345 Teachings

"The idea is good, but I suggest that you better pull the banner of the queen mother or the queen, with them, no one will dare to harm you, the girls' academy is no better than the boys, and it is easy to be discredited by a little thing, and it will be very troublesome at that time." Princess Yu still likes Yang Lan, so she is willing to help.

Yang Lan nodded and said: "I just have this idea, don't you come to invite you out of the mountain, I'm afraid that my face is not big enough, I want to ask you to go into the palace to talk to me." "That's the main purpose of her coming today.

As long as there is a prince and aunt in the lead, others will not dare to reach out easily even if they are jealous, some things still have to be guarded against in advance, you don't know what bad things will happen in the future, but the preparations must be done in advance, as far as possible.

Princess Yu smiled and nodded, "Okay, this is a trivial matter, you still have to ask for a piece of land, right?" She estimated that the small house would definitely not be enough, and she would have to ask for a piece of land to build a school.

"But isn't it, I entered the palace for this, and I don't know if the emperor can give it to me?" Yang Lan's face was a little not good.

Since the emperor let her father step down, she has nothing to do and will not enter the palace, no longer like her uncle did before, attack and dig some treasures at every turn, it must be necessary, otherwise she will not go in to find guilt.

Princess Yu glanced at her with a smile, how could she not know Yang Lan's heart knot, speaking of which, the emperor did not do very beautifully, but it seemed that he was a small family, and it was better to be a courtier free and easy, at that time, the people at the bottom said a lot, even her family sighed and said that the emperor does not allow people, and she must be careful to be a man with his tail in the future.

"It doesn't matter, he won't lose face for such a trivial matter. It's on me. Princess Yu said with a kind smile.

Yang Lan immediately nodded with a smile. "That's fine. When I left, I had to go and ask Aunt Ping'an to go to Grandma Ping'an, and I pulled her up. After saying that, he squeezed his eyes.

"Hehehe! Just you are naughty, go for it, go for it. Princess Yu didn't keep her, and nodded with a smile.

Yang Lan ran to Aunt Wang's house and went to Aunt Ping'an's place, but now Grandma is easy to see outsiders, and she is too old. However, his ears and eyes are clear, his hands and feet are dexterous, and his body is not bad at all.

Yang Lan is very happy to go to Princess Ping'an, there are only a few juniors who are willing to see, and everyone else is here to intercede and fight the autumn breeze, she is not happy to see her again, once a son of heaven and a courtier, it is different from before, this old face is still a little bit old.

As soon as Yang Lan told Aunt Ping'an about her thoughts, she immediately agreed. also said that when she got it right, she would definitely go over to support her, if there was someone who was inconvenient to contact. She went to get in touch, and it was all on her.

With the promise of Princess Ping'an, Yang Lan was overjoyed, Aunt Ping'an's age, she knew a lot of old relatives, and if she could move them, her own affairs would be half-done, no matter what she did, if fewer people dismantled the stage, it would be smoother.

After a busy day, Yang Lan dragged her tired body back to the house, Brother Yu was already waiting for her, and when she saw her son, she asked with a smile: "Why are you here, you have something to say?" ”

Brother Yu stood behind Yang Lan and rubbed her shoulders to relax, "Mother, why are you so tired?" My son will definitely be able to get famous, you don't need to work so hard, that idea of fame doesn't add much points, I don't want you to work so hard and beg people everywhere to lose face. Seeing his wife working so hard, he was a little reluctant.

Yang Lan enjoyed her son's filial piety, her heart was sweeter than honey, patted his hand, and said: "It's not just for these things, my mother just thinks I'm bored and wants to do something. But all the things that women learn all their lives are to serve men and children, I think I can also do something, I think about it for a long time and think that this thing is what I can do, I won't get out of the circle, I won't cause trouble for you, and I can also fight for some glory for the family, and my mother also hopes to go outside and see the world. She sighed faintly.

Brother Yu was silent behind him for a long time, and only after a long time did he speak, "Mother, I'm sorry, my son is too selfish." His face suddenly turned a little red, he just thought that he didn't want his mother to beg for face, but he didn't take into account his mother's loneliness and helplessness.

Yang Lan patted her son with relief, "When you grow up, you slowly no longer need your mother, but your mother always stays in the back house and is actually very lonely, which is why I am willing to let your grandfather and grandmother leave this back house, filial piety, filial piety, shun is also filial piety!" You see how well your grandfather and grandmother are doing now, not only are they hard-boned, but they are also happy, can you say that this is not called filial piety? She wants her son to learn how to love others.

"To love someone is to give her what she needs, whether she is rich or low, just because she likes her needs, not what you call wealth and glory, you think that the best thing is to love the other person, which is not right.

For example, if I want to eat beef noodles, I love to eat this flavor, you want to give me bird's nest to eat, but bird's nest is not for everyone to eat, some people's physical fitness is not suitable for eating this, but the disease is more serious after eating, you are not love but harm. Yang Lan tried to make her son understand this truth.

Brother Yu lowered his head and pondered for a long time before finally asking, "Because grandmother really wants to go on a tour with grandfather, you and father agreed to let them leave, right?" ”

"Yes, although many people talk about our grabbing power and not being filial, but your grandfather is very happy, this is the best reward for us, people don't live for the eyes and opinions of others. Although we can't completely ignore the criticism of others, we can choose the path we want to take, as long as it is correct, he wants to discuss it, some need to pay attention to some criticism is just rumors, you have to learn to distinguish people's hearts. Yang Lan patted her son's face and smiled happily.

"Mother, I'll think about it." Brother Yu didn't promise anything, because he didn't quite understand it yet, but he really wanted to think about it when he said this.

Yang Lan smiled with satisfaction, this is the attitude of taking it seriously.

"You're about to get married, my mother always says that I want to marry someone you are satisfied with, this is not an empty word, you will walk through the rest of your life hand in hand for a long time in the future, just like me and your father, no matter what difficulties we encounter, we will face it together, like that mutiny, I know you must feel that I am ruthless, left you children, and chose your father, because I know that you will be fine, will take care of your younger brothers and sisters, you grow up, one day you will leave your mother, and your father is old, he needs me more than you, this is husband and wife. I hope you can understand what kind of attitude you will have towards your wife in the future, your father loves me, he gave me everything he has, and my return is to love him with the same love, no matter what, I will stand with your father, live and die together.

The girl of the Wang family is a good girl, I hope you can love each other, not respect each other, I don't like this word, and I don't like men to take concubines, marry a wife with high status, marry a beloved concubine, no matter which one is unfair. In my eyes, either give wholeheartedly, or refuse decisively, clearly, and completely, don't be slimy. ”

What she hates the most is **, she is still entangled after breaking up, so that the other party has no way to start over, she is simply a scum with moral corruption, since it is impossible to be together, you must break up neatly, don't give any chance, let others also let themselves find love again, instead of entanglement, waste time, a woman's youth is very valuable.

Brother Yu didn't understand very much, he used to think that his mother didn't like his father to take a concubine, it was because it involved his own interests, but now he is clearly and bluntly said, I don't want you to take a concubine, and I hope you can treat your daughter-in-law exclusively and don't mess around.

"Do you hate taking concubines?" Brother Yu asked, tilting his head.

"That's right, not only will I not let your father take a concubine, I won't let you take a concubine, even if your daughter-in-law can't give birth to I'd rather have a step, I won't let you take a concubine, I can't control how others live, but you are my son, you disobey my orders is unfilial, I hate the miasma in the backyard, I don't need any grandchildren, if you take a concubine, I will move out with your father to live, and you don't recognize me as a mother in the future, if you don't have a good life, you can leave, but I don't allow the concubine to happen. A man can't control his belt, what kind of man is he, the meaning of a man is how much responsibility he bears on his shoulders, not playing with a woman. ”

Yang Lan is as resolute as ever, leaving no way back for herself or others.

I don't like disrespect, I don't love women, I don't like concubines, I don't want my husband to take concubines, she doesn't want her son to take concubines, she doesn't want to cause trouble, and she can't make the family messy.

Brother Yu completely understood his mother's intentions, and nodded after thinking for a long time, "I understand." ”

"You don't understand, I tell you that you are already a married person, you can't take a look at other women in this life, if you don't have a good time with your daughter-in-law, you can get along and leave, I don't care who you marry when the time comes, but not now, except for your daughter-in-law, you can't like other women, no one can do it, take care of your own eyes, and take care of your own heart, this is your responsibility for a man." Yang Lan said righteously.

She has high requirements for her eldest son, and her expectations are also very high, and she will not allow her son to learn crookedly, whether it is a person or an official, she must stand up to the sky and be open.

"I know, I'll remember my mother's words, and I promise I won't do anything to be sorry for her." Brother Yu suddenly felt that his mother was very respectable and upright, and if he was a man, he would achieve more than he is now.

"Well, then I'll rest assured, the Hou Mansion will be handed over to you after all, and the safety of the house will allow you to fly farther, and you will understand the meaning of this sentence in the future." Yang Lan closed her eyes and waved her hand, a little tired, and asked her son to retreat. (To be continued......)