrange marriages for their children, and there is no description of love before marriage in the Bible. In the biblical book of Genesis, God arranged for Adam to marry Eve, and God never criticized arranged marriages.

The biggest disadvantage of arranged marriage is that it cannot respect the personal feelings of both parties to the marriage, which seriously hurts the freedom of life of both parties to the marriage.

Especially in rural areas, basically 7 or 8 percent of young people go to the palace of marriage through blind dates, which is now called "flash marriage", where men and women meet each other, and only when they feel that they can, the family will quickly arrange marriage. Especially for young people who work outside, when they go home for the New Year, they arrange a blind date at home, and if both men and women have no opinions, the wedding will be held at the beginning of the year, and it will take less than a month before and after.

"Mom, the times are different now, it's about free love, you can't compare with you back then, besides, Tingting and I are already that, and his family may not agree." Yun Tao said.

"What kind of free love, you don't give me this, there are a few men in our village who talk about it by themselves, and they are not introduced by the family, and we have no objections to your marriage with Tingting, it has been said very clearly, as long as Tingting's family agrees to your marriage, we will do it for you immediately, before the result, you still go to Wang Xue's house with me to talk about you and Wang Xue, rest assured that before waiting for Tingting's family's opinion, we will not talk about your marriage with Wang Xue, and when Tingting's side is confirmed, we will talk about marriage."

Wang Mei said, there is no way, now that her son is older and has his own opinions, he is becoming more and more unable to listen to his words.

"Mom," Yun Tao shouted impatiently.

"Rabbit cub, do you listen to your mother, if you don't listen, you will get out of this house for me, just because my mother and I don't have you as a son."

Yun Changda, who had been sitting on the chair without speaking, stood up and yelled at Yun Tao, now that this son has grown up, he is against the sky, and if he doesn't suppress it, he will have it in the future, it seems that he has been a father too well to him in the past few years, and he dares to be so disobedient.

"Dad, this thing is really ......"

"Don't call me dad, now you tell us whether you will go to Wang Xue's house or not, and whether you agree to associate with Wang Xue."

Yun Changda directly interrupted Yun Tao's words and said strongly, Anyway, this stinky boy has to agree if he doesn't agree, there is nothing to say.

"Dad, Mom, I'll go."

Yuntao said helplessly, sometimes life is always a little involuntary, you can't really disown your parents, it's okay to meet Wang Xue, tell her that she already has a girlfriend, think that she will also forgive herself, as long as she says she doesn't agree to this marriage.

"Okay, that's right, big girl, are you ready for Wang Xue's family?"

Wang Mei said to Yun Zhen, her sister Yun Tao, who was standing on the side, this time she went to Wang Xue's house, and Yun Zhen also went with her, after all, there is one more person, and there is someone to discuss when there is something, as for Yun Tao, Wang Mei just hoped that he would not cause trouble.

Wang Xue's house is not far from Yuntao's house, that is, the distance between three villages, it is only an hour's walk away, but now the rural people are modernized, although they can't afford to buy a car, but they still buy a battery car.

Now in the countryside of Yuntao, basically every household has one or two battery cars, you can buy one for a thousand dollars without expensive money, and you don't need fuel money, as long as you can charge it, in addition to not sheltering from the wind and rain, traveling in this place in the countryside is more convenient than those cars in many times, after all, the roads in many places in the countryside are relatively narrow.

The three of them drove two battery cars and took about ten minutes to arrive at Wang Xue's house, the village where Wang Xue's house is located is called Yanshan Village, the reason why it is called Yanshan Village, I heard the older generation say, is because there is a bare hill behind this village, and there are many huge rocks on the mountain and get its name.

Wang Xue's house is close to the hill behind, it is the innermost house in Yanshan Village, and their houses here are not like the large courtyard of Yuntao Village, in addition to the front yard, there is also a large backyard.

The house here is a few houses and houses next to each other, there is no front and back yard, and the space around the house is not large, that is, a little place in front and back of your own house.

When Yuntao parked the battery car, he found that there was a very beautiful girl beside him, and if he looked closely, it was Wang Xue who was on a blind date with him last time, but today he looked more beautiful than last time, and it seemed that he had obviously dressed up carefully.

A small pink and purple shawl coat further sets off her excellent figure, and then matches a bright yellow knee-length skirt, a pair of black high boots, and her jet-black hair has a natural undulating arc on her shoulders. Clear and bright pupils, curved willow eyebrows, long eyelashes trembling slightly, she has a pair of bright eyes, clear and clear, as bright as stars. The fair skin looks like an egg membrane that can be blown and broken, and it looks even more attractive in the sunlight.

"Brother Tao, you're here."

Wang Xue looked at Yun Tao and looked at herself in a daze, seemed to be attracted by her beauty, and said happily, she received a call from Aunt Wang yesterday, and she was excited to fall asleep for a long time, and in the morning, she got up early and dressed up carefully, in order to show her most beautiful side to Yun Tao.

After all, the last time I went on a blind date, I didn't know that the object of my blind date was "him", so I didn't dress up, and I couldn't cope with my sister's arrangement, and I didn't show my usual beautiful side at all, let alone the beauty of my well-dressed clothes.

"Well, hello, it's hot outside, why don't you stay inside."

Yun Tao looked at Wang Xue's forehead and said with some sweat, after all, it is July day, it is now more than nine o'clock in the morning, and the sun outside is hot on his body.

"It's okay, I can't see you in the house as soon as possible."

Wang Xue said, in fact, Wang Xue waited for Yuntao and them in front of the house at seven o'clock in the morning, and they waited for more than two hours, even her mother asked her to come to the house, and the sun in front of the house just happened to be exposed in the morning, Wang Xue just refused to stay in the house and wait, the heat couldn't stand it, so she waited for Yuntao and them in a shady position under the plane tree in front of the house, so when Yuntao stopped the car, Wang Xue could immediately go to Yuntao's side.

"Xiaoxue, why are you standing outside in the sun, doing this when the sun is damaged."

Wang Mei stopped the car, looked at Wang Xue who was standing beside Yuntao and said, Wang Xue, this little girl is not like herself who works in the field every day, it doesn't matter if she is exposed to the wind and sun in the field every day, she is a white and pure cultural person who has never been on the ground.

"Auntie, it's okay, I'm not so squeamish, besides, I'm just waiting for a while, Brother Tao, Auntie, Sister Zhen, let's hurry into the house, it's hot outside." Wang Xue said

Under the leadership of Wang Xue, Yuntao walked into Wang Xue's house with his sister and mother.