Yang Lan packed up her things before she remembered a question, "No, when will we leave at the beginning of spring, the eldest daughter-in-law may not have given birth yet, I want to watch her give birth before leaving." ”

Rong Yi put down the book, thought about it and nodded, "It's okay, that's it, you wait for the eldest daughter-in-law to give birth and come over, I'll go to Guangdong first, anyway, it won't be a big deal if I just go, and I can't take office until he leaves office, it's just some trivial things." ”

Yang Lan also thinks this method is good, "That's fine, I'll wait until I'm born in the past, and I'll go to you after arranging my home." ”

"Okay."

After discussing these things, Yang Lan began to pack up the things to go to Guangdong, to prepare some things that are more suitable over there, as well as the preparation of manpower to open a store, etc., this time she plans to take away all the adoptive mother's family, Brother Fu is now very capable of doing business, this time he will definitely do a big job, and competent manpower is indispensable.

In addition, the family's own dowry and Zhuangtian steward had to be beaten one by one, so as not to wait for the two of them to leave, and they would jump up and down to cause trouble for Brother Yu.

Then called Brother Yu and his wife, Yang Lan looked at Wang Wan'er and said gently: "Your father's appointment has come down, we are going to Guangdong soon, your father will go first, and I will wait for your daughter-in-law to give birth before leaving." ”

Brother Yu is now very independent, and he has already gotten the news, so he nodded with a smile, "We are also discussing, thinking that we will let my mother wait for Wan'er to give birth before leaving, otherwise we will not be sure, Wan'er also said that I want to ask you to give a grandmother, I have always heard that you are very good at raising children, and you have to ask your mother to worry more." ”

Yang Lan was very happy that her daughter-in-law trusted her so much and was willing to let her meddle in her grandson's affairs. There was a smile on his face. "Actually, it's nothing. I also groped for it. Oh! By the way, I still have a diary, I was very nervous after giving birth to Brother Yu, and I wrote down Brother Yu's daily meals and poop, I'm afraid that if there is anything I can't see, I'll show it to you. She turned over and ran to the chest of drawers on the kang and rummaged it up, and pulled out a small book she made from the bottom for a long time.

I took it out and flipped through it, smiling. "You see, several children have records, this is their growth and feeding situation, and there are Xiao Wu and Ziqing behind this, Ziqing is the most squeamish, the most difficult to raise, my mother and I don't bother to stay up late."

Wang Wan'er picked it up and looked at it, the more she looked at it, the more she liked it, and it clearly wrote the daily eating and pooping situation, and what she fed in the morning. What time to feed, what color of poop. When it was pulled and whether it corresponded to yesterday's time, when the child turned his head, whether he reacted to toys of various colors, what this is for training, and what purpose is written very clearly.

Wang Wan'er was inexplicably surprised, and she refused to return the notebook while dragging it, "Mother, is this good for me to use, or I'll copy a copy and exchange it for you?" She pleaded eagerly, with this thing he was not afraid of not being able to raise his own children.

The first child is very nervous for every mother, for fear that a little mistake will make the child be wronged, this book actually did not write anything earth-shattering, it is a very careful record of the growth diary of several children, various changes, etc., very detailed.

Yang Lan gave birth to a total of four children, even if the latter few are not taken care of every day, they also ask the maids and grandmothers around them who can write to record them meticulously, this thing is useless to others, but it is really helpful to the imperial doctor, and it can save the child's life at a critical moment.

The main reason is that Yang Lan feels that the medical treatment in this era is not very developed, and some minor diseases may kill the child, so she cares about this very much, and feels that the more carefully she treats the child, the more likely it is that she will treat the child, so she tried her best to get this baby diary out.

"You can copy a copy, leave the original to me, I have four children, I can't favor one over the other, I plan to give each person a copy of this thing in the future, so that they can have a reference, which is a little bit of my mother's heart." Yang Lan thought about it and explained.

Although it is not a precious thing, she has always adhered to the principle that she treats every child fairly, no matter how many things she has in her hand, even if it is a needle and thread, she must share it equally with the children, and try not to ignore any child, so as not to resent.

Wang Wan'er was not dissatisfied, but admired her mother-in-law even more, and nodded happily, "Then my mother will assign me a grandmother, I'm afraid that I won't be able to take care of the child myself." ”

"Okay, I'll go back and let Qingya go over to help you recuperate." Yang Lan thought about it, and the green sprouts around her were the most suitable.

Qingya has been married a long time ago, and she married Rong Yi's dyed ink, she is a silent but good to Qingya, and she is all in charge of the family, and now she is the housekeeper and daughter-in-law by her side, and has given birth to three children, two boys and one girl, and she is also experienced. also watched Xiao Wu and Ziqing grow up, and she is also clear about how to take care of her children.

Wang Wan'er nodded happily when the people around Yang Lan got it, and now she can put half of her heart at ease, her mother-in-law is leaving, although she can seize the power, but she is not very happy, but she is a little worried that she will lose the face of the Rong family if she can't do it well.

She knows that her husband doesn't like women who love power too much, and her mother-in-law is not such a person, so she also looks down on hegemonic women, and she doesn't like to be weak.

"Well, also, can my mother keep a grandmother by my side, I'm afraid that when my mother leaves, some people will ...... with things, I'm afraid I won't be able to do it, if there is a mother who understands things to help me mention it, I can be more sure." Wang Wan'er took the initiative to ask a housekeeper to help her.

Yang Lan looked at her daughter-in-law appreciatively, this is a smart one, not only can she get her own liking but also make Brother Yu happy in her heart, not that she will jump up happily as soon as her mother-in-law leaves.

"It's simple, I'll let Lamei accompany you, she knows everyone I know, and I can give you some tips." Yang Lan thought about it and couldn't bear to let Lamei follow her to suffer so far, she had the heart to let her daughter-in-law receive Lamei's love, and she would have a good relationship in the future, Brother Yu was also a filial child, and the people who went out around her could value it a little bit, and they would not let her be wronged.

Wang Wan'er was overjoyed immediately, she knew that Lamei had been with her mother for many years, and she was no longer married with her wholeheartedly, and she also had prestige in the house, not to mention that her brother Dye Dong was also the chief steward of the house, and having such a person to help her was equivalent to her mother-in-law recognizing her status and wanting everyone in the house to recognize herself.

"Thank you mother, my daughter-in-law will definitely take care of the family." Wang Wan'er was a little excited, her eyes were wet.

"Well, I'm afraid I'm going to leave when you give birth, I won't say anything else, the child must be taken care of, you must take care of it personally, and the child who takes care of it yourself will be close to the mother, why are many children close to the grandmother, and everyone is everywhere, even if it is the mother and son, it is the same, and the affairs of the official family are handed over to the stewards, otherwise what do you want them to do? It is necessary to distinguish which is more important, do not leave the most important things, but pick up the worthless things as treasures. Yang Lan reminded her daughter-in-law earnestly.

For a woman, her husband and children are the most important thing in life, not the so-called housekeepership, which is why she doesn't care who is in charge.

Wang Wan'er was stunned for a moment, and subconsciously looked at her husband beside her, only to see him looking at herself with a smile, her hand touching her stomach, and then looking at her mother-in-law's gentle and smiling eyes, her father-in-law looked at her mother-in-law's eyes, with a strong pampering and friendship, and suddenly she understood why her mother-in-law did not cherish the housekeeping rights, maybe for her, the housekeeping rights are not important at all, as long as her husband and children love her, she can live a very fulfilling life.

"Daughter-in-law understood." Wang Wan'er nodded seriously.

Yang Lan smiled, seeing that her daughter-in-law was indeed smart and understood what she meant, she could rest assured.

She really hopes that her son can be happy after she leaves, and there are people around her who truly love them and support them through the ups and downs of life.

"Go, Lamei, you will follow the old family tomorrow and help her mention it with Qingya." Yang Lan turned her head and said to Lamei.

"Cheng, the slave understands." Lamei smiled slightly.

Wang Wan'er hurriedly turned sideways to avoid half of her body, and she had to respect the elders in front of her.

After speaking, Yang Lan asked them to retreat.

Rong Yi glanced at her with a smile, "You're worried a lot, I'm afraid that people will ignore your son." He shook his head amusedly.

"Of course, I don't want my son to marry a housekeeper, what I want to give my son is a lifelong partner, a woman who can accompany him through ups and downs, not a housekeeper." Yang Lan said seriously.

Rong Yi shook her head, sometimes she is very stubborn, and the reason for being stubborn is helpless.

After Lamei and Qingya followed Wang Wan'er, the people in the mansion obviously respected her more, Yang Lan basically didn't care about the family's affairs, and completely handed it over to Wang Wan'er, after all, she was her eldest daughter-in-law, and the attitude of respect and dependence must be expressed, which represents the attitude of the Hou Mansion.

Wang Wan'er also understands her mother-in-law's intentions, and she is becoming more and more close to her and sincere and filial.

Every day of the clan meeting, Yang Lan would call Wang Wan'er to come with her in advance, teach her how to deal with the clansmen, and tell her about her experience and practices over the years, how to make the family thrive, how to face the outside political situation, and how to deal with women in the back house, these are all things that a clan woman must know.

Compared with political acumen, Wang Wan'er is no worse than Yang Lan, she immediately understood the meaning of the second half of the sentence after saying the first half of the sentence, and the skills of the communicators outside are very good, even much better than Yang Lan. (To be continued......)