Since knowing Xiao Hai's whereabouts, Xiao Yi has been very excited, while Amitabha Buddha thanked the goddess for her strong mana; While urging me to put pressure on me, he wanted me to go to Shanghai to find Xiaohai.

"Eldest sister, when you go to Shanghai, tell Xiaohai that I am willing to divorce, trick him first, as long as I come home, I don't believe what else he can do!"

"Alas, why are you still so naïve, what about deceiving him, didn't we persuade him to come back last time, and you didn't bring him back by yourself, and now he has hit the south wall and hasn't looked back, you still have the luxury of expecting his conscience to find out, and honestly follow him back to live" I scoffed at Xiao Yi's simple thoughts.

All along, I always feel that there is indeed a big problem between their husband and wife - think about it, it is really a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, and the husband and wife live in harmony, how can a man think about and think about the woman outside, and actually leave his wife to elope with the woman outside, not to mention that the woman is still so unbearable - I really can't figure out what makes Xiaohai so ruthless, is it that the wife who has been married for more than ten years does not have the slightest place for him to be nostalgic.

This is the sorrow of a family, but also the sorrow of a woman and a wife, I always blindly complain that my brother-in-law has no self, and I can't even control my own man.

Home, if a man feels nostalgic and uncherished, then how can he still gather his heart and gather virtue to live for a long time!

Each family is a unique individual, each with its own joys and pains, and I can't tell what is going on or what exists between them.

Marriage is like shoes, only one's own feet know whether it fits or not, how can others peek into the truth.

I have repeatedly intervened in their marriage and life, I don't know whether it is right or wrong for Lu Dao to do this, and I don't know what kind of emotion Lu Dao Xiaohai has for this marriage and his wife who has been married for ten years.

Many times, I am entangled in it, I don't know what the result of my repeated insistence will be, if this happens to me, my family, how will I face it, whether to blindly tolerate it like my brother and daughter-in-law, or simply let go and pursue their own lives.

Life is like a prism, it will always reflect the colorful brilliance, which kind of life is what we want, and what we are pursuing, I think everyone, at different times, will have different answers.

Now Xiaohai has left this family for the sake of his self-proclaimed love, freedom and happiness, and suddenly disappeared from our lives without a trace...... How could I live up to the trust of my family for the sake of his thoughts alone.

If we don't get Xiaohai back, my life and that of my family won't be able to return to normal.

But what if you go to Shanghai!

I have my concerns.

It's not easy to go to Shanghai, not to mention the energy and money involved, going to a strange place to find someone is tantamount to looking for a needle in a haystack; I can go to Shanghai, go to Chongming Island, rely on the supermarket owner to familiarize myself with the local situation, and have a great hope of finding Xiaohai, but what can I do if I find them, he is now hot with that woman, and I want to get him home with a sharp rope, how easy is it to talk about it!

If he knew in advance that we were going, he could have moved to another place immediately, and even if we got to the place, it would be useless, and the final result would only be nothing.

How big Shanghai is, how vast Chongming Island is, just one fort town has more than 60 square kilometers, large and small villages, thousands of houses, how can I go door to door to search!

Alas! It was easy to say that it was easy to go to Shanghai, but if I really wanted to put it into practice, I made it difficult.

I thought of a thousand, ten thousand reasons why I couldn't go: Actually, the main thing I didn't say was that I had always been afraid to go out alone.

I'm a woman with no sense of direction, and I don't know what to do when I go out.

This is more than ten years of school, and I have grown a little knowledge, so I didn't go around the pot and the ground all day long like my mother.

I am the same as those female colleagues in the company every day, home and company, two points and one line, mechanical and monotonous; In the past ten years of work, except for a few outings organized by the company or a rare opportunity to go on a business trip to Nanjing once a year, I have hardly been to other places alone.

I remember that when I first got married, the company leaders arranged for me to go to the city approval center to report a material, which was very urgent.

The company didn't have a car at that time, and the leader arranged for me to take the bus.

The company will not be more than an hour away from the approval center even if the traffic jam will not be more than an hour, I set off at 9 o'clock, to half past eleven o'clock has not touched the place, the leader one after another telephone dispatch, I sit on the bus and do not know where I am, finally met a platform, I quickly reported, the leader stomped his feet angrily: it turned out that I sat in the opposite direction.

Until now, my husband still makes fun of this, saying that I will be sold by traffickers as soon as I go out.

I have been in the workplace for more than ten years, but I really want to go to the bustling city of Shanghai alone, and I still can't stop worrying......

My father and I repeatedly discussed and analyzed: In this situation, it is not realistic to let Xiaohai honestly turn back: when he ran away, he was ready to abandon this family, his wife and children, and now in his eyes, that woman is everything to him.

We hope to use family affection and affection to influence him, and use the elderly and children to restrain him, but it is just our wishful thinking, since he has done such an absolute thing, he has not taken us into his eyes at all, and has not taken this family to heart......

What can prompt him to turn back now: or he and the woman have a disagreement, an argument, something "unforgettable"; Or suddenly encounter an "irresistible" change, that woman can take the initiative to leave him, or he can take the initiative to leave that woman, we go over, maybe he has the possibility of following us home.

In the current situation, this kind of thing happens very little - now there is only Pan Xiaoyan's words, yesterday afternoon when she called to say that she only had 20 yuan on her, I analyzed last night plus today's breakfast, according to her, they should be penniless.

But Xiaohai's mobile phone is still turned off as always, and Pan Xiaoyan didn't make a second distress call to her husband, is it that they have already found a way to get the money and solve the urgent need of the moment, or Pan's statement is simply a lie, just one of the means to confuse us, and want us not to go to Shanghai to find them for the time being?

Maybe at this time, Xiaohai and Pan Xiaoyan are sweetly staying together and indulging in love!

Is it necessary for us to go to Shanghai!