Chapter 169: Family-oriented
Crayfish seedlings, loaches and yellow eel seedlings have been sent one after another, and what Lin Shan is busy with now is to put these small seedlings into the dense cages prepared in advance.
Lin Shan's feeling is still good, although these guys are now small and pitiful, but basically it is unlikely to escape directly, plus there are also some small areas on the reservoir side that are divided by Lin Shan, and it is still very sure to temporarily 'foster' these little seedlings.
"It's not bad, I took a look, and basically there are no big problems." After all, it is winter, and the survivability of these small seedlings is also relatively fragile, and it is inevitable that there will be some little ones who are not adapted, but in general these are acceptable.
"Well, I also took a look at it, and it is true that some of the little seedlings have died, but I think these gadgets are almost able to adapt to the new environment now." Lin Shuqiang is also very concerned about the seedlings here, and he will come over to see if there is anything to do; This time there was a lot of investment, and he couldn't afford not to care.
"It's okay, I've been paying a little attention to it these days. The water temperature of the reservoir is still relatively low, but fortunately, the water on this side is a little shallow. In addition, the feed given to them in the past few days is also a little prepared, and I am not afraid that they will not survive. "Although there are some small seedlings of about one or two centimeters now, if you look closely, these gadgets are still very vigorous.
The two of them just had a brief chat by the reservoir, and now the paddy field is basically dug and completed, and now all that remains is to deal with the bottom of the field a little, of course, including the arrangement of the anti-escape board and the like. Although the Chinese New Year is coming soon. But it's basically not very busy.
"Now the flavor of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, I remember that when we were young, we could almost feel the atmosphere of the New Year as soon as we arrived in the wax moon. But look at the present. The people in the village are not in a hurry, and they can't feel the atmosphere of the New Year at all. "Anyway, it's time to take a vacation now. In addition, the bedroom is also in a small decoration, of course, Yi Ke will stick more with Lin Shan.
"Now the living conditions are better, when we were young, that is, during the Chinese New Year, we were able to eat a lot of fish, you see how many families can't afford meat now. In addition, although there are many people working outside, but in general they are not very busy, and the atmosphere of the New Year is certainly not as strong as before. Although Lin Shan said it was an exaggeration, it was not false; In the past, I was able to take a few days off during the Chinese New Year. But now it's not so busy, which of course doesn't show that there is too much New Year's flavor.
"This is true, when I was young, I urged to buy new clothes for the New Year as soon as I had winter vacation, and I could buy clothes once or twice a year, and I would change into new clothes as soon as I ate Chinese New Year's Eve." Nowadays, children don't necessarily like to buy new clothes, and if they buy new clothes often, that novelty will definitely be gone. And in recent years, there are fewer children in our village, when we were children, a group of people went door-to-door to beg for candy in the early morning of the first day of the new year, you see that there are basically no children in the village now. Ike sat on the sofa and gently stepped on Xiaobai, the lazy guy. This guy now loves getting people massaged.
Lin Shan laughed, although the policy of planning and planning for childbirth has alleviated the artificial pressure in the country to a certain extent, but basically every household now is an only child; In the past, there were more than a dozen children of similar size in the village, but now the children don't have so many friends.
"I thought about it for a moment. It's too lonely for a small child. I'm still able to make some money anyway, and in the future, we will strive to have a second child, and it's a big deal to pay a penalty. Besides. We are all rural hukou, and we are all only children. It seems that the two-child policy has been relaxed a little. Lin Shan thief leaned into Ike's ear and said, this is his truth; It's nice to be an only child. But Lin Shan prefers to be more lively at home.
"That's what my mom told me, it's a bit lonely and no playmates to have a little kid at home now. I also think it's good to have two children, and it's good for my brother to protect my sister, or for my sister to protect my brother. Ike is also seriously saying that there is nothing to be shy about the topics of marriage and childbirth now.
The two of them also have more expectations for the wedding date that is getting closer and closer, and the wedding photos have been taken, and now they are waiting to be rinsed and taken home. As for the so-called premarital phobia and the like, neither Lin Shan nor Yi Ke obviously have any, and they are now looking forward to the early arrival of the wedding date.
The two of them sat on the sofa and whispered whispers, sweet words and the like are indispensable, and the expectation for the upcoming wedding date is also indispensable, and there are naturally more expectations for the future. Although the two of them are tired of being together all day long, the two of them still have endless words.
"By the way, it's Chinese New Year's Eve soon, and my mother asked you to come to my house for dinner." We're getting married soon, and we said I can't come to you for Chinese New Year's Eve dinner this year. Seeing Lin Shan skillfully cooking lunch, Yi Ke seemed to remember something.
Lin Shan laughed, and the daughter who married Lu went spilled the water; Since the daughter married into the house, it is someone else's family, and the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner will definitely stay on her husband's side. This may be a bit cruel for some families with only one child, others are reunited at the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, and they can only be old couples together for the New Year.
"Forget it, I'll just go to your house for Chinese New Year's Eve dinner this year." Besides, we are all in the same village, just a few steps away, and the Chinese New Year will either be on my side or at your house in the future. I'm still very sensible, there's no need to be so clear, and it's more atmospheric for the family to celebrate the New Year together. Lin Shan didn't think about this at all, he thought from the beginning that he was married to Ike, and when the time came for Chinese New Year's Eve, he would definitely pick up Ike's parents over.
"Aren't we planning to have two children, according to me, it's good to let a little child be surnamed Yi when the time comes, I don't really care about the surname, it's our children anyway." Lin Shantou didn't look back, and continued to stir-fry the side dishes in the pot.
"That's not going to work!" Originally, I still expected that Ike was a little moved, the concept of Chinese clan blood is very strong, and letting a child surnamed Yi can be regarded as passing on the incense of Yike's family; However, as soon as Lin Shan's words were finished, Yi Ke expressed his objection, and his attitude seemed to be very resolute.
"I don't really care about what the last name is, but I definitely don't want my children to have their parents with their own surnames. Think about it, the children of the two of us have one surname Lin and the other surname Yi, and they won't be intimate when the time comes. One generation of relatives and two representatives, three generations and four generations will be pulled down, I don't care so much, anyway, when I am alive, what I want to see is that the relationship between our children and grandchildren is very close. Iko also said with some stubbornness.
Lin Shan laughed and didn't speak, originally he was going to take care of Ike's emotions, so he would let a child follow Ike's surname. But in the final analysis, Lin Shan still has some traditional concepts, the idea of preference for sons is not necessarily, the key is that children follow their surnames, which is naturally the best thing.
As for the future of their children, Lin Shan and Yi Ke obviously can't care too far; The generation of relatives is very simple, if Yi Ke and Lin Shan have two children, then they are brothers. As for the descendants of these children, they are cousins or cousins, and at this time the relationship is relatively weak, and if you don't manage it, it is even possible that there is no connection. As for the descendants in the future, it is normal to have no contact, because at this time the relationship is also farther away, and even the blood connection is getting weaker and weaker.
This is a normal thing, Lin Shan hopes that his children can always love each other, but this is also human nature, Lin Shan just hopes that his children and grandchildren can contact each other more. Although there may not be much to think about right now, it's important to do what is in front of you. But whether it is Lin Shan or Yi Ke, they all hope to have a long-term plan, and it is also very meaningful to slowly move towards this goal.
Two people are about to get married, and they are going to start a family of their own; Of course, it is also very meaningful to have a common goal at this time, and they can also continue to work hard at this time, which belongs to the world of the young couple, and it is also the goal that belongs to them.
For Lin Shan, greater progress in his career is definitely needed; Money is not everything, but no money is everything. Lin Shan hopes that he can create better material conditions for his family, and he hopes that his family can enjoy a higher quality of life, which is understandable. Although material conditions cannot represent everything, it does require a certain foundation.
As for Lin Shan's greatest hope, what he hopes for most is a happy and comfortable life, and when he can earn enough money, improving the quality of life is the most important thing. Enjoying the joy of life with family is also Lin Shan's new pursuit.
On Chinese New Year's Eve, the family sits together to enjoy a sumptuous Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, and the family can sit together and chat during the festival; Of course, it is also to watch the children's continuous growth, because the children continue to encounter some small 'troubles' in the process of growing up and taste the ups and downs, which is really a beautiful thing, and it can also make their lives more fulfilling.
In the final analysis, Lin Shan is family-oriented, it's that simple. (To be continued......)