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What Zhou Huakang said is the truth, how can children deal with problems that adults can't handle well? However, is it because of this that the children are not guided?

However, what is the guidance method?

It's not that she's idle now, she is going to be a mother soon, and what she is facing is how to educate her children, looking at the children of Zhou Mikang's generation, she feels that this is a particularly important thing.

Seeing that Chu Xia was silent and did not squeak, Zhou Huakang was a little weak-hearted, the third brother attached great importance to the third sister-in-law, he couldn't be clearer about how much he attached importance to the third sister-in-law, if he knew that he made the third sister-in-law ......angry, thinking of this, he quickly piled up a flattering smile: "Third sister-in-law, I was talking nonsense just now, don't take it to heart......"

"Am I that careful?" Hatsu interrupted him funny, "What you said is the truth, what do I have to be angry about?" I didn't say anything just because I was thinking about your words, after all, I'm going to be a mother soon. ”

"Sister-in-law, it's my villain's heart...... Zhou Huakang looked embarrassed, "Actually, what I said is not completely correct, if everyone thinks so, is there still a time for society to progress?" ”

"This problem is not something that can be explained clearly in a few words, nor can we immediately think of a solution, maybe, we all need to slowly explore it after becoming parents.

Now, turning back to the question just now, in fact, I just asked you about Tian Tian just now, just to remind you that you should discuss it with your elders before deciding, after all. None of us really stepped into society to face some things independently, some ways. It's not what we can think of right now, ask the elders. There are always benefits.

If you don't have the idea of a virgin boyfriend or girlfriend for Tian Tian, it is best to have other ways to help her, after all, breaking up in the future will also have an impact on the girl's reputation.

We can't help people once, and then push them into the fire pit, right? ”

There is naturally a certain truth in saying this in early summer, people of this era. is still quite conservative about the matter of men and women, if Zhou Huakang helps Tian Tian and finally breaks up, gossip will also make Tian Tian unable to raise his head for a period of time.

Even if she has a strong heart, it is impossible for others not to care, and it will be even more difficult to find someone she really likes when the time comes. The bigger the family, the more they mind this kind of thing, and in ordinary people's families, it's not a big deal.

Obeyed the building yì of early summer. Back at Zhou's house, Zhou Huakang went to Mr. Zhou and Mrs. Zhou for the first time, and reported Tian Tian's matter to the second elder. Then, ask for the opinion of the second elder.

Old Man Zhou sighed. looked at the little grandson: "Xiaohua, you are kind-hearted." That's a good thing, but you're a bit reckless in what you promised.

For the Tian family, why did they let Tian Tian marry Chen Dajun when they knew that Chen Dajun was that kind of person? Have you thought about the root cause of this problem? ”

"What is the reason?" Zhou Huakang looked at Old Man Zhou with a confused expression, "Isn't it that I don't care about Tian Tian and want to get help for the family through her?" ”

"Do you think that a normal person will let people like Chen Dajun help? What he did, sooner or later, will make him punished, and I believe that the Tian family will not fail to think of this.

However, in this case, they still sent their granddaughter over, whether they paid attention to it or not, the other party represented the Tian family, this is a fact, right?

Everyone understands what Chen Dajun has done over the years, so if my guess is correct, it is the Tian family that has fallen into the hands of Chen Dajun and wants to calm down the incident in this way.

Then, if you propose to deal with Tian Tian now, the Tian family will not agree, so it is simply impossible for you to help Tian Tian in this way.

couldn't help her, but pushed the Zhou family to the opposite side of the Tian family and the Chen family, do you think such a result is meaningful? Even if Tian Tian will be grateful to you, her fate will still not change. ”

"And how can I help her?" Zhou Huakang sighed, "Grandparents, I'm a little reckless, but I really pity her, her brother is also a very kind child, I really don't want to see them go to a dead end and change their personalities." ”

Old Man Zhou stretched out his hand and patted him on the shoulder: "I just said, you are a kind child, but what you lack is social experience, so you don't know how to be flexible, okay, I know about this, I will discuss it with your uncle when I go back, don't worry, the Chen family will not succeed." ”

"Grandpa, do you already have a way?" Zhou Huakang immediately became happy, "Can you tell me about it?" Said and smiled embarrassedly, "A gentleman's word, a whip of the horse, I can't do it according to the original statement, I have to give Tian Tian an explanation, grandpa, you don't want me to be a dishonest person, right?" ”

"What does your dishonesty have to do with me?" Old Man Zhou looked at him with a smile, "Solve your own problems by yourself, don't use your brains when you promise, and don't want to use your brains now, are you too idle these days?" ”

"Grandpa......" Zhou Huakang turned to look at Grandma Zhou, who had been smiling and listening, "Grandma, it's inappropriate for grandpa to treat me like this, can you help me say something fair?" ”

"Not good." The old lady shook her head and refused without thinking about it, "As a parent, the most taboo thing is that one says to the east and the other to the west, so I can't go against your grandfather's wishes."

Moreover, your grandfather's ideas have always been more positive than grandma's, grandma can't deliberately refute him just because she wants to protect you, that is not to help you, but to harm you, understand? ”

Zhou Huakang looked at the old lady with a black line, and he didn't know what to say, but in fact, the hat that the old lady buckled for him was too big, so that he couldn't resist it after that.

Old Man Zhou waved at him: "Okay, let's go out if it's okay, I'm going to have dinner in a while, these two days, you should also think of a way, don't let the girl think that you are a dishonest person." ”

Is this his family's amiable and respectable grandfather? At this moment, Zhou Huakang completely doubted his previous judgment, but in his heart, he faintly felt that the old man didn't want to cause trouble for the Zhou family at all, so he refused so thoroughly.

Old Man Zhou has lived to this age and experienced so many ups and downs, how can he not see the little Jiujiu in his grandson's heart, he felt funny and angry, so he glared at him fiercely: "Put away your dirty thoughts, when have I ever been afraid of trouble with your grandfather, you have grown so big, when have you ever seen your grandfather cowardly?"

I don't want to solve the trouble I caused, but I blame others for my cranky thoughts here, if my temper was still those years, I would have kicked you out a long time ago! ”

"I ...... I didn't think about it......" muttered, Zhou Huakang quickly ran out, at this time, he also understood that the old man was testing him, but what should he do?

To whom do you call for help?

Eldest brother?

The idea was vetoed by him in a flash, and almost predictably, the result of his going to the eldest brother for help was that the eldest brother reprimanded him, and then, he didn't come up with any ideas.

Third brother?

This idea was quickly rejected by him, with the temper of the third brother, he didn't dare to go up and brush the tiger's whiskers, in case the tiger brushed his hair, he would be in big trouble......

Second sister?

Forget it, the second sister has enough troubles of her own, so don't bother her with this.

Fourth sister?

It's not good, his belly is so big, and he still has a bunch of contradictions with his mother-in-law, and if he is anxious about his affairs, he will definitely regret it in the end......

The fifth brother and the sixth sister don't even think about it......

Since she came back, Chu Xia has been staring at Zhou Huakang, after all, the matter was encountered by her and the other party, and she still wants to know how to solve it.

At this moment, seeing Zhou Huakang standing there in a daze with a vegetable face, he guessed that nine times out of ten, the old man did not agree with his approach, and he was disciplined.

"Xia, what are you looking at?" Zhao Yulan noticed her daughter's fluttering look, glanced at her line of sight, and pulled her, "You are a sister-in-law, it's not good to stare at the little uncle like this." ”

Early Summer: "...... "Lady, are you thinking too much?" Are we the kind of people who don't know the depths?

"Mother is serious, it's one thing for Xiaomi to ask Xiaohua to help you, but you can't get too close, after all, it's a brother-in-law, not a sister-in-law, understand?"

"Mother...... "If she doesn't speak, the old lady will probably continue to teach the lesson, there is no way, Chu Xia had to explain, "When Ying'er was competing, she encountered a little problem, and said that Zhou Huakang came back to discuss with her grandparents, I am worried about the result, mother, please don't think about it so much?" I didn't have anything to do with it, but when you say that, it's as if I've really done something wrong. ”

"Mother, don't you always glance at Xiaohua?" Zhao Yulan smiled wryly, "Don't think too much about it, there are some things, it's better to pay attention to them." By the way, what is the trouble for Xiaohua? Is it strict? Can your dad and I help? ”

"I can't help ......" is not a matter of betraying people anyway, I briefly told Zhao Yulan about Tian Tian and Zhou Huakang in early summer, and emphasized Tian Tian's life experience.

"It's a poor child, and it's right to help, but it's right for Uncle Zhou and Aunt Zhou to disagree, after all, it's clear that it's a thankless thing......" After a pause, Zhao Yulan shook her head again, "No, Uncle Zhou and Aunt Zhou didn't agree, it's definitely not because of this reason, they are not like that, Xia, you still persuade Xiaohua, Uncle Zhou has walked more roads than he has crossed, and he will not harm him." (To be continued......)