Faced with the current uncontrollable situation, I often fall into deep thought.

If when Xiao Hai was in love, our family didn't stop Xiao Hai from empathizing with him, and finally let him marry Xiao Chen as his wife as he wished, would what happen now?

If Pan Xiaoyan came for the first time, we didn't just consider the feelings of the two children and Xiaoyi, and take into account the feelings of the family, but stood more on Xiaohai's side, did not impose interference, strongly opposed, but calmly let Xiaohai face and solve it alone for his own happiness.

Maybe now Xiaohai and Xiaoyi have already divorced and formed a new family with that Pan Xiaoyan, they are intimate and affectionate together, Xiaohai has also changed his habit of being lazy and lazy, and is diligent in managing the newly formed family. The two children and the old man, as well as all of us, were very awkward and resentful at first, but seeing the two of them together very happy and happy, we were slowly relieved, and finally accepted them with an open heart - this may be a good ending, at least the two children still have fathers, and the two old people also have sons to stay with.

"Since she got married, Xiao Yi has worked hard for this family, she is a rare good daughter-in-law, how can we drive her away and take that Pan Xiaoyan home" My father has always been worried about this, and naturally he is also strongly opposed to the ideas we have tried to propose.

We have always insisted on opposing Xiao Hai and forcing him to cut off relations with Pan Xiaoyan, and we really can't bear to let Xiao Yi, the most innocent victim in this accident, suffer more grievances, which is the conscience and morality of being a human being.

Of course, if we can be ruthless, persuade Xiao Yi and Xiao Hai to divorce.

Maybe it's another scenario: Xiao Yi, who has gone through pain, finally agreed to divorce, it must have been painful at the beginning, but fortunately, time will wear out everything, and slowly she will finally come out of the shadows and start planning a new life: she will also find her lover, that person loves her deeply, and she slowly transferred her feelings from Xiaohai's body, unlike now, her man with the "hateful little three" sprinkled a girl, and disappeared, but he had to guard the children at home, guard the empty home, and wash his face with tears...... lived a life of "living widowhood" in the distant future......

Alas! What about more "assumptions", what about more "ifs", life is not a light comedy, life is not writing novels, no one in the real society has the ability to arrange another person's life, and of course it is impossible to influence the fate of others, every independent person is trying to break free from even the slightest shackles given to him around him - parents, relatives, colleagues, friends and enemies: Xiaohai is like this, why are we not.

If I also meet the man I like in my life, and that man is also in love with me...... What will I do, will I sacrifice my own emotions and happiness for the sake of the so-called family morality, for the sake of my young son, for the sake of my elderly parents!

The answer is definitely no, I will definitely not be swayed by others, and I will definitely bravely pursue my so-called happy life.

And what Xiaohai is doing now is not as I imagined, he is also trying to pursue his love and make up his mind to live another life.

This kind of life is incomparable to what he is currently having, I don't know how difficult it is, and the distant future is elusive...... He is now resolutely and resolutely taking this step, abandoning his family and children, ignoring everyone's eyes and contempt, running naked with that little mistress penniless, and isn't that Pan Xiaoyan the same, how much courage and determination does it take.

I want to obstruct everything, all kinds of obstructions, do I have to go to great lengths to dismantle the White Lady and Xu Xian like the hateful Fahai!

Can't I stand in Xiaohai's position, think about him, think about him, sincerely bless them, help them, and build my own happy kingdom.

"No, I can't, for the sake of the old people in the family, the children, and even more for the poor, innocent Xiaoyi, I can't do this" Whenever I think about it, and when I desperately try to excuse Xiaohai in my heart, reason always warns me, I can't do that, it's just a naïve and simple idea, ridiculous and stupid, the orthodox correct choice is: try your best to prevent Xiaohai from being with that woman, and save Xiaohai back to the family, which is responsible for the future of the child and the future of Xiaohai.

As the eldest sister, I have an unshirkable responsibility.

Maybe the current Xiaohai doesn't understand, and even complains and resents in his heart, I think sooner or later one day he will wake up and understand everyone's hard work.

Only relatives will do all this, and if we are a stranger, why should we bother to dig out our hearts and lungs......

I sat alone in my office, thinking about it.

The "jingle bell" desk phone rang suddenly,

When I saw that it was Xiao Yi, I quickly picked it up.

"Eldest sister, I found out, the fourth brother Pan said is Zhang Hua and Xiaohai from our village who apprenticed together, we call him senior brother. I went to his house just now, and he didn't say anything at first, and I was forced to be anxious at the end......" Xiao Yi panted and reported to me.

When Xiao Yi received my call, he pondered in his heart: Xiao Hai called his senior brother a lot, but there is not much to do with iron, and it is still possible for Zhang Hua to be alone, Xiao Yi immediately rode a car and went, just blocking Zhang Hua at home.

"That Zhang Hua is not a good thing, and he is also divorcing his wife, and he is going to take Xiao San home" Xiao Yi scolded angrily.

"I told him the truth, saying that Xiaohai ran away with a woman and disappeared for four or five days, and asked if he had ever contacted him to borrow money, and the shameless one actually said that he didn't know ......."

"I didn't get angry with him, and threatened him fiercely: If I let me know that you lend money to Xiaohai, I will die in your house, think about it, look at it...... After the last moment, Zhang Hua finally spit out, saying that Xiaohai had a phone call on the sixteenth, and Zhang Kai wanted to borrow 5,000 yuan...... During that time, he was divorcing his wife, and all the passbooks were on his wife, so he didn't agree...... I asked him for the phone number that Xiaohai had contacted him, and he actually said that he had forgotten what had happened for a long time, how could he forget! I suspect he lent the money and just didn't dare to tell me the truth! Xiao Yi was angry, and he insisted that Zhang Hua was full of lies.

"Okay, don't worry, you tell me Zhang Hua's mobile phone number, I'll ask him" To appease the irritable brother and daughter-in-law, I quickly dialed Zhang Hua's mobile phone.

That Zhang Hua is of different ethnicities in the same village as us, and his family is not far away, I am very familiar with him, and I usually call my eldest sister according to the relationship with Xiaohai and my junior brother.

If I move with affection and know reason, that Zhang Hua will not hide anything from me, the reason why I am unwilling to tell Xiao Yi must be that Xiao Yi is crazy and said vicious words without concealment.

I think it's important to figure out whether Zhang Hua lent money to Xiaohai or not.