22. Chapter 22
After this toss, Xiaohai's image has been completely subverted in everyone's eyes, not only us, but even the children in the family have a lot of disdain for him, especially our kid, who pouted in private, and kept complaining about his uncle's poor vision, and there was a problem with aesthetics: as far as Pan Xiaoyan's kind of woman is far worse than my concubine, the man is soft when he sees it, and he is still like picking up a treasure, really cheap bones.
Yes, even children can carry things clearly, but Xiaohai plunged into it without hesitation.
Maybe this is what comes out of the eyes of a lover.
In our eyes, Pan Xiaoyan, who is worthless and smells like shit, is regarded as a treasure in Xiaohai's eyes, Xiaohai has always regarded her as his confidante, chattering in his mouth, thinking in his heart, always thinking that this woman understands him best, loves him the most, listens to him the most, and the hot-tempered daughter-in-law is absolutely incomparable with her, he must be glad that he finally found a man's confidence in front of a woman in this life.
After a toss, Pan Xiaoyan left, but she also took away one of Xiao Hai's hearts, Xiao Hai was even more dull than before, looking preoccupied.
The listlessness of the man made the daughter-in-law Xiao Yi secretly anxious, and she always talked to me in private, seeking a little comfort in her heart.
"The prodigal son will not change the money when he turns back, for the sake of the two children, as long as he is willing to turn back, we can turn the page and you can start again" I always enlightened my brother and daughter-in-law like this.
Xiao Yi is a great woman, but she is also a stupid woman, her own men are like this, she even tolerated it, endured it, and said: No matter how wrong Xiaohai is, I can forgive him.
This is a woman's sorrow, you are struggling to guard a man, you give birth to children for him, you save money for him, you serve his parents for him, busy with everything, but in the end, it is not as good as another woman's position in his heart, every time I think of Xiaohai's face in front of Pan Xiaoyan, I cry out for my brother-in-law Xiaoyi.
What if I were replaced, would I be as generous as my sister-in-law Xiaoyi, the same persistence, the same infatuation, I dare not jump to conclusions, as the saying goes: the charcoal does not burn anyone's feet, who does not know the pain, things did not really happen to themselves, no one can make a decision.
After so many years of ups and downs, I really understand a truth: instead of looking for someone you love, it is better to find someone who loves you, because a person who loves you, no matter how naughty, stubborn or even unreasonable, he can still accept you like the sea open like his heart, can love you like loving your eyes, love you, but don't love you, no matter how many sacrifices you make, he still treats you as disdainful as mustard.
There is love at first sight in this world, but it is more about blending and bathing, time can dilute the passion, but it can't drown the days of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Lazy and scheming women like me, instead of putting down their bodies to bravely pursue love, it is better to naturally accept a man who really loves you, loves you, and takes care of you.
But we also have the bottom line that we stick to, if you don't love me, please tell me, I will never rely on you for a lifetime, which has nothing to do with money, love, etc., this is a person's minimum dignity, but people are often difficult to step on this threshold because of family, responsibility, and moral constraints.
is like her brother-in-law Xiaoyi, who knows that men don't love her, but because she pities her two young sons and wants to give her children a complete home, she is compromised everywhere.
She loves the child too much, and she doesn't want the child to repeat the mistakes she made with Xiaohai.
I often say that Xiaohai and Xiaoyi are a pair of hard-working children, they should be considerate of each other, love each other, and work together to run a warm home, so that two hearts that have been hurting have a peaceful harbor to live in.
Xiao Yi and Xiao Hai are both adopted children, both of them are inherited, but they are slightly different: Xiao Hai's parents are thousands of miles away and have never seen each other since childhood; And Xiao Yi's parents are not far apart and can meet often - Xiao Yi's biological parents and her adoptive parents are sisters, her adoptive mother is the eldest sister, and her biological mother is the second sister.
Xiao Yi is the third in the family, and his parents in order to get a handle for the family to pass on the lineage, when Xiao Yi was more than a year old, he secretly conceived a fourth child, and gave birth to a pair of twins after October, but unfortunately both of them are girls.
A rural family, five girls, honest parents thought about it, and finally gritted their teeth and stomped their feet to make a difficult decision: in order to reduce the burden on the family, they weighed it again and again, and prepared to send the plum less than two years old out of the city - the eldest sister and the second sister are already old, so they don't have to wait for food and drink, the fourth and fifth are waiting to be fed, only the plum is in the middle, the father is not in pain, the mother is not loved, and he is not sensible, and he can send a good family if he is ignorant.
Xiao Yi was first sent to his grandmother's house to raise, his grandmother has been widowed for many years, and she is happy to have a child as a companion, her grandmother is in her seventies and her ability is limited, but she still loves Xiao Yi.
The grandmother over there raised Xiaoyi first, and the parents here asked people to find a suitable family - the parents still hope that the daughter who sent Lu can find a family with better conditions, and the child will not be guilty in the past, and half a year has passed, but there has been no news.
Children have a lot of things, today they have a cold, tomorrow they have a fever, and the day after tomorrow they have a bad stomach, and they don't make people worry all day long, as soon as Xiao Yi gets sick, her seventy-year-old grandmother goes to find her eldest daughter on her back - Xiao Yi's aunt is a barefoot doctor in the village, and it is convenient to take medicine and injections.
Dozens of miles of mountain roads, three watches in the middle of the night, a small-footed old lady staggered with a child on her back.
The eldest daughter felt sorry for the old lady every time she had to leave the child, and let her go before seeing the disease, and gradually the family had feelings for Xiao Yi, and the aunt had the idea of adoption: two children in the family, a son and a daughter are older than Xiao Yi, don't bother too much, and her niece is not an outsider, she is really adopted, not only to help the sister, but also to free the old lady - she is so old, she should be raising her for a long time, but now she has to take care of the child for her daughter, it is really hard.
As soon as the aunt and her husband discussed, Xiao Yi stayed.
Xiao Yi's parents are worried about not finding a suitable person, as soon as they heard that the eldest sister is willing, they can't wait in their hearts, and there is no ceremony, Xiao Yi, who can clearly call his father and mother, treats his aunt and aunt-in-law as his own parents, and his own father and mother call the second aunt and second aunt like his brothers and sisters.
Xiao Yi remembers very well that when she was a child, her second aunt always liked to block her at the intersection after school, and wanted to trick her into going home with a lot of delicious food in her hand, but she didn't agree to anything.
At that time, the situation at home had gradually improved, and the parents regretted giving away their daughter, and dreamed of taking the child home, but they were embarrassed to open their mouths, so they came up with the same: as long as the child was willing to go home, the sister and brother-in-law would not say anything, but at that time, Xiao Yi had already learned his life experience from his grandmother's mouth, and the little child stubbornly thought that her father and mother abandoned her first, and she was full of gratitude for her aunt's take-in: If it weren't for them, Maybe I don't know where I am now.
Xiao Yi has been stubbornly avoiding his father and mother, refusing to recognize each other, until now.
Last year, Xiao Yi's biological father had cancer, and he kept talking about Xiao Yi before he died, and the phone called to Zhejiang, Xiao Yi said that she didn't want to come back, she had her thoughts, one to hate her biological parents for abandoning her ruthlessness, and the other to take care of the kindness of the adoptive parents' family, lest they get too close to their biological parents, and hurt the hearts of the two old people.